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"Is it acceptable? " No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. | |||
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"It may sound strange to non nudists but I really don't look anymore at people than I would if they were clothed."  | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy." Spell checker!! Avert not advertised. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy." It helps ugly people feel better about themselves | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. It helps ugly people feel better about themselves " Quite right too. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. It helps ugly people feel better about themselves Quite right too. " It’s only fair | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. " That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. | |||
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"Part of the pleasure of being on a nudist beach is seeing other naked bodies… just don’t be creepy or weird about it" Exactly this. Or as a bloke, approach women who are by themselves and stand near there holding idle chit chat with your meat and veg hanging above them A fair few just like being naked in their own company enjoying the sunshine in peace. Glance, admire, (as we all do),....but for gods sake don't be an 'obvious' perv!  | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. " Most naturists are there for personal appreciation of themselves being au naturel in that environment. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? " For us that's a big YES | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." didn't know you was a school teacher | |||
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"My Mrs calls them "Bobs" because they bob up and down while taking a sneaky perv." We call them meerkats. They stand up pretending to look into the distance.  | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. " This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved." I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones." I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." And leching? | |||
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"Is it acceptable? " Impossible not too... if u on one... u either there to perv or be perved..... | |||
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"Unavoidable "Hahahahah completely agree....was on hols in corsica recently where one half of beach was nudist....yes utterly unavoidable. Especially those gorgeous mature curvy ladies come out of the sea | |||
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"It really is surprising that so many people on this thread don't seem to understand the vast difference between "looking" and "perving". Decent people "look", perverts "perve". " Yep. Perving makes me think of Benny Hill | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. " They were openly anti naturist, not perves. They should've put their towels down further away from the nudist area ,if they can't stand nudists. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." Theres a big difference when you mention the word family.... nobody i hope would be actively playing in a family space. | |||
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"Think we’d be a bit disappointed if no one had a little perv "Completely agree. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. They were openly anti naturist, not perves. They should've put their towels down further away from the nudist area ,if they can't stand nudists. " They purposely came to that beach as its a well known naturist beach. 2miles worth. They sat at a beach bar with the intension of perving, judging and insulting. All it really shows is how insecure they must be about themselves that they need to behave as such. And to call us pervs. And, yes, we are swingers and love playing outside in the sun. But are tots respectful of where we play with others, perv or engage in our own fun. Genuine natirist beaches or clubs are not the place. And yes, IlWe have taken a discreet side glance and admired a view discreetly, but nothing more. We save that for kestrals, VA Lux Loung and when we get the chance to go, Cap d'agde. Why, because there it is totally acceptable and welcomed.. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. " Very very true. | |||
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