FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who's a fan of last minute meet? Tell us about your last one

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

This has become our new norm, very rarely arrange ahead. We go somewhere for a couple of drinks whilst browsing Fab. Then post up we are looking and see what responses we get, every time it’s been a really fun meet.

The last one was back to our hotel, before that it was outdoor/car fun on the way home. Love doing it that way. Never get let down as they don’t have time to back out lol

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

Did it with another couple in Walsall not long ago, normally happens when I’m fucked

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

A bit like a night out, the spontaneous meet is generally a winner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has become our new norm, very rarely arrange ahead. We go somewhere for a couple of drinks whilst browsing Fab. Then post up we are looking and see what responses we get, every time it’s been a really fun meet.

The last one was back to our hotel, before that it was outdoor/car fun on the way home. Love doing it that way. Never get let down as they don’t have time to back out lol"

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anybody else will join?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Only had three. All were disappointments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one with a couple when I first rejoined. It felt rather disappointing if I'm honest. I'd had a few drinks, and got them mixed up with another cpl I'd been chatting with

Needless to say I hadn't made that mistake again

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had one years ago. Only chatted for a day before meeting for a coffee and chat and it ended up the worst and scariest meet ever when we went back to the cars to leave.Never ever again will I meet anyone off here without chatting for a good while first.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only ever done it once. Chatted on the Saturday and she messaged on the Sunday morning inviting me to her hotel room.

It was 40+ miles away but I was passing on my way to somewhere else.

She had zero interest in my pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout until her friends in three next room rang her to go for breakfast.

Less than 30 mins in total and while it was a different experience and I've no regrets, it's not something I'd be interested in doing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had one earlier this year.. I thought it would be great fun. It wasn't. Really regretted it to be honest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We've had more success with just talking to people who happen be in the same place as us. You'd be surprised how many are open to suggestions. On the other hand we have been in hotels and bars and reached out on Fab and people are keen and then when we say ok suddenly there's a list of excuses.

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London

Definitely enjoyable experience spontaneous meets

Always happy to meet with the right couple/singles

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like a last minute meet - both sides are in the mood, in the same area but don’t have anything planned so it is much more likely to happen.

Haven’t had one since last autumn but they are always fun.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

By comparison to other meets I find spontaneous ones usually very disappointing.

Spontaneous fun with someone that I already know, however

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The last one was back to our hotel, before that it was outdoor/car fun on the way home. Love doing it that way. Never get let down as they don’t have time to back out lol"

In recent times this has become more and more the way we have gone about our business too. What we have noticed though is that we have tended to meet with unverified people this way, perhaps because there is less time for either side to have a reason not too meet, or more likely because if they don't turn up we have still had a good night out and therefore not wasted our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a shop and I was asked if I wanted to fuck... so we went in the back room and fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in a shop and I was asked if I wanted to fuck... so we went in the back room and fucked. "

Woah, that's definitely last minute lol. But blunt/to the point is my style.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I had a great spontaneous meet while up north for work last year. I think I posted up a meet saying I was in a hotel and among the messages I got was one girl who came across really well. Friendly, chatty and sexy. So she came to my hotel just an hour or two later and we had an absolutely fantastic night together. We’re still friends now, and next time we’ll plan it in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a woman on here pre-covid for a while, I was on a night out once and she lived just up the road ,literally, her husband was was working nights on the railways , she messaged me later on that night to come around , I bent her over the kitchen worktop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in a shop and I was asked if I wanted to fuck... so we went in the back room and fucked.

Woah, that's definitely last minute lol. But blunt/to the point is my style.

My friend of over 10 years. Still unexpected and hot though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good,and about confidence.

Many cant,dont,and wont step up!!

Live my life here in the present now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a spontaneous meet over one planned days or even weeks in advance.

Pre planned meets often get cancelled by either party. Either something comes up or they're just not in the mood.

After all, can any of us really guarantee that we'll be feeling particularly horny at any given time in the future?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a great spontaneous meet while up north for work last year. I think I posted up a meet saying I was in a hotel and among the messages I got was one girl who came across really well. Friendly, chatty and sexy. So she came to my hotel just an hour or two later and we had an absolutely fantastic night together. We’re still friends now, and next time we’ll plan it in advance."

