FabSwingers.com forum: Wink and Fabs

By *iniskirt OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Paisley

So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x

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By *heezyMan
4 weeks ago

london/Essex

Plenty of pics to fab of you xx

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4 weeks ago

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

Merry Christmas to you both and it would be rude not to participate

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By *uke616Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

There’s some amazing ones

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By *91kMan
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

Festive fabs

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By *avecooper69Man
4 weeks ago

Benfleet

Happy Christmas all !!

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By *inkyjoshxMan
4 weeks ago

Bucks/Herts/London

Happy fabbing!

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
4 weeks ago

stafs

Ok we like a fab or two on pics x

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham/midlands

Fabbing away

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By *ewBeesCouple
4 weeks ago

Lucan

Sent a few

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By *hris-1980Man
4 weeks ago

Nr Tamworth

I’m In!

Even added a quick one before jumping into bed for the night that will stay tonight but will likely disappear by the evening again.

Now’s time to have a little perv through the thread and send some festive FABS and wishful Winks

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By *llshaun88Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Merry Christmas Eve all

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
4 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

I think I've already fabbed all your pics over the last week or two

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

☘️😉

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By *llgudfunMan
4 weeks ago

coventry

Sounds good

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By *LiamMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Wink to you op

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By *ikeandtheCityMan
4 weeks ago

colchester

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

I got as far as your gallery and wore me thumb out babes .

Great though

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By *talianabsMan
4 weeks ago

London

I'm in and feeling very christmassy!

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By *hiversMan
4 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

🎅

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By *irkT72Man
4 weeks ago

wrexham

🎅 👍

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By *ireland30Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I'm in

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By *reeder38Man
4 weeks ago

Lower stondon

Stunning

Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

im in

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By *inkyDom96Man
4 weeks ago

Yarmouth

I’m in

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
4 weeks ago

SA3

OP set us off very nicely

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By *r99mr99Man
4 weeks ago

Ealing

In and fabbing

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By *estSussexLatinoMan
4 weeks ago

Horsham

Sharing the christmas spirit

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By *ustincider888Man
4 weeks ago

Preston Ish

Fabbed a few.

All the best guys and girls.

I'm off to work shortly so have a great Christmas eve

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By *airybeardedchubMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Good morning;

Fab the Christmas Eve away! 😜

I’ve fabbed some, more pending 😏👀

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By *ythenMan
4 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

Done x

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By *ob ThomasCouple
4 weeks ago

Bridgend

😉

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By *uzzieboyMan
4 weeks ago

taunton

Sent a few and dabbed a few too 😉😉

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By *ris007Man
4 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Sent a few. Who's up now

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By *r99mr99Man
4 weeks ago

Ealing

"Sent a few. Who's up now "

Excellent profile mate. Very hot

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Go on then, have some love

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Looking great

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By *aughtyThreesomeCouple
4 weeks ago

Kent

We're in 😊

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
4 weeks ago

douglas

In and sending x

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By *erbysGentMan
4 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I'm in and fabbing, fabbed OP a while ago

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By *urenutsMan
4 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I'm in

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
4 weeks ago

somewhere

We’re in..

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By *atinocoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Glass of eggnog in hand. We're in

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
4 weeks ago

North West

Happy Christmas Eve all

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By *airybobMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

My gabbing finger is aching now

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By *uzzieboyMan
4 weeks ago

taunton

"Happy Christmas Eve all

Happy Christmas Eve to you both

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By *uzzieboyMan
4 weeks ago

taunton

"Glass of eggnog in hand. We're in"

Definitely fanned a few on yours 😉 wow 😮

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 weeks ago

Marlborough

Just fabb'd some outstanding anatomy pics! Given me a touch of the vapours here! Ooooffffttt! 🥵

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"Just fabb'd some outstanding anatomy pics! Given me a touch of the vapours here! Ooooffffttt! 🥵"

You can have some fabs too

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Merry Christmas all

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By *orki3guyMan
4 weeks ago

York

Good morning and merry Christmas eve all 🎅

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By *unfriends1976Couple
4 weeks ago

Darlington

Merry Christmas everyone xx

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By *idlandsdick333Man
4 weeks ago

dudley

Merry Christmas all

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By *orthAngusCoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Angus

Wishing you all a fab time

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 weeks ago

Next Door

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By *hiversMan
4 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

Back in

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By *quirrel!Man
4 weeks ago

Winked and fabbed!

