FabSwingers.com: B (43) , Man in sandhurst and York, South East, UK

I guess I’m a bit of a lonely boy. I’m a Big boned, bearded bloke, pro singer, good cook, with a plethora of interests, a large group of friends - and yet I still yearn for more out of my life.

I’ve been described as being extremely emotionally intelligent, empathetic, orally talented (I love going down on a woman), and all the other things which can be a curse as much as a blessing.

Confident and playful without being arrogant, but can be cocky, and will push my luck. Just as capable of an in depth debate as I am capable of being silly with you, and unlike some, fully capable of using full sentences.

To be clear, I am married, - she is aware of my activities and in support of them - the situation is complex, and we are at a stage where both of us are working out whether we stick for the sake of the kids, but explore with others. This is an evolving situation, but she has also been given permission to play elsewhere and has taken it a couple of times. She can’t keep up with my lust for life, exploration and experiences though, and has her own (different) ideas about the things she now wants to do, and experience as well.

I have a young-ish family, who come first in everything, so if I’m slow to respond, it’ll either be that, or the fact that I work in a high pressure job…. Or I’m on stage, prancing around like a singing fairy rock god….

I split my time between Berkshire and Yorkshire - I’m originally from Berkshire but have friends and family in the Yorkshire region.

Personalities to the front of the queue, adventure seekers too! I tend to find myself attracted to women who like the idea of something warm and a bit squishy to cuddle after a hot sesh…. But I won’t rule out those who want a ‘blow and go’ arrangement either, I guess.

I’m tested and clean and will expect you to have the same testing regime.

And I have one simple request. If you’re here because I’ve messaged you, and you’re not interested, just hit delete - it’s all good. If you are interested and are just deciding how to reply, leave me as read until you’re ready - it just feels like common courtesy to me. I’m not going to be a dick and start sending multiple messages - but that kind of clarity does make things a bit easier - I am quite selective about who I message so I’d appreciate that simple action.

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