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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Well for me it's mainly cos I don't want to meet someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my parent.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I have no wish to shag someone the same age or younger than my kids.....

So for me, age is a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't want to meet someone my Nieces age and I don't fancy meeting someone my dad age,

So comes in useful to us ageist people I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has absolutely nothing to do with maturity etc its all about attraction, I prefer my own age group simple as that

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By *hreesomefunguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, I prefer my own age group and older too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

same as i just wrote. in the bedroom this could and will become a factor and quite rightly so

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair "

This is a swinging site..... The bedroom part is what this is all about.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any age group is fine for me..but my own agegroup or there abouts are the ones I may consider for more than just shagging ie relationship

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

This is a swinging site..... The bedroom part is what this is all about....."

Bugger. I thought Facebook was looking a bit different lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair "

Not at all. What would a 21yo guy have in common with say a 40yo female? Apart from maybe being into the same groups/movies/games that her son is? What life experiences can they discuss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton


"Well for me it's mainly cos I don't want to meet someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my parent. "

That's basically my feelings, I also try and avoid men a similar age to my ex to many bad memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow "

Shallow is not an insult on this site, it's expected. I'd be horrified if I thought someone didn't fancy me but fucked me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah ofcourse but theres ways to get to the bedroom part. a quick message . swinging site lets fuck dont apply to you fems and who's to say a male out of the age range wont stimulate your mind 1st and body 2nd ? this wont realy apply to couples as you got a man so can be straight up. haha. but single fems to deny themselves what could be awsome ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha a good topic can get the mind and thoughts a flowwing . ps thats not the only thing you could get flowwing

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow "

Don't men have age range preferences then?

And not one of the people who responded to you said it was about looks so where you got the shallow bit from God only knows!

As people have said, many people would feel uncomfortable meeting someone young enough to be their child or old enough to be their parent. Not hard to understand really.

Oh and for someone who comes across as fairly intelligent, learn to use the quote button. It makes the thread easier to read

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome "

for all that you have written can i say one word...

twaddle.....

for some, some may not be happy or comfortable playing with people old enough to be their mums or dads...

conversely, for others, some may not be happy or comfortable play with people young enough to be their sons or daughters ....

if is one of those things call real life... and if you would really be interested in anyone 18 to 99.... I thing I have to call you a fibber...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so its a mental blockige for females really then as as a male i won't deny myself the pleasure of being in a decent females company as long as the boxes get ticked and other parts licked

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"yeah ofcourse but theres ways to get to the bedroom part. a quick message . swinging site lets fuck dont apply to you fems and who's to say a male out of the age range wont stimulate your mind 1st and body 2nd ? this wont realy apply to couples as you got a man so can be straight up. haha. but single fems to deny themselves what could be awsome ? "

okay.... so would you as a 29 year old really be interested in someone who was for example..... 70... or 80.....

really????

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

OP is the fundamental issue here that you're not getting meets which you think is down to your age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow "

Erm, maybe because youngsters spit the dummy when things aren't going their way? As the above post sort of proves, lol.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"so its a mental blockige for females really then as as a male i won't deny myself the pleasure of being in a decent females company as long as the boxes get ticked and other parts licked "

So what you are saying is you'll shag anyone regardless of if they are old enough to be your granny??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

Shallow is not an insult on this site, it's expected. I'd be horrified if I thought someone didn't fancy me but fucked me anyway!"

i think its more about the vast age range difference, when it might later involve meeting family.Fabs a great place to meet likeminded people...sometimes u meet people that are ideal for fucks and friendship.However I'd not really contemplate a relationship with someone 10 years above my age...not too sure about somone much younger either...but maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

theres a choice reply or qoute . we have many choices . doors to open or to close . ? is whether we choose

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ? "

Well reading through the thread it pretty much looks like you are the only one in the bad camp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres a choice reply or qoute . we have many choices . doors to open or to close . ? is whether we choose "

But we just aren't allowed to choose an age range?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeah ofcourse but theres ways to get to the bedroom part. a quick message . swinging site lets fuck dont apply to you fems and who's to say a male out of the age range wont stimulate your mind 1st and body 2nd ? this wont realy apply to couples as you got a man so can be straight up. haha. but single fems to deny themselves what could be awsome ?

okay.... so would you as a 29 year old really be interested in someone who was for example..... 70... or 80.....