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By *ryorkshirepleaserMan
4 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Always fabbing u sexy people

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By *ittymcgeeCouple
4 weeks ago

Stevenage

Mmm love a cheeky festive wink or a fab

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By *odg123Man
4 weeks ago

southampton

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Winky

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
4 weeks ago

Pontyclun

I’m in

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By *88eMan
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

Merry Christmas!!

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By *heswanMan
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

In x Merry Christmas

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By *illiamgMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Well hellloooooo all

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By *appy willyMan
4 weeks ago

where my willy is happy to be

Ho ho ho Happy Christmas one and all.🎅

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
4 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

In and sending

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By *hePleasurerMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Winking for England here...

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Jarrow

I’m in

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By *llFunPlayMan
4 weeks ago

Woking

always in for a good wink

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By *eckard2019Man
4 weeks ago

North West Durham

I'm in x

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 weeks ago

Next Door

😉😉

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By *oung at heartCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Were in xx

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By *lfa RomeoMan
4 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I'm in

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By *d4funtimesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

Good morning mischievous souls !

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By *ensualdesiresCouple
4 weeks ago

Benfleet

We are in surprise is

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By *avin77Man
4 weeks ago

camberley

Im IN

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By *exymarvelMan
4 weeks ago

cardiff

"😉"

Fabbed already and on my hotlist

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By *abuma65Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Winks and fabs on the way x happy Christmas sexy beasts

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By *exymarvelMan
4 weeks ago

cardiff

"Winky"

Just wow, added to hotlist

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By *exymarvelMan
4 weeks ago

cardiff

Wifewantsmore you were on my hotlist already

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By *as7643Man
4 weeks ago

staffs

Happy crimbo eve

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
4 weeks ago

nearby

In!

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By *avin77Man
4 weeks ago

camberley

"In!"

Done

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By *ocketrocket80Man
4 weeks ago

Walsall

Winks and Fabs incoming

Have a great day all

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By *andSxxCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

"In!"

We're in😘🎄🎁

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

In 🎅🎅🤶🤶

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By *lark_KentMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton

In and sending fab love in the form of winks and fabs

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By *elshcouple331Couple
4 weeks ago

cardiff

We’re in xx

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By *andSxxCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

Single men block unlocked for Christmas. Merry Christmas guys.🎄🎁😘

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By *ike_looking_forMan
4 weeks ago

Cumbria

sent some up there!

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By *ouple 31Couple
4 weeks ago

south England

Done, merry christmas

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By *ananas2013Man
4 weeks ago

wolves

"Ok we like a fab or two on pics x"

In and done mmm

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By *hapLeedsMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Morning

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
4 weeks ago

stafs

We’ve fab’d a few guys

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4 weeks ago

Gwent...

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By *s2walesCouple
4 weeks ago

Gwent...

Winked and fabbed xx

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By *andm2006Man
4 weeks ago

Leamington spa

"Winked and fabbed xx"

Ditto x

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By *hybeamMan
4 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

A wink is not just for Christmas !

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
4 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

We have a had a good old winkathon this morning

Thanks to all that have responded.

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By *C44Man
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

In and winking!

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By *illiamgMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Cum on people where's your Christmas spirit

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By *uke616Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

There’s so many on here that you can’t wink or dab due to settings

Never mind hope you sexy fuckers have a good

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By *iniskirt OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Paisley

Hope everyone is having fun, thanks for being on the thread x

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By *ugbylad87Man
4 weeks ago

lichfield

In and winking and fabbing

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By *iredhandMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

It is the season of goodwill so why not?

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By *eo!!Man
4 weeks ago

Grest Yarmouth

Always nice to get a fab or 2

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By *ick08Man
4 weeks ago

East Leak

In and fabbing and winking away

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

merry Christmas all

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By *ilfbonaMan
4 weeks ago

birmingham

Im in!

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By *MCMan
4 weeks ago

London/EA

Several sent!

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By *nusualpairCouple
4 weeks ago

Preston

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By *ir tootMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Go on then why not. Ti's the season after all

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
4 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Happy Christmas Eve all xx

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By *eally_RosieWoman
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Happy Christmas all xx

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By *r99mr99Man
4 weeks ago

Ealing

Dabbed and winked.

