FabSwingers.com forum: Is cuckolding disgusting?

By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Each to there own of course!

But not for us at all. Hotwife/Stag is much more our thing. We just don’t get the humiliation side of cuckolding, cock cages etc. But again, it’s what ever turns you on that counts!

J&M xxx

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love it x

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Could never be disrespectful of people - insulting people just wouldn’t be my thing

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Not bothered about what vanilla or other people think really.

Some kinks aren’t for everyone, if it’s not for us we say as soon as we start chatting to someone.

Definitely not into kink shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a truer word

I enjoy it it’s fun

Mark

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Not bothered about what vanilla or other people think really.

Some kinks aren’t for everyone, if it’s not for us we say as soon as we start chatting to someone.

Definitely not into kink shaming "

Well said x

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

As, swingers, we do not find it disgusting not depraved. It's simply another flavour in the swinging ice cream parlour, like BDSM, Dom/Sub, Gangs, hotwifeing etc. To each their own.

For vanilla people... many would not understand any kind of swinging at all, so hard to say what they think.

For us in particular, we find certain specific cuckolding dynamics puzzling. We do not understand those couples that love the cuckold to be humiliated, in the same way we don't get Dom/Sub that lives pain and humiliation. So, we don't get it but perfectly ok with couples doing it if so they like.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Anything but . I don’t think the vanilla people should even be given a thought if it’s what you like why not enjoy it

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Of course it is. Which is why it’s so good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but only if you do it right.

(Sorry, variation on an old Woody Allen joke).

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

You do you!! We would be considered disgusting and depraved to 'the many' but their the one's eating up shite like 50 shades and wishing they had the guts to try.. Have fun! Or in his case enjoy watching?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like it's becoming the latest trend. I know I get asked all the time if I am cuck because wife plays away.

I am not, just like her to be a slut, but each to their own and if it makes you happy then rock on.

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

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Cuck

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There will be people who think it is and people who don't, most in here won't think anything of it because we are in an open and somewhat kink shaming free zone.

People who have zero idea about swinging and different dynamics some will have a narrow minded approach.

Mrs

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

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Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

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Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?"

Yes ask anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely think it’s odd

It’s not something I’m into

And I often question the man’s true feelings about it

But it’s not disgusting. Is 2 consenting adults enjoying themselves

No shame or judgement

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Vanilla is not only favour for very good reason

We all like different things want try different things nothing makes you a freak just more exciting than vanilla only life be boring with only one flavour in life

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By *leasingmyhubsCouple
over a year ago

Holbeach

At the end of the day

Thank god we're all different

We all have our own likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live your life

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

The world seems very full now of people judging but not wanting their choices judged

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

No certainly not, the opposite, it's absolutely fantastic.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

No, definitely not, however, there are many different levels and interpretations of where the line is crossed from HW to Cuckold.

For example, in our relationship, female basically has complete sexual autonomy, if she wants to fuck someone she will. It's almost never a question or discussion, just a statement that it's happening. However, I as the male am rarely involved, and never in a traditional cuckold humiliation way.

When you get to the extremes of things like being "pussy free" or where the guy is questionably willing, then as with any kink or lifestyle choice it's easy to be judged.

I think society often struggles to understand that men exist who aren't dominant, jealous testosterone filled creatures, so there's an assumption that men in a cuckold relationship can't possibly be happy.

As long as your relationship is your priority and you are both content in life then that's the basis of a positive relationship and is a lot more positive than most couples, including probably the ones who judge you.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

No I always enjoy being the 3 rd wheel always fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not for us but (unless someone wants to cuck their wife to us ) It is very much each to their own, not here to judge others

But seriously I’d say the general population would be horrified and think we are all freaks

Their loss

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

It is not disgusting or depraved, Its Kinky and taboo.

As you can see for yourself, it is more common then one thinks.

