FabSwingers.com forum: Submissive or dominant

By *r decorator OP Man
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I am dominant 9/10

You?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Please could the person who rated you also rate me ?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
3 weeks ago

London

I used to be Dom 10 out of 10, now I’m a 7

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By *ickedwillyCouple
3 weeks ago

Bangor

Both submissive

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By *issing DoryCouple
3 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

Kisses is a dom leaning switch but also a brat.

Dory is a bratty sub leaning switch.

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By *hambamNIMan
3 weeks ago

city centre

Been a dom about 12 years

8/10 I’d say now

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By *annyboy1980Man
3 weeks ago

Rochdale

10/10 submissive

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Both submissive

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Domme leaning Switch for me

sub leaning Switch for him

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By *lasgowgent35Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Dom

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By *lasgowgent35Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Dom

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By *ensualMan
3 weeks ago

Sutton

Define "Dominant" and "submissive", I get confused whether people mean Fab D/s, which means being sexually confident in bed and adding a little "slap and tickle" and aiming to have numerous sex partners, or stereotype D/s with clichéd powerful dominants who are ex forces with pliant submisives secretly looking for someone to save them and to whom they can submit, or those that believe in the 50SOG malarkey, or someone who looks for a relationship that is D/s orientated or any of a dozen or more definitions.

With things kink, labels are a starting point, and assuming you use a term the same way as someone else does not always end with agreement.

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By *atchedhardMan
3 weeks ago

milton keynes

I’m a straight guy however I have a thing for men telling me what to do

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By *haled_az_aqMan
3 weeks ago

colchester

Dom

i love a submissive girl

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
3 weeks ago

Wallasey

Sub

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By *tevieobMan
3 weeks ago

Dublin

Sub leaning myself

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By *ularliWoman
3 weeks ago

Worcester

I’m very much submissive.

I didn’t realise how much so until recently but it definitely has to be with the right person

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Masochist with no submissive tendency. Occasional Domme in the right circumstances 💜

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By *epheusMan
3 weeks ago

Aylesbury

10/10 submissive love to please who I’m with and satisfy all their desires and fantasies

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By *hromosexualsCouple
3 weeks ago

Near Abercynon

Can you be neither? Neither of us are dominant but I don't think we are particularly submissive either.

We just like having a good time.

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By *erigold300Couple
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

I like being submissive.

I want to be used.

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By *scaMan
3 weeks ago

Herts / London / Beyond

Sometimes one, sometimes the other.

Understanding both roles makes me better at them.

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By *rKinksMan
3 weeks ago

Alton

"Sometimes one, sometimes the other.

Understanding both roles makes me better at them.

Great answer used to purely dom however since switching I've definitely reflected more on my domming

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By *arry monk40Man
3 weeks ago

Telford

Dom for years

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

I like to switch between both dependent on my mood and partner

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By *ike_looking_forMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

90% of the time dominant, the other 10% if I'm with the right lady

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By *r.XratedMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

Judge from my profile

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By *andt1Couple
3 weeks ago

wellingborough

can be both

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't.

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By *r.XratedMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

Judge from my profile

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By *ensualMan
3 weeks ago

Sutton

"I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't."

I would agree, dominance is not a competive sport, but a relationship style, which has different forms.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

I'm switch. Lean towards more Dom when playing with another woman.

Ruby

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By *YKMCouple
3 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Me 99%

Wife 99% sub

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By *lutwife7784Couple
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Me Mrs 100% dominant

Mr 100% sub

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By *witch Roy-MrsKarenCouple
3 weeks ago

york

Both Switch

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By *verEvolving27Man
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Looking for a Dom wife and a cuckold hub. Or a lady peg!

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Domme leaning switch

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By *annabarberaCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffs

Mr Dom

Mrs sub

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

deal

Mr is dom

Mrs is sub

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

im not going to rate myself,, but defo not a sub

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By *mudge1995Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

Sub leaning switch

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By *vonne5exMan
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Please could the person who rated you also rate me ?"
from your photos 11/10 but would require a test drive to confirm x

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By *ickedwillyCouple
3 weeks ago

Bangor

Both subs

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By *tephanieuktvTV/TS
3 weeks ago

bristol

10/10 submissive

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I can be both depending on my mood.

