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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?" I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once | |||
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"Just a suggestion, but why don't you add her to your account, post some pics of her and see how you feel about the level of interest she generates from other men? HW" I've told her about this site and suggested making a couples account but she is extremely private and wasn't comfortable with that, hopefully that changes in the near future | |||
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"We were exactly the same, originally it started off as bedroom talk and thought that’s where it would stay… however, having experienced it twice now I (wife) really enjoys the experience and hubby seems (and has said) he enjoys watching me with another man and getting spit-roasted. DP still on the to-do-list… but next we get to experience FFM which has been my fantasy Wife" I'm in that same kind of mindset, I imagine those scenarios and I really do like the idea of it, but once the sex is finished it's not something I think about so I'm not sure if it's something I actually really want or is it just because I'm extremely aroused at that moment | |||
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other? I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once " Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see. | |||
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"I totally get this. In the moment I too like the idea of playing with another man's cock. I don't think about guys in that way at all, even in the moment I don't fancy the guys, but the idea of some mutual cock play (wanking and sucking) is a real turn on. However, after I've cum, the interest in it disappears." Did you ever act on it or was it fantasy only? | |||
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other? I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see." I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward | |||
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"I totally get this. In the moment I too like the idea of playing with another man's cock. I don't think about guys in that way at all, even in the moment I don't fancy the guys, but the idea of some mutual cock play (wanking and sucking) is a real turn on. However, after I've cum, the interest in it disappears. Did you ever act on it or was it fantasy only?" I haven't had the opportunity as I've been involved in vanilla LTRs for the last 20 years. However, it's now all about me so it's on my list to try. I do think I need to build up to it and think maybe trying just a bi experience first like a wank meet or visiting a club on a bi night might help me work out if it's really a fantasy or not before I put anyone else to any trouble and realise I'm not that in to it. | |||
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other? I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see. I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward" The best piece of advice I can give you is this: go in with the knowledge that it might not live up to how you imagined it. Maybe it'll be way better, maybe it'll be worse, but that possibility always exists and it's a lesson in pointlessness to try pretending it doesn't. Decide before you even do anything how you'll move forward if it doesn't live up to your expectations, and there will be no surprises on the day because you'll already have planned for it. | |||
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"Just to clarify our situation has been MFM! The men haven’t touched each other… but that’s our preference for the time being. " That's my only preference | |||
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"Worked for me, was surprised at what it felt like, in a nice way. The label I found was Hetero-Flexible. I only play with guys if my partner is with me playing too, very much a team sport! Hope this helps " We have that I (wife) is hete  exible too
Last message put a face emoji between the hetero word which is why I deleted it! Hope it doesn’t this time | |||
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other? I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see. I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward The best piece of advice I can give you is this: go in with the knowledge that it might not live up to how you imagined it. Maybe it'll be way better, maybe it'll be worse, but that possibility always exists and it's a lesson in pointlessness to try pretending it doesn't. Decide before you even do anything how you'll move forward if it doesn't live up to your expectations, and there will be no surprises on the day because you'll already have planned for it." This is actually great advice because I was worried about the scenario in which she enjoyed it and I didn't, or vice versa, like I wouldn't be sure what to do in that situation | |||
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"I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well" There is a HUGE difference between talking about a fantasy and getting turned on by it and actually having a desire to do it. This lifestyle requires very open, honest and straight taking with you partner. You both have to be 100% all in on this. As she's not on Fab and you are, is a little red flag 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well There is a HUGE difference between talking about a fantasy and getting turned on by it and actually having a desire to do it. This lifestyle requires very open, honest and straight taking with you partner. You both have to be 100% all in on this. As she's not on Fab and you are, is a little red flag 🤷🏻♀️" She knows I'm here, I've suggested a couples account but essentially told me she's too much of a private person to join up, I'm not sure she's fully aware as to how the site works as privacy is respected here, hopefully she'll come around to the idea | |||
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"For us it was about finding the right chap. Once we found him, it was great. And so hot. Now the three of us are good friends. " This was another thing I've thought about. If this is something we did go through with I'd like us to find one guy and stick with him rather than going through half the site, I think it'd be better all round because we'd build a connection or something to that effect | |||
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