FabSwingers.com forum: When did you first join?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.

I met some life long friends. Since then I have left and returned a few times. The reason for this comment is that I have just been browsing the ‘hot pics’ and some here have been here (albeit on and off) as long as me, I have seen them mature and change into hopefully them selves.

When I joined I was very vanilla, inexperienced as had only ever had 2 long term GF’s but a couple adopted me and showed me all I needed to see and took me on a journey of enlightenment that has led me to far different tastes.

What’s you Fab story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First joined Fab in Feb 2018, if I recall correctly. Left in the summer, rejoined in the autumn.

Stayed on for a quite while, left in a mantrum. Rejoined shortly after with my tail between my legs, which is my current membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined around April 2014....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 2014 I think.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I can’t remember. It’s been that long …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 weeks ago

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By *oodles09Woman
over a year ago

Newark

4 months ago...created account about a year ago but it was just a quick nosey

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes (Currently Pattaya)

I first joined in in 2013 as a single guy, met a wonderful lady on here, we then had a couples profile for 7 years, alas we split last year, so back on a single profile.

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By *rimly FiendishMan
over a year ago

Heath Hayes

Haha i remember SH,i was an Op on there for quite a while.

Got booted off for coming on here,i think theres still a few people on here that were on SH too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, I was active in the lov* hon** forums and realised there were people out there wanting to meet with others for play (this was when I didn't know swinging or anything like this was a thing). So looked about online and found swing*** heav**, but to me it felt really scam-y and fake so I didn't bother. But in the forums someone responded to one of my questions and recommended this site. And that's when I joined here. I couldn't join cos I wasn't old enough to be here lol. But joined soon as I was.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Same here... 2004 on the other site you mentioned and I'm still a member. But thankfully the members before becoming a payed site didn't have to pay only for the extra... Been on fab since 2015. Many friends from both sites and a few that have become friends outside of the sites for the last 15yrs.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

1986, used to fill my fax machine with yellow paper for messages to come in…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time was 2015 after a brief spell on SH the year before

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

2015,wanted to taste a little difference,had a few good meets a few not so good then the dreaded covid....

Now looking for the elusive fwb/female/social sideXx

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By *nityCouple
over a year ago

stowmarket

Original all the way back in 2010 when my marriage failed, introduced by a female friend, left once, rejoined about 6 months later, met the current wife through her sister on this site, left as a single guy after running a joint account for a while along side my single one. Now run the couples account and the wife has her single account.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

First joined in July 2021 but we didnt actually meet anyone until February this year

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

I first joined here around 2014 I think a single first then with my now ex partner as a couple and now back to just the singles profile.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Joined about 2010 ish, as I'd been to clubs etc as a single, researched best sites as I did clubs to visit, had a few friends on here always a good site to show who I am at clubs, rather than instant meets etc had a few though

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

First Evri is from 2008 so I guess around then lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Joined in 2016 aged 52 and left 2 months later following a really bad and ultimately dangerous first meet. Came and went a couple more times with varying degrees of success before creating this profile in 2019.

Made some amazing long term friends and avoided some long term lunatics and drama queens.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

2 months ago.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Joined a site called fuckbuddies 8 years ago now - its a paid site, never quite came off it but joined fab 4 years ago once I heard about it - this place is much nicer comm_nity my original site has a more vanilla crowd hence me not leaving.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Just seen I've been a member of ab fabs and kesterals since 2004, I must be 39 by now haha, single and sain just know what I like by now

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

I joined in 2013. I used to find it fairly easy to get meets in the early days of joining but now it's saturated with guys like me. Lol.

It's been good and I found I like cock once in a blue moon too so it's not all bad.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

April 2010 I think. Wish there was a way to see exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2018 was very briefly on SH

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"I joined in 2013. I used to find it fairly easy to get meets in the early days of joining but now it's saturated with guys like me. Lol.

It's been good and I found I like cock once in a blue moon too so it's not all bad. "

Certainly adds to it. I agree I've had more luck on dating sites for a night out

Have been lucky as a few fwb were keen to explore with clubs etc

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Think 2016

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I think I was about 24 years old. And it was slim pickings back then. I met some couples that I’m still good friends with.

