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'hey guys' messages from single males!

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By *am and john OP   Couple
over a year ago

york

When your profile says couples only and your gallery shows that one of you is not a guy, do you get annoyed by such messages from single blokes? Or are many of them stupid and/or d*unk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello! Did you know you can change your settings to block single males from contacting you?

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"When your profile says couples only and your gallery shows that one of you is not a guy, do you get annoyed by such messages from single blokes? Or are many of them stupid and/or d*unk?"

We have addressed this issue in our profile, but just to save you having to read the whole thing, here is our advice, which we have copied and pasted.

Oh - and one other thing - for those that keep mentioning, ad nauseam, on their profiles - "NO SINGLE MALES." (They don`t take any fucking notice anyway). There really is a very simple solution - go to Message Filters on the menu on the left hand side, click on it, and Block Males. No more messages from single males AND you won`t even be able to see if they`ve looked at you (unless of course you need your egos massaging, which, clearly, a lot of people obviously do.) SCHIMPLES.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or do you mean you get annoyed by the term ‘hey guys’?

Would you rather they say Hey Woman and Man?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Not wanting to be tarred with the same brush I'm personally very respectful of folks requests, if it says no single males I'll leave alone just the same with age limits 60 is a limit, just because I'm only a couple of years older doesn't give me the right to ignore those wishes even if I think I might be a good fit.

Just being respectful in my book

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"When your profile says couples only and your gallery shows that one of you is not a guy, do you get annoyed by such messages from single blokes? Or are many of them stupid and/or d*unk?"

Why would they be stupid?

Language evolves, I'd argue that "hey guys" is in many ways used as a gender neutral term to describe a group of 2 or more people (whether it's an appropriate term is a different debate) and hardly seems an outrageous term to use. I'd be surprised if no couple has ever used the term too

Or you could just block single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your settings so you don’t have to be bombarded with unwanted messages.

I can only imagine what kind of harassment you ladies and couples get but I do know that not everyone is the same so hopefully we’re not all tarnished with the same brush x

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"Or do you mean you get annoyed by the term ‘hey guys’?

Would you rather they say Hey Woman and Man? "

Ah, I see what you mean. OP, if this is the case, then please disregard our advice.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s just a greeting, I say it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems as if everyone and their dog (not a real dog, just a figure of speech. Like "guys") wants to complain about being messaged by guys on here. Just block it, ignore it or reply saying no thanks (totally not expected btw, it's rare to get a no thanks message)

Really though, complaining guys message you, and use the term "guys"? Or are you complaining they say "hey" too? There's literally nothing a guy can do right on here if these daily threads are anything to go by. People get allsorts of abuse in here, let's deal with that, instead of getting offended by a nice harmless message, sorry it must be hard to be so popular

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think of guys as fairly neutral. Or at least applicable to mixed groups.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"When your profile says couples only and your gallery shows that one of you is not a guy, do you get annoyed by such messages from single blokes? Or are many of them stupid and/or d*unk?"
just put your age limit to 98/99 and nobody can message you...... Then you just select who you want to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liking the replies here.

Yiu guys make me laugh.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a higher word count than the “Hi” messages I get from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Liking the replies here.

Yiu guys make me laugh.

Winston "

Yes Winston!

I am loving replying to them. I find these threads be so boring so I thought I would light the fuse and see how big I can make the hole explode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh err.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Well that went well

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I get "hey guys"....and I'm a single female lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

User no longer on site. Lol.

For a guy crying that boys looked at him, he had the GAYEST profile picture I've ever seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called filters, not only associated with snapchat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do you mean you get annoyed by the term ‘hey guys’?

Would you rather they say Hey Woman and Man? "

Goonies hey yooou guuuys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do you mean you get annoyed by the term ‘hey guys’?

Would you rather they say Hey Woman and Man?

Goonies hey yooou guuuys "

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Definitely d*unk. As are we.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Not 'hey guys', but I get so much 'hey' from single males.

Can't really block single males 'cause after all... I'm here for the cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we're here, what is it you'd like us to say?

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