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By *aughtydave81 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Moray

Ladies,when you choose clothes that show off your lovely cleavage do you want people to openly admire it, comment on the cracking view or just stop leaching?

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
48 weeks ago

your head

Stop leaching.

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By *achig11Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

No leaching but when appropriate?

Office, daytime shopping or night out to show?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Looking is fine.

Staring is rude.

Making lecherous comments is worse.

Just be respectful

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By *adCherriesCouple
48 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

If anyone is precious over their cleavage and looking.. simple- wear a less revealing top.

Mrs

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By *ucklingMan
48 weeks ago

Sleaford

An admiring look, yes. Staring or _rooling is not ok.

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By *d4funtimesMan
48 weeks ago

Cambridge


"If anyone is precious over their cleavage and looking.. simple- wear a less revealing top.

Mrs "

Oh no! Pleeeease don't

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

48 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't want anyone openly staring or making comments. It makes me uncomfortable.

I didn't come down with the last shower, I know men will notice if I wear a low cut top but I don't want Les Dawson type leching

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Staring - no it's creepy.

Mrs

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By *wingAway79Couple
48 weeks ago

Surrey

Glance yes stare no

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
48 weeks ago

bolton

Definitely not , enjoy the view

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By *parkle1974Woman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I prefer mine covered as its uncomfortable when you see men staring.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I don't care if people look. It's the staring or comments that are a problem

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By *akes coupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Ambleside

Admire the view guys, just don’t make it to obvious and never approach me and make a comment about them.

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By *ony 2016Man
48 weeks ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

If a passer by

I would never ever comment

I would not stare

BUT

would find it incredibly difficult not to glance

A cleavage is my weak point , I do love to see a cleavage ,

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By *oney and ReggieCouple
48 weeks ago

braintree

Please do

Admire the view

X

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By *ornym66Man
48 weeks ago

Col /ips


"If a passer by

I would never ever comment

I would not stare

BUT

would find it incredibly difficult not to glance

A cleavage is my weak point , I do love to see a cleavage , "

I'm the same then I get inbarrassed if the put there hand up to cover up so I tend now to not look

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By *FeistyxWoman
48 weeks ago

Glasgow

I don’t mind people having a glance as I can’t exactly hide them, but it’s embarrassing when they stare, point or nudge someone else to look

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I will look but not stare or comment once I've looked I do tend to look at the face I find that you sometimes get get a look of approval from them afterwards. I did get a girl with her friend in a club once say oy don't look at my mates tits... look at mine instead and promptly flashed me that was a good night

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By *Cups32Woman
48 weeks ago

Colne

I don't mind a glance but don't get pervy...

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By *illxxMan
48 weeks ago

motherwell

I would definitely look but not stare or make a comment

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By *urulovesnylonMan
48 weeks ago

Harrow

Does keep catching the eye type of glances then count as starring?

I do try not to perve tho

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By *en30216Man
48 weeks ago

york

I can’t help myself

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I didnt used to mind catching the odd glance directed towards my chest.

Makes me really uncomfortable now but I won't react or say anything.

MrsAbz

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Chichester

I don’t mind smiles I paid for my boobs and I like showing a lot of cleavage in general. If someone came up making lecherous hairy sweaty man moves then I’d probably knock them out

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By *oastal1968Man
40 weeks ago

London

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By *oastal1968Man
40 weeks ago

London


"I don't want anyone openly staring or making comments. It makes me uncomfortable.

I didn't come down with the last shower, I know men will notice if I wear a low cut top but I don't want Les Dawson type leching "

Ohhh! Knickers, knackers, knockers!

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By *agatoXXXMan
40 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Ladies,when you choose clothes that show off your lovely cleavage do you want people to openly admire it, comment on the cracking view or just stop leaching?

"

They should all be wearing polo necks, the hussies.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
40 weeks ago

St Neots

Would never stare or make any comments but damn it's hard not to look!!