Now I can’t even open my inbox for ten mins without a flood of horny men sending me pictures of those graboids off The movie Tremors. Not really sure why?!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"April 2010 I think. Wish there was a way to see exactly x"

I joined before you so I must have been here since 2010.

I always thought it was 2011.

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I first joined a similar site in 2002, called "swing 2 us", the the "heaven" website before it was a paysite, then was introduced to this site

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"For me in 2004 but was a site very similar called Swing*** Heav** - anyone remember it? It became a paid site in 2006 and most left to join here, or those who I was chatting too did. I came across and although few members back then I have fond memories as was a great culture.

What’s you Fab story? "

We was on Swinger hev too moved here 2016..

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Urm... I can't actually remember I think it's about 9/10 years. Had times where I've stepped back, hidden my profile and stuff. But I could never give it up!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"April 2010 I think. Wish there was a way to see exactly x

I joined before you so I must have been here since 2010.

I always thought it was 2011.

It was u that brought me over I think. Didn't use it for ages as drowned in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2014 I think, still haven't had much luck

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"First Evri is from 2008 so I guess around then lol "

Then I'm guessing the same time!

I know I joined A.N.Other site in 2007 and people gradually moved over here but I wasn't sure if that was 2007, 2008 or possibly even 2009?

I've been here since then switching between single and/or couple profiles in that time

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

me and hubs joined this site within a couple weeks of its birth we've always been here just we never kept our profiles (for good reason) was on a biggest site at the time loads of us made the jump there was quite a few sites back then and all the chats groups like aol xcite yahoo

fab is the king site tho long live the king

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, this isn’t my first ride. Was a London Fabber a few years ago, and been on here once or twice while finding my feet in Brizzle.

It’s still as intoxicating and annoying as ever though, innit?

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Been on here around 10 years. Think it’s time with having an app developed

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By *ogan_198506Man
over a year ago

Hamshire/Surrey

Been on and off for around 10 years.

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By *ogan_198506Man
over a year ago

Hamshire/Surrey

I said about this before and people weren’t keen. I thought an app would be really good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"me and hubs joined this site within a couple weeks of its birth we've always been here just we never kept our profiles (for good reason) was on a biggest site at the time loads of us made the jump there was quite a few sites back then and all the chats groups like aol xcite yahoo

fab is the king site tho long live the king"

I started years ago on a site named UKswingers... It was good at the time but diminished when fab came along I believe x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I joined about 7 years ago, I think. I had already joined fabguys, then I joined here as a single guy. And later as a couple.

It's been the best of times and the worst of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined in August 2018.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of weeks ago

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

Before fabs or sh where even thought of!

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

Bout 2011/12 time after SH

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

During the first lockdown in 2020 I believe. It was suggested to me by an old friend on mine so thought I give it a go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha i remember SH,i was an Op on there for quite a while.

Got booted off for coming on here,i think theres still a few people on here that were on SH too."

Yep, I do remember there being some ‘either or’ stuff going in in the forums. Was quite a nice site before it became fully paid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didnt know SH Was still a thing, I thought it died at death in 2006. It certainly changed alot then from what it were. Since finding this, I have never entertained any other sites.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I first logged on here shortly after the site started, back in 2006 - similar to some of the above posters, I was on SH prior to joining Fab, and still am, with 'grandfather rights'...

....over the years, I've found things have swung between the two, in that sometimes I've had more meets through one for a while, then the other - if I include meets via SH prior to joining Fab, they balance out fairly evenly...

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha "

Planning on celebrating it in suitable fashion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha "

Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.

You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead.

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By *rimly FiendishMan
over a year ago

Heath Hayes

"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha

Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.

You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead. "

Lmao and disappear for a couple of minutes every hour to reconnect the dial up.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

About 10 years ago, different account. Had an 8 year break and now I'm back

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha

Planning on celebrating it in suitable fashion?

Actually we’re off to penthouse, so yes I suppose we are

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

"Next week is our 1 year fabaversary haha

Congratulations on year 1! Year one was my most impressionable as it changed me when discovered things I didn't know existed.

