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Flogger Vs Crop Vs Paddle….

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By *ull English with tea OP   Man
over a year ago

London

What’s your favourite and why?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Different strokes for different folks…they all have their place. Hard to pick a favourite!

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge

Has to be a flogger, more options on its use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different strokes for different folks…they all have their place. Hard to pick a favourite! "

Definitely agree with this also who's using them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above.

I just really like impact play lol. It's my favourite.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I prefer floggers, they are more adaptable. You can't sensibly florentine with paddles (that being said "Underworld" has 20 second whip florentining scene).

Floggers falls can range from silk to chain metal and can be and used for different sensations.

I have more floggers than is sensible and I am susceptible to flogger porn (pictures of floggers, though it is rare I don't mind seeing a properly wielded flogger in porn). My favourites are my " not black hawks" mini poi floggers from kabunza, and my "kitten" from Daisy.

I also have different types of paddles, crops and whips.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Flogger every time.

The leather tips can be used to caress or sting with no distinguishing movement in the motion.

The impact can be made to sound harder than it acutely is, so anticipation is harder to control and fractionation into subspace is easier to develop.

However, at times a cane is stunning, especially if creating coloured patterns and shapes and overpowering conscious everyday thought.

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though."

I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.

Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .

But a hand is always the best.

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By *ull English with tea OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.

I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.

Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .

But a hand is always the best."

I do like a hand - skin on skin contact has something none of the above has!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Hand wins every time

Crop is used on the pussy

K

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"What’s your favourite and why? "

Love a good flogger, weight can give a good thud and a sting if needed, just has a better feel than the others for me

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I think my profile picture answers your question OP

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Hand wins every time

Crop is used on the pussy

K"

Your poor cat.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Floggers for the ability to showboat on a club

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Different strokes for different folks…they all have their place. Hard to pick a favourite! "

exactly this

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Enjoy using all, and each has its place,but floggers edge it for me, mostly because I have more variety of lengths, weights and fabrics.

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By *ack and MiriCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Miri was a big fan of the paddle untill we discovered the joys of the flogger now its one of our go to toys

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By *erandSir2020Couple
over a year ago

Telford

Personally my favourite is the flogger. I like a heavy suede one that packs a punch. Sir can florentine and the alternate thwacks reduce me to a puddle! We've practised quite extreme BDSM a long time meaning marks etc aren't a huge factor now. Flogging takes me to subspace very quickly. We do use canes and paddles as well though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a well wielded riding crop, especially if the wielder is wearing jodhpurs and riding boots...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.

I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.

Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .

But a hand is always the best."

Yes agreed, hand spanking trumps all!

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

All three! they all offer different impact feeling and sensation. I would start with a bare hand, then use a leather flogger, then my suede flogger for a more thuddy impact, then back to the hand. Add some ice for a different sensation and to bring the blood up to the surface, then a leather paddle, followed by a wooden paddle. Stop for more ice and a feather tickler, then finish with the crop and cane.

Once the bum is nicely reddened, use candle wax to complete the session.

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By *ndisMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love having a flogger used on me the best. Find the marks go quicker! A paddle gets painful a lot faster if used on the same place but like the thwack noise

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)


"Paddle, just sounds better. Flogger is more of a thud, crop I never really enjoyed using, what exactly is that tiny bit of leather flapping about supposed to do? Paddle, just use it gently, it soon raises a colour, and the wriggles it produces, so enticing. I'm not into the more severe side of it though.

I beg to differ on the crop. I ended up on a St. Andrew's Cross at my first kink party. The Domme 'inducting' me left some pretty impressive marks.

Personally impact play does nothing when used on me. But my wife loves floggers, and it's just as well I'm a bit of a sadist too .

But a hand is always the best.

Yes agreed, hand spanking trumps all! "

Another vote for hand spanking!

I do like the impact and sound of a paddle though, and floggers and crops are great for a nice sensual tease while I'm enjoying the restraints and blindfold

K x

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Interesting discussion. Looks like flogger is the winner reading the comments and would probably agree overall as so much flexibility on size and type but why choose? Love them all and all have a place. Crop is favourite for using while fucking as easy to get power into short sharp strokes.

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Out of those three, paddle, but much prefer hand and belt.

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By *ull English with tea OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Some interesting responses - I prefer a paddle but will be exploring more with a flogger given some of the posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them are good for different reasons. My personal favourite is the flogger for play and paddle for discipline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what your using it, a flogger is more playful a paddle is more for disapline, I use all but always respect the boundries of the play partner, if they like the crop but not the paddle then thats whats used.

But all have their purpose, and some leave better marks than others

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

All of the above, with vampire flogger being fave.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I enjoy using all of them at different times and it depends on the result I want to achieve. I still enjoy a good cane and as always bare hand is a lot of fun.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

If I had to pick one it would be a flogger but I prefer variety in impact play so you can warm up, test, sustain and then bring a bottom back to earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are all sorts out there, so a simple choice is not trivial. I like my kangaroo flogger, but you can't go too far wrong with a paddle either. T certainly doesn't complain if she's being paddled while being fucked . I've also made floggers out of rope in the past, kind of like knitting for the kinky!

Let's here it for the trusty old belt too ... anyone?

C.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

A leather belt is indispensable in the bedroom…so many uses!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My favourite and conversely My Girls least favourite is a heavy leather spanker. Smooth flat leather on one side, rubber tyre tread pattern on the other side. It's so well made and weighty. I love to look that comes across her face when she see's it come out and knows she pushed her bad behavior too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A leather belt is indispensable in the bedroom…so many uses! "

Totally agree

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By *rs W AnchorWoman
over a year ago

North Norfolk

I'm just starting on my impact play journey and discovering that I really bloody like it. The flogger is definitely my fave though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just starting on my impact play journey and discovering that I really bloody like it. The flogger is definitely my fave though "

It leaves nice marks and redness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firm Hand

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Floggers here, just because of the variety. So many materials and sizes all of which create different sensations.

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