Yes, most vanilla people do think you're freaks but that is because they have been conditioned to think so. but in reality, cuckolding is just consenting adults doing what they want.

I hope this has confirmed what you already knew

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I really like the idea…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#1 searched for porn = cuckold.

Says it all we think

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

stirling

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck "

We'd love to chat to you but we're blocked

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

That’s what I love about this lifestyle we are all different and into different things

.It’s definitely not something we are into but I do enjoy reading and learning about other peoples dynamics it’s interesting..

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"#1 searched for porn = cuckold.

Says it all we think "

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

Yes ask anything "

Thanks. We get cuckolding in general but we do not understand why some couples love the dynamic of the cuckold to be humiliated. We can't find in our hearts to humiliate to the person we love, and would feel so down if either was receiving the humiliation. So totally not judging it, just trying to understand and we never seem to get an answer from the couples into cuckolding.

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By *ancpair2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Def not disgusting lol

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

Yes ask anything

I totally understand your confusion, but it's just another take on kink. It's like asking how someone can enjoy anything which someone else doesn't enjoy.

How can you enjoy anal when it's painful to others?

Why do you like being whipped?

Why do you enjoy watching your partner fuck someone else, why doesn't that make you jealous, you must not love them if it doesn't make you jealous.

I can only speak about myself, but humiliation in general is a turn on, lack of control is a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only disgusting if you're not into it

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

It developed naturally for us , quite quickly, out of swinging. It’s not much like 99% of the porn which uses it as a theme. But I’d suits us and I think , quite a lot of couples.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

Yes ask anything

Just wondering how the humiliation strengthens the relationship in the couple, rather than eroding it? In real cuckolding (not in roleplay cuckold) the things said and done to humiliate must be real I would imagine for the dynamic to work, right? Not just pretend humiliation. How do couples cope with that emotionally?"
Starting off I wondered how this dynamic worked too. But frim meeting couples, and in particular one couple who enjoyed this dynamic, I could see it was something the cuck really enjoyed and wanted. When I could see it from that viewpoint, it helped me understand better, not fully, how it worked.

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By *ild4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

city

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i really dont care what people think to be honest ... its a split scene from role play (90%) to real lifestyle (10%) with many struggling to understand what it even means and alot who think they are cuckold but clearly are not ...

works very well for me and hubs no shortage of men wanting to be the third ..

ps disclaimer just my opinion and what ever and however you play as long as its fun theres no wrong is there

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By *ild4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

city

"You do you!! We would be considered disgusting and depraved to 'the many' but their the one's eating up shite like 50 shades and wishing they had the guts to try.. Have fun! Or in his case enjoy watching?!?

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eating up shite now thats disgusting

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

eating up shite now thats disgusting

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By *hil153Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

More common than you think ..and all good fun ..

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

No its not disgusting. Your not hurting anyone and it's for your own enjoyment. You're both grown adults capable of making decisions. From my experience it is very common, more common than you think. People who you'd never suspected are into cuckolding. You live your life how you want too ! We only live once so you better enjoy it while you can !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though as a Cuck Inna Cuckold relationship I thought I'd have a little say

Not all Cuckold couples are into humiliation, it does not mean they are not a real cuckold couple.

For me being caged and having no say in who or when my wife sleeps with others, is about the extent of my humiliation oh and the odd video when they are having a bit of a giggle at my expense.

I am a Cuckold in the traditional scene, my wife just can't be sexually faithful to me, as I am to her. That's fine I knew that when I met her and I love it.

The cage is just an extra kink we have, we don't even consider this to be a requirement. However we like the denial aspect and it reaffirms my lack of control over when I make love to my wife, that's her decision.

Mr H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah wait fuck-licking and oral on my wife afterwards, could be seen as humiliation I guess, but I really enjoy it...I don't know....it's all good lol

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

"Though as a Cuck Inna Cuckold relationship I thought I'd have a little say

Not all Cuckold couples are into humiliation, it does not mean they are not a real cuckold couple.

