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By *imandherPR OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Evening Father's

Hope everyone is well and satisfied

So we are a married couple, myself and J met with another couple few months back and since then I took a step away due to work commitments, upon my return with J's approval I was connecting with a very well endowed and hot male who I connected with on so many different levels and the desire and sexual chemistry was hard to ignore, after a few conversations with hubby he agreed to let me explore this desire alone, down the line I am still meeting with my regular and loving the attention from both him and my hubby, I have recently started to explore fab to find J a very similar arrangement either with a couple who are in to threesomes or cuckolding or a single F that is looking for a male, for some reason we seem to hit a stumbling block once I present the meet and alls people ever want is myself on my own, why is this the case? Why is it acceptable for a woman to meet a couple alone on here without there partner but if it is the male available it gets rejected? Anybody else looked for something similar in the past and found a way to make it succeed? Xx

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By *imandherPR OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Fabbers**

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Patience ..it can happen ,i am living proof lol myself and mrs both meet solo and have both had regular solo meets over the years

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

People tend to see it as the male playing away or that your not a couple.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be suspicious. There are a lot of single guys on here who create couples profiles as a way to meet single women. For me, I don't mind cuckold with the woman watching in clubs but outside clubs, I'm not sure there is really a woman present and you can be sure what is true and not from what the guy says.

You would probably be better looking for a social with all of you together to talk it through and what the rules are prior so the woman knows its genuine.

Hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don’t get involved with couples who meet separately. I want to meet the couple not just half of it or I would solely look for a male or a female. I do understand that partners can love sending their partner on a one to one meet

Also it’s surprising how many couples here are single males or only the male talks as the female half is too shy/nervous/busy. They won’t verify in a 3 way call or video meet.

So as soon as a couple say it’s the male half only, for me, it’s a red flag that the female half doesn’t exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be a bit suspicious because only veri conveniently was around the time you decided to meet alone so I would think you have split up.

I’m not saying this is the case but it could look like that.

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By *imandherPR OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'd be suspicious. There are a lot of single guys on here who create couples profiles as a way to meet single women. For me, I don't mind cuckold with the woman watching in clubs but outside clubs, I'm not sure there is really a woman present and you can be sure what is true and not from what the guy says.

You would probably be better looking for a social with all of you together to talk it through and what the rules are prior so the woman knows its genuine.

Hope you find what you're looking for."

Of course we get that and we also experience this from the opposite side at times and it is obvious and clear when that is the case

We were fully verified by meet a few months back with another couple so unsure why it is still a stumbling block?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The female tends to be much more physically attractive than the male. That is another factor to consider.

At least that has been my experience so far. I am only attracted to the female 90% of the time . So I lose interest if I am presented with the “opportunity” to meet the male half alone. Besides, why would I want to, with so many single males out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be suspicious. There are a lot of single guys on here who create couples profiles as a way to meet single women. For me, I don't mind cuckold with the woman watching in clubs but outside clubs, I'm not sure there is really a woman present and you can be sure what is true and not from what the guy says.

You would probably be better looking for a social with all of you together to talk it through and what the rules are prior so the woman knows its genuine.

Hope you find what you're looking for.

Of course we get that and we also experience this from the opposite side at times and it is obvious and clear when that is the case

We were fully verified by meet a few months back with another couple so unsure why it is still a stumbling block?"

It's not always obvious. I met a guy who was taking women to clubs for couples verifications. It's right to be suspicious.

And for me, 1 meet verification doesn't mean you're a couple as you can get a verification from a friend or something. A few more and recent ones, would be more reassuring. Not that I'm saying you're not a couple. Just how my brain works.

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By *imandherPR OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Personally I don’t get involved with couples who meet separately. I want to meet the couple not just half of it or I would solely look for a male or a female. I do understand that partners can love sending their partner on a one to one meet

Also it’s surprising how many couples here are single males or only the male talks as the female half is too shy/nervous/busy. They won’t verify in a 3 way call or video meet.

