FabSwingers.com forum: How do you stay discreet as possible when meeting people on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm guessing Snapchat probably the easiest way to show faces to the person your meeting as it tell you they screenshotted your picture so they cant save it . Plus get weird people using reverse images finding Facebook etc . Obviously alot of people want to stay discreet as possible. Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on my spiderman suit and crawl to their front door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t use Snapchat. Not everyone is weird. I choose who I show my face to and I meet carefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh if I think I'll meet them I just send them a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to trust them at some point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put on my spiderman suit and crawl to their front door."

You can do that to my door any day!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't send face pictures that you use on Facebook. Set Facebook privacy to its highest.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar)

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I send a private face pic if meeting. Don't use Snapchat. I find people generally are pretty discreet.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Everyone I speak to at length on here I’ve swapped face pics with. Seems daft otherwise - plus, we’re unlikely to wear a disguise at a Fab social !

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Weird ?? you been on faceblook lately the place is over run with weirdo's who make us lot on here seem perfectly normal and even well adjusted ?? and as for pictures and does make meeting people pretty hard when all you have is ..or we've been wondering around a pub showing random males a picture of a penis asking if it's them ???

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar)

I’m sure she sent me yours.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me.

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me."

Oh, even secret agents need a bit of Fabs time!

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

No swinger would ever intentionally let a child know their parents swung. It’s unthinkable. The lifestyle is built upon mutual trust. I look for people who are okd school swingers or have similar views on trust, consent and privacy to me, and I don’t share face photos until I feel I trust them.

Problem is that there are people around who are just looking for a quick fuck and think this is a sex site, so take your time getting to know them

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me."

I tend to agree with this

I've swapped face pics with people I've met /chatted to at length and never had an issue.

I don't use snapchat & if someone was so scared of sharing a face pic with me ,that would be a filter for me.

As Mrs nice said ,don't use any pics from Facebook or social media on here ,then they can't be connected.Maybe take one just for here .

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

People who care about privacy use Facebook? Btw Snapchat can be worked around by devious

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You have to take risks in life, so just use common sense. Use a burner number and exclusive private pics. Choose the people wisely

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

" Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out "

You mean your wife finding out?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar)

I’m sure she sent me yours.

She is such a bitch

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I send my stunt double (Tom Hardy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only swap pics via here tbh never had a problem even when I made eye contact across a cafe with a couple I'd met ..we just walked opposite ways not a word spoken ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only swap pics via here tbh never had a problem even when I made eye contact across a cafe with a couple I'd met ..we just walked opposite ways not a word spoken ...

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Flipside is that couples and women on this site can be picky. They also have more to risk. So men may need to put more out when trying to gauge interest.

Regarding torso pics - I believe there are plenty men profiles who just Google random naked fit torso and stick it on their profile.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I only use here if they don’t want to send a pic bye bye o

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

" Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out

You mean your wife finding out?"

Exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people start stalking you report them to the site

I think women are more at risk of men stalking them so I understand if they don't want to share face pictures until after yhe have chatted for a bit

Snapchat is still risky

Nothing stopping me having a second phone and taking a picture

There are also apps that let you screenshot snapchat without notifying the sender

Sorry to burst your bubble but if someone wants to search for you they will

You need to make it hard for them to find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me.

Oh, even secret agents need a bit of Fabs time!

Oh dear I'm not so secret anymore...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I'm guessing Snapchat probably the easiest way to show faces to the person your meeting as it tell you they screenshotted your picture so they cant save it . Plus get weird people using reverse images finding Facebook etc . Obviously alot of people want to stay discreet as possible. Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out "

If a person uses another device to take the picture they are able to take a photo of anything without anyone knowing think outside the box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me."

This

Miss S x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We use face pics that we don't use on any other site to avoid Google reverse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We use face pics that we don't use on any other site to avoid Google reverse."

Yeah that's probably the best way. I would probably trust older guys rather than younger. I wouldn't mind face swapping with couples no problem it's more single males . Go to there friends and say I'm fucking this guys wife later lmao . I guess if you meet someone a distance away is probably better essex to London so they aren't local

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out

You mean your wife finding out?"

My wife ? How does that work lmao . I'm fake I forgot

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We don't do "discreet" for ourselves. Freinds and family know what we do and it's a non issue. They don't ask, we don't tell. Simple as that.

When it comes to others though, we respect their right to discretion and privacy but if they want to meet us, gonna have to send us a face pic on here sooner or later. Not willing to use other platforms anymore till we have met for real due to the sheer amount of pic and video hunters who have no intention of meeting.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I send them random guys face pics ,feck sending mine id never get a meet

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We usually send face pics on here and have a few in our friends only option. But otherwise we like Snapchat for the option of having images disappear and knowing if they’ve been screenshot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont and never have used anything other than fab for fab stuff no phones no apps no cams ... most people are trustworthy after all they are in the same boat .... a picture can be copied once shown and it dont matter what app your using where thers a way theres a will as they say .... nothing is safe on the internet full stop snapchat is not going to stop your pic from being saved

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"we dont and never have used anything other than fab for fab stuff no phones no apps no cams ... most people are trustworthy after all they are in the same boat .... a picture can be copied once shown and it dont matter what app your using where thers a way theres a will as they say .... nothing is safe on the internet full stop snapchat is not going to stop your pic from being saved"

Exactly. All phones can screen cap and snap chat won't override that no matter what anyone thinks.

People have two options, either take the risk and show your faces or don't. The platform.of choice makes zero difference and if they're unwilling to do it on here, then don't be surprised when some people won't meet.

You either take the risk or you don't. Dosent make it right that people can use and abuse your images but if youre a swinger, the element of risk of being exposed is always there. Cameras are everywhere now. Can't even walk down a street without something recording you.

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york

Be nice to get a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar)

Has she ever wondered why she gets so much attention in her local supermarket!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar)

Has she ever wondered why she gets so much attention in her local supermarket!"

Anyone who bothers a fellow fabster in asda is going to have a hard time.

Then again, there was this one time in Aldi we had...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We usually send face pics on here and have a few in our friends only option. But otherwise we like Snapchat for the option of having images disappear and knowing if they’ve been screenshot "

Yeah I know there's a way of obviously keeping a photo either way but just easier lol . Fab probably be OK with a friends only

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