Merry Xmas eve all

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Sent a few

out

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
4 weeks ago

Always on the move

Sent a couple 😉

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By *eaSlutsCouple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

In and sending the winks/Fabs

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By *avidandann6901Couple
4 weeks ago

Dublin

"In and sending the winks/Fabs

X "

Fab and wink

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By *atchyname2Woman
4 weeks ago

sumwhere

happy christmas eve x0x

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

In and sending a few winks

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By *emofaJamesMan
4 weeks ago

London

Merry Christmas all, fabbing and winking away.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
4 weeks ago

huddersfield

In and done some

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By *8warrenMan
4 weeks ago

Done a few , some lovely profiles on here

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By *atte Lover 82Man
4 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Why not. It is the season after all

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By *erry bull1Man
4 weeks ago

doncaster

Winked and fabbed

Merry Christmas all

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By *akestwoCouple
4 weeks ago

cavan

Lots of lovely photos x

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By *talianabsMan
4 weeks ago

London

"Lots of lovely photos x"

Wow amazing gallery! X

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By *onny17Man
4 weeks ago

city

Handed put a few

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By *oky99Couple
4 weeks ago

nodnoL

We’re in and fabbing away. xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
4 weeks ago

Herts

Hello all

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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple
4 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"We’re in and fabbing away. xx"

Really lovely.

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By *C44Man
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

Back in for a bit!

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By *FGIHMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"We’re in and fabbing away. xx

Really lovely. "

Your pics are great too x

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By *agnar1980Man
4 weeks ago

Poole

Wink n fab away xx I have been

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By *optravelMan
4 weeks ago

Stocksbridge Sheffield

empty santsa sack? love chats with all specially str guys mmm

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By *ell I WonderMan
4 weeks ago

Staines

In and fabbing! Happy Christmas all!

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By *onderingpurposeMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

A few sent out and a few hot listed

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By *avexxMan
4 weeks ago

cheshire

in and fabbing

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By *starMan
4 weeks ago

Exeter

Merry Christmas all x

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By *cott14Man
4 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

A very merry Christmas folks , don’t forget “ be a nice human “ 💋

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By *elshyXOMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Merry christmas all! xx

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By *aughtyboi11Man
4 weeks ago

northampton

Im in, some stunning people here x

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We're in and sending winks and fabs

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By *haring_couple2024Couple
4 weeks ago

warwick

Were in!! Merry Christmas all! X

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By *hmt35Man
4 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Merry Christmas all x

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By *avidandann6901Couple
4 weeks ago

Dublin

"Were in!! Merry Christmas all! X"

Wink

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By *airybeardedchubMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Were in!! Merry Christmas all! X

Wink

Wink x

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By *miler70Man
4 weeks ago

bn22

"So it’s officially Christmas Eve, let’s be nice to each other.

If someone catches your eye send them a wink or give them a fab, it’s a free Christmas present lol x"

Merry Christmas

And love and fab your pictures

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By *miler70Man
4 weeks ago

bn22

"Were in!! Merry Christmas all! X

Wink

Wink back to you x

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By *ostguy321Man
4 weeks ago

Bucks

In and winking

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By *ister F89Man
4 weeks ago

essex

Some very sexy profiles 😍😈

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By *igelABCMan
4 weeks ago

Newport

I'm in for some winking & fabbing.

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By *o messing about hereMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

Im in

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By *heekydomdanMan
4 weeks ago

Eastbourne

In fab and wink sent

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Feel free to w@nk at our photos. Oh sorry you said wink 🤣

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By *ustincider888Man
4 weeks ago

Preston Ish

"Feel free to w@nk at our photos. Oh sorry you said wink 🤣"

Loving the videos

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By *LxxMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Feel free to w@nk at our photos. Oh sorry you said wink 🤣"

In…and currently winking away at them

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By *ris007Man
4 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Look out for my winks and fabs.. feel free to return them

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

We are in 🫶

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By *arkbigcock300Man
4 weeks ago

LONDONDERRY

"We are in 🫶"
am in for sure

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
4 weeks ago

Pontyclun

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

im in

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
4 weeks ago

North East

Count me in

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By *andsomeunitMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Definitely. Count me in.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
4 weeks ago

leeds

Morning _iniskirt,our very naughty pleasure Xx

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By *ssexhung4funMan
4 weeks ago

Essex

Having a browse now

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By *unchy66Couple
4 weeks ago

Norwich

We're in for some festive fabbing!

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By *allGuy1000Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Christmas Day winking is done x

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By *hiversMan
4 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

Back in for a bit

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
4 weeks ago

Warrington

What a lovely idea to get the juices flowing

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By *openmindedguy2024Man
4 weeks ago

Brighton

I'm in

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By *hmt35Man
4 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"Were in!! Merry Christmas all! X"

Merry Christmas... winks and fabs done x

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By *egoMan
4 weeks ago

Preston

I love fabs, its really reassuring.

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By *ir tootMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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