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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

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My local dry cleaner frowns on it

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

I can sort of relate to this.

Of course it's very dependent on the way it is that particular time (Might not be so appropriate another occasion) but it's that buzz from saying something that would normally in polite society be considered a massive insult, that when you are dressed in a certain _lutty way and feeling in a _lutty mood, that it's actually quite refreshing to hear being called a slut.

(Possibly heightened delight when you aren't in fact one at all) it's just a fun departure from the mundane.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I can sort of relate to this.

Of course it's very dependent on the way it is that particular time (Might not be so appropriate another occasion) but it's that buzz from saying something that would normally in polite society be considered a massive insult, that when you are dressed in a certain _lutty way and feeling in a _lutty mood, that it's actually quite refreshing to hear being called a slut.

(Possibly heightened delight when you aren't in fact one at all) it's just a fun departure from the mundane. "

Yes..it something i would never say in vanilla life but for my couple friends and me - its huge, huge turn on - the lady in question is very proper in vanilla life - so its huge turn on to be slut for her husband and I

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

100% get that

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

Be fascinating to hear others opinions...

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By *orthern BeardMan
over a year ago

Preston

I’ve known women to love it and others to hate it

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

Suppose its you have to Read the Room and follow the vibe & adjust .each meet being so different. Eh

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’m very picky who I accept name calling and degradation from, and I will end play sessions over it. Life is too short to waste on fucking people who don’t respect me.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Suppose its you have to Read the Room and follow the vibe & adjust .each meet being so different. Eh"

Agreed..when it works, god it works

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

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It’s all in the context! If it’s someone kitty is interested in and doing stuff with she loves it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the right time, with the right person, it can have a positive reaction with Mrs A, though generally we find the term '_lutty' gets a better reaction, than 'slut'.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Only my mr gets to call me a slut. Can’t stand it from anyone else

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By *mtasticCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Only my mr gets to call me a slut. Can’t stand it from anyone else "

Same situation here, especially a random message calling me a slut!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

know your audience. I really dislike it and it would completely put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me but each to their own

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not for me but I've seen how it turns others on

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"At the right time, with the right person, it can have a positive reaction with Mrs A, though generally we find the term '_lutty' gets a better reaction, than 'slut'."

Interesting…never thought of the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m very picky who I accept name calling and degradation from, and I will end play sessions over it. Life is too short to waste on fucking people who don’t respect me. "

Yeah respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the right time, with the right person, it can have a positive reaction with Mrs A, though generally we find the term '_lutty' gets a better reaction, than 'slut'.

Interesting…never thought of the difference"

I suppose it's the thought that the behaviour is particularly naughty/rude (or whatever term one may choose) rather than her as a person.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester


"Only my mr gets to call me a slut. Can’t stand it from anyone else "

Exactly this.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i couldnt call a woman a slut thats just me,,,

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Take a look at the necklace Val is proudly wearing in our profile photos

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

It's is all about knowing who you are playing with and their likes and dislikes of course.

some people love it and other hate it.

It's something any normal person would never call a stranger or someone without knowing it is appreciated in the correct context and situation.

All about what is right at the time. I love dirty talk and certainly at the right time it can be such fun and a turn on for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the tone and the intent behind it, my lady loves being called my little slut and will ask to be taken out and treated like a slut. but then we dont use the term in a derogatory fashion, no aggression etc.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Take a look at the necklace Val is proudly wearing in our profile photos "

Lovely !

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"depends on the tone and the intent behind it, my lady loves being called my little slut and will ask to be taken out and treated like a slut. but then we dont use the term in a derogatory fashion, no aggression etc. "

I think in a safe environment, some women definitely enjoy their alter ego of being a slut and being addressed as such

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

We love the word slut in the bedroom.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

All derogatory terms just dry me up. In fact men talking during just distracts me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called the wife a slut mid play he'd be shown the door about 1 sec later..

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If it works for the individual in that context- why not? Nothing wrong with taking a negative patriarchal word and reframing it around women's sexual freedom!

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We find that most women are really into praise kinks now so we stick to praise unless specifically told degradation is requested. The answer to the question is to check with every partner what they like, even if they have liked it in the past, it doesn't mean that they want it every time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me, I'm not a slut.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Specificity in the type of _luttiness seems to affect attitudes. No one wants to be a general slut. However Cum-slut seems to be a more generally accepted term that I've seen in profiles and messages

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Some ladies love it big turn on for them but also some are not that keen*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It very much depends on how I know the person doing it

Iv had messages where it’s in the first sentence

This gets my back up instantly !

