FabSwingers.com forum: Men… Do your work friends or colleagues know you’re on fab?

By *aytie0 OP Woman
47 weeks ago

Seaham

If so, how did it come up, did you encourage them to join and would you consider having fun together in a group situation as in MFM ? Reason I ask is I often see a group of builders in a van or guys on construction sites, bouncers at a bar leering and always think they just have some filthy, horny conversations about what they’d do etc and I fantasise about having gangbangs with them but I wonder how much of it is all just talk and they would get stage fright if they were all together with a woman in a hotel room?

One of my biggest fantasys is to spontaneously have a group of men fuck me while they’re at work or in the bathroom toilet of s pub after they finish their shift but probably not very realistic so I am trying to organise and prearrange on here I guess lol

Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x

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By *lex.88Man
47 weeks ago

Edgware

"If so, how did it come up, did you encourage them to join and would you consider having fun together in a group situation as in MFM ? Reason I ask is I often see a group of builders in a van or guys on construction sites, bouncers at a bar leering and always think they just have some filthy, horny conversations about what they’d do etc and I fantasise about having gangbangs with them but I wonder how much of it is all just talk and they would get stage fright if they were all together with a woman in a hotel room?

Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x"

Count me if you arrange anything!

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By *aul-81Man
47 weeks ago

Whitehaven

I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol

But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
47 weeks ago

Seaham

"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol

But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on "

Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x

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By *aul-81Man
47 weeks ago

Whitehaven

"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol

But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on

Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x"

Let your thoughts run wild lolxxx

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
47 weeks ago

Seaham

"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol

But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on

Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x

Let your thoughts run wild lolxxx "

I have lol x

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By *WB85Man
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I announced mine and my partners swinging to my closest friends over a curry.

Their opinions were quite mixed.....but we love it, and that's all that matters.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
47 weeks ago

East Sussex

It has been my experience that the bravado shown by men in groups quite quickly evaporates when faced with reality

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

No.

I suspect someone wouldwould expect an invite "cos swingers are all mad for it" andnone couldnt keep it/a secret to save their life. Ive seen someone do this before and was never invited back as his partner has trust issues.

"It has been my experience that the bravado shown by men in groups quite quickly evaporates when faced with reality "

That ^

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By *andaloriansCouple
47 weeks ago

Malvern

A few, but only one is on here

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I wish they did and said something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Refuses the search area

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By *yanShireMan
47 weeks ago

Motherwell

2 workmates - it all came out on an after-work pub crawl about 6 years ago… still best pals.

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By *rispyDuckMan
47 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Some of my work friends know I’m here (men & women). Think was asking for their opinion on 1 of my photos lol

. They are kinky duckers themselves we share a lot but they not into swinging

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
47 weeks ago

Seaham

"2 workmates - it all came out on an after-work pub crawl about 6 years ago… still best pals. "

What was those response ? Any kinky meets they’ve joined in ?

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By *orthern BeardMan
47 weeks ago

Preston

Absolutely no chance! I love the fact that I have this secret life.

If they knew half of the shit I’ve got upto haha

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By *ifesforliving84Man
47 weeks ago

Telford

Not a chance I’d even let on at work if someone brought it up I’d play dumb wouldn’t want any of them seeing me like this

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By *evil Dick84Man
47 weeks ago

Newport

I'm a Head Doorman at the Club I work in, some of my colleagues know I'm on here.

I've done the doors for nearly 10yrs & when I 1st got my badge I would take women home after my shift but the novelty has definitely worn off.

However your scenario sounds hot but in reverse. I'd like a group of ladies drag me into the toilets or in the basement and have their wicked way with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Pm me Katie.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
47 weeks ago

Redditch

Mates all know. I wouldn't play with them. Nearly did in 2 different situations but a bit weird. Random d*unken night and banter went a bit far. Prob would have to be spontaneous...

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By *omKsubSMan
47 weeks ago

Newton

the lady who got me on here originally was someone i knew from work.. as was another younger lady who we both played with several times.

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By *cLovin2Man
47 weeks ago

Reading

Stage fright is an interesting issue, I felt it the first time I went to a swingers club, but like with anything in life, practice makes perfect.

I have clothes that people tell me I look like a big chunky builder.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

They do. I was chatting to a friend at work about a club visit and we were being listened in on by another guy who proceded to tell as many people as possible.