really????"
if she ticked the boxes. age is nothing in my opinion. a person is everything. it could be great or not but your never no unless you open that door i feel

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"theres a choice reply or qoute . we have many choices . doors to open or to close . ? is whether we choose "

Can you not spell the word question? Seems odd that the rest of your post is words but then random ? Comes in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP is the fundamental issue here that you're not getting meets which you think is down to your age?"
i get what many of you females are saying i do and i agree . if you feel ewww that could be some1 my so and so's age then by all means dont but if you get on and you dont feel uncomfortable but theres a doubt the doubt is wether you want to feel free and enjoy or feel you cant due to the age prefrence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

Erm, maybe because youngsters spit the dummy when things aren't going their way? As the above post sort of proves, lol."
i disagree i mearly wanted to post a topic about the whole age range as i've had many messages on your really great to get along with but im not sure then a day or two later .. cant stop thinking about you miss our chats .etc. thought it would be a genuine topic to post ?

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so its a mental blockige for females really then as as a male i won't deny myself the pleasure of being in a decent females company as long as the boxes get ticked and other parts licked

So what you are saying is you'll shag anyone regardless of if they are old enough to be your granny?? "
no as thats childish .. if i get on with a ladie and were similar minds and all is happy i wouldnt put a mental barrier up and say not for me as i enjoy that persons company. is all i mean. is that not a fair comment ?

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

OP are you actually interested in others opinions or is it just a case of you believing your view is the right and only one? It's got an Aspergers feel to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so its a mental blockige for females really then as as a male i won't deny myself the pleasure of being in a decent females company as long as the boxes get ticked and other parts licked

So what you are saying is you'll shag anyone regardless of if they are old enough to be your granny?? no as thats childish .. if i get on with a ladie and were similar minds and all is happy i wouldnt put a mental barrier up and say not for me as i enjoy that persons company. is all i mean. is that not a fair comment ? "

So, you WOULD shag her then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"theres a choice reply or qoute . we have many choices . doors to open or to close . ? is whether we choose

Can you not spell the word question? Seems odd that the rest of your post is words but then random ? Comes in "
question . hehe people im not trying to offend no 1 nor am i acting childish i mearly wanted to hear opinions and aprreciate all the valid points . this to me is what forums are about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your spelling and grammar is so bad I am surprised anyone could understand your chats let alone miss them

But then maybe it matters to me more because I am a different generation to you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP are you actually interested in others opinions or is it just a case of you believing your view is the right and only one? It's got an Aspergers feel to it. "
no as i stated earlier i totally agree with females who wouldnt sleep with some1 there son/daughters age. i'd be disgusted if my mother done so. it's nice to get your opinions on the subject sincerly

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"OP are you actually interested in others opinions or is it just a case of you believing your view is the right and only one? It's got an Aspergers feel to it.

no as i stated earlier i totally agree with females who wouldnt sleep with some1 there son/daughters age. i'd be disgusted if my mother done so. it's nice to get your opinions on the subject sincerly "

To be honest that isn't how it came across.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP are you actually interested in others opinions or is it just a case of you believing your view is the right and only one? It's got an Aspergers feel to it.

no as i stated earlier i totally agree with females who wouldnt sleep with some1 there son/daughters age. i'd be disgusted if my mother done so. it's nice to get your opinions on the subject sincerly

To be honest that isn't how it came across. "
again apologies if this topic has come across as me throwing toys out the pram i genuinly wanted to hear peoples thoughts on the matter . were all human and theres nothing written in the rule book "if there is a rule book " that two humans cant get on/be attracted to one another outside of an age range.. in the street or in a bar at your local swingers club i've found age range dont come in to play. in text when were on are own these factors come into play . i was just wondering why that is . and yes im a little that people see this as a nieve post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i get on with a ladie and were similar minds and all is happy i wouldnt put a mental barrier up and say not for me as i enjoy that persons company. is all i mean. is that not a fair comment ? "

It says you are straight but now your saying you want to meet a ladie. I'm confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op your spelling and grammar is so bad I am surprised anyone could understand your chats let alone miss them

But then maybe it matters to me more because I am a different generation to you lol "
this is true but in person i dont have to spell to speak or understand the words im saying and you get the words im useing .hehe. im fine with it a little but still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i get on with a ladie and were similar minds and all is happy i wouldnt put a mental barrier up and say not for me as i enjoy that persons company. is all i mean. is that not a fair comment ?

