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By *pookyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer bare but would be the meets preference really

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

A jacket always

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Safe play all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys? "

Most will say bare as preference but wear a glove for love to be on the safe side

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

torbay

We play safe. But bare back if it's a regular play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play safe. But bare back if it's a regular play "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't get wife to play with other

Men yet but loves bare back and cum in her

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Got to have a bag to keep the shopping in

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Bareback with regular or long term.

Condom otherwise.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Whatever the lady wants

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Condoms for all penetration

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

Bareback would be amazing but not worth the risk with all the sexual transmitted diseases on the increase.

One orgasm over potential risk isn’t worth it for me. So jacket or no penetration

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By *onny boy cMan
over a year ago

chorlton

Always safe

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Gotta be safe

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

Safe or GTFO

I see so many girls/couples only wanting BB, and arranging big last minute meets, like they have just been granted eternal life… I just don’t get it

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Well I obviously PREFER bareback, but due to the existence of nasties and our damn reproductive systems, they are a non-negotiable requirement for all meets. x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Naturally we *prefer* bareback. Who wouldn't? But we also prefer not having STDs, and that takes precedence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only play bare together, condoms all the way for people joining us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear your wellies if you going to go paddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback always

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

Definitely prefer bareback especially with hung, Dom men.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Bareback with own partner but condoms with others . Not worth the risk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback with own partner but condoms with others . Not worth the risk ."

Exactly

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Bareback is my preference but protection until I trust someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With anyone other then my husband always a condom

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Bareback feels best and allows many fun things to happen no doubt, but with new people is always safe sex.

Boldly going where other people have gone before without protection is just too risky.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Only bare with Mr, otherwise it’s got to be safe

If course bareback feel is always better but just too risky with others

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

bareback everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only bareback if everyone is tested. Otherwise I'll try squeezing into a condom

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By *rAMissJCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer bareback but will only do that with Mr abd it will be condoms with any other guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bareback the feeling of filling a pussy with cum is great but will use a condom if that what the other person prefers

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Bareback with Mr and safe sex with anyone else

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By *andrindevonCouple
over a year ago

torquay


"We play safe. But bare back if it's a regular play "

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As a cuckold couple, bareback is always our preference but lots of hoops to jump through to get there !

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys? "

I prefer bareback and I'm sure so does everybody else, but due to STI's, condoms are used unless sure of a negative.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Obviously preference is to bareback

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

No bareback with anyone but My LTR FLR partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys?

Most will say bare as preference but wear a glove for love to be on the safe side"

basically

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Bareback with regulars

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Need the seed to breed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only safe for me

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Safe sex is non negotiable for us

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Condom apart from one special fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex always. Casual sex isn’t worth the risk.

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By *oro bi ladMan
over a year ago

MIDDLESBROUGH

Do all you people who play safe refrain from oral sex? you can catch Sti's through oral sex. So really if you blob up for safety then unprotected aural must be a no.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Do all you people who play safe refrain from oral sex? you can catch Sti's through oral sex. So really if you blob up for safety then unprotected aural must be a no."

I use protection for oral also

I’m sure all don’t, but yes, many of us do

(9years of clubbing regularly and only 1 ever complaint )

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By *heekymilfandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

north wales

Bareback with regulars

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Do all you people who play safe refrain from oral sex? you can catch Sti's through oral sex. So really if you blob up for safety then unprotected aural must be a no."

Is unprotected aural when they cum in your ear?

I use condoms for anal and piv with people who aren't my partners, but I don't for oral.

I'm aware that condoms don't protect from everything, and that many things can be transmitted through oral.

But this is the level of risk I have decided I'm okay with and that my partners are okay with.

I get tested every 3 months and I'm happy with the set up I have.

Well if you eat pussy without a dental dam you may as well let multiple strangers ejaculate straight into your asshole is somewhat akin to throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Always bare with my longterm, trusted friends, condoms for the randoms.

I've never licked a pussy with the barrier of a dental dam, and never met a woman who insisted on a condom on my cock before she sucked me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Always safe, apart from with each other .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do all you people who play safe refrain from oral sex? you can catch Sti's through oral sex. So really if you blob up for safety then unprotected aural must be a no."

