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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

I am dominant 9/10

You?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Please could the person who rated you also rate me ?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
9 weeks ago

London

I used to be Dom 10 out of 10, now I’m a 7

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By *ickedwillyCouple
9 weeks ago

Bangor

Both submissive

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By *issing DoryCouple
9 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

Kisses is a dom leaning switch but also a brat.

Dory is a bratty sub leaning switch.

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By *hambamNIMan
9 weeks ago

city centre

Been a dom about 12 years

8/10 I’d say now

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By *annyboy1980Man
9 weeks ago

Rochdale

10/10 submissive

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Both submissive

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Domme leaning Switch for me

sub leaning Switch for him

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By *lasgowgent35Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Dom

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By *lasgowgent35Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Dom

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By *ensualMan
9 weeks ago

Sutton

Define "Dominant" and "submissive", I get confused whether people mean Fab D/s, which means being sexually confident in bed and adding a little "slap and tickle" and aiming to have numerous sex partners, or stereotype D/s with clichéd powerful dominants who are ex forces with pliant submisives secretly looking for someone to save them and to whom they can submit, or those that believe in the 50SOG malarkey, or someone who looks for a relationship that is D/s orientated or any of a dozen or more definitions.

With things kink, labels are a starting point, and assuming you use a term the same way as someone else does not always end with agreement.

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By *atchedhardMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

I’m a straight guy however I have a thing for men telling me what to do

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By *haled_az_aqMan
9 weeks ago

colchester

Dom

i love a submissive girl

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
9 weeks ago

Wallasey

Sub

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By *tevieobMan
9 weeks ago

Dublin

Sub leaning myself

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By *ularliWoman
9 weeks ago

Worcester

I’m very much submissive.

I didn’t realise how much so until recently but it definitely has to be with the right person

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Masochist with no submissive tendency. Occasional Domme in the right circumstances 💜

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By *epheusMan
9 weeks ago

Aylesbury

10/10 submissive love to please who I’m with and satisfy all their desires and fantasies

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By *hromosexualsCouple
9 weeks ago

Near Abercynon

Can you be neither? Neither of us are dominant but I don't think we are particularly submissive either.

We just like having a good time.

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By *erigold300Couple
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

I like being submissive.

I want to be used.

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By *scaMan
9 weeks ago

St Albans

Sometimes one, sometimes the other.

Understanding both roles makes me better at them.

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By *rKinksMan
9 weeks ago

Alton


"Sometimes one, sometimes the other.

Understanding both roles makes me better at them.

"

Great answer used to purely dom however since switching I've definitely reflected more on my domming

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By *arry monk40Man
9 weeks ago

Telford

Dom for years

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

I like to switch between both dependent on my mood and partner

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By *ike_looking_forMan
9 weeks ago

Cumbria

90% of the time dominant, the other 10% if I'm with the right lady

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

Judge from my profile

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By *andt1Couple
9 weeks ago

wellingborough

can be both

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't.

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

Judge from my profile

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By *ensualMan
9 weeks ago

Sutton


"I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't."

I would agree, dominance is not a competive sport, but a relationship style, which has different forms.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
9 weeks ago

Durham

I'm switch. Lean towards more Dom when playing with another woman.

Ruby

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By *YKMCouple
9 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Me 99%

Wife 99% sub

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By *lutwife7784Couple
9 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Me Mrs 100% dominant

Mr 100% sub

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By *witch Roy-MrsKarenCouple
9 weeks ago

york

Both Switch

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By *verEvolving27Man
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Looking for a Dom wife and a cuckold hub. Or a lady peg!

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Domme leaning switch

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Mr Dom

Mrs sub

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By *punk n gushCouple
9 weeks ago

deal

Mr is dom

Mrs is sub

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

im not going to rate myself,, but defo not a sub

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By *mudge1995Man
9 weeks ago

Hull

Sub leaning switch

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By *vonne5exMan
9 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Please could the person who rated you also rate me ?"
from your photos 11/10 but would require a test drive to confirm x

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By *ickedwillyCouple
9 weeks ago

Bangor

Both subs

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By *tephanieuktvTV/TS
9 weeks ago

bristol

10/10 submissive

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By *parkle1974Woman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I can be both depending on my mood.