For me being caged and having no say in who or when my wife sleeps with others, is about the extent of my humiliation oh and the odd video when they are having a bit of a giggle at my expense.

I am a Cuckold in the traditional scene, my wife just can't be sexually faithful to me, as I am to her. That's fine I knew that when I met her and I love it.

Mr H"
. Wow wow what a lucky guy. Thank you for sharing your views on this subject and anyone else that has shared their views. I’m so envious of all of you.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

Yes ask anything

I totally understand your confusion, but it's just another take on kink. It's like asking how someone can enjoy anything which someone else doesn't enjoy.

How can you enjoy anal when it's painful to others?

Why do you like being whipped?

Why do you enjoy watching your partner fuck someone else, why doesn't that make you jealous, you must not love them if it doesn't make you jealous.

I can only speak about myself, but humiliation in general is a turn on, lack of control is a turn on.

Thanks, particularly for the last sentence (...is a turn on, lack of control is a turn on), that is the kind of response that helps us to understand and if you could expand more it would help us to understand better.

We are not "confused", simply asking for hints about why people find pleasure in something that fewer people find pleasurable compared to say, for example, kissing, or shagging.

So it is not a question about why you like something that we don´t. You may like haggis but I don´t. The question is ultimately not why we do not like it but why you like it? If one cuckolding couple were to ask you or other cuckolding couple "Why do you like it?" I would imagine you would not say "you could not possibly understand". Instead, you would say perhaps "because it is a turn on, the lack of control is a turn on..." and then they might explain to you why they like it.

We find it difficult to understand because pleasure is acceptable in society, but pain, humiliation and abuse it is not. So here we are not comparing one pleasure (e.g. wanking) with another (e.g. shagging) but why a form of consensual pain/abuse/humiliation is a source of pleasure for some people. So, does it all simply boil down to cuckolding pleasure being another form of domination/submission? The pleasure from controlling by the wife and bull and the lack of control experienced by the cuck? If that is the essence of it, then that we can understand, like we can understand the enjoyment for others of a dom/sub relation. Is that ultimately all? Control and being controlled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothered about what vanilla or other people think really.

Some kinks aren’t for everyone, if it’s not for us we say as soon as we start chatting to someone.

Definitely not into kink shaming "

Perfect

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Though as a Cuck Inna Cuckold relationship I thought I'd have a little say

Not all Cuckold couples are into humiliation, it does not mean they are not a real cuckold couple.

For me being caged and having no say in who or when my wife sleeps with others, is about the extent of my humiliation oh and the odd video when they are having a bit of a giggle at my expense.

I am a Cuckold in the traditional scene, my wife just can't be sexually faithful to me, as I am to her. That's fine I knew that when I met her and I love it.

Mr H"

Thank you, this also makes easier to understand, how a lack of control and denial of pleasure and control for the wife is what gives you two the enjoyment of your relationship

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

wearing a cock cage is a sexual kink of its own its not cuckold spectific

eating a cream pie is a sexual act again not cuckold spectific

cuckold and cuckolding is something that happens between a couple in a relationship ie man n wife / boyfriend girl friend its about a faithful man (cuck) and a female partner who has several sexual partners the rest can be what ever you wish it to be thats the very basics of cuckolding and from that it goes mild to full on humiliation

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

Omg Absolutely loving this so turned on right now

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Not really what's disgusting about it

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By *oconaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Texas

Hello! Hubby here. Just wanted to plug in our perspective, even though we’re only a year or so in. Frankly, it was and still is a bit “odd” to us both.

The illogical and, at once, gratuitous imbalance of power sourced on dialogue most foul, clearing the path for deeds to match.

For us, the cuckold sexual dynamic was like lightning…biting through the bready ether…lilting on our tongues with each twisted sentiment we spoke… traveling through the conduit of our tainted bodies… our hedonistic proclivities penned deeply into the vanilla of our once, smart sheets.

