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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering! is it true once you get to 40 you lose count of how old you are? So instead you just make up a around about number for your age. Just wondering thats all.

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I sometimes think I'm the only man on here putting my real age down. I get contacted by guys younger than me who look ten years older than I am.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’ve put my real age

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Real age hear, don’t see the point in lying as you’ll only get caught out. It’s just a number anyway

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I've lost count, but know I've had 2 more birthdays since my 40th so can usually work it out.

Either that or I look at my own profile, as that's all true then the age must be right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age isn't accurate.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My age is accurate but kick myself daily for not pretending to be 5yrs younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had so many guys over 35 say to me that they are older than their profile age and they reduced it to get around someone’s filters.

If you lie about your age, what else are you lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet on here was a couple they were in they mid 50s

They still here they still in they mid 50s

And that was 12 years ago

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

My age is right

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Our age is exact . Have been contacted by a lot who’s is definitely dubious

The worst one was 45 but in reality closer to 65. Or a really hard paper round

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Real age here...

....18 months ago it tipped me over the upper age limit of anyone who set theirs to 60 - there definitely aren't as many people actively looking for over-60s...

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By *ilf71Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Real age here, don’t see the point in deceiving people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my real age.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Our age is exact . Have been contacted by a lot who’s is definitely dubious

The worst one was 45 but in reality closer to 65. Or a really hard paper round "

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Those paper rounds can really age a person can't they

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Ours are accurate too, why bother telling fibs,

what are folks going to think when they meet you for the first time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is not true.

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

I’m 49 and D is 55. Can’t see the point to lying about our ages, we’re certainly not ashamed. C.

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire


"My age is accurate but kick myself daily for not pretending to be 5yrs younger."

Don’t!, - You look younger and also fantastic. In my opinion older women who look younger and happy with telling there age is even more appealing x

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Mine is my real age. I'd rather be complimented for looking younger than my age (as arrogant as that sounds) than lie!

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

I’m 49 and D is 55. Can’t see the point in lying about our ages, we’re certainly not ashamed. C.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Real age hear, don’t see the point in lying as you’ll only get caught out. It’s just a number anyway "

Yep. It's just a number.

So of you're actually 40 bit have spent too much time in the sun for hears and have a leathered look about you, have hereditary male pattern baldness and started going grey at 25 then nobody will believe you anyway and assume you're 50.

Likewise if you're a baby faced 50 year old who puts their real age people will question is it accurate.

Of course some fib to get round filters and age preferences. Equally some add or subtract a single year to distance their Fab profile from their real life.

I've said often enough. In a swinging club nobody asks your age. In the real world when attempting to pull in a bar or nightclub how many people ask for photo ID ?

Some are adamant than any deviation on a profile from the exact date you dropped from your mother's womb is a shocking offence and that those guilty should be tarred, feathered and hung from Tower Bridge. Others just gloss over the fine details, raise they're physically attracted to the photos they see and aren't looking for a long term life partner and don't give a hoot if someone is 13 months older than their stated Fab age.

Is mine accurate? Nope. I've never hid that. Given Fox's age I don't need to change it to get round filters. It's just to be more discreet.

Do I look the stated Fab age. Yep. Actually on occasion I'd get away with a lower number, so there's hardly any deception. Has anyone we've ever met cared? Nope.

So long as someone looks the age they've stated we'd never ask for a passport, driving licence or for their parents to contact us to confirm their date of hatching.

We're more bothered when someone fibs about their cock size than their age.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines real

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Ours are our real ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My is right wish it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age and location are wrong for my own reasons, when chatting about meeting I let them know and exchange face pics, no ones run screaming.... Yet

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

We have had a couple of social meets and they have been way older than thier fab pics.

Not sure what reaction they expect but for us if they lie about the obvious stuff then what next.

Dissapointing when you make the effort to meet x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My age is within a fortnight of my real age. Slightly out for anonymity purposes

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading


"Ours are our real ages "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real age, why lie, yes lots have 60 as top age but I'm still not going to lie.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Real age here, don’t see point in lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is accurate but kick myself daily for not pretending to be 5yrs younger."

Do you think you would get away with it?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I’ve had so many guys over 35 say to me that they are older than their profile age and they reduced it to get around someone’s filters.

If you lie about your age, what else are you lying about?"

Same but with me, it's men over 55 saying that they're in their 40s to get around filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is not true. "

Not surprising to be honest!