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By *icentiousCouple
9 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

I couldn’t be submissive, not in my nature, L can switch in a playful mode.

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By *ohncukMan
8 weeks ago

london

Fab taught me I’m a sub

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By *estiswestMan
8 weeks ago

glasgow

Tending towards sub

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
8 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

we aren't big on labels

but if we were we would probably both be switch

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By *runette n JayCouple
8 weeks ago

bilston

Depends on the scenario TBCH

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By *aliWoman
8 weeks ago

Plymouth

Mostly submissive but happy to switch and be dom if a fun friend asks me to!

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By *weetPea-kMan
8 weeks ago

chelmsford

100% submissive

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By *ot_spicedCouple
8 weeks ago

Queenstown

Both switch, but male half tends more towards dominant, female half is naturally sub with men, domme with women/tgirls

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By *use and wolfCouple
8 weeks ago

angus

Sub 99.99%

When that 0.01% get to play, he's a right bastard, apparently.

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By *ink vixenCouple
8 weeks ago

Medway

In our experience the guys that say they’re “dominant” have to tell you that in case you don’t notice.

Setting the stage so to speak.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
8 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I'm not naturally submissive, but can be for the right person.

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By *allHandsomeJayMan
8 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

Sub leaning switch here. Being 6ft 8 brings some really interesting power dynamics

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By *woCherriesCouple
8 weeks ago

Abergele

Submissive x

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"In our experience the guys that say they’re “dominant” have to tell you that in case you don’t notice.

Setting the stage so to speak. "

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ngelLordCouple
8 weeks ago

Newport


"I've been active in the BDSM scene as a Top / Domme for over 25 years.

I'm not a number. If people like my style then they will play. If they don't, they won't."

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
8 weeks ago

Hatfield

Submissive by nature

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By *inkyboots69TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Cambs.

I'm definitely submissive

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By *untime40Man
8 weeks ago

Greenwich

100% sub

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By *1bttmMan
8 weeks ago

Shoreditch east London

Sub here.....I'm more orientated towards servicing and being used

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By *ut4fun6969Man
8 weeks ago

Folkestone

Switch. is dependent on the situation.

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By *uyandGirl42Couple
8 weeks ago

Perth

Kat (Me) - Dom

Hubby - Sub / Sissy

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By *ungmike4uMan
8 weeks ago

Carlisle & North Lakes

Dom

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By *ustMe!Couple
8 weeks ago

co.down

Sub

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

...

I'm a sub, there are aspects visible in all areas of my life.

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By *ack 500Man
8 weeks ago

stafford

Very much both on different days

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By *uilder.funMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Both, depends on the dynamic and how I'm feeling that day

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By *ubmissive guyMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

Sexually submissive.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
8 weeks ago

Norwichish

M Submissive R Dominant.

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By *adeiteWoman
8 weeks ago

Stafford

I think I'm a switch

But all I've known is Domme

Sadly I never asked for a rating when parting ways with subs, I'll remember for next time

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By *inkykokMan
8 weeks ago

Blyth

I think it's harsh rating the person has each person has different qualities . I much prefer personality over beauty giving each other ratings is like comparing a corner shop to harrods

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By *aymanMan
8 weeks ago

cardiff

Switch, does depend on the other person and vide at the time

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By *ansduoCouple
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Both sub to the right Dom.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
8 weeks ago

Oxford

I would say I’m quite Dominant with both sex, all though I don’t mind a lady taking charge. The only man i will be submissive to is my husband, when guys have tried in the past it just pisses me off. X

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By *amiXXX99Man
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

100% Dominatant Master

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By *quirrel!Man
8 weeks ago

L

Sub mostly x

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By *andb69Couple
8 weeks ago

leeds

Neither. I want sex with an equal, who also sees me as an equal.