Why do people always say this, everyone know you can still catch STIs from oral, it's just a way lower risk

Do you use condoms for oral? Or a dental dam when you go down on a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe bareback

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Bareback for me . Perfectly risk free tho as I don't meet anymore.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

BB but only with my mr. Anyone else it’s always safe play

Kink (female)

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

For keeps it is always condom. Not willing to put my health at risk for a creampie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For keeps it is always condom. Not willing to put my health at risk for a creampie "

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By *urreypair1Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Prefer bare with couples, but also play safe too.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Safe only, it's just not worth the risks

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I only do bareback with 1 person, who is my FWB. Both of us get tested regularly too.

Otherwise condoms.

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

Bare back

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m sure all of us prefer bareback, but we wear condoms for good reasons.

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

Bareback with my partner, there's nothing like that feeling! But condoms for playing otherwise, not worth the risk.

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

How long are you seeing a regular before you go BB tho?

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Condom, always safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer bareback but happy to play safe too

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By *ur little secret 20Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Love bare back but it’s very risky x

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Bareback on with Mr, safe sex with everyone else

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By *elissa cdTV/TS
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Always bearback love the feeling of a creampie x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only ever play bareback

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By *eeveeTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

I know some people don't, bit I love to see a guy with a cum filled condom when he pulls out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely hate condoms .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback ideally with a regular couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback, but we only play with regulars with frequent testing

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

BB only with someone regular and trustworthy! Otherwise safe play and regular testing is important too.

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Condoms all the time!!!

Gets a few ticks from us, I must be the only woman on here that doesn’t really like cum lol, so no mess with a condom!! Feel cheekier also when the guy puts one on as I know it’s a new partner??!! If that makes sense?? Also, we would much prefer a guy to cum inside me if I was to take his cock fully, and a condom always them to do this safely!!

Jxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from here - condom

Long term people not from here - bareback

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I much prefer stopping midway through foreplay, tearing open the packet whilst my cock is trying his hardest to get to it's softest. Then hopefully sticking it on backwards whilst it gets even softer, whilst asking the 'lucky lady' and witness to this debacle to talk dirty to me to assist me in my struggles. To find that in the 10 minutes that have elapsed, she has actually left the back alley near the wheelie bins.

Still a small price to pay rather than a potential visit to the clinic.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Bareback feels so much better however always wear a condom at meets as sexual health is so important.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

If, she sees you as alpha she wants your seed

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Bare with regulars

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By *untimeswithme69Man
over a year ago

London

Bareback

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"Bareback with regular or long term.

Condom otherwise."

This

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds


"Bare with regulars "

How long determines a regular?

And through experience how do we know they're not BB with someone else

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys? "

BB feels much more natural and hate condoms

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Bare with regulars

How long determines a regular?

And through experience how do we know they're not BB with someone else "

Indeed, difficult to tell, other than testing.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Rape it up to be on the safe side

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Condom always, even though BB IS Much better.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Sorry it should have said wrap it my mistake need me specs

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

With new playmates its always with condoms. But with our fwb its bareback

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Too many risk takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback With MrsB , we’ve been together nearly 30 years . Everyone else condoms , 100%

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"Bareback With MrsB , we’ve been together nearly 30 years . Everyone else condoms , 100%"

That’s totally acceptable lol

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are people’s preferences? I personally prefer bareback. Had the pleasure of being with ex’s that prefer to feel skin on skin and a creampie at the end of it. Also been fortunate to have sloppy seconds, thirds and fourths with a couple of my ex’s too.

What about you guys? "

Condom for all meets, no condom for a relationship after been dating for a while.. safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets face it if wasn't for the harsh reality of science we all do bareback

but unless it's partner or fwb it's condom

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Condoms

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Prefer bare with couples, but also play safe too."

Will playing with couples makes it any more safe ?

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

bareback everytime

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Bareback is our preference but reality is it needs to be condoms as not worth the risk....For long term partners we would consider bare.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Preference would be, if everyone involved is happy, to play bareback. Having another mans wife tell you to 'cum in her' is something else.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

On prep so bb

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Safe or GTFO

I see so many girls/couples only wanting BB, and arranging big last minute meets, like they have just been granted eternal life… I just don’t get it "

Ummm nobody has eternal life ………. And nobody really dies of STI’s anymore .

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Safe play all the way

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Bare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare with bf, condoms with anyone else

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton


"Bareback with regular or long term.

Condom otherwise."

Agree with this answer

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Bareback with regular or long term.

Condom otherwise.

