FabSwingers.com forum: Re number exchange

By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to keep things as private as possible. We have pics of our kids on our WhatsApp so that can make us hesitant to give our numbers out. We still do swap numbers if we’re going to arrange a meet but we are quite cautious with it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't want anyone I haven't met to have my number as they could find me on Facebook and post my Fab pics to my friends and family.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I exchange numbers pretty quickly once a convo is heading towards a social meet.

90% of conversations die when taken off here though as guys generally think that makes me a sure thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my partner only give numbers out after meeting someone and clicked. Never before

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Myself and my partner only give numbers out after meeting someone and clicked. Never before"

Yeah I’m the same only give out my number after meeting someone and getting on well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

Verifications and chatting don't prove anything.

Men who want to take chat off the site usually only want wank chat at 3am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always ask to take chat off here after a time and ask for a phone call or voice note.

It’s amazing how many verified accounts are fake. Couples who are not couples and woman who are in fact men, and yes I’ve been catfished by one.

I don’t know how these accounts get verified, but that’s a different topic.

So yes a phone call or voice note when it seems we are getting on well

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So yes a phone call or voice note when it seems we are getting on well "

What proportion agree to do this ?

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"Some people just like to keep things as private as possible. We have pics of our kids on our WhatsApp so that can make us hesitant to give our numbers out. We still do swap numbers if we’re going to arrange a meet but we are quite cautious with it.

Totally understand that Mr T.

As I said it's a matter of gauging good genuine guys

Personally I'd never disrespect or message out of turn

Mr"

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I generally only give my number to someone I'm going to meet.

At least if I need a break from here or social media, I can just not log in. But if people are texting and calling I'll have no peace.

There is no need for my number.

Idle chat can stay on here or Kik.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally only give my number to someone I'm going to meet.

At least if I need a break from here or social media, I can just not log in. But if people are texting and calling I'll have no peace.

There is no need for my number.

Idle chat can stay on here or Kik."

For me there has to be a balance in all of this or within everything.

If woman get the amount of messages they say they do then you can run the risk of your message not being seen.

The other thing is that for me by taking the chat off here shows an intent to want to know more of each other. And as I also say it’s a way to prove genuine even down to a video call to prove they look like their photos and not using someone else’s or ones way out of date.

I don’t have time or the want to talk to someone if it doesn’t work out. So block me. Move on. There is no way I would try and find people on other media platforms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use a 'fab' burner phone if we ever want to exchange numbers, that way we can just turn it off and leave it in the drawer for another 6 months if we can't be arsed.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We use a 'fab' burner phone if we ever want to exchange numbers, that way we can just turn it off and leave it in the drawer for another 6 months if we can't be arsed."

Or you can simply block on whatsapp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people want my number, when we could talk on here and arrange to meet on here. I never ask for anyone's number/other socials etc. Maybe if you meet someone and you carry on seeing each other etc and both choose to, but I'm constantly asked about other socials, when I'm more than happy to just talk on here.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable. "

That's fair enough

Do you not insist on phone chat before meeting then?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Boils down to trust in more ways than one as their are some crazy feckers about

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

So yes a phone call or voice note when it seems we are getting on well

What proportion agree to do this ?"

I’ve literally had 1 or 2 that don’t. But I think people are attracted to similar , if someone is not open and transparent and can’t speak in the phone I’m not really interested in chatting to them.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable.

That's fair enough

Do you not insist on phone chat before meeting then?"

We mainly go to clubs so it wouldn't be relevant but on the odd occasion it's been outside of clubs the only communication has been through Fab.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable.

Do you not insist on phone chat before meeting then?

We mainly go to clubs so it wouldn't be relevant but on the odd occasion it's been outside of clubs the only communication has been through Fab."

Ah OK thats different then

What if you meet a really great guy at the club you'd like to see again

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We also like to keep things completely separate and have only given our number to a very select few after meeting a number of times.

Don't really want a burner phone and as someone else mentioned, don't need our number linking to any other social media.

There are plenty of other ways to stay in touch, hence we're happy to chat on here, Kik or Telegram.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable.

Do you not insist on phone chat before meeting then?

We mainly go to clubs so it wouldn't be relevant but on the odd occasion it's been outside of clubs the only communication has been through Fab.

Ah OK thats different then

What if you meet a really great guy at the club you'd like to see again"

We keep in touch Fab

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We keep everything swinging related on here to separate it from our day to day lives. Based on the number and frequency of messages we get on here, if people had our numbers it would be unbearable.

Do you not insist on phone chat before meeting then?