In terms of eroticism and intimacy, we have found cuckolding pairs nicely with humiliation. We still don’t fully understand it, but we find this mystique bit liberating and pleasurable, oddly. Our conversations surrounding cuckolding are flirty, witty, and arousing…

We are not fully invested or a full time cuckold couple, but rather utilize it when the situation agrees with opportunity. We tend to fiddle the ratio of theme, dynamic, kink, physically throughout the term of any given sexual expedition we might find ourselves embarked on…going with the flow and feel is more our style…

Do we find it disgusting? Well, that’s part of the appeal…general decorum among those of our ilk would dictate that we do not and would not, pass judgement or pejorative criticism on other souls along their sexual pilgrimage…but secretly, we might only if the voice of humiliation proved too sumptuous to silence…

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By *edandwhiteroseCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We love the idea of it and N is coming round to the idea of cucking me. I absolutely love other men wanking to her and it is even better to see another mans cock inside her. Hopefully i will be fully cucked at some point and I can’t wait.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

No its great fun to be involved ..

Cant say swingers would find it disgusting no more than civilians would find swingers disgusting surely ..

We are all deviant by nature on here in a fashion so should all be adult enough to accept people have different tastes /likes and not shame them for it

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Please see our profile it’s a lifestyle

Ask anything

Cuck

Does the offer to ask anything extend to others?

Yes ask anything

I totally understand your confusion, but it's just another take on kink. It's like asking how someone can enjoy anything which someone else doesn't enjoy.

How can you enjoy anal when it's painful to others?

Why do you like being whipped?

Why do you enjoy watching your partner fuck someone else, why doesn't that make you jealous, you must not love them if it doesn't make you jealous.

I can only speak about myself, but humiliation in general is a turn on, lack of control is a turn on.

We are not "confused", simply asking for hints about why people find pleasure in something that fewer people find pleasurable compared to say, for example, kissing, or shagging.

For me it's definitely the sub/dom element.

There's also a practical reason in that I simply wouldn't be able to give her l the sexual satisfaction she needs.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

No I wouldn't say it is... I like it... But Some people may find it odd... Who cares what you get up to in the privacy of your bedroom

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

Aw man op, don't worry about what others think about what you do (so long as it's legal of course!)

Your thing may not be my thing but negative, nasty or judgemental people are a waste of air, you do you and remember, what other people think of you is none of your business, live your best life and love every part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, Please on't worry about it

Different people like different things and as long as you both enjoy is all that matters.

Life is too short to worry

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By *wguy100Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"Aw man op, don't worry about what others think about what you do (so long as it's legal of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Absolutely not. We are actively seeking another couple to explore this with further

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By *lacklondonguy2Man
over a year ago

Tottenham, London

It’s very erotic and naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's hot but don't do it ourselves. Stag & vixen is a bit more appealing. Depends what level of cuckhold you go down to.

Never understood why you'd want some dude degrade you or even your partner if we're talking about this level of cucking.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Couples choice x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Think it's hot but don't do it ourselves. Stag & vixen is a bit more appealing. Depends what level of cuckhold you go down to.

Never understood why you'd want some dude degrade you or even your partner if we're talking about this level of cucking.

Because that’s what turns them on. What’s to understand? If it flicks your switch it does, and if it doesn’t…well, it doesn’t!

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we are more vixen / stag in the hotwife space xx Anne

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By *arriorstrongMan
over a year ago

Garstang

It's weird, the first time I realised by girlfriend was fucking someone else, I had been having a wank, and I came instantaneously

2nd time I read about her sucking someone else's cock, came in seconds.

No idea what is going on, but it's fucking hot

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

The whole concept applies to Hotwifing too.

The compersion of seeing your wife/partner enjoying sex with another man

Is it a natural state?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're getting confused... it's fun and deliciously naughty

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It's not disgusting to us, but I suspect unknowing vanilla monos might find the whole thing a tad confusing!