You have the beauty of a smart phone instead of a desk top pc, MSN Messenger and windows XP Or 98 to communicate. Everyone used to come on line at about 7 after dinner. Day times were usually dead. "

Thank you, yes it’s certainly been an eye opener!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined with my guy profile in 2012

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beginning of 2020.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a couple of years ago; without the forums and wanting to keep in touch with a really nice woman friend in Scotland (online only) I probably wouldn't stay. I have much more fun and about as much success in terms of sex meeting people socially in the 'real world' without the aggravation and time wasted on here, where genuine people (men anyhow) with any manners or of any interest or attraction seem few and far between.

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By *uff and FruitCouple
over a year ago

ely

Was on a different site Probably about 2006 then this site maybe ayear later, so a long time

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

Started as a single man meeting couples via the personals of the free ad papers like Loot and Trade it back in the early nineties. Was on the other site mentioned as a single, then here as a single and now as a couple though my fav was the long gone fet site, IC, through which I met lots of wonderful women and also another fet site, bondage.cxx which was once good. Not sure it even exists now.

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By *hilled_CplCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I (he) also started on the Heaven site after seeing an article about it in a magazine. Started off just using the chatrooms and had some good laughs before plucking up the nerve to progress to meets and socials. Migrated over here at some point but have been absent for 10 or so years but am now back with the love of my life for some new adventures as a couple.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I came across in that first exodus as well. Great times

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Haha also an SH transplant! I had joined out of curiosity when I was a student but never got active. I missed the commercialisation of the site. I recovered the old free account in my mid 30s and started using it for real. And there was a period where everyone on SH chat was mentioning fabs aaaall the time! So in the end I got too curious and joined in 2014

Have come and gone many times, my single fem accounts especially never last long.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I had to look at my verifications and my first was in 2009. Oooo that's a long time ago. I was on a site to find adult friends prior to here.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

What’s you Fab story? "

I loved SH its where I met my 1st Cuck couple, they were amazing. We learnt a lot from each other, that went on for a few yrs & there was enough trust we moved to BB,

They tried this site but didn't like it.

Still hope they'll come back to the lifestyle one day

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Roughly 8-9 years ago

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

7 years ago.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

our first thing was uk chat on aol late nineties then dean and matties dirty daves swingers europe which became sdc heaven and here from the very start early 200s i think

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I began swinging in about 1995/96.. I was 19. Have been on various sites used icq and msn/ yahoo chat rooms... moved onto sites when they came about. Been on fab a very very long time. It was all very shiny and new when I first joined

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Can’t remember when i joined. When I first got married and my wife was really horny we had an account with another swinging site but people left for here so I followed. I’m guessing around 2014. I had a few bice meets and veris then decided to leave and delete my account. Came back around 2018 I think! Love this site really. Shame wifey’s not into it too. If I’m ever single again, I’ll be wife-hunting on this site! I’m fed up with the limitations of monogamy with someone uninterested in sex. Swingers are fun and have fun and that’s what life ought to be!

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By *ature couple 60Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We joined in 2019

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By *mmaCD1029TV/TS
over a year ago

Bangor

6/7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on a year now. 2 meets and lots of flakes.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"our first thing was uk chat on aol late nineties then dean and matties dirty daves swingers europe which became sdc heaven and here from the very start early 200s i think

I was on Dirty-David's until it went fully commercialised as part of the adult hub network - it became almost identical in format and content to a handful of other sites, right down to some individual profiles...

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Joined in 2007 still on the same profile aswell

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Been off and on, since 2008.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great hearing all the various different stories and joining times, I an surprised there are so many oldies like me on here. Some even older! I didn't know swinging could be a thing before the internet!

Funny how a lot like me leave and return! Do you think once you have experienced it, you can never truly banish it? X

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

I joined around 13/14 years ago

Time flies when you're having fun lol

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Joined Fab about a month ago, but been in the scene since 1998, then retired in 2006, then back again early this year.

My god, it has changed a lot.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

The us website the then the heaven one then my friends one a dabble on the find a friend as well

Been a well establish member for a number of years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 5 months ago for us

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