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I’m 53, see no point in lying!! Get sussed if you meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

No matter how old a man says they are Men never get past 12……… look we all know it!!!!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im 80 but knocked it down to 56 felt fitter and younger overnight,,

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"My age is not true. "

Nor gender!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

The problem with lying is when you get to a meet and look visibly different to your photos, will you then get upset if you were to get called out on it

My experience is people do, but it's their own fault for misleading others in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines out by a year which I feel is neither here nor there really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly my age is correct although my mental age is probably around 25…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked date of birth, always give it correctly.

It's only if asked age as a number/years, while casually chatty that might say it wrong as it's not an important thing.

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

Correct age for us both. Dont need to hide it,

Were not that bothered about our age why should others young at heart and have been told many a time. We dont look that old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct age for us both. Dont need to hide it,

Were not that bothered about our age why should others young at heart and have been told many a time. We dont look that old. "

Great comment x totally agree with yous x brilliant pics x

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Absolutely no point in giving false as it will bite ya on the arse lol mine is correct on the profile but the pics could do with an update I guess not done any new ones in ages

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Yes the age given on my profile is correct and yes I am 82.

It does not bother me and in reality should not bother anyone else, it is a take me or leave me situation with which either way I am quite happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is correct, 70 and proud

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Real age here and partner too.

A couple we met had aged themselves about 5 years younger than me, but were actually older than me. They then had the audacity to ask for my ‘real’ age.

Ok, I have some greys, but I choose to show them!

J

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Mines correct , whilst it's a pain not being able to message folk ..lots of ladies I've met in clubs or socially up there age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had so many guys over 35 say to me that they are older than their profile age and they reduced it to get around someone’s filters.

If you lie about your age, what else are you lying about?"

Precisely my thoughts. If you can lie about something as small as age to meet someone, you can lie about anything.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

My age is real, it puts me out of some people's age range but into others so some you win some you loose.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s true for quote a few men on here! I’ve lost count of the amount of men who tell me their age which is different to their profile age!

I don’t see the point, just be honest.

In my opinion those who lie about their age aren’t comfortable with getting older. That’s why they do it.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

40 I've been doing it since I was 30 and shall continue until my appearance catches up

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Hundred percent real age. But I just hope my moisturiser works.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Just wondering! is it true once you get to 40 you lose count of how old you are? So instead you just make up a around about number for your age. Just wondering thats all. "

Defo the age it says on the tin

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I’d say it’s true for quote a few men on here! I’ve lost count of the amount of men who tell me their age which is different to their profile age!

I don’t see the point, just be honest.

In my opinion those who lie about their age aren’t comfortable with getting older. That’s why they do it. "

I'd say a lot of women tend to knock a few years off as well ..when they approach 60..

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Mine is my real age, even changes on the day

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Mine is my real age. I'm surprised how many people I have met that admit they aren't the age on their profile. It makes no sense.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My fab age is my real age

There are some men on my updates who leave and rejoin and have got younger though

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, mine is real. Why would people lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real ages here

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

My age is real ,i'm 44 unfortunately i can't stop the clock as in few months i will be 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say it’s true for quote a few men on here! I’ve lost count of the amount of men who tell me their age which is different to their profile age!

I don’t see the point, just be honest.

In my opinion those who lie about their age aren’t comfortable with getting older. That’s why they do it.

I'd say a lot of women tend to knock a few years off as well ..when they approach 60.."

I wouldn’t know. I’m speaking from my own experience with the messages I receive.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

Real age here! Trust me, I know I'm old so no point in denying it Mind you many say I don't look a minute over 52

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd say a lot of women tend to knock a few years off as well ..when they approach 60.."

63 and proud of it!

Enjoying the best sex of my life. In fact enjoying life in general now I have less responsibilities

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My age is correct x

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Our ages are Def correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is correct but i always get told i look loads younger so i guess I’m lucky

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Some people had uphill newspaper rounds. Some are Benjamin Button, they delete their account and come back younger, then delete their account and come back even younger

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london

Our ages are correct

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Our ages are correct.