It's definitely a growing interest though and more and more people seem intrigued by it.

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By *arriorstrongMan
over a year ago

Garstang

"The whole concept applies to Hotwifing too.

The compersion of seeing your wife/partner enjoying sex with another man

Is it a natural state?"

I think there's something very deep rooted and primal about it.

I don't think I'd be a cuck but would swap and hot wife. Just need a number 2 to try the lifestyle with.

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"It's not disgusting to us, but I suspect unknowing vanilla monos might find the whole thing a tad confusing!

It's definitely a growing interest though and more and more people seem intrigued by it."

Vanilla Monos x lol

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Each to there own of course!

But not for us at all. Hotwife/Stag is much more our thing. We just don’t get the humiliation side of cuckolding, cock cages etc. But again, it’s what ever turns you on that counts!

J&M xxx"

Our thoughts exactly, not for us but each to their own, what ever turns people on is is up to them not anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever turns you on and makes you happy is all that matters, there's always someone who has something to say, but honestly if it keeps you guys happy Fook what others think, we all have fantasies and fetishes we hope to participate in, so if it's making you happy bloody well do it.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Who cares??

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I'm sure if our family, friends and neighbours knew what got us off they might have raised eyebrows

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Our greatest fear would be that x

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

No not all each to their own X

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Like many on this site, we don't want to be found out by family/friends, neighborus etc.

Is cuk/ing "disgusting"? Look at it like this, some people we know its "disgusting" becuse someone drink, smokes, sex before marraige, not marrying from our culture/etc/etc.

Conclusion, if you are happy and it is not against the law - keep on trucking or is that keep on fucking

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

As many people have said , it's not for us, but don't look down on people who enjoy it.

We just can't get onboard with any kind of humiliation really. It just doesn't sit well with us, but each to their own and we won't judge

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

It’s a turn on

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

People are into different things. As long as all parties involved are happy then it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. It’s not their business. You what works for you.

If you’re looking for vanilla opinions I think you’re looking in the wrong place though

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By *inkyAddamsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

No it’s rather hot watching a guy playing with your wife… and then joining in and fulfilling her immensely

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By *t2022Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I honestly think in a spectrum from Hotwife to Cuckold there is another entity in the middle that crosses slightly into or across both the aforementioned.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Not at all! To each their own. It's not for us, but we wouldn't judge those who enjoy it.

D x

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Not at all. We have found it remarkable that these adventures with others has added to what we feel was already quite a special relationship. Threesomes with both men and women have elevated our passion for each other to a different level. We feel enriched by these experiences and completely content. And as we have grown older, we feel ever youthful.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I was going to write something similar but this is far more eloquent than what I had in mind.

If it adds to your relationship and you’re not hurting anyone then go for it. There’s a spectrum of ‘kink’ for all and hey, you only live once. If you like it go for it. Not for anyone else to criticise or comment

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Who cares what vanilla people think! Life is for living - enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not hurting anyone who cares x

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL

Never judge anyone, it can be amazing to be part of a cuck couple

Love the interaction and if other think it is disgusting it says more about them then anything else

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By *vyfoxx888Woman
over a year ago

Bath

It's not disgusting, you're not a freak, just a sexually evolved human who is lucky to explore that side of them

I'd prefer settling down with a cuck any day, ain't no freak, just kink

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By *ohncukMan
over a year ago

london

I think your both very lucky, each to there own, it’s a swingers site,

Wish I was a cuck to hot wife

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Each to their own. Not our thing but if that is what you like then enjoy.

In vanilla land the norms think everything we do in the swinging world is disgusting,however, I think that is born of jealousy for not being brave enough to step out of their comfort zone.

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By *isubandyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I loved being a cuckold to my, now ex wife.

