FabSwingers.com forum: Has swinging given you more body confidence?

By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I feel swinging has given me massive confidence that I never would have had without being in the lifestyle. Has swinging given you more body confidence ?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes, definitely! I realised people of all shapes and sizes go to swingers clubs, and enjoy themselves without any body shaming (at least in "normal" clubs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taught me that most people don't care as much as I do about my insecurites. There is definitely more acceptance of every type of body shape which does help confidence for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a short, bald man with an average pecker.

Has it eck.

Women can be so superficial

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By *ourplusCouple
over a year ago

Near Irvine

Yes it has, I used to hide my little cock, now I enjoy being told how small it is, it small nothing I can do about it so why worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% more body confidence. Love to flaunt what I have now. Yet in Mt 20s/30s I would hide it away hated holidays, going swimming. But my confidence now is unbelievable knowing that guy find me attractive

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Absolutely! Free of inhibitions and insecurities. It's great when we're out just being ourselves and that others are enjoying us too!

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Definitely. That understanding that everyone is different shapes and sizes. Confidence in yourself is sexy.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Totally, but I'm not sure which body I've got the confidence in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know about confidence but it does make you realise that it takes all types and there really is someone for everyone

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It definitely has. Not only was I genuinely surprised by how many men found me and my body attractive, and in clubs how many wanted to fuck me.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

As someone who struggles with body confidence the replies here are very encouraging to read.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"I feel swinging has given me massive confidence that I never would have had without being in the lifestyle. Has swinging given you more body confidence ?"

Definitely, we both have a few extra pounds and getting on in years yet seem to get plenty of attention when in clubs !. It must be our amazing personalities lol

. It was difficult the first time (dragged kicking and screaming into one by a couple we met a few years ago), yet our fears soon subsided and that was the first of many visits. You can naturally look down on yourselves then a minute later find you're chatting or playing with the most gorgeous girl or couple in the whole club ! (with a thousand jealous eyes upon us). It seems surreal looking back at some of our encounters, time for more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The attention tha Dora receives on here and in clubs does wonders for her body confidence.

She was always so hard on herself before we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't had such a result on Mrs A regarding body confidence, instead she believes it just proves Men will fuck anything.

She has though always had sexual confidence, and that helps her in the moment.

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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago

northwest

In some ways yes.....

I was on a completly vanilla works do and I was worried that my dress was too short(it wasn't) my chunky knees being on display (they were) or if I looked young/cool enough......

Was going to not go, but then I thought if I can strut around a club in heels and lingerie/body and approach strangers....I can wear a dress to a works do x

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Absolutely. Also, confidence is such a turn on, whatever the body shape or size.

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By *etefromderbyMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Absolutely. Also, confidence is such a turn on, whatever the body shape or size."

Absolutely gorgeous hun

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Absolutely. Also, confidence is such a turn on, whatever the body shape or size.

Absolutely gorgeous hun"

Thank you.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Swinging also got me into naturist events and yes it definitely has given me confidence. Not in thst I think I have a great body (I dont) but being around people with body confidence is definitely contagious!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Both of us say yes. We go to clubs where people of all body types go. It's nice to be desired occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

No and yes

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Definitely, hadn’t worn a short skirt since I was 18, and would have never have taken pictures of myself in underwear before joining here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times can a guy get rejected before he thinks, maybe I’m not as desirable as I’d hope I was?

Does it give me confidence? Hell no.

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By *INTONIC300Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow/Manchester/Edinburgh

Yes absolutely

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over a year ago

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm very body confident, which is something I got from the kink scene long before I joined Fab.

If I'd done it the other way round, I think Fab might have destroyed any shreds of confidence I might have dared to muster.

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By *iscreteSteMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Personally, no, not for me.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

In reality, it is a double edged sword: it has raised my confidence levels very considerably, but the profile pics of extremely fit and lean couples, in particular, make me realise that my fitness regime needs to ramped up!

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

Working out 6 days a week and eating well has given me body confidence, swinging has not.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

100,000%

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope the gym did all this

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yes it has massively.

Especially coming out of a 20year relationship and not feeling that anyone would ever want me

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

It’s helping get me over my body hang ups very slowly. I do compare myself to the leggy stocking clad beauties still….. but my curves and the fact that I’m short really do it for some guys which is really flattering . in this environment I’m learning that I’m a person as a whole, rather than a mix of good and bad body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel swinging has given me massive confidence that I never would have had without being in the lifestyle. Has swinging given you more body confidence ?"
Yes I was always a tomboy in highschool. I bloomed late in life not ashamed now as I was back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. In some respects it has made me more self critical; in other respects it’s made me feel comfortable about being naked around others and appreciating physical differences even more.

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Not really. I’ve always been pretty confident about what I’ve been given. I guess the difference is that via swinging I’ve found more opportunities to be naked in front of people, and more scenarios where being naked sets the ball rolling!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Working out 6 days a week and eating well has given me body confidence, swinging has not."

Similar here, the club scene in particular knocking my self confidence more than any other

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

The opposite. I was above average looking in my 20s and 30s. Less so now.

The last couple I met, she said "I don't fancy you but you're a really cool guy so I want to fuck you."

Honestly, she could have left the first part of that sentence out.

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