It says you are straight but now your saying you want to meet a ladie. I'm confused. "

Lol, i was going to say that earlier,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if i get on with a ladie and were similar minds and all is happy i wouldnt put a mental barrier up and say not for me as i enjoy that persons company. is all i mean. is that not a fair comment ?

It says you are straight but now your saying you want to meet a ladie. I'm confused. "
this one confused me ?? i am straight clearly and yes ladies only for me

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

This is a swinging site..... The bedroom part is what this is all about.....

Bugger. I thought Facebook was looking a bit different lol. "

Mwahaha sexbook!! Lol.

Age is a number ppl can look younger or act older but no matter what age, you need to have attraction . I've an age range preference but it's also variable depending on person, personality and mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

Not at all. What would a 21yo guy have in common with say a 40yo female? Apart from maybe being into the same groups/movies/games that her son is? What life experiences can they discuss?"

Oi! Just cos I'm almost 40 doesn't mean I don't like new and modern films.. I mean wtf lol

Life experiences.. Haha yh ok we all live exactly the same and someone of 21 couldn't possibly have had a very different upbringing that's both intesting and fascinating

I have no problem conversing with younger guys

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well for me it's mainly cos I don't want to meet someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my parent. "

Pretty much this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"yeah ofcourse but theres ways to get to the bedroom part. a quick message . swinging site lets fuck dont apply to you fems and who's to say a male out of the age range wont stimulate your mind 1st and body 2nd ? this wont realy apply to couples as you got a man so can be straight up. haha. but single fems to deny themselves what could be awsome ? "

You're sense of entitlement is unattractive. Mature people accept others have the right to decide their sexual partners and "be shallow" on a swinging site.

We will not appeal to everyone. Some older women like very young men. I like to meet socially, I don't want my meet being asked for id when buying me a drink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah ofcourse but theres ways to get to the bedroom part. a quick message . swinging site lets fuck dont apply to you fems and who's to say a male out of the age range wont stimulate your mind 1st and body 2nd ? this wont realy apply to couples as you got a man so can be straight up. haha. but single fems to deny themselves what could be awsome ? "

Why would we be denying ourselves something that could be awesome?? And where do you get the idea from that a young lad could be awesome? It is all about mutual attraction, what we are attracted to; some are attracted to anyone irrespective of age, some prefer their own age group, some prefer their own colour and some prefer the opposite, its what makes the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP are you actually interested in others opinions or is it just a case of you believing your view is the right and only one? It's got an Aspergers feel to it. no as i stated earlier i totally agree with females who wouldnt sleep with some1 there son/daughters age. i'd be disgusted if my mother done so. it's nice to get your opinions on the subject sincerly "

Yet that isn't what your post is suggesting? Maybe you should have elaborated more in your original post as you seem to feel that age is irrelevant in both conversation and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you find it odd that there are age filters? Having been on a couple of sites where there were none, having age filters is fantastic; no more messages from lads who are just looking to add a notch to their bed post and all the other reasons to bed an older woman but who don't really want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm more comfortable around people around my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting debate, OP.

Shame about the usual... But that's not your fault.

My age preference thing is a guideline. I'm still open to meet someone outside of my range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me it's mainly cos I don't want to meet someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my parent. "
why, you scared it might turn you on to much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine set as I want to play with people I have something in common with, other then just been on this site. From experience I have found conversation very difficult with someone in their early 20s or 50+ therefore I stuck to an age range that works for me.

I also have anyone outside that age range blocked, it works for me and if I'm missing out on an awesome time, it's a risk I'm happy to accept....because life experience had shown me it's a very very minimal risk xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome "

It depends if you

meant "no knowledge" or "know knowledge". In reality though people can change their age here at a whim at any time so its all irrelevant anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome "

We look bloody good for our ages and most people our age let themselves go , so we made our age range lower

But won't do singles under 25

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We initially had no age range but after people who were old enough to be Mrs Cherrys grandparents lusting after he we took the step to put a quite restrictive one in.

This might indeed lock the odd "older" gem out and thats unfortunate but rather that than the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? "

Hi OP, I see you are slightly miffed that others have an age range choice.

Whilst I would agree to a point that age is immaterial to some extent in social intercourse, the aim on this site is to filter out suitable candidates for sexual intercourse.