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By *ts good to share xCouple
40 weeks ago

market bosworth

Dont mind people looking but it is funny when men look and then get told off by their wives

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
40 weeks ago

St Neots


"Dont mind people looking but it is funny when men look and then get told off by their wives "

Had this in the past haha. Luckily I'm now with someone that would be looking at them with me, even better if she gives me a nudge to check someone out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

What if her nipples are hard as fuck

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
40 weeks ago

St Neots


"A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy. "

Confession

Definitely been staring at yours for longer than I should

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
40 weeks ago

TD


"A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy.

Confession

Definitely been staring at yours for longer than I should "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Glance, admire internally ... but don't stare and never comment

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By *rooMan
40 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

A glance and admire is a compliment, stare and _rool is rude

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Look smile and maybe a nod

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Look smile and maybe a nod "

Ditto..

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By *oastal1968Man
40 weeks ago

London


"A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy. "

Be still my beating heart! Straight onto the hotlist!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
40 weeks ago

Cannock

We notice a lot more older guys letching at Dee’s cleavage these days when we are out and about, probably all the Viagra in circulation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It’s impossible to not look when you see cleavage but you don’t need to stare and making any sort of comment is ridiculous and rude.

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By *ieandteaseMan
40 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Is there a polite link between the amount of cleavage shown and the length of the look.

Just peeking out the top = a quick glance.

Nearly to the nipples = a good 3 second look and a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I can’t help but look at nice cleavage just don’t stare a quick peek is plenty

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By *mwirralMan
40 weeks ago

wirral


"A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy. "

To be fair it's hard not to look at yours, it's fantastic

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By *mwirralMan
40 weeks ago

wirral

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By *uboCouple
40 weeks ago

East kilbride

I don't mind the attention, i can be a tease at times

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
40 weeks ago

bolton

I love my wife flashing her cleavage such a turn on for us both

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By *riel13Woman
40 weeks ago

Northampton

As long as I don't have to pull you out by your ankles...

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By *eedsmale36Man
40 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't mind the attention, i can be a tease at times "

Stunning

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By *eyond PurityCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

C’s boobs always attract attention - her nipples poke through most dresses.

It’s always funny watching guys over stare!

However she doesn’t dress for attention and so wouldn’t be impressed if someone commented.

K

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By *ananas57Couple
40 weeks ago

lake ariel

Enjoy the view, just don’t overdo it!

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By *hipdaleCouple
40 weeks ago

Greenhithe

I always look at a man's groin so why can't they look at my cleavage

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By *SCouple81Couple
40 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Proudly exposed is always worth a look

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Enjoy the view, just don’t overdo it! "

While showing us YOUR cleavage in your PF pic!

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By *kinandbonesCouple
40 weeks ago

dublin

Wife loves guys looking. No verbal comments though

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By *tms1xCouple
40 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Love a cleavage!! Also a proud nipple! Even better if piercings show!

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
40 weeks ago

East Anglia


"Love a cleavage!! Also a proud nipple! Even better if piercings show! "

I qualify with all 3

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
40 weeks ago

Narberth

Yes, if you show it, its because you want it to get attention.

I don't mind stares and comments.

If I don't feel I'm the mood to be treated like that, I dress accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"A look and a glance is fine. It’s natural for people to do that I find. But don’t stare or make it obvious with comments etc. that can just be creepy.

Confession

Definitely been staring at yours for longer than I should "

Hehe. Suppose I can’t stop that on here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Does the same apply to an ass and a toe as well or is that just going to make you feel self conscious?

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By *ee69Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

If you got it flaunt it , just don’t take the huff when we act as nature intended lol

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By *ortyairCouple
40 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Looking is fine.

Staring is rude.

Making lecherous comments is worse.

Just be respectful "

This, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Does the same apply to an ass and a toe as well or is that just going to make you feel self conscious?"