So as soon as a couple say it’s the male half only, for me, it’s a red flag that the female half doesn’t exist "

Of course it would be for us if we was approached but we don't even get the chance to verify before moving forward?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Evening Father's

Hope everyone is well and satisfied

So we are a married couple, myself and J met with another couple few months back and since then I took a step away due to work commitments, upon my return with J's approval I was connecting with a very well endowed and hot male who I connected with on so many different levels and the desire and sexual chemistry was hard to ignore, after a few conversations with hubby he agreed to let me explore this desire alone, down the line I am still meeting with my regular and loving the attention from both him and my hubby, I have recently started to explore fab to find J a very similar arrangement either with a couple who are in to threesomes or cuckolding or a single F that is looking for a male, for some reason we seem to hit a stumbling block once I present the meet and alls people ever want is myself on my own, why is this the case? Why is it acceptable for a woman to meet a couple alone on here without there partner but if it is the male available it gets rejected? Anybody else looked for something similar in the past and found a way to make it succeed? Xx"

It is acceptable. Just not on fab for some reason.

We love the whole "hot husband" thing but on fab people assume I'm cheating. Or they just don't meet married guys or whatever.

So it goes nowhere on here. But through social events and clubs where other prospective parties meet us both and see we are above board and it's what we are about then yeah, it can go places and it has. Met a few ladies and couples that way.

On the flip side though, as a couple we are only interested in single women or couples. Wife has yet to meet a guy she would consider meeting alone with (shes all about the ladies in that sense) and isnt about mmf either....but she would join some couples we know well enough on her own.

At the end of the day, there's that many single guys on fab, it's always going to be a lot lot harder for guys. Like I said, I have success on my own just not on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I fully avoid attached males even with permission.

Why have the added complication when there’s plenty of single males?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"As a single female I fully avoid attached males even with permission.

Why have the added complication when there’s plenty of single males?"

Bugger Dream smashed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female I fully avoid attached males even with permission.

Why have the added complication when there’s plenty of single males?

Bugger Dream smashed "

Oops

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Set him up a single male profile ve honest on there that half of a couple playing with consent, that he has a couples profile and you are available to confirm consent.

I cam guarantee people will be more receptive to that than messaging off a couples profile. And a woman messaging from a couple profile to get meets fir her partner sets loads of alarm bells ringing because it is a very old ploy used be single men to bypass filters

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Set him up a single male profile ve honest on there that half of a couple playing with consent, that he has a couples profile and you are available to confirm consent.

I cam guarantee people will be more receptive to that than messaging off a couples profile. And a woman messaging from a couple profile to get meets fir her partner sets loads of alarm bells ringing because it is a very old ploy used be single men to bypass filters"

Dosent work (or didnt for me). I tried it and it rarely gets a response or gets shot down.

For those who do respond it's often a case of "if you're part of a couple, why do you not have a couples profile so we know you are legit". Refer them to this account (even though its on the profile) and never hear from them again.

As I said earlier in the thread, fabs crap (at least for us) in that area but socials and clubs are a different story.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

We have a couples profile that we NEVER use and a solo profile each ..we do attend socials and get to know people and always available to chat with people who may be interested in meeting so as i said i have been quite successful over the years to meet with some gorgeous ladies some have chatted to the wife to make sure everything is above board and some havent

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry


"As a single female I fully avoid attached males even with permission.

Why have the added complication when there’s plenty of single males?"

Thats exactly how I see it. Fab is for fun so I like to keep it simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry in advance for being blunt but we would rather meet a married man playing behind his wife back than a married guy with permission ...

when first started swinging 28 years ago the men that get clingy or bring drama were alway the men of swinging couples we just could'nt work it out and the some of our best friends on the scene (other couples) were saying the same so we stopped stuck to single men..

but then we met a guy on here via chat whos wife we knew so we knew it was 100% for real only to be expected to meet him more often and wgy not and the the rule were i wont let him do this or that or why did you do this with him in the end again he became clingy it worked out that his wife had found someone else and was trying to palm him off even tho we were very happy married ?? lol real head banger he got really clingy in the end we had to meet them both and say no more ...they split a few weeks after ..

so know our golden rule is never play with a male half of another swinging couple not in clubs not in private its alway hassle know im sure there are some real genuine ones out there but its really not worth it for us its one one the few reasons we dont meet couples via fab ...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Are you meeting now as s couple? Or just wanting the male to meet?

If it's to ever meet as singles, you're surely best to do it from a separate single account. This is much simpler and clearer for everyone.

But, it's significantly different to get meets as a couple together, or a woman, from a single man.

In all instances, we have to sell ourselves here. Do you think you're doing so, to maximum effect?

I think you've got to clarify things for everyone and to then use fabs tools to optimise and possibly increase your chances here. No guarantees, it's often not easy.

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