FabSwingers.com forum: Polite

By *un before OP Man
51 weeks ago

london colney

Is it a waste of time. , being polite and well mannered in chat.

And in. Vanilla life.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
51 weeks ago

London

No it's not, but if you're only being polite to get something back then yeh probably

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By *un before OP Man
51 weeks ago

london colney

I’m polite. Full stop ,, Brought. That way. , not after or expect anything. . Am a widower on a swingers site. . So know the score.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I think it’s more about being decent, as in not rude, crude or abusive. There’s just no point to it….

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you already believe that polite is an overall societal good, then how is it a waste of time?

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By *bi HaiveMan
51 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is it a waste of time. , being polite and well mannered in chat.

And in. Vanilla life. "

Nope. It's the bare minimum online or in real life.

However it doesn't mean that just by being polite you're entitled to any reply or interest on here. People often think that because they act in a respectful and polite manner that others should be expected to respond or chat to them. It's not impolite to not reply to those you have no interest in.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

Then don't be polite and well mannered?!

Politeness doesn't guarantee you sex neither does good manners, neither entitle you to a response from anyone.

Mrs

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By *asterMeliodasMan
51 weeks ago

Newmill

"If you already believe that polite is an overall societal good, then how is it a waste of time?"

This is what I came here to ask.

If you're always polite, and that's how you were raised, then whether you are or not shouldn't depend on external factors.

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By *olfandtazCouple
51 weeks ago

Bristol

Manners cost nothing. However you can't be polite to everyone on here and keep some degree of sanity

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By *oan of DArcCouple
51 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Is it a waste of time. , being polite and well mannered in chat.

And in. Vanilla life. "

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Why would you believe it's been a waste if time? x

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By *JcuriousCouple
51 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's never a waste of time, I'll always be polite in any sense until someone gives me a reason not too, to them.

Miss S x

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By *as4121Man
51 weeks ago

dartford

Although sometimes difficult I always try to remain courteous and polite to others

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By *WB85Man
51 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Being truthful I think I'm more polite in this world that I am the vanilla world.

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By *issmorganWoman
51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No it's not

If you expect something for being polite though, you may be disappointed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Is it a waste of time. , being polite and well mannered in chat.

And in. Vanilla life. "

Have you found it to be a waste of time?

I'm usually polite although I'm perfectly capable of being impolite if the occasion demands it. Sometimes people are rude to me despite my politeness to them, I don't consider that I wasted my time I just think they're spanners.

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By *teve_Life_ModelMan
51 weeks ago

South Leicestershire

I consider myself polite and always mention that when sending messages on here. That however doesn't mean thatI don't get rude responses

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By *hunky GentMan
51 weeks ago

Stamford

The way I see it is:

If they don't like you because of your politeness and manners then they don't deserve you.

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By *illan-KillashMan
51 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Is it a waste of time. , being polite and well mannered in chat.

And in. Vanilla life. "

Based on your green arrow I'm seeing a familiar pattern.

Is it time to change your approach and due diligence?

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