Agree with this answer "

Likewise

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

What ever makes the person who is fucking me. What makes them happy x

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

Would love to say bare back but

With what’s on the news lately with the massive increase in STDs

I think you need to pick your friends wisely

Definitely condoms in a club but a regular couple or single guys worth the risk if they aren’t too active

Great fan of sloppy seconds so it’s a shame it has to be that way

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Bareback here always

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

If recently tested and regular then bare every time

N

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensitivity is a bit of an issue for me (jay) and even BB it can take a couple of hours - Condoms = Can't feel a damn thing at all.

Soo... BB after negative test results

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Ideally both sides test before meeting.

Absolutely love raw spunky sex.

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford


"Bare with bf, condoms with anyone else "

Tests can be faked.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Like many others to feel that cock explode in you bare is very nice but safe it must be.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"Like many others to feel that cock explode in you bare is very nice but safe it must be."

Safe always best

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Bareback with me and her fuck buddy , but glove allways with others

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton

Oh I do love bareback, especially when there cum already there. An ex of mine loved seconds…..

;-)

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Bare if I found a regular playmate

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By *AM001Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Bare

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

torbay

Safe sex. But bare if we become regular play mates.

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By *nIMidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Rugeley

We Like Bareback More

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BB there’s no comparison if clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean "

How do you know if someone is clean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean

How do you know if someone is clean?"

Trust in decent people I guess mutual respect , or unless you already know each other . But I guess you can never truly know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean

How do you know if someone is clean?

Trust in decent people I guess mutual respect , or unless you already know each other . But I guess you can never truly know"

We personally wouldn’t trust anyone with sexual health.

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over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean

How do you know if someone is clean?

Trust in decent people I guess mutual respect , or unless you already know each other . But I guess you can never truly know

We personally wouldn’t trust anyone with sexual health. "

Not even each other? Depends on the relationship, but you have to admit the difference in feeling

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over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean

How do you know if someone is clean?

Trust in decent people I guess mutual respect , or unless you already know each other . But I guess you can never truly know

We personally wouldn’t trust anyone with sexual health.

Not even each other? Depends on the relationship, but you have to admit the difference in feeling"

I said we obviously we would trust each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BB there’s no comparison if clean

How do you know if someone is clean?

Trust in decent people I guess mutual respect , or unless you already know each other . But I guess you can never truly know

We personally wouldn’t trust anyone with sexual health.

Not even each other? Depends on the relationship, but you have to admit the difference in feeling

I said we obviously we would trust each other "

He’s a lucky man

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Nowadays I can't ejaculate with a condom so need to feel a lady's pussy. I always ask the lady and if she says sex has to be with a condom I say that is fine but there will be no sex. I believe being circumcised has contributed something to giving me some protection from Stis and it's likely at my age my semen quality is not great.

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Bare

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over a year ago


"Nowadays I can't ejaculate with a condom so need to feel a lady's pussy. I always ask the lady and if she says sex has to be with a condom I say that is fine but there will be no sex. I believe being circumcised has contributed something to giving me some protection from Stis and it's likely at my age my semen quality is not great. "

What you seriously think you being circumcised gives you protection? wow!!

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think if we are all honest everyone wants bareback because there is no comparison in sensation for a man giving and a woman receiving. This is a fundamental need for humans like drinking and eating.

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By *b750Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Bare back

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Jacket on

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By *ittlelad69Man
over a year ago

clay cross

Bb feels 100times better but wrapped for me

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Nowadays I can't ejaculate with a condom so need to feel a lady's pussy. I always ask the lady and if she says sex has to be with a condom I say that is fine but there will be no sex. I believe being circumcised has contributed something to giving me some protection from Stis and it's likely at my age my semen quality is not great.

What you seriously think you being circumcised gives you protection? wow!!"

Note I have used the words`contributed and some'. It's also just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback with regular or long term.

Condom otherwise."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if we are all honest everyone wants bareback because there is no comparison in sensation for a man giving and a woman receiving. This is a fundamental need for humans like drinking and eating. "

Eating or drinking doesn’t give you a STI

I don’t care if it feels better..to take a chance on something as important as your health for the sake of a better feeling is so careless and ignorant

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think if we are all honest everyone wants bareback because there is no comparison in sensation for a man giving and a woman receiving. This is a fundamental need for humans like drinking and eating.

