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"Bloody amazing pictures, great to see folk happy in their lives, re telling g???? I'd say if you suspect they are in danger or the meet is a nutter then yes but otherwise I'd tell only if asked. Everyone has different standards ,tastes, wants, etc etc. " Thanks! Definitely should tell if there’s risk or danger. Wouldn’t want to put anyones safety at risk. | |||
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"In 25 years of swinging we've had "mostly" good experiances. We've met a few overly pushy people early on and a couple of people who where not as they advertised (and it went no where) but beyond that, not really had an issue. The only dodgy stories we've ever been told involved single guys (that we don't meet) and the odd couple we would never have met anyway due to different tastes in what we want. So perhaps we never got put in that position (not saying couples or ladies are incapable), just saying we havnt really experienced it. So dangerous is one thing but it is a he said, she said situation. Clingy is another thing though. What we consider clingy another party may just consider freindly. Not really something we would talk about unless we felt we had to....but again, never happened and hopefully never will." Thanks for the reply. We’ve definitely had our share of dodgy - and seen more than our share of bad behaviour. In our early days we probably threw ourselves into situations trying to find our tribe. Some of those folks were bloody awful. We’d warn friends about them - or give them something of a heads up. | |||
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"In 25 years of swinging we've had "mostly" good experiances. We've met a few overly pushy people early on and a couple of people who where not as they advertised (and it went no where) but beyond that, not really had an issue. The only dodgy stories we've ever been told involved single guys (that we don't meet) and the odd couple we would never have met anyway due to different tastes in what we want. So perhaps we never got put in that position (not saying couples or ladies are incapable), just saying we havnt really experienced it. So dangerous is one thing but it is a he said, she said situation. Clingy is another thing though. What we consider clingy another party may just consider freindly. Not really something we would talk about unless we felt we had to....but again, never happened and hopefully never will. Thanks for the reply. We’ve definitely had our share of dodgy - and seen more than our share of bad behaviour. In our early days we probably threw ourselves into situations trying to find our tribe. Some of those folks were bloody awful. We’d warn friends about them - or give them something of a heads up. " To be fair, there has been a handful of names pop up over the years that related to a pushy meet we had. That was always the other party mentioning them negatively rather than us but yeah..it happens. People do talk on the scene. | |||
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" So dangerous is one thing but it is a he said, she said situation. Clingy is another thing though. What we consider clingy another party may just consider freindly. Not really something we would talk about unless we felt we had to....but again, never happened and hopefully never will." Danger yes, we'd always say. However what is clingy to one person might be borderline unfriendly to another so very subjective. | |||
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"We have named some time wasters on our profile. Feel it’s only right that after organising a social meet, confirming this by fab messages earlier on that day, using our only evening together, paying a babysitter and taxis etc people decide to then not to turn up. They clearly didn’t leave their town based upon Fab data. I get that people get cold feet so a simple message would suffice. The following morning they read but did not bother responding to messages checking they are okay. We never heard from them again. Think warning others of their behaviour is justified. " That’s frustrating. We did a similar thing and fab removed all of our profile info! | |||
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