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By *heeky_kikiWoman
40 weeks ago

Guisborough

I like it when someone looks at my cleavage, I dress like that for a reason, appreciate a smile from them after they’ve had a nosy too haha.

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By *rjay224Man
40 weeks ago

nottingham

Would looking at a cleavage be the same to a lady looking at a guys package for example in grey joggers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Looking is fine.

Staring is rude.

Making lecherous comments is worse.

Just be respectful "

All of this!!!!!!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester

I had a truck driver at petrol station today say to me. They are a proper handful. (My tiny vest has a huge amount of side boob ) so I can see why they looked.

He didn’t like my reply of saying he should feel how much a handful my cock and bollocks are

Zero fucks

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By *ucsherMan
40 weeks ago

Stevenage/Uxbridge

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By *otguy555Man
40 weeks ago

Bristol

Love people looking at my wife cleavage. Bit small boobs but they make a good looking cleavage

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
39 weeks ago

bolton

Can't beat a sexy cleavage just enough to tease and let your imagination run wild

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By *aveJones76Man
39 weeks ago

Rotherham

I used to sit across from a lady at work who loved showing off her cleavage and used to love me checking her out. Good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"I had a truck driver at petrol station today say to me. They are a proper handful. (My tiny vest has a huge amount of side boob ) so I can see why they looked.

He didn’t like my reply of saying he should feel how much a handful my cock and bollocks are

Zero fucks "

Hahaha love this bet his face was a picture

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By *ucsherMan
39 weeks ago

Stevenage/Uxbridge

Love cleavage on show...

Im very much interested in these low hanging fruits.

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By *et and WillingCouple
39 weeks ago

Nuneaton

I draw the line at _rooling

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I do have a thing for a lovely cleavage but would draw the line at a comment in public

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Everyone looks, it's impossible not to look, and as we know women are constantly checking themselves in the mirror they know what they are showing, the line is crossed when guy touch of mention it

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Bedford

When I see cleavage I'm reminded of comedy films where things like cherries fly through the air and land in the cleavage.

I wish I had huge bossoms for a nice cleavage. I quite like toe cleavage while wearing high heels.

If you've got it flaunt it.

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
7 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Definitely ok to look, that's why I love wearing low cut dresses and catching the cheeky looks. Me and the Mr always have a chuckle about it. He adores my low cut dresses and my cleavage out

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By *ieandteaseMan
7 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"I had a truck driver at petrol station today say to me. They are a proper handful. (My tiny vest has a huge amount of side boob ) so I can see why they looked.

He didn’t like my reply of saying he should feel how much a handful my cock and bollocks are

Zero fucks "

I'd love to see what a handful they are. Come to think of it, I'd like to see if I could get all of them in my mouth together x

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 weeks ago

glasgow

A quick glance is only natural.

More is frowned upon. Sometimes it's welcome so unless you can read body language and signals, better to be safe and act like they're not there

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
7 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Looking is fine.

Staring is rude.

Making lecherous comments is worse.

Just be respectful "

This!!

Kink (Mrs)

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By *alfback09Man
7 weeks ago

Peterboro

Mrs h loves an admiring glance and will dress to please especially on holidays !

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"Looking is fine.

Staring is rude.

Making lecherous comments is worse.

Just be respectful "

Totally agree 👍🏽

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By *ady and the cockCouple
7 weeks ago

North East/Anywhere

We actively shop for clothes that show more cleavage, love it.

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
7 weeks ago

somewhere

If you have it then show it..

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By *ady and the cockCouple
7 weeks ago

North East/Anywhere


"If you have it then show it.."

Agreed and you do

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By *ythenMan
7 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin


"If you have it then show it.."

I would hope so .. it’s no different than being proud of another part of your body .. I assume ?

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By *ythenMan
7 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin


"If you have it then show it..

Agreed and you do "

And very nice Mademe too

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By *armandwet50Couple
7 weeks ago

Not far away


"If anyone is precious over their cleavage and looking.. simple- wear a less revealing top.

