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By *inabush OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Who else is completely sick of this ? Plus it’s so obvious to find out after a few messages. Why do they bother !

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Who else is completely sick of this ? Plus it’s so obvious to find out after a few messages. Why do they bother !"

Because thats how they bypass filters.

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Can usually tell by pics and if in doubt just say how big is your dick soon get blocked ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men think woman will dirty talk easier with woman. Have weird fantasies etc.

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Because men think woman will dirty talk easier with woman. Have weird fantasies etc. "

This.

It's really odd and a massively desperate need for attention.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I get this all the time did a thread before about it everyone went psycho

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

And Christ the amount of fake profiles I get to my leather kink insta because they think I'm a woman is just astounding

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"And Christ the amount of fake profiles I get to my leather kink insta because they think I'm a woman is just astounding "

What

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington


"And Christ the amount of fake profiles I get to my leather kink insta because they think I'm a woman is just astounding

What "

I make leather kink items like masks, collars and restraints and I get tons of messages from fakes thinking I'm a sub woman, it's crazy

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"And Christ the amount of fake profiles I get to my leather kink insta because they think I'm a woman is just astounding

What

I make leather kink items like masks, collars and restraints and I get tons of messages from fakes thinking I'm a sub woman, it's crazy"

How stupid

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

dublin

It’s the only way they try and get mails

Fake profile just ruining it - I think it should be compulsory to get photo verified every 6-12 months on here

I don’t think genuine people mind if it cut down the amount of fakes and messers on here

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"It’s the only way they try and get mails

Fake profile just ruining it - I think it should be compulsory to get photo verified every 6-12 months on here

I don’t think genuine people mind if it cut down the amount of fakes and messers on here "

Should be a fave verification system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men that do that must be desperate, twisted minds

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"The men that do that must be desperate, twisted minds "

Deep insecure issues no man of value

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A man pretending to be a woman…talking to a woman, thinking this is how women chat to each other…can instantly tell by the way they converse.

We chat about make up and laundry powder not sitting on someone’s face

Also have noticed that a lot of men put lol at the end of each sentence (#not all men) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the only way they try and get mails

Fake profile just ruining it - I think it should be compulsory to get photo verified every 6-12 months on here

I don’t think genuine people mind if it cut down the amount of fakes and messers on here "

Set your message filters to block unverified people, problem solved..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a hell of a lot of men out there who are just lonely, and a whole generation who haven’t actually learned the art of having a proper conversation through trial and error, and some as a result are also really ill-equipped to deal with rejection. If this medium allows them to chat to women where others won’t, then they’ll use it, simple as that. All you can do is filter as best you can. Sign of the times.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Who else is completely sick of this ? Plus it’s so obvious to find out after a few messages. Why do they bother !"

They need attention and dont get it in the normal way

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

They are just looking for free porn to wank over .

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close


"A man pretending to be a woman…talking to a woman, thinking this is how women chat to each other…can instantly tell by the way they converse.

We chat about make up and laundry powder not sitting on someone’s face

Also have noticed that a lot of men put lol at the end of each sentence (#not all men) xx"

My gf puts lol at the end of some of her sentences too, I don’t think it’s a male thing.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

It is easy to determine if a guy is pretending to be a female as womem express themselves differently in conversation. I don't chat over messages unless i know the person. Usually chat on cam in chat rooms so you can see who you are chatting to.

In my experience there are more guys pretending to be couples and the female if the couple than single guys.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"There are a hell of a lot of men out there who are just lonely, and a whole generation who haven’t actually learned the art of having a proper conversation through trial and error, and some as a result are also really ill-equipped to deal with rejection. If this medium allows them to chat to women where others won’t, then they’ll use it, simple as that. All you can do is filter as best you can. Sign of the times."

I do wonder if this is a failure of society to "teach" social skills in school/after school activities....

Whatever the reasons, it's sad that people think this is their only way of conversing with a woman.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"A man pretending to be a woman…talking to a woman, thinking this is how women chat to each other…can instantly tell by the way they converse.

We chat about make up and laundry powder not sitting on someone’s face

Also have noticed that a lot of men put lol at the end of each sentence (#not all men) xx

My gf puts lol at the end of some of her sentences too, I don’t think it’s a male thing."

I find it more an age demographic thing. I use lol at times and even at times go oldskool with coptor.

Of course younguns wouldn’t be seen dead using such terms. It’s all Poggers

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Or men pretending to be couples. Spotted two recently. It's just so bad!!!

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I get messages from "ladies" asking if I want to visit their glory hole... But no peaking! yeah right mate! Does she always have stubble?? Haha

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By *amster1210Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

It's really bad and getting worse

However have done glory hole with no peaking but was allowed to touch her boobs so was totally genuine lady

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

That's fair enough but for me seeing is believing particularly in this context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is completely sick of this ? Plus it’s so obvious to find out after a few messages. Why do they bother !"

For me, it's the shoes mainly.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I made a big mistake once thinking I was talking to a man when it was actually a women.

She blocked after trying to convince me over about an hour but I just couldn't get my head around how big her hands and feet were

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's really bad and getting worse

However have done glory hole with no peaking but was allowed to touch her boobs so was totally genuine lady "

Or a guy with moobs

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We can spot them a mile off, usual tell tale signs are verified by a webcam viewing (these shouldn't be allowed as standard verifications in our opinion - they should have their own process), few photos or none at all and very basic bios.

Our block list has loads!

- Dumble x

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

We have this all the time we arranged a meet and 30.mon before it he said she can't make it. But un known to him I had text her before hand a new he was coming on his own

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"It's really bad and getting worse

However have done glory hole with no peaking but was allowed to touch her boobs so was totally genuine lady

Or a guy with moobs"

That made me shiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im probably being naive by saying this but that would be completely desperate measures if guys did pretend to be women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time even in reference to speaking with single men. Multiple times ive suspected they’re not who they are. Frustrating to say the least?

I personally think everyone should photo verify as a minimum.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can be easily spotted without a message those hidden talents a woman has only she knows and the genuine guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's as bad with fake couples maybe everyone should be photo verified before having an active account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time after time….

There are some tell tale signs

Been on over a year with no veris

All the photos are old

Still…. For a couple looking for single female to join us, it makes it a little boring….

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't forget to report anyone who you think is fake. You can also block anyone unverified from mailing you from this link

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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