FabSwingers.com forum: What about a profile gives you the ick?

By *tudentForFun OP Man
over a year ago

Craigavon

What are your biggest turn offs/red flags from other Fabbers?

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By *eeveeTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

Spectacles on cocks. Or goggly eyes.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"What are your biggest turn offs/red flags from other Fabbers? "

Anyone who refers to themselves as 'alpha'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Multiple photos of a dick about to enter a pussy…well done, you found the hole!

2. Posing with more than one woman bent over with their pussy’s….reminds me of those big game hunters posing with their kills, like some kind of trophy hunter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male accounts, with countless photos of him shagging other women. So you know where to stick it, well done. Next.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of a dick next to something like a deodorant can , congrats it’s the same size as a lynx africa that your mum bought you xD

Profiles that say straight but he’s claiming to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Declarations of being 'straight' and putting down others in the process. Also capital letters, why are you shouting.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Turn off are close up pics of genitals, they look better from a bit of a distance

Red flags? How long you got?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spectacles on cocks. Or goggly eyes."

Yes lol !!! Why????

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Anything gaping ,

Cocks over toilet shots

A single man's profile with a pic of a woman's vag or bum.

I don't bite or mmmmmmmm.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.

If they spent 2mins having a look they would know they are way off what we would be interested in.

Just why

The ones who we can tell actually have read it we always try and reply even if it's a polite no thanks.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

People who winge about not getting meets and their leaving the site...

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Status updates announcing various stages of their hornyness or disappointment with fab, men, women or human kind in general.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Status updates announcing various stages of their hornyness or disappointment with fab, men, women or human kind in general."

Runs away and quickly changes status…

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Couples profiles who regularly post statuses, allegedly from the wife, asking for someone to come and fuck her man. Clearly a single bloke.

Hundreds of meet verifications. I want someone who is a little more selective and not just racking up numbers.

As others have said, the pictures can give me the ick. Especially if the subject or background look unhygienic.

Arrogance is another one.

Lou x

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.

Oh the irony, subject line is "What about a profile gives you the ick?" yet you post about people not reading your profile.

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Pictures where there’s clutter or kids toys around….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics

Even worse cock pics in toilets

Naked pics except for socks

Pics showing someone else’s face but not their own, ie being sucked off

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"Couples profiles who regularly post statuses, allegedly from the wife, asking for someone to come and fuck her man. Clearly a single bloke.

Lou x "

This and the "couples" profile where the husband messages to get a meet, or basically using a couples profile to circumvent couples only blocks. Always report as a singles profile.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Close up vag or cock pics.

Age range 18-99.

Nothing but vag or cock pics.

List of demands.

Cum dripping pics.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Cock pics over loos... even worse if the loo is dirty and/or full of pee

Single line bio of "single male looking for female or couples"... yes we know as you've ticked those options already. Use your bio to tell us about yourself please.

Pics of gapping holes... even worse if they are full of cum

Single guys pics of them fucking other women. Like others have said it feels like they are showing off thier "trophies"

Any reference to 50 shades in thier user name or bio. Anyone who's properly in the BDSM scene knows that film doesn't represent a true D/s dynamic and is more akin to abuse. Makes people come across as clueless and a massive red flag.

References to 420 or chems

First message being "fancy a meet/fuck"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh and a couple's profile with no male pics.

Mrs

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

People who don't read our profile.

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

People who insist on a fave photo on your profile but don't themselves.

Also comments like don't bother messaging if you..... Just list what you like not what you don't.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"What are your biggest turn offs/red flags from other Fabbers?

Anyone who refers to themselves as 'alpha' "

Aye..someone's over compensating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“No picture no reply” on profiles with no pictures. I know women get a lot more messages on here but does that entitle you to be hypocrite? I think not

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Weird looking bedsheets really put me off

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By *amie7474Man
over a year ago

stockport

Too much negativity - A long list of what they’re not looking for and don’t like rather than simply saying what they do want….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messy rooms / lack of effort with the pics -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spectacles on cocks. Or goggly eyes."

I can’t stop thinking about spectacles on cocks now haha x

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

For me it’s not a red flag just ick…

Men in womens undies

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"For me it’s not a red flag just ick…

Men in womens undies"

I have to agree, it’s a turn off for me too.

Lou x

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Winky wink mcwink morning winkersXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh theres so much ... id be here all day

number one is facial hair insant turn off for me (its not just sexual)

when they send face pic and its not clear ie sunglasses or halk the face covered

lie about age / size / not being who you say you are

using old holiday pics

lie to get meets

men/women moaning full stop

men/women not liking your listing of stuff you dont want

i can lick for hours / lick only meets

male halfs of swinging couples who want to play without the other half knowing

cock/pussy pics in toilet /over toilet

messy background / messy rooms

those who leave a status everyday saying they are getting no where

tight foreskins / extra long forskins / cut cocks that look all flakey

any reference to drugs

any reference to money/gifts

cicky people / clingy people / people who like to cause drama

pineapple on pizza

men who talk tabboo (unlawful stuff)

men whos daily status is balls need draining

cams / anyone asking to cam

asking for phone number (never)

using apps outside of fab

people saying its only sex / or sex site

people thinking women are 100% sex objects 24/7 / sexualizing women in normal day to day stuff

flashers / flashing

and im not wasting anymore time on this list lol id be here alday

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By *annaSeeUsNakedCouple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall

To quote Al Pachino in Heat: watch your backgrounds.

Also we like to think we have a pretty funny and geeky profile. We tend to be able to spot people who covered a quick Google search to try and get further along with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who’s profile. I’ve found in the past that one thing looks bad on a to file and the next profile can be rather good.