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By *aveJones76Man
8 weeks ago

Rotherham

Submissive 10/10

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By *igjonny090Man
8 weeks ago

blackpool and Manchester

I’m dominant, I’ve been naturally dominant all my life as i seem to have a presence when I’m in a room and it flows into how I have fun

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
8 weeks ago

Stroud

Mostly dom. But depends on situation. With cuck couples can be sub to her.

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By *izzyRascal69Man
8 weeks ago

Honley

Dominant

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By *orthantsjamesMan
5 weeks ago

Daventry

With guys I’m 100% sub. Not a huge amount of experience but keen to serve more

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I think i am more sub, as the couple of meetings i have had i was happy to serve.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
5 weeks ago

Hyde

Mr is Dom... not subbie tendencies at all

Mrs is sub but experienced in the scene and can service Top

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
5 weeks ago

......

Sadist/Dominant..

However... big curveball new discovery.. a little/submissive in the bedroom...

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 weeks ago

North West

More dom

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

100%?submissive

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

11/10 dom

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By *ickedtiesWoman
5 weeks ago

limerick

Always been domme, but explored my sub side a few months ago and lean towards that recently...😇😄

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By *ot so needyMan
5 weeks ago

Galway


"Always been domme, but explored my sub side a few months ago and lean towards that recently...😇😄"

Good Girl😈

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
5 weeks ago

perth

Switch best of both x

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By *dam21122024Man
5 weeks ago

southall

7/10 dom

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

70% submissive to 30% dominant.

I prefer to be a sub, but in the Fetish Scene I have been a Dom and enjoyed certain elements of it. #handmethatwhip

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By *ickedtiesWoman
5 weeks ago

limerick


"Always been domme, but explored my sub side a few months ago and lean towards that recently...😇😄

Good Girl😈"

🤭😇😇

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By *iker JackMan
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Started as a switch. Now Dominant

That said it’s neither a necessity for me or a requirement

Takes a special someone to bring that side of me out

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

80%

I do love a lady to take charge

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By *oppet22TV/TS
5 weeks ago

huddersfield

Submissive

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By *avidj777TV/TS
5 weeks ago

sidmouth

Very sub

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By *erfHerder74Man
5 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I like to be dominant to top men

I can act passive when the top takes over but I’m really quiet nice man that people think is passive but my soul is too strong

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By *ickedtiesWoman
5 weeks ago

limerick


"Always been domme, but explored my sub side a few months ago and lean towards that recently...😇😄

Good Girl😈"

Thank you daddy ❤️ 🥵😘😇

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By *punk n gushCouple
5 weeks ago

deal

Hubby dom

Me sub

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By *ean directMan
5 weeks ago

havant

Dom 95% but do enjoy being the sub on the off occasion Iv met a dom woman

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

Would love to be dominated but no one has managed it yet 😈

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By *onderlust69Couple
5 weeks ago

Central belt

Mrs WLs is a bratty sub

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By *andPextraCouple
5 weeks ago

North West

Depends on my mood and my play partner. I get equal pleasure from either end of the spectrum.

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By *urvybeautyandthebeastCouple
5 weeks ago

narborough

Miss is submissive 6/10

Mr is 5/10

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
5 weeks ago

Bradford

I like to fluctuate between the pair

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

salford


"Please could the person who rated you also rate me ?"

Those boots make you a 10

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

salford


"I am dominant 9/10

You?"

20% Domme

Mostly sub slut 💋

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By *enninemarkMan
5 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

Switch but more naturally sub

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Dominant, not a submissive bone in my body (now expecting lots of messages saying I haven’t met the right dom !! )

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By *ickedwillyCouple
5 weeks ago

Bangor

Both submissive to a degree

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By *llFunPlayMan
5 weeks ago

Woking

switch but a bit more on the dom side

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Hinckley

Oh to be tied up helpless and used xx. So sub I suppose xx

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
5 weeks ago

Norwichish

As we’ve said before M is submissive, R is dominant.

But that’s not the full story.