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By *an_WoodMan
47 weeks ago

Stafford

No. Met a couple of people from my town and socialised at clubs. There is a very hot couple who I watched have hot sex at the club, swinging inspiration

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
47 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Vanilla friends ,no.

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By *r_ReeveMan
47 weeks ago

sheffield

Slightly off topic but has anyone done anything with a friend in a non swinging environment?

I have a male friend and we have talked about having MMF but I don’t know if I could do it, would probably just burst out laughing

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
47 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

A couple of my mates in the army know I’m on here but I’ve never given them details.

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By *orthsouth4957Couple
47 weeks ago

swords

We love our little bubble here away from our normal life and would never tell anyone.

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Seaham

"Mates all know. I wouldn't play with them. Nearly did in 2 different situations but a bit weird. Random d*unken night and banter went a bit far. Prob would have to be spontaneous..."

Shame give it a try sometime you never know

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By *C79Man
35 weeks ago

Caterham

I told a couple of people from work at the end of a very long after work drinking session. I don't think they were surprised but there was definitely no way they'd be into it. I think it has been said here that most guys wouldn't be confident enough to try.

PS, OP, you're a bit of a stunner, aren't you

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By *WB85Man
35 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I announced being a swinger to my friends over a curry.

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By *hunky GentMan
35 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I work for myself, but could fuck you multiple times.

If that counts?

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By *erryGoldMan
35 weeks ago

Redditch

"Mates all know. I wouldn't play with them. Nearly did in 2 different situations but a bit weird. Random d*unken night and banter went a bit far. Prob would have to be spontaneous...

Shame give it a try sometime you never know "

God I'd love to be part of a group using you. Or even just me lots of times lol

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Seaham

Told one of mine last week when I was d*unk hope she forgot cause she’s a gobshite

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
27 weeks ago

Greater London

I guy I used to work for has been prosecuted for having porn on his computer (these were the only details).

It's probably not a great idea to put yourselve to individuals who know your details.

Great hair btw OP, although I like blondes.

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By *omeAlone656Man
27 weeks ago

scotland

I have two work colleagues on here too. We travel for work so that's how I found out

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I'm not sure they need to be on here to take part in that fantasy. In my experience, and having discussed this scenario with mates previously, I'd say it shouldn't be too difficult to find a few guys willing to indulge you.

Some would probably bottle it but I certainly wouldn't say no if a sexy woman offered herself to my mates and I.

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By *heshladMan
27 weeks ago

cheshire

I found a woman on here that used to work for me. Needless to say fun has been had

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By *ty31Man
27 weeks ago

NW London

Hell No

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By *inderellamanMan
27 weeks ago

London

Im in the army, hundreds on us on here. Its great when in andover or colchester esp when you and your mate manages to share a female, sometimes turns into a gangbang like the infamous martha

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
27 weeks ago

here and there

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By *udandBryanCouple
27 weeks ago

Boston

Absolutely - occasionally one or two will accompany us to a club to see what it's really like

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By *asterMeliodasMan
27 weeks ago

Newmill

I'm self-employed and work from home. :P I mean, my wife's on here and we work together on her business, so technically yes? XD

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By *herrybakewellCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

My Hubby announced it to his closest friends over a curry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"My Hubby announced it to his closest friends over a curry lol "

How did that go down?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
27 weeks ago

Stourbridge

No one knows

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By *herrybakewellCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"My Hubby announced it to his closest friends over a curry lol

How did that go down?"

They were shocked....but intrigued.

He's not the kind of person who worries what others may think.

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By *zlakMan
27 weeks ago

Norwich

I have a few close friends that know I'm on here and also know I'm bi. Male and female some I told after a few beers on I had a 3 sum with.

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By *ameraman007Man
27 weeks ago

stafford but holidaying in PDC

I once went to a club and bumped in to our company secretary and her husband

Ide been watching and playing a while

She had a mascarade on its was only after when at the bar it all was revealed

Awkward

She left the company a few month later

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By *inkyRebelMan
27 weeks ago

Swindon

I've had people on here say they know me at work but have no pic and won't say who they are.. Chickens.

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
15 weeks ago

Seaham

Tell your work friends they might join in and help you fuck me

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By *acDreamyMan
15 weeks ago

Wirral

My colleagues do not know.