That being the case the age range choice becomes as relevant as the sexuality choice. You state you are straight on your profile, that probably does not mean that you are incapable of holding a conversation with members of the same gender as yourself, just that you don't want to have sex with them.

So the age range is not an odd function, could it be perhaps that you feel this way due to personally being outside someone else's choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is no problem to me as long as there is an attraction

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow "

Of course we don't just go for physical attraction but on a site like this where your first stop is a few sentences and pictures the physical attraction has got to be there to make you want to take it any further (in my opinion) It's not like in the vanilla world where you might meet someone through work or down the pub and get to know their personality so age/looks aren't as much of an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ?

Hi OP, I see you are slightly miffed that others have an age range choice.

Whilst I would agree to a point that age is immaterial to some extent in social intercourse, the aim on this site is to filter out suitable candidates for sexual intercourse.

That being the case the age range choice becomes as relevant as the sexuality choice. You state you are straight on your profile, that probably does not mean that you are incapable of holding a conversation with members of the same gender as yourself, just that you don't want to have sex with them.

So the age range is not an odd function, could it be perhaps that you feel this way due to personally being outside someone else's choice?

"

This especially the last sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

This is a swinging site..... The bedroom part is what this is all about.....

Bugger. I thought Facebook was looking a bit different lol.

Mwahaha sexbook!! Lol.

Age is a number ppl can look younger or act older but no matter what age, you need to have attraction . I've an age range preference but it's also variable depending on person, personality and mutual attraction "

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By *i_coupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont think there is an age debate. People should just respect other's preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am currently seeing someone over 20 years younger than me.

He was outside my age range by 6 or 7 years, but liked one of my pics.

I thanked him and a conversation sparked from there.

That led to meeting socially after a few weeks and social led to sexual.

More than anyone, I have been surprised by just how much we do have in common, both in interests and in outlook.

Whether it has legs, only time will tell and there are certainly obstacles there, but I am quite happy to sit back, enjoy the time we have together and see where it leads.

Others may find it distasteful and that is their preference but I am happy with my choices and all I ask is that they respect my choices just as I respect theirs.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I am currently seeing someone over 20 years younger than me.

He was outside my age range by 6 or 7 years, but liked one of my pics.

I thanked him and a conversation sparked from there.

That led to meeting socially after a few weeks and social led to sexual.

More than anyone, I have been surprised by just how much we do have in common, both in interests and in outlook.

Whether it has legs, only time will tell and there are certainly obstacles there, but I am quite happy to sit back, enjoy the time we have together and see where it leads.

Others may find it distasteful and that is their preference but I am happy with my choices and all I ask is that they respect my choices just as I respect theirs."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought age was a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ? "

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help"
sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting debate, OP.

Shame about the usual... But that's not your fault.

My age preference thing is a guideline. I'm still open to meet someone outside of my range."
thanks steel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a massdebate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have mine set as I want to play with people I have something in common with, other then just been on this site. From experience I have found conversation very difficult with someone in their early 20s or 50+ therefore I stuck to an age range that works for me.

I also have anyone outside that age range blocked, it works for me and if I'm missing out on an awesome time, it's a risk I'm happy to accept....because life experience had shown me it's a very very minimal risk xx"
this is what i meant by posting this . can you be entirley sure you'd have nothing in common ? i agree some1 your age might of been through what you've been through . i.e. similar rejections job endevuars etc.but things in common i.e. social activities age is'nt a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people "

Is the 2nd, if we don't agree with you then we are wrong? Because to be honest, thats the way your coming across!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome

It depends if you

meant "no knowledge" or "know knowledge". In reality though people can change their age here at a whim at any time so its all irrelevant anyway. "
again my spelling and grammar is'nt the best but you no what i mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome

We look bloody good for our ages and most people our age let themselves go , so we made our age range lower

But won't do singles under 25"
Bingo . this is the kind of posotive thing i wanted to see on this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age thing is not a great help to me with being nearly 61 but I can appreciate the guys n gals around 40 probably DON'T want someone my age crawling all over them like a slug on a lettuce leaf! So I respect the notion of age blocks etc etc etc.

Nothing I can do about my age tho I can hardly say that over the years I've ever hada go without plenty of access to sex lol.

When I was 30s - 40s we didn't have internet but u could usually meet folk if u got off yr butt n went looking!!

I am fully cogent that my meets will b considerably hamstrung on here but I happily accept that (long as I can get taken off the shelf n dusted every now n again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ?