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By *ornyboy777Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Certainly not freaks I think a lot more people would be the same if they just had the balls to admit it

I love the thought

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Absolutely not!!!!

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

My wife best friend was totally against the thought of it but we convinced her and when I fucked her while my wife was in the shower she loved it especially when my wife walked in the bedroom and seen her led on the bed with come dripping out of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s one of the best feelings ever undressing a married lady while their husband watches Fucking their wife until you shoot your load into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not. Everyone to their own provided it doesn’t hurt anyone x

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I was told by someone on here yesterday that I should remove clubs from my interests just because I didn't want to go his organised event which had a bunch of rules attached...I'm more of a go with the flow person. Just because someone doesn't like the way I do things doesn't make it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is very passionate sex, cumin inside another man’s wife while he watches you makes you feel so good

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Lots of interpretations of cuckolding mentioned in this thread and to be honest all of them work for the different couples concerned.

We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and I think something else mentioned it in this thread that their wife couldn’t be sexually faithful to them like they could be to their wife and that’s pretty much our scenario too.

Not really into humiliation and messages from guys on here who think it’s great to start with the words like ‘how you doing cuck’ normally go straight to the bottom of the pile !

Is cuckolding more popular now ? - I’m sure it’s more ‘trendy’ due to the rise of the internet, but I’m sure that there has always been guys like myself over the years with attractive wives that are happy to be cuckolded by them rather than not have the wives in the first place.

At the end of the day, sex is just an act where as being in a loving, caring relationship is more than that and I think that’s the thing that non-cuckold couples probably struggle to deal with and I can understand that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told by someone on here yesterday that I should remove clubs from my interests just because I didn't want to go his organised event which had a bunch of rules attached...I'm more of a go with the flow person. Just because someone doesn't like the way I do things doesn't make it wrong."

Aww poor little man with his hurt feelings. It's quite shocking how many think that if a box is ticked you will DEFINITELY do that thing, to their rules, with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Some 'vanilla people' will think it's disgusting and depraved. They will look down on you the same way you are looking down on them using that term.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Aww poor little man with his hurt feelings. It's quite shocking how many think that if a box is ticked you will DEFINITELY do that thing, to their rules, with them.

Ohhhh they aren't compulsory then?

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

This was something I chatted with good friends when I started clubbing more regularly.

I asked a couple why the wife likes all the attention and why hubby is just happy to spectate whilst a new friend does all the hard work.

Their explanation was interesting, detailing their journey from vanilla, to soft couples fun leading to full and latterly to a cuckold type arrangement.

Wife basically said she whilst she liked the soft touch of a lady, she basically prefers cock, and lots of it. Hubby preferred to reclaim his worn out wife and there in started their journey.

From my own experiences, I'd say it's very very popular in the LS circles. Perhaps folks don't want to advertise this underlying interest because of the taboo aspects etc

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By *alfrollerMan
over a year ago

West London / Scotland

Some guys do seem to assume that all couples are into it and message accordingly which doesn't help.

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

I would love to do it

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

manchester

It’s fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are varying degrees of cuckolding, but none should be viewed as disgusting. If its not for you, it's not for you and that should be the end of it.

We've found that the humiliation of the Cuck is an exciting aspect to the play, however not essential. Not everytime you have sex with your partner, do you do exactly the same position and actions - so cuckolding, hotwifing etc is no different.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

It’s definitely not disgusting, but I think people in Vanilla lifestyle would definitely think it’s “very strange & weird”. Few times I’ve chat with close vanilla mates about my exploits they are gobsmacked & can clearly see on their faces they struggling to understand how’s anyone would be into this lifestyle lol.