I wouldn’t be dominant or dream of playing the way we do if it wasn’t for M. She literally asked for it. She told me very early on about some of her needs, a firm hand, and I guess we have taken it from there trying some new experiences like shibari and wax together, moving on from hand spanking to impact toys etc.

It always surprises people when we chat in clubs after they have seen us play. A lot won’t understand, judging by messages we get from guys it is apparent they have little understanding of what being a dominant entails.

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By *ouple_uk300Couple
5 weeks ago

sudbury

For a time I did actually have part time work as a dom guy working with my ex gf who was a pro doninatrix. It was an amazing time! I’d love to have another go at it tbh

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By *ouple_uk300Couple
5 weeks ago

sudbury


"For a time I did actually have part time work as a dom guy working with my ex gf who was a pro doninatrix. It was an amazing time! I’d love to have another go at it tbh "

Added a couple of public pics for those into it, when I gave my fiancé the experience

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By *anonfire96Man
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Both , depends on the mood and situation. But I love to share the Dom sub ratio.

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By *asha86Couple
5 weeks ago

walsall

Mr here Has anyone else tried the bdsm test? We found it good to use but the results change as time goes on and you adapt different tastes as such

I rated 94% dom in my test

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By *midnight-Woman
5 weeks ago

...


"Mr here Has anyone else tried the bdsm test? We found it good to use but the results change as time goes on and you adapt different tastes as such

I rated 94% dom in my test "

I think they are interesting and informative when first starting out and definitely provide areas to explore

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By *vaRose43Woman
5 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Mr here Has anyone else tried the bdsm test? We found it good to use but the results change as time goes on and you adapt different tastes as such

I rated 94% dom in my test "

Several times over the years. Tastes evolve

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By *ilentrunningMan
5 weeks ago

Cardiff/Reading/Liverpool &more

Sub tending

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By *eardysingsMan
5 weeks ago

sandhurst and York

Dom by nature, but have certain things that keep that in check too.

Switching and transferring power, helps me to understand what everything feels like.

And id never try anything on anyone else that I hadn’t practiced on myself, or had done to me.

And for me, at the very least a social contract is a must - if not, written. You want to play? It’s got to be fully trusting to achieve any kind of D/s dynamic.

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By *lltheboostCouple
5 weeks ago

Shefford

Him: Dominant

Her: Submissive

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By *weetPea-kMan
5 weeks ago

chelmsford

Sexually submissive, even more so now

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By *adeiteWoman
5 weeks ago

Stafford

Only ever known being Domme, but I'm a switch

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
5 weeks ago

Leicester

Mrs is a b and Mr is switch.

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By *outhernexport83Couple
5 weeks ago

Cornwall

Mr: Dom

Mrs: Sub (poss switch but not with Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Definitely dom

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By *elrose57Couple
5 weeks ago

reading

when me and the wife play, i can only be submissive feels right, cant see how you can switch when you are what you are

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By *eyeYCouple
5 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Both switch though D is more likely to be Dom than I 😈

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By *r M Gray88Man
5 weeks ago

Morecambe

Dominant Bull

Pleasure guaranteed

Sexual fantasy & kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Dominant in my work (Army Sergeant Major) which leads to being dominant in my personal life

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By *ucka39Man
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

Dominant adds extreme pleasure both ways

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By *otts-manMan
5 weeks ago

Long Eaton

Switch, depending on the dynamic of the situation

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By *awz06Man
5 weeks ago

harrow

80% dominant I’d say

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By *overtMan
5 weeks ago

Preston

Mostly on the submissive side but can definitely have the dominance when the right submissive is presented

Xandra xx

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By *ensualgent38Man
5 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh

Naturally and enthusiastically dominant. With women and couples.

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By *ecky124TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Middlewich

I’m 100% sub

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By *icentiousCouple
5 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Just a perfect gentleman.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
5 weeks ago

Nottingham

MJ is dominant, Ouizzi is submissive to him.

Occasionally switch a little, and Ouizzi has in the past domme'd.