Mrs "

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
7 weeks ago

falkirk

Wife loves hers being looked at

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By *ot_spicedCouple
7 weeks ago

Queenstown

Look yes, but remember, eyes are up here!

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By *atinaChica54Woman
7 weeks ago

Marlborough


"If anyone is precious over their cleavage and looking.. simple- wear a less revealing top.

Mrs "

Agreed

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By *otuseater11Man
7 weeks ago

kilwinning

Love having a look but definitely don't stare

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By *ularliWoman
7 weeks ago

Worcester

I don’t mind mine being looked at. I quite like wearing low cut tops but I wouldn’t want someone to make comments

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By *arrysmifffMan
7 weeks ago

Colchester

Look, but not stare, love a cleavage (.)(.)

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By *anda92Couple
7 weeks ago

Stoke d'abernon

Yes to a glance but no to staring.

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By *annyandwalterCouple
7 weeks ago

south London

I catch a few looking but hate for too long !!!

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By *bboredguyMan
7 weeks ago

dundee

Cleavage is flypaper for my eyes lol

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
7 weeks ago

bolton

Such a turn on for hubby loves me flashing my cleavage and must admit do like that attention

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
7 weeks ago

Norwichish

Yes it’s ok to look. But don’t leer.

We are all human there are certain instincts that are inbuilt. But the ability to control what we do once we have had a look is possible.

The stock reply from some men “well she wouldn’t wear clothes like that if she didn’t want you to look”….without a single realisation of the bias in that statement and the assumptions being made.

When I get ready for work and I need to make myself presentable, am I doing it for the passers by on my commute, or the staff in the coffee shop? No I’m doing it for my clients.

When you pass a lady who is showing some cleavage perhaps she is on her way to a date, who she wants to look, but doesn’t want everyone on the way there and back to also be looking.

Some ladies like it most won’t, the same as wolf whistling, beeping your van horn, comments that wouldn’t be made to a man in the same situation.

If you are straight man and want to know what it feels like to be ogled, have inappropriate comments made or have your personal space invaded go to a gay club/bar. I guarantee someone will make you feel uncomfortable by the end of the night.

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By *tress relief 99Man
7 weeks ago

Foyle

Love to look but fins it more interesting and horny to look into a ladies eyes, always tells a lot more and not as rude. Still no staring lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When I was out on Saturday pretty much everyone looked at my cleavage, but given how much of it there is, that's no surprise

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By *atcherwankerMan
7 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Yes it’s ok to look. But don’t leer.

We are all human there are certain instincts that are inbuilt. But the ability to control what we do once we have had a look is possible.

The stock reply from some men “well she wouldn’t wear clothes like that if she didn’t want you to look”….without a single realisation of the bias in that statement and the assumptions being made.

When I get ready for work and I need to make myself presentable, am I doing it for the passers by on my commute, or the staff in the coffee shop? No I’m doing it for my clients.

When you pass a lady who is showing some cleavage perhaps she is on her way to a date, who she wants to look, but doesn’t want everyone on the way there and back to also be looking.

Some ladies like it most won’t, the same as wolf whistling, beeping your van horn, comments that wouldn’t be made to a man in the same situation.

If you are straight man and want to know what it feels like to be ogled, have inappropriate comments made or have your personal space invaded go to a gay club/bar. I guarantee someone will make you feel uncomfortable by the end of the night."

I once saw someone put it perfectly; "Never say anything to a woman you don't know, that you wouldn't want a man to say to you in prison"

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By *in and bare itCouple
7 weeks ago

kent

Makes me smile when the notice I’ve seen them looking

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By *i princess with subhubbyCouple
7 weeks ago

from a land far far away

I generally wear something on a daily basis that shows my cleavage!

I have no problem with people looking!

On a few occasions it has become uncomfortable for example being obviously followed around a well known supermarket but I will not let that put me of wearing what I like and on the most part enjoying the attention lol

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