Do like fabb real life actual results and experiences and outcomes.

Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last one was back to our hotel, before that it was outdoor/car fun on the way home. Love doing it that way. Never get let down as they don’t have time to back out lol

Sounds perfect

Wim win! Keep going , happy for positive go getters! My kinda mindset and people!

Iam up for the very same in london right now. Posted up a meet. Chopstix in central london!

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Spontaneous meets can be great but are few & far between in my experience...

But occasionally they have worked out..

Doubt I would have another,but never say never..

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"I was in a shop and I was asked if I wanted to fuck... so we went in the back room and fucked. "

Wow

What kind of shop was it?..

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"had one earlier this year.. I thought it would be great fun. It wasn't. Really regretted it to be honest."

What happened?..

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

Had some amazing ones and some terrible… it is what it is

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Had some great ones and couple of bad ones. Won’t stop us x

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

"Had some great ones and couple of bad ones. Won’t stop us x

Us neither… we go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had one earlier this year.. I thought it would be great fun. It wasn't. Really regretted it to be honest."

Not good. If you handnt tryed,you wudnt knw then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit like a night out, the spontaneous meet is generally a winner!"

Good ole days,face to face,what you see is what you get!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only had three. All were disappointments! "

Hope 4th,5th .

can only get better!!

Boyband song! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one with a couple when I first rejoined. It felt rather disappointing if I'm honest. I'd had a few drinks, and got them mixed up with another cpl I'd been chatting with

Needless to say I hadn't made that mistake again "

Lol blurry eyed eh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one years ago. Only chatted for a day before meeting for a coffee and chat and it ended up the worst and scariest meet ever when we went back to the cars to leave.Never ever again will I meet anyone off here without chatting for a good while first."

Can happen to the best of us!

Even happens to men being men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ever done it once. Chatted on the Saturday and she messaged on the Sunday morning inviting me to her hotel room.

It was 40+ miles away but I was passing on my way to somewhere else.

She had zero interest in my pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout until her friends in three next room rang her to go for breakfast.

Less than 30 mins in total and while it was a different experience and I've no regrets, it's not something I'd be interested in doing again. "

The bad memorys dont leave so quikly tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had more success with just talking to people who happen be in the same place as us. You'd be surprised how many are open to suggestions. On the other hand we have been in hotels and bars and reached out on Fab and people are keen and then when we say ok suddenly there's a list of excuses."

Online is 99% all talk no action.

You can never beat ever in the flesh.

The numbers all show on here and dateing sites all round!!

Too many here have too much to hide.

Many call out others Ugly etc,when themselves the mirror is Broken!! Lol

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Probably because we are a couple and we consider single males, once we post up a status saying we are out and looking to play, we can get around twenty messages. So we check out pics & veris to whittle them down then strike up a conversations with two or three of them. All over a glass of wine in a bar lol.

We then go with the one who ticks all the boxes and is responding quickest. As you can see from our veris, they’ve worked out well.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

A lot of mine are spontaneous as our social/work lives are hectic, it can be very arousing but also just as stressful sometimes.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

We have had a few spontaneous meets... Gets to about midnight and we feel like adding somebody extra.. Which does tend to leave the pool of options a little less well stocked.. Haven't had any nightmares, though they could probably have been better with planning.. Although I guess that is all part of the fun?

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Some of our best Meets have been, last minute, spur of the moment, spontaneous. Must confess to having a few mediocre ones as well, although nothing disastrous.

Each to their own, but it is not necessary for us to get to know someone first, although we have made some great friends on here. As a singleton, Mrs Wet was very much into stranger sex, so not an issue there for her. Mr Wet - well, he`s a bloke, so not an issue there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in a shop and I was asked if I wanted to fuck... so we went in the back room and fucked.

Wow

What kind of shop was it?.."

Are you going to give it a try?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meets have been last minute, spontaneous...

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Had some hot ones! However do prefer some guys i meet regular as you have a connection and more intimate at times.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’m not a planner, so spontaneous works well for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not a planner, so spontaneous works well for me

I'm with you as I never know when I'll be free and like to make most of when I am

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