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lou loves being called a slut by me as we play. If others were to do it in person or on mail then it wouldn't be appreciated.

Only exception I think would be of ot was a regular playmate amd part of a role play we were doing...

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Absolutely same here guys x

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !"

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom

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By *denvents2Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

When the mood is right the word slut will get me wet without even being touched.

If some random calls me it. They will get a black eye

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hate it and it would be an instant turn off for me x

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By *imber wolfMan
over a year ago

Aycliffe

Just depends on the situation and the people involved. I like it and have provoked people into saying it (slut & _lutty)

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"I hate it and it would be an instant turn off for me x"

Seconded, I’d stop and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lou likes to be called it when in the moment.

Time and a place and all that.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Lou likes to be called it when in the moment.

Time and a place and all that. "

Totally agree

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I would not be impressed if a guy we met just started calling Mrs a slut.

Perfectly happy for them to comment on how naughty and sexy she is, but she's definitely not 'their slut'.

Sometimes I like to tease Mrs that we have turned her into a bit of a slut, but that's light hearted and between us

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Happy for her to be refused to as a slut...that's what she is.

In person though no.

To me yes but not personally to her.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been called worse.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Id struggle calling someone a slut when playing - unless they said something like I love being your _lutty little secret or something that made it obvious they find it a turn on. Again its easier when you meet people More than ONS and get to know better what buttons have what affect. In general though - I wouldn’t use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When in the moment - yes, absolutely.

But guys randomly messing and calling me that. No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a disgusting term now to use. I try to be more sensitive and use terms like whorebag, cum bucket or jazz rag.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"It's a disgusting term now to use. I try to be more sensitive and use terms like whorebag, cum bucket or jazz rag. "

I think youll find spunkbucket is the more PC term nowadays !!

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By *nSearchOf12Couple
over a year ago

London

Agree with what's mostly been said that - as with anything at all - using derogatory language is a matter of enthusiastic, infotmed consent.

"Slut" in particular is an interesting one. Most comments in this thread assume it is intended as derogatory (and it often is), but in the ENM/kink community there has been a strong effort to reclaim the word (because it is usually used to mean "promiscuous woman" - and from an ENM perspective, there is nothing wrong with promiscuity in either gender, as long as it is done ethically).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a disgusting term now to use. I try to be more sensitive and use terms like whorebag, cum bucket or jazz rag.

I think youll find spunkbucket is the more PC term nowadays !! "

Oh I'm sorry, the language police must have changed that last week and I missed it

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Agree with what's mostly been said that - as with anything at all - using derogatory language is a matter of enthusiastic, infotmed consent.

"Slut" in particular is an interesting one. Most comments in this thread assume it is intended as derogatory (and it often is), but in the ENM/kink community there has been a strong effort to reclaim the word (because it is usually used to mean "promiscuous woman" - and from an ENM perspective, there is nothing wrong with promiscuity in either gender, as long as it is done ethically)."

Great way of putting it …in many ways it can be a term to praise a lady

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

During sex, literally makes me quiver with pleasure… From a complete stranger I’ve never met or spoken to before, makes me want to vomit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I love it

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Slut = A woman who has many casual sexual partners.

Or, a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement.

These are dictionary definitions, but, as we can now redefine words to suit our own narrative I suppose if it looks like a , walks like a and quacks like a , it's not a , unless you want it to be a

Frank (Not a )

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"During sex, literally makes me quiver with pleasure… From a complete stranger I’ve never met or spoken to before, makes me want to vomit "

Met several hotwives who think just like this

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Reading some of these I can see how slut as a term could be seen as empowering a woman to behave exactly as men have done for eternity and for slut to be claimed as a word equivalent to stud almost as a compliment to their sexual prowess. I still think its like river dancing through a minefield so unless im certain the person im with is going to love the term - im not dancing!!

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By *nSearchOf12Couple
over a year ago

London


"Reading some of these I can see how slut as a term could be seen as empowering a woman to behave exactly as men have done for eternity and for slut to be claimed as a word equivalent to stud almost as a compliment to their sexual prowess. I still think its like river dancing through a minefield so unless im certain the person im with is going to love the term - im not dancing!! "

Oh hell yes! Just because *some* people are using the word positively, we didn't mean to suggest that anyone at all should *assume* that...