We mainly go to clubs so it wouldn't be relevant but on the odd occasion it's been outside of clubs the only communication has been through Fab.

Ah OK thats different then

What if you meet a really great guy at the club you'd like to see again

We keep in touch through Fab"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We tend to move off here for group chats just because it's awkward having 3/4 way conversation on here, much easier when everyone can chip in and know who's speaking.

We use telegram for those who don't like to give out a number or what's app for those that don't mind.

A number is easily blockable so it doesn't bother me handing it out, plus I don't have it registered to any social media.

Mrs

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We tend to move off here for group chats just because it's awkward having 3/4 way conversation on here, much easier when everyone can chip in and know who's speaking.

We use telegram for those who don't like to give out a number or what's app for those that don't mind.

A number is easily blockable so it doesn't bother me handing it out, plus I don't have it registered to any social media.

Mrs "

Exactly it's easy to block an arsehole lol

Agreed It's long the convo on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will only give our number if we've had a social(s) meet and then agreed to have a play meet.

If after a few messages couples wanted to chat and get to know us better away from here before arranging a social meet they can, by either Kik or telegram and then we would create a group chat so all could join in

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We will only give our number if we've had a social(s) meet and then agreed to have a play meet.

That's fair enough

Just curious as to would you arrange a social without physically speaking to a guy or cpl

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"We use a 'fab' burner phone if we ever want to exchange numbers, that way we can just turn it off and leave it in the drawer for another 6 months if we can't be arsed.

Or you can simply block on whatsapp"

When someone has your phone number they can call from a private number, and keep calling as you can't block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will only give our number if we've had a social(s) meet and then agreed to have a play meet.

That's fair enough

Just curious as to would you arrange a social without physically speaking to a guy or cpl "

Guys no as we're not looking for single guys

But couples yes, we have arranged a social without physically speaking to them before hand

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"We use a 'fab' burner phone if we ever want to exchange numbers, that way we can just turn it off and leave it in the drawer for another 6 months if we can't be arsed.

Or you can simply block on whatsapp

When someone has your phone number they can call from a private number, and keep calling as you can't block them."

I am pretty relaxed about it. I am pretty heavy on the block button if someone cheeses me off and have only ever had one stalker that kept changing his number and bothering me.... But generally I have had no issues giving it out.

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By *mtasticCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

The issue with mobile numbers these days is that it links you to all sorts of other accounts. I very rarely give mine out after having people then message me on facebook etc.

We use kik to send face pics and chat, whilst a bit crap and buggy it's completely delinked from everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely wouldn’t be giving our number out until we meet a few times and buid a friendship.

You can do all you’re chatting on here so don’t see the big deal to be honest?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just curious as to would you arrange a social without physically speaking to a guy or cpl "

I have had at least 50 meets and I have never spoken on the phone first.

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By *ayyune2000Man
over a year ago

yorks

I am happy to exchange I prefer.to cam chat or phone as.its faster.and more.intate also alot of fake.proifle.here.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I've cancelled meeting people if they won't swap another comms method in advance. I don't use fab outside the house, only on wi fi. I'm not leaving to travel somewhere without being able to get hold of someone.

Usually Kik or Snapchat - if it progresses I'm happy to swap numbers. I feel the majority of the time the conversation flows better off fab inbox.

I respect people's views not to share their number but they seem less impressed when I hold my own values aswell.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

To me the logical next step after talking for a while is trying to arrange to meet

It pays to be cautious exchanging numbers for many of reasons stated above. WhatsApp in particular links to Facebook and Instagram and people can start showing up in your "Suggested Friends" section. Most people get on absolute fine without exchanging numbers and communicating on here and there are always other options where phone numbers are not required. Obviously some are less worried about privacy than others.

Also just in the last week some people have popped up talking about scams involving "ladies" getting men's numbers and then threatening all sorts so on the other end of the spectrum I'd be very cautious with a lady who wants an immediate exchange of numbers.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"We tend to move off here for group chats just because it's awkward having 3/4 way conversation on here, much easier when everyone can chip in and know who's speaking.

We use telegram for those who don't like to give out a number or what's app for those that don't mind.

A number is easily blockable so it doesn't bother me handing it out, plus I don't have it registered to any social media.

Mrs

Exactly it's easy to block an arsehole lol

Agreed It's long the convo on here "

It's easy to block one number but not easy to block if somebody is determined to give you grief and cause trouble. Messages from other numbers. From a friend's phone. From private numbers. Been there.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"I've cancelled meeting people if they won't swap another comms method in advance. I don't use fab outside the house, only on wi fi. I'm not leaving to travel somewhere without being able to get hold of someone.