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By *ayandsusieMan
5 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I am an obedient submissive bi guy to assertive males, but can be dominant with younger or sub females.

I love to please alpha and versatile males but can be quite assertive with women !

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By *ubikslongswordMan
5 weeks ago

Rubiksville

I'm naturally quite dominant, but have switched on extremely rare occasions

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By *ub slut PennyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

St Austell

Naturally submissive

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By *amantha ABCTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've never realised it till now but I'm both lol

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By *tevenwantstoMan
5 weeks ago

dorset

Primarrily dom but maybe a little leaning to switch depending on situation and dynamic

X

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By *ony 529Man
4 weeks ago

coventry

Definitely submissive . My wife is always wanting me to be rough but I can’t. It’s so embarrassing.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
4 weeks ago

Hatfield


"Definitely submissive . My wife is always wanting me to be rough but I can’t. It’s so embarrassing. "

Tony …. hold my pint

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By *ongAndThick123Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I’m 99% dominant… then I have days like today where I want to try being totally submissive

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By *oppet22TV/TS
4 weeks ago

huddersfield

Submissive

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By *he Whole PortionCouple
4 weeks ago

in & around

Mr says I'd make a great dominatrix, he says it's my eastern European demeanor and accent,,, but I hate it, I love being a sub and so does Mr

"Do what you want to me" is Mr's favourite thing to hear

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By *B11Man
4 weeks ago

Burnley

We both submissive

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By *aple syrupWoman
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I’m a submissive definitely not dominant at all lol

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

Totally submissive

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
4 weeks ago

Southampton

Dom for me and Lucy loves being submissive.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
4 weeks ago

Oxford

Mrs- I’m only submissive for Hubby, I can on the occasion be so with ladies but other guys definitely Dom.

Mr- I wouldn’t call myself Dominant in the traditional sense but do like to take control - I like to take the lead in giving pleasure to play partners That said women scare me but i’m not submissive.

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I think I'm 6/10 leaning towards sub more.

Love it when a woman takes charge and enjoys spanking me and being rough (choking me, scratching, biting etc)

But I also don't mind switching it up as well and repaying the favour x

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By *nalleesaMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

I can be a dominant bitch ..but never really submissive unless I m really turned on xx

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By *igwilly2kMan
4 weeks ago

The Land of Kink!

I've always been Dom, got the equipment and a kinky mind to match!

HOWEVER! top of my bucket list for 2025 is to be someone's kinky sub slut. So if anyone needs a kinky hung willing submissive to use for your pleasure, DM me!

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By *ir SpankyMan
4 weeks ago

Blackpool

Dominant although finding a woman to try be a switch might be a pleasureable experiance... however noting as yet

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By *apio51Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Probably more submissive than dominant but don’t really go in for it in a big way. Would prefer to be submissive if I’m honest.

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By *eganMayWoman
4 weeks ago

Clevedon

Very switchy

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By *scaMan
4 weeks ago

St Albans

100% both.

Kind of

(one informs the other, it’s not so complicated really)

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By *ivilised matureMan
4 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village


"Can you be neither? Neither of us are dominant but I don't think we are particularly submissive either.

We just like having a good time."

As above each enjoying each other

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By *wabathMan
4 weeks ago

Bath

90% sub - especially with a couple

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By *irm_hand69Man
4 weeks ago

Blackpool


"Both submissive "
Mrs look fab x

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By *tuvyMan
4 weeks ago

bedford

Depends on who I’m with and their ages

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By *ormalMaleMan
4 weeks ago

near By

Switch, depending on circumstances and who I meet. I do enjoy dom role but must admit being sub to a lady has had benefits

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By *lwayswanking24Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

Love being told what to do xx

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By *enninemarkMan
4 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester


"Love being told what to do xx"

As a switch I love being told what to do, or telling someone what to do. Also love being in bondage with no control, conversely having full control!

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
4 weeks ago

diggle

Can be either

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By *adcouple2000Couple
4 weeks ago

London

Submissive cuck here

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