Almost every time we send face pics we are told we look younger than they were expecting though. I still can't decide if it's because we look genuinely good for our age, or just good by comparison because so many others lie about their age

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By *udere.Couple
over a year ago

South West

We tend to prefer people older than ourselves, so fabricating ages could mean people miss out on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is a teeny bit older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a picture in the attic so I let someone else do the aging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my real age but after being at a recent social supposedly nobody does lol

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Mine is accurate.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's a formula for use by 'genuine' swingers but I can't publish it here, sorry. No timeout for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my real age and get contacted by a lot of folk younger than me, well they all are ! But so many really younger folk like the idea of old cock ! I'm not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fab age is our real age. If we fall outside of the age range of what people are looking for then it's tough

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"My fab age is my real age

There are some men on my updates who leave and rejoin and have got younger though "

That's amazing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I know how old I am and don’t hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive put my real age even tho i prob look a good 10 years younger

ive met a man who said he was 55 admitted to being 59 but i would have added another 10 years to that

just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive put my real age even tho i prob look a good 10 years younger

ive met a man who said he was 55 admitted to being 59 but i would have added another 10 years to that

just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a formula for use by 'genuine' swingers but I can't publish it here, sorry. No timeout for me "

Come Soph Spill the beans!

Is it the Pythagorean’s formula?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I moisturizer and was blessed with good genes I look 4yrs younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age even tho i prob look a good 10 years younger

ive met a man who said he was 55 admitted to being 59 but i would have added another 10 years to that

just be honest "

Have you been told you look a good ten years younger?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People often seem to lie because they claim they look younger. In reality though most look their age or older. It’s pointless to lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is accurate but kick myself daily for not pretending to be 5yrs younger."

Can relate to this.

When we joined around 10 years ago, our age didn't matter but since we both hit 50 we find ourselves out of a lot of people's age range x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

"

Jesus this gig is quite unforgiving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

"

Lol I get men lying about cock size in the opposite direction. Looking hung but claiming it’s only 6 inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

Jesus this gig is quite unforgiving!"

I always remember my sort code with age related issues

18 the age I remember with fondness

58 the age I am

47 the age of my last Fab assignation, she was dyslexic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

Lol I get men lying about cock size in the opposite direction. Looking hung but claiming it’s only 6 inches "

You obviously have a quick measure beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in the real world tell me I don't look 46, which is nice...but I tell them that I feel 96 sometimes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

Lol I get men lying about cock size in the opposite direction. Looking hung but claiming it’s only 6 inches

You obviously have a quick measure beforehand?"

Haha! If they’ve lied by an inch or two I allow it. If he turned up with a 10 inch dick he’d be outta there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in the real world tell me I don't look 46, which is nice...but I tell them that I feel 96 sometimes.."

Keep playing that guitar bro.........excellent toooone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive put my real age why lie and i wont play with those who lie and it shows when meeting ... and its not just age its every thing age hight weight cock size

ther thing with cock size is i dont ask its what they brag with so if your goping to brag your 8 inches then you better have it lol not a shrimp dick

Lol I get men lying about cock size in the opposite direction. Looking hung but claiming it’s only 6 inches

You obviously have a quick measure beforehand?

Haha! If they’ve lied by an inch or two I allow it. If he turned up with a 10 inch dick he’d be outta there!"

Probably pole vault outta there!

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Both our real ages on display which counts us out on alot of couples and single fems ....he is to old and in to young lol ...sigh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the mean average of 38.5 years?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"There's a formula for use by 'genuine' swingers but I can't publish it here, sorry. No timeout for me

Come Soph Spill the beans!

Is it the Pythagorean’s formula?"

I'm not great with maths late at night and might get the symbols in the formula mixed up, with my tired eyes, sorry. . Can't risk somebody getting a negative age, cos of an amateur like me mistyping.

But it's only genuine swingers who use it.

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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.

Real ages for us on here too. We could probably pass for younger , but why lie

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By *xxblackcatxxxMan
over a year ago

NEWBURY

Real age here , Its only a number , Im blocked by some profiles with age restrictions its there loss not mine

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Why lie? It will be obvious if you meet and the dishonesty would be a huge turn off!! I thought the scene was a place where we can all be ourselves.

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By *estrel girlWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham

Real age here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True age

Over sixty something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah! Yes! Fab. That strange place where the inches grow yet the years shrink all by themselves.

My age (and every other detail) is 100% correct. Might be me being naive but when I filled it in it never occurred to me to tell porkies!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

True age on profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real age here , Its only a number , Im blocked by some profiles with age restrictions its there loss not mine "

I was was going to write something similar but then thought on, it might be their loss but it's also our loss as we've missed out. Hence why people lie about their age.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Luckily we don’t mind , any age is good for us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real age here , Its only a number , Im blocked by some profiles with age restrictions its there loss not mine "

It’s not really their loss though, I always find it odd when people say that. Guys say it a lot when I say no thanks. They want people of a specific age and that’s fine. It’s nobody’s ‘loss’. They just aren’t suitable for you or you for them.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Real age here , Its only a number , Im blocked by some profiles with age restrictions its there loss not mine

It’s not really their loss though, I always find it odd when people say that. Guys say it a lot when I say no thanks. They want people of a specific age and that’s fine. It’s nobody’s ‘loss’. They just aren’t suitable for you or you for them."