Hi OP, I see you are slightly miffed that others have an age range choice.

Whilst I would agree to a point that age is immaterial to some extent in social intercourse, the aim on this site is to filter out suitable candidates for sexual intercourse.

That being the case the age range choice becomes as relevant as the sexuality choice. You state you are straight on your profile, that probably does not mean that you are incapable of holding a conversation with members of the same gender as yourself, just that you don't want to have sex with them.

So the age range is not an odd function, could it be perhaps that you feel this way due to personally being outside someone else's choice?

"
no .Lol. if you've been reading my other answers to others you'll see that i've had encounters with older and younger fems and was just wondering others views on the age range. just a light hearted topic in my eyes nothing more or less. you can offer us your opinion and were either agree or disagree but to say its personal to me is incorrect . i just vibe from what others had said to me and wanted to make the topic public to fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

Of course we don't just go for physical attraction but on a site like this where your first stop is a few sentences and pictures the physical attraction has got to be there to make you want to take it any further (in my opinion) It's not like in the vanilla world where you might meet someone through work or down the pub and get to know their personality so age/looks aren't as much of an issue "
thanks for your opinion . awsome and genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me! "
clearly not .. i'm not a teenager in a nightclub . and this site is'nt facebook i was introduced to it as most people were. a lifestyle for me if i want to fuck i'll go to a night club . easy i stated if i get on with some1 im not going to rule her age as a block . is that fair ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me! clearly not .. i'm not a teenager in a nightclub . and this site is'nt facebook i was introduced to it as most people were. a lifestyle for me if i want to fuck i'll go to a night club . easy i stated if i get on with some1 im not going to rule her age as a block . is that fair ? "

But surely there is an age that you would draw the line at contacting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people

Is the 2nd, if we don't agree with you then we are wrong? Because to be honest, thats the way your coming across!"
come on dude im not imature. this topic is'nt about me i just wanted to hear peoples views. dont take it out of context and make out like its about me as it's not .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me! "

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I cant understand this age thing,why do women put the age range 18yr to 99yr and when you message them say your to old. I don't have a problem meeting any age myself and have meet some nice young ladies as well as one older then me.So forget the age its the person inside that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age range is 30 - 50 it is our personal choice as neither of us wish to have sex with anyone we could be old enough to be a parent to.

Last night at Rio's was a prime example, this young guy came over and wanted to play along with me and the other guys already playing with me. I thought he looked young so I openly asked him his age, he replied 24, I said sorry you have no chance as my daughter is your age, he looked disappointed but accepted it and swam away.

No matter how hunky a guy was if he was below my age range it would be a NO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our age range is 30 - 50 it is our personal choice as neither of us wish to have sex with anyone we could be old enough to be a parent to.

Last night at Rio's was a prime example, this young guy came over and wanted to play along with me and the other guys already playing with me. I thought he looked young so I openly asked him his age, he replied 24, I said sorry you have no chance as my daughter is your age, he looked disappointed but accepted it and swam away.

No matter how hunky a guy was if he was below my age range it would be a NO."

I work across the road from Rio's but never visited despite encouragement from mates...that might just change now

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have an age bracket as we are generally more attracted to those around our own age. It is not set in stone as there are always exceptions.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol "

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!"

Oh god.... not him 'weird' i mean the topic

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!

Oh god.... not him 'weird' i mean the topic "

Haha!! Shovel???? Pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!

Oh god.... not him 'weird' i mean the topic

Haha!! Shovel???? Pmsl xx "

Yes please pmsl

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!

Oh god.... not him 'weird' i mean the topic

Haha!! Shovel???? Pmsl xx

Yes please pmsl "

I've got the giggles now. Hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had instances of not really being attracted to a ladie but were the convo was so good and your up close and personal instincts take over i say .. the ? is wether your allow yourself in that situation in the 1st place. hence the age range thing .. is it good or bad ?

So ul fuck anything in a skirt then! This is not all about just finding a shagg there is more to it! Topic is a bit sick if u ask me!

A bit sick?? Think that might be pushing it a bit lol

Lol ok maybe i take that but back but cant understand him seems weird!

Oh god.... not him 'weird' i mean the topic

Haha!! Shovel???? Pmsl xx

Yes please pmsl

I've got the giggles now. Hehe x "

Iv not got size 8 feet for nothing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often see it said that single people use this as a dating site..