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By *insBadMan
15 weeks ago

& around

I prefer not to mix business and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Fuck no. If people knew I was on this I couldn't do my job lol

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By *ccasionalsinnersCouple
15 weeks ago

preston / blackurn

We told some friends over drinks and ended up in bed with them that night.

Nobody at work had a clue though……

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By *yanShireMan
15 weeks ago

Motherwell

"2 workmates - it all came out on an after-work pub crawl about 6 years ago… still best pals.

What was those response ? Any kinky meets they’ve joined in ?"

Aye they were very intrigued to learn what’s out there in the fab world!

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By *orkshirehotwifeWoman
15 weeks ago

near

My husband and a few of his friends are on here x

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By *orphia2003Woman
15 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

A few do. Not really anyone's business, but my work- husband's know, because we chat about all sorts.

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Seaham

Always thought men would have banter with their work friends about it especially tradesmen

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Wouldn't tell my mates im on here

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By *orfnsarfCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke

"A few do. Not really anyone's business, but my work- husband's know, because we chat about all sorts."

Something similar. I haven’t told anyone at work. Men gossip and judge. But I have told my work wife. As above, we talk about most things, although she is very vanilla

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By *owbiguyMan
6 weeks ago

Lowestoft

i have friends on here and work mates even my brother quite open taking about stuff in our family so i told him about FAB.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
6 weeks ago

falkirk

I had a cpl of workmates who openly spoke about it.

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By *orkshireknockersCouple
6 weeks ago

york

As a bus driver i reckon most of them sre on here somewhere.

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By *orkshireknockersCouple
6 weeks ago

york

As a bus driver i reckon most of them are on here somewhere.

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By *un couple 2Couple
6 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

Yes we think so

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By *egoMan
6 weeks ago

Preston

Mine do, i’ve invited a couple to club nights.

Im just an open book that helps people have adventures and learn about themselves.

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By *dam21122024Man
6 weeks ago

southall

No,and i dont think they know anything about fab..

+there is one married lady in the office she always moaning.i hope one day i could have her for a bit

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By *iddle ManMan
6 weeks ago

Walsall

No, work colleagues are way to prim and proper, but a few friends do, and also know of some of my other more fet activities and some of the past content I have done.

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By *awz06Man
6 weeks ago

harrow

Not mine, but there’s a few I wish that did!

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By *atthewandjane.1984Couple
6 weeks ago

northampton

yes few of my mates have fucked jane

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
6 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Close friends know we’re in the lifestyle, wouldn’t waste my time trying to explain things to people I work with.

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By *luns1Man
6 weeks ago

Preston

Everyone at my last place knew what that I was a swinger, and thankfully none wanted to join. My boss knows at this job, but helps expressed no interest.

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
5 weeks ago

south shops

Talked years ago to work guys .

But as banta went it was always the but of jokes after ..

Which was ok as gave as good as took .

But was a bit too much sometimes as they all would ask me individually if could join in with a FB I had then .

I said ok .

But they never wanted any of the others there .

So never got to do the full GB I wanted

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
5 weeks ago

leeds

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
5 weeks ago

leeds

No I wouldn't ever tell my work mates

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
5 weeks ago

Tamworth

Workmates no, but we have friends who we think have an idea by some of the comments they make. Always waiting for them to directly ask.

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By *TWboyMan
5 weeks ago

Norwich

I went to a non-swinger)party at a workmates house, his wife spoke to me most of the night - she seemed nice enough. Afterwards (the next week) he said to me that she really liked me and then confessed they were ‘in the lifestyle’ and he was happy to let her ‘spend some time with me’ - our first meet as a 3 was at a hotel where she and I fucked and he just watched and took pictures, after that we met alone at their house ( he went to work) - we (she and I) met another 3 times over the next couple of months with his knowledge but I’ve not seen her since……. She also introduced me to a few other friends of theirs who were ‘in the lifestyle’ who also met me for fun but apparently my workmates relationship has ‘gone to hell in a handcart’ - I’ve not seen him recently and she is with someone else now.

I’ve not (knowingly) met any other workmates on FAB although odd are that there are some out there…….

