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"Is it acceptable? " No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. | |||
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"It may sound strange to non nudists but I really don't look anymore at people than I would if they were clothed."  | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy." Spell checker!! Avert not advertised. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy." It helps ugly people feel better about themselves | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. It helps ugly people feel better about themselves " Quite right too. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. It helps ugly people feel better about themselves Quite right too. " It’s only fair | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. " That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. | |||
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"Part of the pleasure of being on a nudist beach is seeing other naked bodies… just don’t be creepy or weird about it" Exactly this. Or as a bloke, approach women who are by themselves and stand near there holding idle chit chat with your meat and veg hanging above them A fair few just like being naked in their own company enjoying the sunshine in peace. Glance, admire, (as we all do),....but for gods sake don't be an 'obvious' perv!  | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. " Most naturists are there for personal appreciation of themselves being au naturel in that environment. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? " For us that's a big YES | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." didn't know you was a school teacher | |||
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"My Mrs calls them "Bobs" because they bob up and down while taking a sneaky perv." We call them meerkats. They stand up pretending to look into the distance.  | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. " This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved." I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones." I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." And leching? | |||
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"Is it acceptable? " Impossible not too... if u on one... u either there to perv or be perved..... | |||
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"Unavoidable  "Hahahahah completely agree....was on hols in corsica recently where one half of beach was nudist....yes utterly unavoidable. Especially those gorgeous mature curvy ladies come out of the sea | |||
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"It really is surprising that so many people on this thread don't seem to understand the vast difference between "looking" and "perving". Decent people "look", perverts "perve". " Yep. Perving makes me think of Benny Hill | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. " They were openly anti naturist, not perves. They should've put their towels down further away from the nudist area ,if they can't stand nudists. | |||
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"Is it acceptable? No. Most naturist sites are family oriented, and are the antithesis of swinging. Nobody expects you to advertise your eyes constantly, but there is a difference between looking (as you might in a clothed environment) and perving, leching and being creepy. Spell checker!! Avert not advertised." Theres a big difference when you mention the word family.... nobody i hope would be actively playing in a family space. | |||
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"Think we’d be a bit disappointed if no one had a little perv "Completely agree. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. This.. you hit the nail on the head. We have been naturists for as long as we can remember. Both of us raised with it. And most naturists are not swingers. They simply enjoy the freedom of being clothing free and connecting with the sun. No judgement, no tan lines and just care free. Not only that, but they are also some of the most genuinely kind, caring ppl you will meet. We have been in the scene for 2 years and love the lifestyle and clubs that have gardens you can play in. However, we respect naturists and the code of conduct. So please be mindful of where you are. A public naturists beach or club is not the place to be blatant perving, taking pictures or playing. A sneaky, discreet, glance to admire a view is fine. Just remember where you are and be on best behavior. There are clubs such as VA's lux longe, ab fabs/kestrals, Rio's etc where you are free to be less so behaved. I concur . For naturists when clothes drop off, so are insecurities, prejudice , class and status, ill intentions. I find that more people perve on bikini beaches than on naturist ones. I'd say both, only on clothed beaches we are less aware as we feel less vulnerable. I witnessed a british X pat family on a well known family naturist beach in Spain (Vera Playa), openly perve and make some very inappropriate comments and really insulting. They all remained clothed and when their daughter, who was 9 or so wanted to strip off as everyone else on the beach had. The parents had the ordasity to call us pervs and insist she remain clothed. Beggs to differ. They were openly anti naturist, not perves. They should've put their towels down further away from the nudist area ,if they can't stand nudists. " They purposely came to that beach as its a well known naturist beach. 2miles worth. They sat at a beach bar with the intension of perving, judging and insulting. All it really shows is how insecure they must be about themselves that they need to behave as such. And to call us pervs. And, yes, we are swingers and love playing outside in the sun. But are tots respectful of where we play with others, perv or engage in our own fun. Genuine natirist beaches or clubs are not the place. And yes, IlWe have taken a discreet side glance and admired a view discreetly, but nothing more. We save that for kestrals, VA Lux Loung and when we get the chance to go, Cap d'agde. Why, because there it is totally acceptable and welcomed.. | |||
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"Mutual appreciation is all part of the thrill. That's the way swingers see things. It isn't the way naturists see things, and while many swingers are "naturists", very few real naturists are swingers. " Very very true. | |||
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"We were in Gran Canaria last year and a couple started fiddling each other on a sun lounger, we thought that was a bit too far as there were families with children about. They obviously wanted to be watched " Yeh that’s not on - late at night on hotel balcony on an adult only resort - most adults are d*unk by then and either don’t notice/care/ are doing the same lol | |||
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"Is it acceptable? " I don't see things on a naturist beach as being any different from any other public space. So for me I am the same as in any other place. Is it wrong for people to take your eye? No. Is it wrong to have a passing glance and appreciate someone's looks and be attracted to them? No. It's it wrong to privately think about what you've just seen and be turned on? No. Is it wrong to purposely stare or look so long you're being blatantly obviously? Yes. It's it wrong to go to efforts to continuously watch people without their knowledge? Yes Is it wrong to pursue, harass or genuinely enter someone's space with sole and obviously intention of perving on them? Yes. Is it wrong to come over an make unsolicited inappropriate remarks? Yes To me these rules are 100% the same in a clothed public space as they are in a nude public space. Its ok to have a look, that's human and natural. It's OK to like what you see and keep it to yourself or express it privately (I.e. to your partner). But it's not OK to be a creep or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Mr | |||
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"Is it acceptable? I don't see things on a naturist beach as being any different from any other public space. So for me I am the same as in any other place. Is it wrong for people to take your eye? No. Is it wrong to have a passing glance and appreciate someone's looks and be attracted to them? No. It's it wrong to privately think about what you've just seen and be turned on? No. Is it wrong to purposely stare or look so long you're being blatantly obviously? Yes. It's it wrong to go to efforts to continuously watch people without their knowledge? Yes Is it wrong to pursue, harass or genuinely enter someone's space with sole and obviously intention of perving on them? Yes. Is it wrong to come over an make unsolicited inappropriate remarks? Yes To me these rules are 100% the same in a clothed public space as they are in a nude public space. Its ok to have a look, that's human and natural. It's OK to like what you see and keep it to yourself or express it privately (I.e. to your partner). But it's not OK to be a creep or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Mr" Well said. This is how I see it too. Do not make people uncomfortable and be creepy. | |||
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"Yes! We encourage people to perv at us "Yep . we see others doing to us too . take as a compliment. | |||
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"Went to a nudist beach in Rhodes with my wife and we loved being perved on. We noticed a lot of couples and guys checking us out and it really turned us on" Was on Tsambika beach - there were lots of attractive couples there. One lady had 'Fuck Toy' tattoed on the small of her back. I assume she wanted us all to observe this so looking is allowed ... keep on the right side of perving | |||
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"Isn’t this what sunglasses were made for lol" Yes most of us spend half the year practicing the sideways look so your eyes don’t ache or you get caught looking. | |||
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"Is it only classed as perving if you stare for an elongated time? If so what would be classed as elongated 👀" 2hours ? | |||
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"I think it’d be hard not to
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🤣🤣🤣 very good 🤣🤣🤣"I’m here all week .. lol | |||
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