Right? I suppose people get hurt, so tell themselves a comforting lie, but why? Someone preferring under 40s is like someone preferring redheads - nothing I can do about it, good luck to you.

Sex is not a right, and people are allowed to like what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a formula for use by 'genuine' swingers but I can't publish it here, sorry. No timeout for me

Come Soph Spill the beans!

Is it the Pythagorean’s formula?

I'm not great with maths late at night and might get the symbols in the formula mixed up, with my tired eyes, sorry. . Can't risk somebody getting a negative age, cos of an amateur like me mistyping.

But it's only genuine swingers who use it. "

Well it’s a new day a new dawn...........are you eyes less tired?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely real age here,..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never understood the "it's their loss" attitude.

It's only a loss if they are missing out on something they actually wanted in the first place.

I've been told that it's my loss when I've said no to demanding couples. It was hilarious because they were the ones contacting me regardless of the fact that I was outside their own age preferences.

There was nothing in their profiles I found attractive and even less in their entitled introductions so at no stage did I ever feel I was missing out.

My fab age is the same as my real age because apart from anything else I'm proud of how I look and even though 60 is rapidly approaching it doesn't put people off.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Don’t really care as long as the person is hot looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had so many guys over 35 say to me that they are older than their profile age and they reduced it to get around someone’s filters.

If you lie about your age, what else are you lying about?"

Exactly this!

Recently I had a social meet with a man who swiftly told me upon meeting him that he is actually 10 years older than what his fab age says!

Totally ridiculous, if I wanted to meet a 59 year old, I would have my filters set to allow upto that age range!

It was a waste of time as it clearly wasn't going anywhere.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've used my real age.

The only detail on my profile that's incorrect is my height, but that's because Fab's height-selection dropdown only goes up to 6' 7".

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

Genuinely, this is my real age. Would I like to have the body I did in my mid-20s? Sure but only if I can keep the memories from the past decade and a half!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had so many guys over 35 say to me that they are older than their profile age and they reduced it to get around someone’s filters.

If you lie about your age, what else are you lying about?

Exactly this!

Recently I had a social meet with a man who swiftly told me upon meeting him that he is actually 10 years older than what his fab age says!

Totally ridiculous, if I wanted to meet a 59 year old, I would have my filters set to allow upto that age range!

It was a waste of time as it clearly wasn't going anywhere."

It’s absolutely ridiculous.

Imagine if you were 5 dresses bigger than your pictures show?! There would be a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is real wouldn't want to turn up for a meet pretending to be younger,

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

My age is within a year. Have met a couple here where they guy was very obviously younger and the lady was very obviously at least ten years older. Was not bothered we saw pics before meeting and had a fantastic night in their hot tub along with complaints from neighbours about the noise. My partner at the time was a screamer

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

My age is real although I look younger apparently. Had a few meets with people who were clearly much older than they claimed. Even if they'd put their real age I'd have still met them as they were really nice, which is why I agreed to the meet in the first place.

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

Didn't know there was such a thing.

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By *oah FenceMan
over a year ago

Calne

Real age here but now over most people's age limit of 60, forever the optimist

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

I put my real age, after turning 50 kept it but seems it a big cut off for some the magic 5-0, not going to change it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 60 I say am 60 on my profile. I could get away with saying am younger. So I have been told. But what's the point. Be honest with yourself and then it's easy to be honest with others. Saying the wrong age dose not make you any better than you already are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy "

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

ages are right here (ancient feckers lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a few weeks of every year my Fab age is wrong .. eventually it catches up!

So this year I’ve caught up.. I’m genuinely 50.. definitely a red line for some on their age filters which I’ve now dropped off of.

There’s no way I’m putting my REAL date of birth on a random fuck site!! But I always catch up eventually!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I have to check in here to see how old I am, as I keep forgetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ages are right here (ancient feckers lol) "

But the kitten still purrs!

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"My age is within a fortnight of my real age. Slightly out for anonymity purposes"

Same here, I have a "fake" DOB I use that has me 3 weeks younger for sites that really don't need my actual DOB. No point lying about ages, if you both turn up and one is a good 10 years out, the other is gonna go home! And fibbing about height is daft too. This us a swinging site, just be honest about your body and sexual interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a decade roll over year this year

It's a bit awkward age wise for us asa there's a ten year gap. Much below her age and I start to get uncomfortable with being too young and much above mine and she gets uncomfortable. Plenty of room in the middle ground mind.