Well the age debate is proof of how I don't!

For me there is a lot of what I'm feasting my eyes on that gets me going..

So look at the physical difference between a 40 year old guy and a 20 year old guy.. I like the young taunt look myself

Oh and as much as some older guys out there think they look young - really

I like pretty youthful guys. I also like that they are fresh, eager, keen, don't go on about experience cos that for me amounts to nothing

So yh age is everything to me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think a few people who are new to the site might set their age limits a bit too strictly, or a bit too high, or a bit too low even! Then after a few meets or a few months they may look at it again and readjust. Take me for instance. I have set mine to 25-45, even though I will be 46 soon. Does that mean I won't meet under 25s or over 45s? Nope, because who knows how old someone is when you are playing with them in a club or at a party?

However my preference is for men between 30 and 35 for the following reasons. I find men between 20 and 30 like the idea of meeting older women more than they do the reality, and are either more likely to cancel last minute or stand me up, or if we do meet, are more likely to look disappointed at the fact I don't look like their fantasy woman. I find men older than me tend to be a bit bitter if they are single as they are usually divorced and have some baggage. If not then they have baggage at not having had a long term relationship. I am not on here to be some kind of agony aunt.

I haven't set filters to stop messages from outside my age limits. I don't have to because I will meet people if they are interesting. However based on the last few years of being on here, men who interest me tend to be within my age limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often see it said that single people use this as a dating site..

Well the age debate is proof of how I don't!

For me there is a lot of what I'm feasting my eyes on that gets me going..

So look at the physical difference between a 40 year old guy and a 20 year old guy.. I like the young taunt look myself

Oh and as much as some older guys out there think they look young - really

I like pretty youthful guys. I also like that they are fresh, eager, keen, don't go on about experience cos that for me amounts to nothing

So yh age is everything to me"

Ha I know what you are talking about there, the old guys with big bellies that hold them in to try and look fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people "

Actually I never said you didn't do all right for yourself, nor would I comment in such a way. I would agree that you are good looking but just too young, nothing to do with children for my preference though

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"age range is an odd function to add to the site if you ask me ..why ? because as we no knowledge and intellect dont come with age .wisdom and learning from previous mistakes does but not the 1st few. to say i will only get on with some1 of the same age or above or maybe younger would an injustice to myself and to what could be a very sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm i believe and theres no prefrence to age on being able to maintain a conversation . your thoughts on the ? above welcome "

Well I certainly wouldn't meet an 18 year old or a 99 year old. My age preferences are set to what I'm comfortable with.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow "

You were looking for depth on a site where people are looking to hook up for sex?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

I find men older than me tend to be a bit bitter if they are single as they are usually divorced and have some baggage. If not then they have baggage at not having had a long term relationship. I am not on here to be some kind of agony aunt."

I thought I was cynical and uncharitable thinking this. I have come across a few like this, thank God I meet socially first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op your spelling and grammar is so bad I am surprised anyone could understand your chats let alone miss them

But then maybe it matters to me more because I am a different generation to you lol "

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Well for me it's mainly cos I don't want to meet someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my parent. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres a choice reply or qoute . we have many choices . doors to open or to close . ? is whether we choose

Can you not spell the word question? Seems odd that the rest of your post is words but then random ? Comes in question . hehe people im not trying to offend no 1 nor am i acting childish i mearly wanted to hear opinions and aprreciate all the valid points . this to me is what forums are about "

seems to me like you arent actually appreciating peoples valid opinons but are trying to change them to what you think is right. Majority of the topics on here have one simple answer. It all comes down to personal preference which every single person on this site is entitled to.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

You were looking for depth on a site where people are looking to hook up for sex? "

To be fair depth can just mean a (very) naughty mind. Since a woman that just wants to fuck and go is as boring as a man that wants the same.

If you want a quick fuck then you can get that very easily at any bar/club in this country (or a lot at least).

The point in being here is that you're looking for something more, naughtier, kinkier and to fulfil fantasies!

Lets be honest how many men could go up to a woman in a bar and ask her to tie him up and fuck him with a strap on? Or how many woman could ask multiple men to fuck her infront of her husband?

That's my take anyway but maybe i'm just a bit fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people "

Nope...I don't have kids so that isn't an issue for me...what is is that i don't find younger people particularly attractive...I work with much younger people, they're fine and a lovely bunch, do I want to socialise with them outside of work? not really...