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

Not something I’d say without a conversation taking place first. Definitely a case of reading the room. My FB loves it depending on what we are doing at the time. During roleplay it gets a brilliant response.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not experienced it during play...yet. But if I'm horny, with sexting etc then it gets me off. But it depends on the vibe and the man!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a derogatory term but cleaner than slag me not keen on either

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

I love it at the right time.

If we are getting on and sexting etc or during sex I love it.

If it’s a ‘Hi Slut’ on first message then it’s a leg closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not I don’t appreciate being called names in or out of the bedroom

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

It's not overly complex....there is a time and place for most things

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Lol I am a slut by name and nature and G&T makes me even more promiscuous xxx

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As long as it's between Logan and I, I.love being his slut!

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"As long as it's between Logan and I, I.love being his slut! "

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it works for the individual in that context- why not? Nothing wrong with taking a negative patriarchal word and reframing it around women's sexual freedom!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it tbh … makes me feel like a ….

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

Depends entirely on the circumstances, lady of a couple wea swing with loves the dirty derogatory name calling but it's not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I love it. I adore name calling when he uses me.

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By *rNaughtyMrsNaughtierCouple
over a year ago

NorthEast

I don’t mind when I’m in the thick of things

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Depends entirely on the circumstances, lady of a couple wea swing with loves the dirty derogatory name calling but it's not for everyone. "

Yes…some woman really love it - others hate it! Its interesting how one word can really turn people off and others make extra horny…

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I don’t mind when I’m in the thick of things "

Great to hear

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

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As with every other subject, some will and some won't like it. Anyone that calls me a slut will be drop kicked off a cliff.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Utterly depends on the connection, scenario and person!

We love it if we are in 'that' mood.. Would walk if an unknown used it though..

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Absolutely same here guys x"

Good to hear..

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Absolutely same here guys x

Good to hear.."

Bump

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom"

I’d agree with that, it’s all about the woman and her needs, especially in a cuckold relationship.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom

I’d agree with that, it’s all about the woman and her needs, especially in a cuckold relationship."

What needs are being met for a woman in a cuckold relationship?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom

I’d agree with that, it’s all about the woman and her needs, especially in a cuckold relationship.

What needs are being met for a woman in a cuckold relationship?"

A wife that enjoys attention from guys other than her hubby and loves to enjoy lots of other guys cocks.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom

I’d agree with that, it’s all about the woman and her needs, especially in a cuckold relationship.

What needs are being met for a woman in a cuckold relationship?

A wife that enjoys attention from guys other than her hubby and loves to enjoy lots of other guys cocks."

Yeah, but what specifically in a cuckold relationship as opposed to any other dynamic?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"It very much depends on the scenario !

If you called Dee a slut in a normal situation she would be offended and probably ignore you,

But sometime ago she was bent over a bed being fucked by a well endowed guy who called her a BBC slut and she agreed with him and it seemed to turn her on immensely, so it’s all about timing I guess !

Totall agree..i i would never use the word slut in vanilla life or in fab email but in the context of fab fun..its huge turn on - think for the lady its way of putting on another persona and enjoying her sexual freedom

I’d agree with that, it’s all about the woman and her needs, especially in a cuckold relationship.

What needs are being met for a woman in a cuckold relationship?

A wife that enjoys attention from guys other than her hubby and loves to enjoy lots of other guys cocks.

Yeah, but what specifically in a cuckold relationship as opposed to any other dynamic?"

I would say that most women in cuckold relationships are very sexual active, more so than non-cuckold relationships as they have engineered a lifestyle to suit their needs.

I wouldn’t say it’s a definite thing and I’m sure there’s lots of single women engineer their lifestyle to be that way too.

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater


"... and degradation from, ... "

Degredation? You've got a male - he recognises you have sex just for your own minute-by-minute feeling of self-gratification and males to you are somewhat interchangeable. And he "confesses" he recognises that and continues to want to have sex with you presumably because he admires you and wants to be a part of you?

Am I missing something here??!

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Rach would punch in the face anybody who called her a slut - probably closely followed by me lol

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

When the hormones are flowing and it is that time - yes you do feel the cunt cream oozing around you penis if you point out this character of a woman at the right moment...

