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“You can use me as you want”

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By *inklers OP   Man
over a year ago

norwich

If a meet said to you that you could do anything you wanted with them or use them as you like, what would you do?

Not sure if this is lack of fantasies or imagination on their part or just that they are happy for you to fulfil your fantasies with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read that and my first thoughts are either serious boundary issues or just lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet said to you that you could do anything you wanted with them or use them as you like, what would you do?

Not sure if this is lack of fantasies or imagination on their part or just that they are happy for you to fulfil your fantasies with them "

Be afraid, because that is a huge statement to make and really needs some negotiation before moving forward.

But maybe that's just me

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Have them make me a cuppa.

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By *oubleDistractionCouple
over a year ago

S glos

I have a huge ironing backlog to clear...

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I woukd be thinking "Bullshit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take it as ‘use whichever hole you want’ but that could just be me, as I’m always cautious with pushing anything beyond peoples boundaries unless I’m told specifically to do something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d lick her bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d need to be convinced we both had, and respected, safe words. Consent is everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, it’s just smacks of lack of imagination or more probably just desperation/take anything they can get. Would be a no from me I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d need to be convinced we both had, and respected, safe words. Consent is everything "

Isn’t them saying use me as you want consent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d need to be convinced we both had, and respected, safe words. Consent is everything

Isn’t them saying use me as you want consent?"

It very well could be, but if they changed their mind or it went too far I’d want to know

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yup, it’s just smacks of lack of imagination or more probably just desperation/take anything they can get. Would be a no from me I’m afraid "

That's how it reads to me.

Said in the midst of passionate sex is slightly different though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d need to be convinced we both had, and respected, safe words. Consent is everything

Isn’t them saying use me as you want consent?"

I think it's best to establish Informed Consent, rather than just assuming consent has been given!

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'd lose all interest in meeting them.

Everyone has limits, there is no way I would ever consider meeting someone who can't or won't express them.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"I’d need to be convinced we both had, and respected, safe words. Consent is everything

Isn’t them saying use me as you want consent?"

I've had a couple of meets where there were 'no limits' and the discussions and negotiation around hard limits, consent and most importantly safety were lengthy to say the least.

Use me as you want isn't consenting to every act yiu can imagine it's consenting to every act they've considered and the 2 are unlikely to match

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"If a meet said to you that you could do anything you wanted with them or use them as you like, what would you do?

Not sure if this is lack of fantasies or imagination on their part or just that they are happy for you to fulfil your fantasies with them "

They would be in for a shock when I had them round to wash up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them to refresh my gloss paint throughout the house

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

This thread just reminded me of something.

Years ago, I was seeing a girl. I’d been working late, alone at the studio, and she called round - a little d*unk and a lot horny. We ended up upstairs, where there was a little chillout room with a sofa. I had her bent over the sofa, and was fucking her from behind, slowly. I was leaning forward, my head beside hers, and she turned to whisper in my ear: “You can put it anywhere, you know.”

It didn’t change what I was doing. I didn’t suddenly pull out and ram it up her arse instead, or anything daft like that. It was just a very sexy moment. And it’s a hot memory.

So thanks OP, for triggering that.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"If a meet said to you that you could do anything you wanted with them or use them as you like, what would you do?

Not sure if this is lack of fantasies or imagination on their part or just that they are happy for you to fulfil your fantasies with them "

I would say that but add "within the set boundaries". There are always boundaries. Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - is this a first meeting?

Or someone you’ve met a handful of times?

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By *otfun75Man
over a year ago

leeds

This sounds fun to me I’m game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say they are trying to please you, everyone has boundaries and limits. Respect and understanding is important between both parties, then you can talk about acting out fantasies and such like.

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

Maybe they are testing your limits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything?

I’d have her clean the van in and out

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Immediately reminded me of the blonde bombshell in a tight minidress pulling up in her open-top sportscar, smiling, and telling me I could take whatever I fancied...

....I took the car.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Depending on the circumstances, I could take it as a compliment and an opening of a discussion, to explore the specifics. I've has people say it a couple of times and it was lack of imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing happens without a safe word.

But I suspect laziness rather than a desire for total lack of control.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Nothing tantalising about this for us

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich


"Nothing tantalising about this for us "

U mind me asking what is …

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Sounds to me as they are completely submissive, open for whatever they are going to experience. The surprise factor, maybe it's more exciting for them.

Could be very risky though.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Nothing tantalising about this for us

U mind me asking what is …"

Comedy; naughty chatter; sensual fun

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I'll fuck as hard as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet said to you that you could do anything you wanted with them or use them as you like, what would you do?

Not sure if this is lack of fantasies or imagination on their part or just that they are happy for you to fulfil your fantasies with them "

Your probably making to easy for them.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Get their bank cards and PIN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave. People who say that have no idea about consent or negotiations that lead to safe play.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I'd be very wary, gut instinct would probably say 'bunny boiler '.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

I don't even know why am saying this what fudge !

There is or definitely should be limits and boundaries! Just thinking about this makes me feel uncomfortable!

I hope EVERYONE is safe ALWAYS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be very wary, gut instinct would probably say 'bunny boiler '."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gut instinct would be.....awesome

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