FabSwingers.com forum: single fems

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i am looking to meet single fems but not having much luck,i can accom for the nite or if they even want to travel from far for the weekend,so any ideas why not having much luck.is it my profile or pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am looking to meet single fems but not having much luck,i can accom for the nite or if they even want to travel from far for the weekend,so any ideas why not having much luck.is it my profile or pics"

Your profile and pics are fine - personally I would not travel as far as Truro on my own, otherwise I would not pass you up but hey - can't have everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no the feeling

have you tried the meet today function

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don’t know how far a field you are looking, but personally I wouldn’t travel more than an hour for a meet of any kind... in fact the closer the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt travel at all unless i trust the guy to come and pick me up and not too far either. hehe.

There will be someone out there near you, you just av to find them.

Thats part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The all elusive single female eh.

So many are seeking these little sweethearts that happen to be the minority, and you being one of the majority you will always have your work cut out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yea i no so many guys on here,but alot aint single and wouldnt ever accom anyone.think it would be better if i chatted and got to no them then there is more trust and they can get to no me better.i would only tie them to the bed if they wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like your profile. It looks like you've put all of 20 seconds effort in to it.

Text talk to me has no place on a profile. Add the poor grammar and punctuation and to be honest it becomes barely readable. And it says nothing about you, and nothing about your likes and dislikes.

Sorry if that sounds harsh butyou did ask!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i see what you are saying,could do with updating it and spend more time on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello mate. Your profile does look like you wrote it in a hurry. And i don't know if it's still the case now but i know some couples who didn't like to see cock pics in the public gallery, so maybe keep them private and only send them when asked. To be honest though, your main problem is going to be geography, which is a bit hard to change without moving! But hang in there and i'm sure you'll find someone. But remember that most single females aren't real anyway. *waits for all hell to break loose*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Darcie's right about your profile, you'll only get out of this game what you put into it.It does look as if you wrote your profile while in a rush for work one morning.However at least you admit that,so thats the first point sorted.

The second point is a bit harder to overome,your hardly living in the swinging capitol of Europe.It may well be a lovely part of the country but your really out on a limb down there. Despite being one of hundreds of single guys,you've also got living virtualy at Lands End to contend with.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read your profile pastyman and the first thing that jumped out at me before I even actually got to reading the text were all the numbers peppered into the prose. A lot of women cannot stand text speak and see it as indictive of a person's character: lazy.

There is a thread on the Support & Advice forum about how to write a good profile.

Hope it helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for all your advise and i agree with all what you guys say,when i wrote profile i did write it in abit of a rush so will re-write it,and as for living in cornwall,love the place but its miles away from everything so cant do alot about that,unless anyone coming down here for hols.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks for all your advise and i agree with all what you guys say,when i wrote profile i did write it in abit of a rush so will re-write it,and as for living in cornwall,love the place but its miles away from everything so cant do alot about that,unless anyone coming down here for hols."

You offering Bed and Breakfast? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pastyman, you've addmitted the profile needs work... but you haven't updated it yet ?

Get it done rather than posting on the forums !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes i would offer b and b coleen when it is sexy cpls like yours and fems of course.got to get on now,just had my mum tell me to stop writing and sort my profile out NOW!lol

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

It seems we are suffering the same fate ( and not wishing to high-jack the thread )

.....all the single females turn out to be couples as soon as you show any interest!

We know its loads to ask of couples and totally understand the safety side of things, but why is it so difficult to find a female for me to play with while my partner is present? I`m not a natural with other men and always find that they expect more attention than I can give while enjoying my bi-side

ps dianew you are stunning....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems we are suffering the same fate ( and not wishing to high-jack the thread )

.....all the single females turn out to be couples as soon as you show any interest!

ps dianew you are stunning....x"

Not all, most? perhaps.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"It seems we are suffering the same fate ( and not wishing to high-jack the thread )

.....all the single females turn out to be couples as soon as you show any interest!

ps dianew you are stunning....x

Not all, most? perhaps. "

Not all at all :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its simple maths theres more men looking for women than women looking for men, im nothing special at all to look at but if i go in chat room or put adds up saying im looking for a guy to meet i get more offers than i can cope with, only difference is im female and theres more looking for me that you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read your profile pastyman and the first thing that jumped out at me before I even actually got to reading the text were all the numbers peppered into the prose. A lot of women cannot stand text speak and see it as indictive of a person's character: lazy.

There is a thread on the Support & Advice forum about how to write a good profile.

Hope it helps."

funny you should say that because i went to look at his profile and noticed the text speak and didnt even read it, i hate text chat, i know its a silly little thing but if i don't read a profile im not going to know if they what im looking for am i?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

He said he was going to change it from text speak, 6 days ago.

He's either lazy or illiterate.

Either are not sexy!

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Sorry didn`t mean to tar all the single females with the same brush ( the one we use has only found the non-single ones ! )

Apologies to those above......your all far too sexy to be wasters....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He said he was going to change it from text speak, 6 days ago.

He's either lazy or illiterate.

Either are not sexy!"

does it matter the way someones speaks as long as u can understand them xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think thats the key though, text speak is not clear enough to understand at times and very hard to read.

I don't bother with text speak profiles either, but I am sure there are lots of people who don't mind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rugbycpl yea well i think its just lazyness myself but cause i do it if i cant be fecked typing lol so whos wants 2 spank me for being lazy? lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" im nothing special at all to look at "

Oh yes you are!

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