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I have not done it without encouragement, but I have responded yes when asked ( during fun) “am I a slut” or “am I your _lutty girl”

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

in the right context and scene ... it is powerful and erotic xx Anne

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

By name and nature, it's natural for me. And, being called it, with other dirty talk during sex, is hot

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"... and degradation from, ...

Degredation? You've got a male - he recognises you have sex just for your own minute-by-minute feeling of self-gratification and males to you are somewhat interchangeable. And he "confesses" he recognises that and continues to want to have sex with you presumably because he admires you and wants to be a part of you?

Am I missing something here??!"

Yeah. You are. You’re projecting your fantasies onto me instead of asking what’s going on in my head. You’re assuming that I’m interested in self gratification and that I objectify the men who choose to play with me - and that assumption leaves me feeling cheap and dirty. That’s degradation right there, and I will literally get off a cock and walk away when someone pulls that attitude on me. I deserve better and so do my other sexual partners.

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I love "verbals" when having sex. But even if you are calling me the most degrading things, they have to be said as praise - if that makes sense.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Also, I think the thing a lot of men on this thread are missing is that for some of us, it’s reclamation of an insult that has been used AT US, to hurt us, by other men in the past. Slutshaming didn’t get eradicated with smallpox, it’s still alive and well today. Just not on fab…

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I love "verbals" when having sex. But even if you are calling me the most degrading things, they have to be said as praise - if that makes sense. "
concur

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah I like it, happy to be called it, happy to be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really rare we've used the term, but during certain scenarios, in doing so it's really added to the moment.

Generally, as a day to day term, it's not something either of us would appreciate, though discussed beforehand and with an idea on when you use, it can work brilliantly.

If anyone particular likes or dislikes the term, it's good for it to be discussed previous to meeting.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey


"I love "verbals" when having sex. But even if you are calling me the most degrading things, they have to be said as praise - if that makes sense. "

That makes total sense and that’s how I use it. Difficult to put it in the written word but it’s one of those things that’s best said as a whisper, usually from behind. Maybe while kissing her neck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be such a turn off if someone Called me that during sex and would come to a abrupt stop if it did!

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey


"That would be such a turn off if someone Called me that during sex and would come to a abrupt stop if it did! "

Totally understand that. That’s why it needs to be something that’s within the boundaries agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be such a turn off if someone Called me that during sex and would come to a abrupt stop if it did!

Totally understand that. That’s why it needs to be something that’s within the boundaries agreed. "

Luckily it’s never happened to us.. but I’d assume If someone was into this they would ask us first

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We love this kind of language, and the women we’ve met have enjoyed it too - but if you’re not emotionally sensitive enough to understand when and where it’s welcomed, best not to say anything. There is plenty of language that is scorching hot in the bedroom with consenting adults that is merely insulting otherwise.

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I love it if used in the right context

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Have to say I do love dirty talk in the bed room and name calling and such can be part of it but long as it's kept to the bed rooms so to speak

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We love this kind of language, and the women we’ve met have enjoyed it too - but if you’re not emotionally sensitive enough to understand when and where it’s welcomed, best not to say anything. There is plenty of language that is scorching hot in the bedroom with consenting adults that is merely insulting otherwise."

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I totally get that. I prefer being called a filthy bitch.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

"
each to their own

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Love em all.

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes I totally get that. I prefer being called a filthy bitch. "
had a meet with a couple the other night and she loved me calling her a filthy bitch

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

With M, absolutely fine. With another guy we had clicked with probably ok. Some random guy, no way

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

a female friend of mine said after a few drinks she turns into a dirty bitch,, admit sounds horny and sexy

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Yes I totally get that. I prefer being called a filthy bitch. "

Will remember that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With M, absolutely fine. With another guy we had clicked with probably ok. Some random guy, no way "
Agree with that

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By *xx234sumCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

For me it's a huge turn on when my man calls me his slut but if anyone else did it they'd be shown the door!

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns

Yes please!

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I love being called a slut.

Though, you will need my permission before doing so. Boundaries and all that x

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I love being called a slut.

Though, you will need my permission before doing so. Boundaries and all that x"

I am sure your admirers will remember this!

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"I love being called a slut.