Our rule of thumb is if someone is young enough they could be your offspring or old enough your parents then that's not comfy.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!"

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age isnt real, it cant be, nah cant be that old surely not...

Oh Fuck!!!

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!


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Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable "

Totally agree with all of this - it is deception to show a pic on here of yourself in much better shape from 10 years ago ... I had the misfortune to meet a lady who'd pulled this stunt - I felt totally conned!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"ages are right here (ancient feckers lol)

But the kitten still purrs!"

and roars sometimes lol

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's sometimes a benefit to state your real age I find.

I'm contacted now and again by young ladies who have a thing for an old man!

I'd never pass for 49 anyway, so 65 it is!!

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Yep.... I am 63... it is what my profile says and I am that age...growing old disgracefully

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

Totally agree with all of this - it is deception to show a pic on here of yourself in much better shape from 10 years ago ... I had the misfortune to meet a lady who'd pulled this stunt - I felt totally conned!"

& so you should, if someone done it to me I'd end the meet there & then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive had a few experiences where people had put some weight and age on compared to their profile. It does knock you back when you meet. But me being the polite gentleman I couldn't turn around and say, "Oh hey don't you look older than your pic and fatter". So like a rabbit caught in headlights I continued with the meet. But then had several showers and burnt me clothes when i got back home

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

My age is accurate but, as I'm often told I look almost a decade younger I probably should have lied about it.

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By *aughtyxButNiceMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Mine is true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's accurate x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Wish I didn't have to put 40 next year but that's what it's going to be. My age is my real age

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire

My age is accurate, gutting when one misses the option to make contact with someone by a single year, usually landmark or half landmark birthdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ages are right here (ancient feckers lol)

But the kitten still purrs!

and roars sometimes lol "

One can only imagine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

Totally agree with all of this - it is deception to show a pic on here of yourself in much better shape from 10 years ago ... I had the misfortune to meet a lady who'd pulled this stunt - I felt totally conned!"

And you walked away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

Totally agree with all of this - it is deception to show a pic on here of yourself in much better shape from 10 years ago ... I had the misfortune to meet a lady who'd pulled this stunt - I felt totally conned!"

You have not been on dating sites obviously!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

My age on fab is my real age

I’m 49 in a couple of weeks, just don’t feel it

Age, as they say is just a number

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

My fab age is my real age and it will increase by one tomorrow

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By *evonNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

torquay

Always put real age, no point us trying to lie about it x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

my age is correct 56 and a bit,, still kkeep fit i think its still kept my body younger,, but not my head,,

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable "

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A"

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I use my real age can't see the point in not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A"

I ask people’s age because it’s important to me. It may not be to some.

If someone is lying about a year on their age (deliberately) then it’s likely they can lie about other things.

Why lie about your age unless you’re trying to get around filters? If age is just a number and it’s meaningless why do so many people shave years off their real age?

Some people like strictly blondes, or size 8 women, some like people over or under a certain age. Everyone is entitled to their preferences.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A"

It's the fact your going out of your way to be deceptive, if it's such a small adjustment why do it in the first place?

It proves you can't be trusted & if you can't be trusted with something at your own admission so small

How can I possibly know I can trust you if ever we were to be alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real, although I would prefer to forget it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real... didn't know faking your age was a thing

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

My real age though not my real birthday, I use my internet birthday.

So it's wrong for a couple of weeks a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is real... didn't know faking your age was a thing"

I suspect at 23 it's unlikely you'd feel the urge to knock 5yrs off yours I've seen guys add on theirs though

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!"

Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is wrong by 3 years for good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!

Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is "

You can only amend your DOB once though. So it's unlikely people are doing it just to target specific individuals. I'll hold my hands up and say I rolled mine back by a year on my birthday. Not to get around filters or anything silly like that. I just felt in a bit of a funk about another year passed. I generally mention it if it comes up in a chat though, and nobody has seemed to give a toss about it yet

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By *tanarrowsMan
over a year ago

peterborough

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over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!

Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is

You can only amend your DOB once though. So it's unlikely people are doing it just to target specific individuals. I'll hold my hands up and say I rolled mine back by a year on my birthday. Not to get around filters or anything silly like that. I just felt in a bit of a funk about another year passed. I generally mention it if it comes up in a chat though, and nobody has seemed to give a toss about it yet "

They definitely are doing it to get around a specific persons age filters. I often get messages from guys who’ve done this and admit it to me ie ‘ignore my profile I’m actually 35 I just lowered it as I wanted to message someone and their age filters wouldn’t allow it’

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over a year ago


"Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is "

This!