Usually Kik or Snapchat - if it progresses I'm happy to swap numbers. I feel the majority of the time the conversation flows better off fab inbox.

I respect people's views not to share their number but they seem less impressed when I hold my own values aswell.

This ??

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

Any cpls care to tell more

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

When I was meeting as a single ,I only gave my number to men I'd met a few times and trusted .I wouldn't give it out to just anyone as some abuse it,ie calling or texting at all hours and ending up blocked.

Some maybe have something to hide ie a partner and for others it's because once you have a person's mobile ,you can often find a lot of info out about them .

We tend to use telegram ,you can chat as a group on it too .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s too many crazy people on here to be giving out numbers.

Also, what’s the need when communication can happen via this site? Personally I’m not one for phone conversations with strangers, so I find the messaging system on this works fine.

If we meet and get along then I’m ok giving my number after that point.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"I don't understand why people want my number, when we could talk on here and arrange to meet on here. I never ask for anyone's number/other socials etc. Maybe if you meet someone and you carry on seeing each other etc and both choose to, but I'm constantly asked about other socials, when I'm more than happy to just talk on here."

This for me too

I don't have a different play number for Fab and I don't want my 'real life' being mixed up with Fab fun creeping in with texts, calls, friend requests etc.

As the Offspring once said..... You gotta keep em separated

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Any cpls care to tell more "

About what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No-one has any need for our numbers. If they insist on it then obviously we aren't compatible.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Agreed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless we had a burner phone then we would never give our phone number over on here.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

We insist on it if it looks likely a meet is plausible. Helps out chancers. X

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I don't give out my contact details.

I am made that mistake when I first joined, never again.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I insist on a number when planning to meet and that's non negotiable.

Works well for me & I've never been hassled by anyone.

Though I do try to get to know them as much as possible before arranging a meet.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Why do I have to give a stranger from the internet my mobile number??? And why not willing to do that makes me "fake" or not interested in meeting???

I have learned my lesson in the past, gave my number to some and then got bombarded by messages at all hours, whenever they wanted to "chat". And if I didn't answer in time, they'd send even more messages. Yes, I know it's easy to block someone but I'd rather just keep my personal mobile number to myself. And no, I am not getting a burner phone just so I could give that number to people, thank you very much.

This site is good enough for initial conversations and arranging a potential meet. Further on, if you do take the conversation off site and things go wrong, you can't report the other person/people.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"We insist on it if it looks likely a meet is plausible. Helps out chancers. X"

Totally agree on this x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"We tend to move off here for group chats just because it's awkward having 3/4 way conversation on here, much easier when everyone can chip in and know who's speaking.

We use telegram for those who don't like to give out a number or what's app for those that don't mind.

A number is easily blockable so it doesn't bother me handing it out, plus I don't have it registered to any social media.

Mrs "

Likewise! We feel we're trusting others with the most valuable thing (bar the kid's of course

) in our lives, so why would we not trust them with our phone numbers.

Never had any make us regret that choice, however the only couple to have flaked on us were one's who wouldn't share theirs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont meet without talking on phone first, I have good reason. I just want to be sure he is who he says. Initially I was hesitant but then realised how many forms/ordering goods etc required my phone number.

I'd not exchange with just anyone obviously.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We tend to move off here for group chats just because it's awkward having 3/4 way conversation on here, much easier when everyone can chip in and know who's speaking.

We use telegram for those who don't like to give out a number or what's app for those that don't mind.

A number is easily blockable so it doesn't bother me handing it out, plus I don't have it registered to any social media.

Mrs

Likewise! We feel we're trusting others with the most valuable thing (bar the kid's of course

) in our lives, so why would we not trust them with our phone numbers.

Never had any make us regret that choice, however the only couple to have flaked on us were one's who wouldn't share theirs.."

Exactly if I can share my body and my partner with them I've no issue sharing my number

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Mr"

I think that’s fair enough.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We only give a number out to people we've already met more than once. And that's only if we like them enough to be real life friends. Everyone else gets messaged through fabmail or kik.

We gave a number to one couple, back in our early days, and the male half appeared in our friends suggestions on fb the next day.

We don't do phone calls as all our meets would be in a club anyway.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We keep all communication on here until the day of the planned meet when we will exchange numbers if required. We're more than happy to have a chat in the rooms on here or Skype to prove there's two of us and that we're both up for whatever we have sorted out.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I usually chat on here, if we both want to chat off here I have telegram for that. I only give my number out if I am going to meet someone, I just don't like giving my number out tbh.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Why do I have to give a stranger from the internet my mobile number??? And why not willing to do that makes me "fake" or not interested in meeting???