Though, you will need my permission before doing so. Boundaries and all that x"
please Miss can I have a permission slip

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

It's a no from me

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By *rills and SwoonCouple
over a year ago

Stroud

I can call my partner a slut - she loves it. We have a collar with the word on it, and she feels empowered when wearing it. But, neither of us would let a random stranger call her that.

I, on the other hand, am happy to be a total slut with anyone! LOL!

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I can call my partner a slut - she loves it. We have a collar with the word on it, and she feels empowered when wearing it. But, neither of us would let a random stranger call her that.

I, on the other hand, am happy to be a total slut with anyone! LOL!"

The collar sounds fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. But only from the right person(s).

I think most would find it incredibly rude out of context or from someone they weren't familiar enough with.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

It's all about context... if hound calls me a slut then it turns me on... if anyone else called me a slut it would have a very opposite effect lol

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

can't say I like it myself, either to call somebody that or to be called it either.

We are not into disrespect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called me a slut they're getting slide tackled in a form so flamboyant even lord Sergio Ramos himself would be impressed.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Love it. But only from the right person(s).

I think most would find it incredibly rude out of context or from someone they weren't familiar enough with. "

Makes sense and this seems to the most sensible course of action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose its you have to Read the Room and follow the vibe & adjust .each meet being so different. Eh"

completely agree. its about being in the moment

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By *imandher2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

My gorgeous girl loves being called a slut during sex. My Filthy Slut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on the situation.. in the throws of sex with the right person yeah can be hot.. having a 1st message from a random saying hi slut then naw.. blocked

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By *kpineappleCouple
over a year ago

Wimborne

I love it from Mr. Haven’t experienced it from anybody else but I don’t think he would enjoy anybody else degrading me.

E x

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By *lubCouple555Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

Like so many on here for me it's all about context. In every day life, no, absolutely not, abhorrent, but much of our swinging life is about playing a fantasy role and increasingly for us that is me roleplaying a _lutty scenario or situation. So when i'm dressed like that and acting like that it's a massuve turn on to also be called a slut (and worse, although i know thats too far for some women)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves it when we're having rough sex and I call her a slut.. don't call her one otherwise as I find the term disrespectful, but when the time is right it really does it for both of us (usually when I'm fucking her and fingering her arse at the same time)

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Like so many on here for me it's all about context. In every day life, no, absolutely not, abhorrent, but much of our swinging life is about playing a fantasy role and increasingly for us that is me roleplaying a _lutty scenario or situation. So when i'm dressed like that and acting like that it's a massuve turn on to also be called a slut (and worse, although i know thats too far for some women)..."

Judging from the responses to their thread - a lot of women agree with you

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Was wondering about how fabbers feeling about this - i play with a couple regularly and the lady loves being called a slut while hubby and I are servicing her….tbh - its something that really turns her and me on

Any thoughts?

Bump

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Love to be called any sexual names during sex dirtier the better. Weirdly when guys call me a naughty girl it gives me the ick though.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t like it myself

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I can sort of relate to this.

Of course it's very dependent on the way it is that particular time (Might not be so appropriate another occasion) but it's that buzz from saying something that would normally in polite society be considered a massive insult, that when you are dressed in a certain _lutty way and feeling in a _lutty mood, that it's actually quite refreshing to hear being called a slut.

(Possibly heightened delight when you aren't in fact one at all) it's just a fun departure from the mundane.

Yes..it something i would never say in vanilla life but for my couple friends and me - its huge, huge turn on - the lady in question is very proper in vanilla life - so its huge turn on to be slut for her husband and I "

I am extremely jealous of her. This is the type of relationship I can only dream of.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I can sort of relate to this.

Of course it's very dependent on the way it is that particular time (Might not be so appropriate another occasion) but it's that buzz from saying something that would normally in polite society be considered a massive insult, that when you are dressed in a certain _lutty way and feeling in a _lutty mood, that it's actually quite refreshing to hear being called a slut.

(Possibly heightened delight when you aren't in fact one at all) it's just a fun departure from the mundane.

Yes..it something i would never say in vanilla life but for my couple friends and me - its huge, huge turn on - the lady in question is very proper in vanilla life - so its huge turn on to be slut for her husband and I

I am extremely jealous of her. This is the type of relationship I can only dream of."