But I’ve stopped trying to explain the dynamics now I just say ‘it’s a lifestyle & it’s not for everyone’. Just like golf the people who love it, absolutely love it. People who don’t, don’t. Each have their own valid reasons for loving it or hating it

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

No it's great

Fucking a hot wife while the husband is at work

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By *igh PinkCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It works for us ,many reasons why cuckolding works xxxx

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Variety is the spice of life.. as long as everything is consensual and we’re all adults who cares what others think.. we all have our preferences, tastes and peccadilloes don’t we .. I’m grateful that other people especially couples like the same things as me

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

cuckold meets involve 3 two men and one sexy wife , they all go into this sexual relationship with eyes wide open, so why would it be called disgusting surly its a joyous union of three open minds exploring all of there sexual urges and needs , ok some cuckold relationships involve the husband licking and sucking the others guys cock and then cleaning hos cock once hes fucked the wife filling her sometimes with his thick hot semen , and then the husband cuckold goes down on his wife and precedes to lick her clean of the other guys huge deposit, but still this is not disgusting, why is it he is only licking semen up lots of other do this , if anything you never see problems in a cuckold relationship most of the cuckolds i have met are very peace loving and only want the best for there wives, no cuckold get a big thumbs up , as there honest with there feelings dont you think

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By *itty StoneWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Vanilla peops are freaks honey, and don’t ever forget that xxxxxxx

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By *itty StoneWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

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By *acktothefutureMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Not here to judge, Love Fucking Hotwifes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To each his own Never tried cuckolding but would like to try it

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Personaly I feel thatvit's down to people to decide their own kinks and its not up to anyone else to moralise on legal, consensual behaviour in others.

Secondly the question doesn't really make sense, because cuckolding takes many forms and varies significantly from one relationship to another. Each example would need to be analysed individually and judged on it's own merits.

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Its sexy in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different so if it feels good to you guys then carry on enjoying it x

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Not at all! All forms of cuckolding are extremely hot in my opinion!

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By *ittycock400Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Most people would struggle with the humiliation part of cuckolding. A lot of people would struggle with the jealousy. None of that makes it disgusting though.

The fact that your relationship is strong enough to do it and last is evidence of how much you love and trust each other.

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

The premise of cuckolding would shock most vanilla couples though, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The premise of cuckolding would shock most vanilla couples though, surely?"

Almost definitely. You've only got to see some of the reactions on fab to see how it shocks and baffles them.

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By *hong80321967Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Personal choice but sounds exciting and sexy to me

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

If you both enjoy it then why worry about what other people think, live the life you love and live the life you live

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Whatever you all enjoy then nothings wrong or disgusting with it.

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By *ash0000Man
over a year ago

Southwest

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

In the vanilla world many relationships fail due to unfaithfulness, "vanillas" are in no position to judge anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is amazing. Love that feeling of the husband watching you Fuck his wife.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Not at all. Each to their own really.. I don't see how anyone can shame something. If it's not your thing, move along really. I don't think I've been in a situation like that but have been intrigued to try

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

If it’s what you want to do then do it. One persons disgust is an another’s kinky fun.

It’s no ones business but your own. If it’s legal and all parties are willing then let the fun continue.

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not bothered about what vanilla or other people think really.

Some kinks aren’t for everyone, if it’s not for us we say as soon as we start chatting to someone.

Definitely not into kink shaming "

Absolutely spot on. I love a lady's feet....that's not for everyone,but I couldn't care less what other people think about it

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

No its not would love to try it we all have a kinky side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own but not for us.

does annoy us that we get asked about this stating not our thing on our profile.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

I guess Some do, some don’t and some couldn’t care less as long as it doesn’t involve them

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By *kmegoodWoman
over a year ago

bradford/ halifax

Can you explain the difference for a newbie? Is cuckolding always about humiliation?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Can you explain the difference for a newbie? Is cuckolding always about humiliation?"

That massively depends on your definition of what is humiliating. For example, my gf will tell me she's going to find a guy to fuck at home while I'm out for beers with my mates. I find it hot that she has that level of control and freedom. Some would find it very humiliating. I guess it is, but I get off on that, so it is not a clear as "I need to be humiliated" because I don't view that as a negative, in this context so it doesn't make me feel humiliated.