Eating or drinking doesn’t give you a STI

I don’t care if it feels better..to take a chance on something as important as your health for the sake of a better feeling is so careless and ignorant "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from experience when a guy says "whatever the woman wants" screams to me that if it's not spoken about (and when I was a single and a bit wet behind the ears, wasn't always something I spoke about) you are quite happy to have unprotected sex and the lady you are with might be nervous to mention it as you have got right to the nitty gritty.

So perhaps maybe not have the attitude of "what the woman wants" because to me that says "if she doesn't say anything I'm quite happy to go and stick my dick in bare" and god knows how many more before that (I assume people test regularly if having bareback but doesn't always happen).

Anyway, we only do bareback with each other and condom with others.

That said I did have one meet (not from here) stealth me once, I was absolutely mortified I didn't notice and I got myself tested as soon as I could.

Danish x

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By *ilverFkrMan
over a year ago

Camden. London

Bareback

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By *wen1973Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bareback all day please and I will be doing it again this Friday. Yummy yummy. Xx

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer bareback but play safe unless it's a regular meet and they have upto date results, we'll make exceptions for that

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Bareback all day please and I will be doing it again this Friday. Yummy yummy. Xx"

Lucky you!

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By *lacklondonguy2Man
over a year ago

Tottenham, London

bare for me

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In an ideal world I would love to always fuck bareback, but as the world is a long way from ideal it's a condom for everyone I fuck except my husband.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Bareback with Mrs _archel.

With anyone else it's no glove no love, and that goes for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think anyone would argue that bare definately feels a lot better.

Its just if its mutual and weighing up the risks.

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By *uysforhotwivesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

yorkshire

Bareback would always be the preference, with all doing regular testing (that should apply regardless to be fair)

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Happy either way. That's what testing is for. Anyone knowingly spreading stuff is a bit of a prick especially as the tests are so easy and convenient to do

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Safe or GTFO

I see so many girls/couples only wanting BB, and arranging big last minute meets, like they have just been granted eternal life… I just don’t get it

Ummm nobody has eternal life ………. And nobody really dies of STI’s anymore ."

True, but who wants an STI even though it maybe treatable or controlled ?

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Bareback is obviously the more intimate and fun choice, the fantasies that work off it are amazing too but reality is a different thing. Neither of us particularly enjoy visiting the clinic, even for check ups but knowing what complications can arise from an STI, we won’t even consider unprotected sex with anyone but each other

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Always safe. Only bareback if very close friends and known and trust for some years.

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

Preference will always be bareback, will I do it with Random Rick in a club when he’s played with several people not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preference will always be bareback, will I do it with Random Rick in a club when he’s played with several people not a chance. "

Exactly...

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

We don't do one off meets, bareback is an option with a regular once trust is established and everyone is in agreement x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't do one off meets, bareback is an option with a regular once trust is established and everyone is in agreement x"

Probably the best way Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback as a couple but we would consider playing with other couples if they have a very recent negative test result.

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Entirely situational for us.

It all carries a risk regardless - and as long as you do everything you can to mitigate the risk then go enjoy yourselves.

For instance, we’d much rather play bareback with a couple that STI tested last week, than “safe sex” with a couple that tested 6 months ago.

It’s interesting that generally - our experience of the bareback community is that they are my much more conscious and active about keeping safe sexually, than those who are entirely delusional about what safe sex is and how to practice it.

I do wonder how many “safe sex” practitioner’s ask each other when they last tested and ask to see results?

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Earlier this year I got tested as was planning to meet a couple. However, day after I was tested ended up meeting someone from years before. So my results were from the day I was tested that's all.

Trust is the key word. Do all people tell the truth ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bb but down to the woman / couple

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By *HICKCHOCMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is a great filter to use

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By *ubofwetslutCouple
over a year ago

taunton

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Bareback !!!

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

I think most people would say bareback

But what’s been on the main news lately with the massive increase in STDs

Then it would be silly not to go unprotected!!

Unless it’s a regular couple who you trust

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By *nothershitusernameCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Had a meet this morning. Mrs was tied up and blindfolded. Guy came in fucked her, came inside her then I added mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback preferred if they have a recent negative test ! I wouldn't see the point in a meet with a condom you can't feel anything I'd rather have a wank than fuck with a condom but that's just my preference

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By *rincessvWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

i do like bare but i do like to know that safe

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Fair enough and it's your health and body. There's nothing to compare than sharing a magic moment,skin against skin.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's iike a game of Russian Roulette

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