Your assertion that I might be missing out on some awesome sex...quite possibly but meh...I already have plenty of that thanks very much...it's not really that important...in fact we have just upped our lower age limit and put the filters on because we're bored of the "but we're only 1, 2 ,3, 4, 5 years below..." messages...

In the end, you'll find there are plenty of people who are interested in those much younger than them...why spend your time trying to convince those of us who are uninterested in you that we are in some way wrong?

Go have fun with the people looking for you, leave us to our preferences...we're quite happy with them thanks very much and your juvenile approach to this "debate" has done nothing to convince me otherwise...

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"thats fair enough if thats what you immediatly see but i feel that a good conversation and the smoke and mirrors of age is'nt a factor. the bedroom part is were the issue might come into play is fair

This is a swinging site..... The bedroom part is what this is all about....."

Not all. Getting along and being able to have a nice chat comes before anything else for us

C x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people

Actually I never said you didn't do all right for yourself, nor would I comment in such a way. I would agree that you are good looking but just too young, nothing to do with children for my preference though"

Now, I don't think he is good looking and the age puts me off.....

Which is the diversity of a swinging site. Each to their own and why we are here differs from person to person.

I'm shallow and just go for the looks.... Personality I can do without providing they can satisfy me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a few people who are new to the site might set their age limits a bit too strictly, or a bit too high, or a bit too low even! Then after a few meets or a few months they may look at it again and readjust. Take me for instance. I have set mine to 25-45, even though I will be 46 soon. Does that mean I won't meet under 25s or over 45s? Nope, because who knows how old someone is when you are playing with them in a club or at a party?

However my preference is for men between 30 and 35 for the following reasons. I find men between 20 and 30 like the idea of meeting older women more than they do the reality, and are either more likely to cancel last minute or stand me up, or if we do meet, are more likely to look disappointed at the fact I don't look like their fantasy woman. I find men older than me tend to be a bit bitter if they are single as they are usually divorced and have some baggage. If not then they have baggage at not having had a long term relationship. I am not on here to be some kind of agony aunt.

I haven't set filters to stop messages from outside my age limits. I don't have to because I will meet people if they are interesting. However based on the last few years of being on here, men who interest me tend to be within my age limits."
like this 1 :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said "sexual encounter. stimulate the mind and the body shall orgasm" please tell me where you get the idea from that this works? For some of us who have never orgasmed, this does not work but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex though does it

To be honest, I am now beginning to think this is just a look at me thread, can't get a meet and hoping this will help sorry to hear you've never orgasmed . not good !!! im 29 and good looking i do all right for myself . i brought this up to hear your views and other peoples views . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people

Actually I never said you didn't do all right for yourself, nor would I comment in such a way. I would agree that you are good looking but just too young, nothing to do with children for my preference though"
thanks .every1 is good looking if they feel confident all i wanted to do was get peoples views on the matter. nothing personal to me nor to them . i had a topic i wanted to post and i did. weres the harm in that. the topic is'nt rude or offensive as im not a idiot to do something like that . was genuinly being genuine with this post and like every1's input and response = good community

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

You were looking for depth on a site where people are looking to hook up for sex? "
theres ways to get hot sex though is the point . it's not like. me tarzan you jane me fuck you now ug ug ug is it .Hehe got to use the mind after all were not horny teenagers running round the place trying to fuck everything in site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" . so far theres 2types of views. 1 if you have children then clearly its a no go and 2 well i'll leave that for you to answer people

Nope...I don't have kids so that isn't an issue for me...what is is that i don't find younger people particularly attractive...I work with much younger people, they're fine and a lovely bunch, do I want to socialise with them outside of work? not really...

Your assertion that I might be missing out on some awesome sex...quite possibly but meh...I already have plenty of that thanks very much...it's not really that important...in fact we have just upped our lower age limit and put the filters on because we're bored of the "but we're only 1, 2 ,3, 4, 5 years below..." messages...

In the end, you'll find there are plenty of people who are interested in those much younger than them...why spend your time trying to convince those of us who are uninterested in you that we are in some way wrong?