I guess there's a nuanced difference between her doing something humiliating and me feeling humiliated.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Let’s hope so or it wouldn’t be so exciting

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"The premise of cuckolding would shock most vanilla couples though, surely?"
I was chatted up by a girl in a pub recently. She asked what I’m into, so I told her, she was shocked

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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago

Durham

To me it’s never about the humiliation of anyone and more about the pleasure and connection we generate.

If they want to invite someone into the equation, then it’s on their choice and I will go along for the ride

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By *otty BikerMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Clue is in the handle, so it's a defo no from me lol

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Kink shaming should be illegal

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Kink shaming should be illegal "

Spot on! As long as those involved are happy and it’s adding something then go for it. You only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to help a couple out with this

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Doesn't matter what people, consenting adults having fun is nobody's business but theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The premise of cuckolding would shock most vanilla couples though, surely?"

Are you wanting to shock people?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Can you explain the difference for a newbie? Is cuckolding always about humiliation?"

No it’s not and should never be !

It really does depend on the couples dynamic, some cucks love to be humiliated by their wife, get off on it, but a majority don’t and a lot of people especially ‘so called’ bulls find that difficult to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you explain the difference for a newbie? Is cuckolding always about humiliation?

No it’s not and should never be !

This

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

I’m so envious of the lucky couples who are posting about this subject thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to help a couple with this, hard to find couples that are into cds

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

Question is what you think of it? Do you think it's depraved n disgusting.....

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks about your kink

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By *rs Classy SlutCouple
over a year ago

selby

"Each to there own of course!

But not for us at all. Hotwife/Stag is much more our thing. We just don’t get the humiliation side of cuckolding, cock cages etc. But again, it’s what ever turns you on that counts!

J&M xxx"

Same for us, but each to their own fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As anything ....what ever floats YOUR boat.....not about how every boat in the ocean !

Simple

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Whatever makes you happy.

We are a stag and vixen couple. Not into the name calling and shaming side of cuckolding.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We love it

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By *wguy100Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"We love it"

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Meh labels.

We just do what we enjoy.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

As long as you aren't hurting anyone else, there shouldn't be anyone that kink shames anyone else. Your own activities would be viewed as disgusting by someone else, so don't perpetuate kink snobbery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

It' disgusting, humiliating, degrading and most of all great fun.....count me in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some cuckold couples I've met are some of the most in love couples I've ever met. The trust and understanding invovled in that dynamic is something most couples could only dream of in my opinion.

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By *sxboy69Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

Newbie question, but cuckolding always appears to be about the wife taking on a hot stud in front of the husband. Is there a reverse cuckhold version where the hubby fucks a hot young female in front of his fat inadequate wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to there own of course!

But not for us at all. Hotwife/Stag is much more our thing. We just don’t get the humiliation side of cuckolding, cock cages etc. But again, it’s what ever turns you on that counts!

J&M xxx"

Same, constantly asked if I am cuck because she plays away. Nope, never humiliated or ashamed of her being with someone else.

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Don't knock it till you've tried it

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By *wguy100Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"Some cuckold couples I've met are some of the most in love couples I've ever met. The trust and understanding invovled in that dynamic is something most couples could only dream of in my opinion.

Echo this - it’s a brilliant dynamic when approached well

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I think not it’s and exciting thing to watch your wife take another cock and being next to her watching her enjoy it.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think not it’s and exciting thing to watch your wife take another cock and being next to her watching her enjoy it."

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By *onaldJacqueline73Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?"

If I’m totally honest if everyone knew what we was up to the the fast majority of our friends would think we was disgusting lol.

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Of course it's disgusting, that's why I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is what we do disgusting and depraved? How common is it? Do vanilla people think we are freaks?

Question is what you think of it? Do you think it's depraved n disgusting.....

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks about your kink "

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