Yes..she is lucky lady able to act out her fantasies

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

If she likes being called names to fulfil her excitement l see nothing wrong , its certainly not the sort of thing id call anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to be called any sexual names during sex dirtier the better. Weirdly when guys call me a naughty girl it gives me the ick though."

Watching you suck cock I can see why you’d get called all sorts of names. Absolutely one of the best blows I’ve seen on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're having sexual relationships with a lot of peeps without any emotional involvement then aren't we all really SLUTS...!

Also, I believe there's no harm done when in role play scenario like you've described OP, esp. with it bringing pleasure to individuals.

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

I frequently say, and want to hear, very different things when I’m in the moment. And I really like the freedom to experience that. I wouldn’t want to censor what I enjoy by examining it too hard in the cold light of day.

M

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

It’s all mood dependent - love a bit of dirty talk and being called a slut in the bedroom is a real turn on for sure

BUT if my boss walked into my office and called me a slut I’d tell him where to shove his job lol

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We both love it!

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By *ngel-FallsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

As others have said, a random message from a stranger calling a slut gets them blocked. But I do have a fwb that calls me his dirty little slut and I love it. Him and only him gets that privilege at the moment.

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By * and RCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Rachel now takes it as a compliment, but previously would not have done due to the traditional view. It's all about context.

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

From him I love it. From another man, if it was in meet and the mood was right maybe.

Just coming straight with it cold would make me dry up.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Rachel now takes it as a compliment, but previously would not have done due to the traditional view. It's all about context."

Totally agree..its about about taking control of the word “slut” and making it empowering in the middle of sex

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I love it when a partner is turned on by being called a slut but when others are with us I don't let other guys use that word.

So in a group setting I'd whisper it in a partners ear when another man has his cock inside her.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I really get turned on being called a slut when fucking.

It's finding men that will call me a slut is the problem.

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"I really get turned on being called a slut when fucking.

It's finding men that will call me a slut is the problem. "

I have no problems with that, I'll give what she can take xx

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Not for me. In fact calling me a slut is guaranteed to make me get up and leave, or throw you out.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Rite time place and context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a guy I meet on my own who always calls me his slut and it turns me on knowing my husband let’s me be his slut

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By *eelslover300TV/TS
over a year ago

flitwick

All depends on the situation. If you randomly message me calling me one then you'll be quickly and easily ignored/blocked but if I'm on my knees being facef*cked then I definitely don't mind it x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Unless you fancy a poke in the eye with a sharp stick, I wouldn't, if I were you!

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We love most forms of degredation, during play and in day to day life, but that is part of our dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When close to climax, one sub I used to see would say ‘call me a dirty whore’. Slut is more common.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"I really get turned on being called a slut when fucking.

It's finding men that will call me a slut is the problem.

I have no problems with that, I'll give what she can take xx"

Unfortunately not a lot of men are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get to know what she likes beforehand like at a social then I would know how far to take it but if they are up for it I would facilitate

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"We love most forms of degredation, during play and in day to day life, but that is part of our dynamic "

I love it during play but not in day to day life. I expect respect when out in public, but in the bedroom I prefer the opposite

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If she consents to the term & that’s her thing! Then happy days give that slut a good seeing too

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

the lady drives this ... she decides what she likes to be called ... find out and then enjoy the dividend xx Anne

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

I’ve only been asked by a woman who was the furthest thing from one in reality. It made it easier.

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By *ubyMoonWoman
over a year ago

Newport, Isle of Wight

it can be hot but it always makes me giggle a little in my head because like, god no, i havent done this enough times to wear the slut crown. give me a few years maybe

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ive been called a male slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a slut, whore or bitch when I'm serving

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I quite like it when I'm in the middle of a lovely, uninhibited, sexy session. In fact I sometimes refer to myself as one in that situation....blush! XX

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I love being called a slut, whore or bitch when I'm serving "

Shut up ya slag!!!

I’m only joking by the way before I get cancelled but correct me if I’m wrong it’s not quite the same is it

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Sammi is referred to as Slut, Whore etc often… she likes it.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Sammi is referred to as Slut, Whore etc often… she likes it."

She does look like a good little slut, I really like the whores videos

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Sammi is referred to as Slut, Whore etc often… she likes it.

She does look like a good little slut, I really like the whores videos "

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By *IZZ_69Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Needs to be in the right environment, can't really say this to your partner while your queuing up in the local chippy

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