I find it’s always those who say “Age is just a number” “Stop being ageist” and so on are the ones who lies about their age.

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over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!

Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is

You can only amend your DOB once though. So it's unlikely people are doing it just to target specific individuals. I'll hold my hands up and say I rolled mine back by a year on my birthday. Not to get around filters or anything silly like that. I just felt in a bit of a funk about another year passed. I generally mention it if it comes up in a chat though, and nobody has seemed to give a toss about it yet

They definitely are doing it to get around a specific persons age filters. I often get messages from guys who’ve done this and admit it to me ie ‘ignore my profile I’m actually 35 I just lowered it as I wanted to message someone and their age filters wouldn’t allow it’"

They'll only get to do it the once though

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By *tanarrowsMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Yes my age is accurate.

I only meet in clubs and I am truthful and transparent in my circumstances. I swing because this allows me to be myself so I am not going to lie about who I am.

Also I feel that honesty and truthfulness are key pillars of swinging because you need to be able to trust the people in whose hands you are going to put your body and they need to be able to trust you.

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

My age is accurate. Why lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that feels lying any sort on here be it age, marital status just to get a meet is a bit... well the word we aren't allowed to write but it begins with R & ends in E

It's gaining sex by false pretences your gaining consent by giving false information so therefore don't really have consent & please don't come at me saying it may just be for a social and if they consented after a social it's different because it's not, you may not ask someone's age in a bar, but if you've set up a profile with a wrong age deliberately you've gone out of your way to deceive the person you're meeting

I know it's not as bad as physically forcing yourself on them but honestly think about it, why lie, especially those claiming their age is only out by a year, what are you gaining by these lies, it feels really seedy

Wow, so if someone describes their height at 5’6” and they are 5’5” are the labelled in the same way. Additionally if one describes oneself as curvy but are clinically obese is that a crowd stoning offence?

Good Heavens!

Many people might not know their exact height & curvy is a description not a factual statement, but yes I do think people should be honest with their images and size, I have photos of myself as a size 10 but I don't have them on here as I don't look like that anymore, if I did show my slimmer images it would be suggesting that's the version of me they'd be meeting which would be me deliberately misleading someone, which I wouldn't do

I doubt there's many of us who don't know our age, what I'm talking about is people being deliberately deceptive - I don't understand how you can think that's acceptable

If someone is 45 and puts 44 as their Fab age could you tell?

Honestly?

And does it really matter? If you met them.in the street, a bar or a club would their age be one of the first questions you asked or would you just be attracted to and interested in them as they appeared in front of you at that moment?

Serious question.

It appears that any adjustment no matter how small is a capital offence on here.

If Fab removed age details I'm 99% sure people would still look to meet and would just go by what they see.

A

If you contact someone with an incorrect age and you send upto date pictures, you meet in a social setting and it carry’s on to an evening of pleasure what difference does it make?

This is a very odd site!

Your missing the point if you've deliberately altered your age because you think it will give you a better chance of getting a meet, ie a bigger pool of people or worse still amended it to contact a particular person, it's decitful, which is in itself creepy, dirty old man from the 80s kind of thing making dodgy phone calls

If your a nice decent bloke why lie in the first place, I'm sure you'll get meets anyway

You taking away the other persons right to choose because you think your right to contact them regardless of their preferences is more important

I can't fathom how people can't understand how wrong it is

You can only amend your DOB once though. So it's unlikely people are doing it just to target specific individuals. I'll hold my hands up and say I rolled mine back by a year on my birthday. Not to get around filters or anything silly like that. I just felt in a bit of a funk about another year passed. I generally mention it if it comes up in a chat though, and nobody has seemed to give a toss about it yet

They definitely are doing it to get around a specific persons age filters. I often get messages from guys who’ve done this and admit it to me ie ‘ignore my profile I’m actually 35 I just lowered it as I wanted to message someone and their age filters wouldn’t allow it’

They'll only get to do it the once though "

Yep lol hence why they have to explain they’ve lied on their profiles as I’m 35+. I’d never meet someone who admits to changing their age to get around someone’s filters though!

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By *tanarrowsMan
over a year ago

peterborough

By the way I met a lovely couple last weekend who told me how old they are but lie about their age on Fab and when I went to give them a verification I found out I am too old to message them

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