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By *entleman HammerMan
4 weeks ago

dublin

Yes, but we never told each other. Even if I tried to touch the topic

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Ive Never seen anyone i know or work with here, which i find strange as some people I know are into all sorts. Kind of nice though having your own little secret part of you nobody knows about

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By *amon.dMan
4 weeks ago

antrim

I wish some of mine were on 😈

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By *oelMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Yes some people in the office in a different more liberal country know

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By *ee1967Man
4 weeks ago

watford

My mates do .. and my sis

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My best mates do.

A couple if work colleagues know I chat on an adults only forum, but not the actual site name.

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By *xcalibur77Man
4 weeks ago

Adlington chorley

3 lads at work are on here from the factory floor and a M/F couple from the offices are also on here

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By *obin444Man
4 weeks ago

Windsor

Absolutely not.

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By *orthernMan1991Man
4 weeks ago

Seaburn

Two of my work colleagues know about my profile

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By *oshy-JoshMan
4 weeks ago

Surrey

Definitely Not!

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By *lthomasMan
4 weeks ago

Wolves

Only one client knows, they are swingers themselves & it came up in conversation after I picked up on a couple of things he said

It was all very cautious to start with, after a couple of hours of business chat and a little bit of other stuff it was apparent we were both into the same things.

Once he Stafford left, we were able to talk quite openly and ended up showing each other photographs of our ladies.

I also went round there for dinner the next time I was up in that area….

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By *teve261970Man
4 weeks ago

Gateshead

"It has been my experience that the bravado shown by men in groups quite quickly evaporates when faced with reality "

Quite right, I'm the quiet one in our group lol, they're all mouth in trousers, me & the lads went to Benidorm & Amsterdam, they chatted & flirted but, when a lass & her Friend offered a couple of the lads back they bottled it. This reason, that reason & of course alcohol.

They have no idea what I do, but they can't hold water so my discretion would be shot too.

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By *eguyukMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *ungfunfellaMan
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

A few of my work colleagues know I’m on fab and that’s cos they are on here too was actually a work mate who told me about here and it’s pretty cool we have seen each others profiles and pics

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By *ickawitchCouple
4 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

All of our work colleagues are fully aware. I would definitely play with any of the lasses wifey works with and there are a few guys I work with whom she would like to try . However as most of the guys and girls in my gym are also fully aware. We’d both prefer to pick from them , given the choice haha

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

Hell no. I work with only two other people and there's no way they wouldn't be judgemental.

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By *ein-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Cowes

Only my best friend who happens to be my work collegue, (who also often becomes a fwb), knows. Nobody else will ever know as its a part of my life which will remain private. Work and social life dictates my privacy or I probably wouldn't care

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
4 weeks ago

Rotherham

No they don't , luckily they would never guess they don't know I have been in two Cuckold relationships and in chastity either

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
4 weeks ago

M20

When I first got in to this scene I met a great couple who were totally out.

Neighbours, friends, children, extended family and employees. They all knew. It was exciting knowing that their neighbours were in on it every time I pulled on to the drive.

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By *obBones63Man
4 weeks ago

Darlington

I've already posted this on another chat.

I once recognised someone from work in my earlier days on fab, I just wrote my username on a piece of paper, and gave it to her at work once I could catch her by herself, explained I'd seen their profile, and just said you might want to block me, she was a bit shocked, but apparently her husband just laughed about it. Lol

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By *teph102Woman
4 weeks ago

Derry

Lady here, some of my friends know I’m on here, some of my work colleagues also know. Came across my old boss on here to

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By *lltheboostCouple
1 week ago

Shefford

One does, but only because I know she’s on here as well lol

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By *big9Man
1 week ago

shire

I had a colleague that recognised me because of one of my tattoos.

We did have some fun together for a while off the back of it. She's no longer on here though. A while after I left that job, she suddenly went quiet and disappeared off social media.

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By *eglegMan
1 week ago

Coventry

Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x"

Yep two for sure know, And if I'm ho est I think the other lady suspects or has been told. I'm quite open about it and polly aspects of my life. We're a very small team only 4 of us in office.

One we have a good relationship, kinda just chat about everything including our sex life's.

The other, a mutual "friend" found me on a different site and told her.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
1 week ago

Coventry

Genrally no (some may do). It's not a closely guarded secret, we're not ashamed of it. However neither is it something we genuinely wish to share with the people from work. On the whole the people we work with are just people we work with. So why share that and invite hassle and gossip for stuff that is non of their business.

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By *emptme1993Man
1 week ago

manchester

Nope and I’d prefer to keep it this way

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