This site is good enough for initial conversations and arranging a potential meet. Further on, if you do take the conversation off site and things go wrong, you can't report the other person/people.

I have had the same thing that is why I don't give out my contact details.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Most phones can access fab. Why do you need a phone number?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't give my number to anyone until we've actually met, they don't need that kind of access to me. Here is perfectly acceptable to msg on.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"I don't give my number to anyone until we've actually met, they don't need that kind of access to me. Here is perfectly acceptable to msg on."

Do you not like to chat and verify before you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

We never give out actual telephone numbers. There are communication apps that do not require us to expose a detail we use for family and work related communications. Identity theft is a *very* real thing and we're not implying that is what you (OP) would do but there are people who do. Be safe online and do not expose your IRL details to anyone when there are much safer/smarter ways.

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Coz just because it's too easy for them to find stuff about you on social media, n it don't mean anything even if you have chatted for ages can still mean they are fake /time waster, I never give my number out

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I like to exchange Tel Nos pretty early on, I find it s out the fakes, I have two telephones,one is my regular and the other is my fab phone. A very select few get the regular phone number lol

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

Instead of worrying should I/shouldn’t I & what if’s there are other ways to call without sharing your number.

Like Snapchat & Telegram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

Same drama here. I like to have chat,laugh be free style to flow

Loads just want to type all day long.

I think its avoiding acccountability.

I say if you dont like my voice or picture. I will set you free myself. I aint got no time for whom aint got no time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use telegram!!

Way better thank kik. It blooming needs a " KIK " adds and crap paid services on there!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

It's for safety.

I've had a stalker in the past! Horrible experience. I had to keep the messages etc so I had evidence for the police! Kik is far safer for people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. No-one has any need for our numbers. If they insist on it then obviously we aren't compatible. "
Same for us

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

If we are serious about meeting then move to WhatsApp , at the very least Telegram

Will never do kik

I personally think that if you are at the point of a definite meet then why would you not want to share numbers

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I don't give my number to anyone until we've actually met, they don't need that kind of access to me. Here is perfectly acceptable to msg on.

Do you not like to chat and verify before you meet?"

I chat on here, they need to be site verified, that works for me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No-one gets my number until after I've met them....why would I want some random having it and then meeting to find out we aren't compatible in the flesh.

I've been on the site a few years and I can count on 1 hand how many people actually have my number.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Why exchange numbers? There are so many ways to message, video chat etc without exchanging numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a twin sim phone, so the couple of ppl that have it can only contact me on here first then I can turn on sim 2. It works and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while "

we never exchange numbers although we will chat on kik.

we have our fab lives and our our "vanilla" lives and we prefer to keep our privacy and security for our family.

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"Just intrigued. .

Why are some people on here so reluctant to exchange numbers after you've spoken for a while.

And you are genuine verified.

Seems like the logical next step.

Personally, puts me off if there's no exchange of details after a while

If we are serious about meeting then move to WhatsApp , at the very least Telegram

Will never do kik

I personally think that if you are at the point of a definite meet then why would you not want to share numbers

This is exactly my ethos

Once established everyone's cool then it's the natural progression

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I generally only give my number to someone I'm going to meet.

At least if I need a break from here or social media, I can just not log in. But if people are texting and calling I'll have no peace.

There is no need for my number.

Idle chat can stay on here or Kik."

This. When I was single I learned I should have at least kept all the guys I was chatting to on Snapchat or something, was a massive pain getting rid of everyone from every app!

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By *ssexboy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

West London

"I generally only give my number to someone I'm going to meet.

At least if I need a break from here or social media, I can just not log in. But if people are texting and calling I'll have no peace.

There is no need for my number.

Idle chat can stay on here or Kik.

This. When I was single I learned I should have at least kept all the guys I was chatting to on Snapchat or something, was a massive pain getting rid of everyone from every app! "

Here that girl but you can block easily right

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I generally only give my number to someone I'm going to meet.

At least if I need a break from here or social media, I can just not log in. But if people are texting and calling I'll have no peace.

There is no need for my number.

Idle chat can stay on here or Kik.

This. When I was single I learned I should have at least kept all the guys I was chatting to on Snapchat or something, was a massive pain getting rid of everyone from every app!

Here that girl but you can block easily right "

Absolutely, a great feature

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