Go have fun with the people looking for you, leave us to our preferences...we're quite happy with them thanks very much and your juvenile approach to this "debate" has done nothing to convince me otherwise..."
true that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and theres me thinking females dont just go for pyhsical attraction . duely noted ladies thanks for the advice. not just men that think shallow

You were looking for depth on a site where people are looking to hook up for sex? theres ways to get hot sex though is the point . it's not like. me tarzan you jane me fuck you now ug ug ug is it .Hehe got to use the mind after all were not horny teenagers running round the place trying to fuck everything in site "

Nope, just trying to fuck everyone ON site!

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over a year ago

i do wish people wouldnt really take some things out of context so easily..think Ive read above its all about preferences, then Ive heard its sick(big age differences)

clear as day to me for many years, most people have no bloody clue what they want from the site...sometimes its basic fucks, friendships, relationships and possibly marriage

and OP..Im just gonna say this...really...the forums are barely reflective of fab in its entirety some people just talk shit for the sake of having something to write...thats my honest opinion

Ive met people at broad ages of the spectrum in parties, clubs..I havent played with them all...just cos they were next to me and their fanny was on display..of course I have personal private meets...sometime it has been someone my parents age...but then...55 is pretty young these days and a good few people can get away with 20year age differences

it has been happening for a long time its not 'sick'...and if it is...swinging must indeed be much sicker....MUCH SICKER!!!!!!

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over a year ago

people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it

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over a year ago


"people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it"

Feck all wrong with Frost and co!

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over a year ago


"people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it

Feck all wrong with Frost and co! "

go wipe the superlager aff yer tash ya auld f$*k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it

Feck all wrong with Frost and co!

go wipe the superlager aff yer tash ya auld f$*k "

Tut tut! The youth of today! No respect whatsoever for their elders! I fought in the boer war don't you know! We were that bored we all fell asleep! Why, if this zimmer had wheels! Ya wee puppy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it"

I'm one of yr 'anyone over those ages' people n it's NOT 70S RE RUNS we crave - it's old episodes of juke box jury wiv David Jacobs n ready steady go wiv Cathy McGowan!

Also Armchair theatre, no hiding place n Dixon of dock green

TUT - u young things today ya don't know ya history LOL

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"people in their teens to late 30's should watching T4,vampire diaries,towie etc

40's to 50's should be watching detective dramas and the odd 'werent the 80's amazing' throwback shows

anyone over those ages should be watching as many re-runs of seventies classic shows and last of the summer wine repeats

there..am totally ageist...nice being pigeonholed isnt it"

That's me screwed then as I love all the old sitcoms/shows like George & Mildred, Dad's Army, Last of the summer wine etc. Better change our age bracket

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over a year ago

Age preferences are just that, preferences. You may choose a preference for any reason and doesn't have to be justified. If your age range is one thing and someone else's is another then that's about choice and trying to get them to change their minds is a bit pointless. Personally I think age has little to do with interest or sexual attraction (in my opinion). I've met some monumentally dull people in my age range and some fascinating people who are nowhere near my age. I like people who've traveled, have an opinion about things they've thought about and are willing to change their minds about any subject. People who are open minded and full of life. They can be 19 or 99. Some women are hot even in their 60's and 70's and some have never been hot (in my opinion).

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over a year ago


"Age preferences are just that, preferences. You may choose a preference for any reason and doesn't have to be justified. If your age range is one thing and someone else's is another then that's about choice and trying to get them to change their minds is a bit pointless. Personally I think age has little to do with interest or sexual attraction (in my opinion). I've met some monumentally dull people in my age range and some fascinating people who are nowhere near my age. I like people who've traveled, have an opinion about things they've thought about and are willing to change their minds about any subject. People who are open minded and full of life. They can be 19 or 99. Some women are hot even in their 60's and 70's and some have never been hot (in my opinion).

"

Oh yes I'm still hot hot hot in my 60s - of course that MAY have summat to do wiv high blood pressure LIL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your talking one night stand shags then ok age might be just a number but if your talking swinging relationships then age does become important, Morrigan has no interest in guys her age if she did she would not be with me, her physical and mental attraction is with older guys, older than me in fact. I however tend to be attracted to people younger than me I also get on with them better at a social level. We may be superficial but age is a big factor to us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your talking one night stand shags then ok age might be just a number but if your talking swinging relationships then age does become important, Morrigan has no interest in guys her age if she did she would not be with me, her physical and mental attraction is with older guys, older than me in fact. I however tend to be attracted to people younger than me I also get on with them better at a social level. We may be superficial but age is a big factor to us. "
good reply my next topic post will be more fun for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next post?..ok...

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