FabSwingers.com forum: daytime meets

By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

i know any meet is very difficult to get for guys , but daytime meets seem impossible, anyone else feel the same ?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong?

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Daytime weekends are fine. Is that what you mean?

Daytime weekday we and lots of others are working of course so yep you are reducing the odds. Of course daytime during the week suggests playing away without permission which puts many off. Many clubs have daytime weekday events to cater for such people

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We’re often asked if we can meet in the day but never can because we both work full time.

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I like meeting day times as I have a very flexible job and it fits in easier around family and rugby and other commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

especially when then they use the word 'discreet' or as some say 'discrete'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can meet anytime but we’ve never had a really decent offer.

Daytimes are usually the haunt of the shadow avatar and all private pictures guy looking for discrete nsa for some odd reason.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

With the variety of shift patterns that some people work now, daytimes can simply be when they're most often available...

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Daytime meets are best for me as I no longer work, my daughter is at school and my wife is at work. It gives me much more flexibility. And yes, my wife does know I'm on here and she's fine with it before anyone starts making comments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

We’re just free during the day sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

Any herein lies the stereotype reinforcement that is often wrong... Some of us are the boss, self employed and can conduct their day just how they please. .. 100pc single.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Bry) work odd shift patterns and have random days off. Char works from home and is self-employed. It gives us the flexibility for daytime meets and we both feel sexier in the mornings.

Char's daytime meets are sometimes when I'm at work but doesn't mean she's cheating on me.

(Bry)

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We like daytime meets as kids are at school.

We tend to meet older retired men and found them to be free during the day as well.

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

Some truth in that, however I’m a sports coach and work most evenings until late .. daytime suits me better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look better in the dark haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us I work very long days and might not be home for days Laura is a teacher so we do meets when we can weather it's daytime or evening all depends on when we're both free

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

for me it's easier as my kid who lives with me is at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

This

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Always preferred meets during the daytime.

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By *otally BenettonCouple
over a year ago

shropshire

We can only do daytime meets due to family needs. We appreciate that this drastically reduces our chances of meeting likeminded people, which is a real shame.

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Some of us work evenings/nights.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I actually prefer daytime meets, I like a lazy afternoon in bed.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Seeing as I run my own business.. the odd day meet has worked for me … just slip off for materials

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

I agree the offers I've had for day meets are often from men sneaking around ,not always though.

Some work normal office hours op and can't just leave work for a meet ,whilst others do shifts so it might suit them better.

All depends on the individuals.

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

sutton

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

You are wrong! I’m not attached and very much single so I’d be down for a day or evening meet

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

Working shifts mean that daytime meets can sometimes be better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly flexible but like most still struggle for a meet daytime or evenings, weekdays or weekends. Its obviously because of the ratio of women to men. I wish I was a couple looking for another couple but don't think it would be any easier.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Much prefer a daytime meet

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By *ello HarveyMan
over a year ago

Lots of places

I love daytime meets, means I don’t have to worry about childcare lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

This is generally what I tend to think, rightly or wrongly plus I work weekday daytimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol

Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "

Yes you're wrong. Some of us work day shifts, night shifts or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a chance to meet up with anyone, not for the want of trying

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Daytime just easier for me and I am 100% single.

I have a weird shift pattern and days of in the week are common and preferable as when days off fall on weekends I have family meet ups to do, with those that don’t get week days off.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I like daytime meets

I like cheeky quick lunchtime meets

I like evening meets.

It's just a case of fitting in with the other person & waiting for the start to align, so to speak.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Bored School run mums appreciate meets between 9am and 3pm.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Sure many have genuine reasons for wanting daytime meets during the week but can't get away from the fact that making it harder to meet people, especially men. Much smaller pool of ladies/couples free weekday daytimes.

When we used to run groups had group socials. Men were clamouring for them but when we fixed for Saturday night vast majority were unable to attend. Most of the couples/ladies were fine. We tried Friday instead and same result

Don't think it was all because of shift patterns etc.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

*especially FOR men

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