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By *icentiousCouple
3 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

I couldn’t be submissive, not in my nature, L can switch in a playful mode.

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By *ohncukMan
2 weeks ago

london

Fab taught me I’m a sub

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By *estiswestMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Tending towards sub

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
2 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

we aren't big on labels

but if we were we would probably both be switch

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By *runette n JayCouple
2 weeks ago

bilston

Depends on the scenario TBCH

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By *aliWoman
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

Mostly submissive but happy to switch and be dom if a fun friend asks me to!

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By *ubman50Man
2 weeks ago

chelmsford

100% submissive

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By *ot_spicedCouple
2 weeks ago

Queenstown

Both switch, but male half tends more towards dominant, female half is naturally sub with men, domme with women/tgirls

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By *use and wolfCouple
2 weeks ago

angus

Sub 99.99%

When that 0.01% get to play, he's a right bastard, apparently.

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By *ink vixenCouple
2 weeks ago

Medway

In our experience the guys that say they’re “dominant” have to tell you that in case you don’t notice.

Setting the stage so to speak.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
2 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I'm not naturally submissive, but can be for the right person.

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By *allHandsomeJayMan
2 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

Sub leaning switch here. Being 6ft 8 brings some really interesting power dynamics

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By *woCherriesCouple
2 weeks ago

Abergele

Submissive x

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"In our experience the guys that say they’re “dominant” have to tell you that in case you don’t notice.

Setting the stage so to speak. "

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ngelLordCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

"I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't."

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

Submissive by nature

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By *inkyboots69TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Huntingdonshire, Cambs.

I'm definitely submissive

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By *untime40Man
2 weeks ago

Currently in Sevenoaks

100% sub

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By *1bttmMan
2 weeks ago

Shoreditch east London

Sub here.....I'm more orientated towards servicing and being used

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By *ut4fun6969Man
2 weeks ago

Folkestone

Switch. is dependent on the situation.

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By *uyandGirl42Couple
2 weeks ago

Perth

Kat (Me) - Dom

Hubby - Sub / Sissy

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By *Kmagicmike81Man
2 weeks ago

Carlisle & North Lakes

Dom

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By *ustMe!Couple
2 weeks ago

co.down

Sub

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By *midnight-Woman
2 weeks ago

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I'm a sub, there are aspects visible in all areas of my life.

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By *ack 500Man
2 weeks ago

stafford

Very much both on different days

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By *uilder.funMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Both, depends on the dynamic and how I'm feeling that day

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By *ubmissive guyMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Sexually submissive.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
2 weeks ago

Norwichish

M Submissive R Dominant.

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By *adeiteWoman
2 weeks ago

Stafford

I think I'm a switch

But all I've known is Domme

Sadly I never asked for a rating when parting ways with subs, I'll remember for next time

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By *inkykokMan
2 weeks ago

Blyth

I think it's harsh rating the person has each person has different qualities . I much prefer personality over beauty giving each other ratings is like comparing a corner shop to harrods

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By *aymanMan
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Switch, does depend on the other person and vide at the time

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By *ansduoCouple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Both sub to the right Dom.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
2 weeks ago

Oxford

I would say I’m quite Dominant with both sex, all though I don’t mind a lady taking charge. The only man i will be submissive to is my husband, when guys have tried in the past it just pisses me off. X

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By *amiXXX99Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

100% Dominatant Master

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By *quirrel!Man
2 weeks ago

Nearby

Sub mostly x

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By *andb69Couple
2 weeks ago

leeds

Neither. I want sex with an equal, who also sees me as an equal.

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By *aveJones76Man
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

Submissive 10/10

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By *igjonny090Man
2 weeks ago

blackpool and Manchester

I’m dominant, I’ve been naturally dominant all my life as i seem to have a presence when I’m in a room and it flows into how I have fun

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
2 weeks ago

Stroud

Mostly dom. But depends on situation. With cuck couples can be sub to her.

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By *izzyRascal69Man
2 weeks ago

Honley

Dominant

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