So I guess alsorts put me off, and at the same time nothing does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with big lists

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Status updates announcing various stages of their hornyness or disappointment with fab, men, women or human kind in general.

Runs away and quickly changes status…"

Noooo! I’m only on Fab for your status updates

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Turn offs - don’t read bio and or take the hint….

Red flags - couples accounts with all dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

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By *arberellasswimsuitCouple
over a year ago

hengoed

Saying your a brat i got two kids don't need to put up with your childish ass ffs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delusional Womens profile.

Women :" I want to be fucked by a big cock, in all holes. But don't talk about sex!!

Or it's not a sex site, with a fully nude profile.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Declarations of being 'straight' and putting down others in the process. Also capital letters, why are you shouting."

I get a lot of messages from 'straight' men. If we had sex it wouldn't be straight sex...

Green flag though, openly bi guys. The confidence in their sexuality is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rooms where you'd need to wipe your feet on the way out, and stop off for a tetanus shot. Folk sitting on toilets in pics, or maybe that should be shitting

I do like a good bathroom shot that clearly shows all a 'single guys' collection of tampons & women's toiletries

Oh, and my all time fav... A very obvious hypodermic needle in shot. I mean clearly could have been for a legit medical reason, but coupled with the crack den look of the rest of the photos...

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By *d StrakerMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Gaping holes - vag or arse

Cock rings or piercings

Men in ladies underwear

Lots of tattoos (well tattoos in general really)

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

Only racist if they’ve been with what they decline? How does that work?! There are physical attributes we all find attractive or unattractive in people, your theory would mean we would all have to shag people we’re not attracted to so we’re not deemed as prejudiced in any way.

I.e. Can a man only say he doesn’t want a bigger lady if he’s been with bigger ladies? Can a woman only say she doesn’t want a short man if she’s been with short men? If you’re not attracted to certain hair colours/sizes/races/heights/ages etc. that’s your preference.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A messy and vile room in the background, instant turn off!

It does work the other way though, was chatting to someone and loved their tiles in the background so asked what they were and now have the same in my kitchen!x

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By *arberellasswimsuitCouple
over a year ago

hengoed

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By *omorebullCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

Profiles that change sex as they’re being written

“My gf is hot and horny for cock. I love cock in front of my bf it gets me wet”

Obviously male

Poor grammar and spelling….apologies to genuine dyslexics out there but the rest of you really should have been paying attention in English classes. See example above.

“We are into everything”

Then a long list of what they won’t do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

Lou x "

The thing I find interesting about the specific no on certain races is for example not all black people look the same, so what is it specifically about black people that does not turn you on? I feel there's something deeper there that people aren't willing to discuss because they know they will get criticised for it.

No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?

I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'.

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

A selfie style picture but the room in the background is really messy and full of crap

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

The phrase "gives you the ick"

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

Lou x

No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?

I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'."

My point was you don’t need to have sex with people you’re not attracted to in order to say you’re not attracted to them.

Me? As a short fat person, I’ll take what I can get.

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By *arberellasswimsuitCouple
over a year ago

hengoed

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.

Oh the irony, subject line is "What about a profile gives you the ick?" yet you post about people not reading your profile. "

Yes so their profile immediately gives us the ick as if they can't manage that then they aren't for us... not hard to understand but maybe irony is for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles where they make out they’re the most famous person on fab... ick

Also photos on the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

Lou x

No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?

I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'."

I really think it’s how people word it in their profiles that can make it appear racist rather than preference. I generally find I’m more attracted to darker skin upon first impressions but personality is way more important regardless of race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much negativity - A long list of what they’re not looking for and don’t like rather than simply saying what they do want…. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message.

The list of reasons on what they will block for.

We don't like winks, they're lazy, we'll block you if you wink, kinda thing.

In reality, winks can be a great first step.

Blank, or close to blank profiles, one line stating something obvious and a dick pic or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message."

Yes, this -- although when you realise the enormous amount of junk that some women get, it's hardly surprising they end up cynical.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Anyone who specifies clean/smells good. This does not need saying.

“Not here to meet the whole site” - so are you’re going to give me hassle if I meet other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message.

Yes, this -- although when you realise the enormous amount of junk that some women get, it's hardly surprising they end up cynical. "

Thing is, many don't read profiles, so how much difference will it make? and those that do read and also fit their criteria may well be put off with the lack of friendliness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who specifies clean/smells good. This does not need saying."

Sadly, it sometimes does -- not from this site, but over the years I've had some bad experiences with this.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Lack of conversation

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Filthy house, references to ‘420’ or any other kind of drug, profile names that include cock driller, c*nt fucker etc.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

For me it’s long list of T&C to message them or to meet. Secondly profile that starts with negative connotations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who specifies clean/smells good. This does not need saying.

Sadly, it sometimes does -- not from this site, but over the years I've had some bad experiences with this.

I agree but it doesn’t always work. I had a social with a guy who had “impeccable hygiene” on his profile and demanded the same. Sadly I had to keep edging away from him in the cafe as he had terrible bad breath.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Firstly 420 friendly is a no no.

Pictures tell a lot. Any blurry or out of focus pictures turn us off. As does rubbish, empty bottles and cans and general unkeptness.

Close ups of a cock and vagina is a no no.

Toilet pictures is an instant no.

Comparing apatures to objects is just plain strange.

Pictures with cigarettes and close ups on the insides of ladies underwear...just a plain not for us.

Other than that fill your boots

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By *inkarellaWoman
over a year ago

Eastcote, Pinner

"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '

Agree with the above poster. I like white men but I already have a regular BBC and I have slept with all races in my time, more than just once or twice. Its not about racism at all. It annoys me when people pull that card and become abusive, especially as I am from a very mixed heritage myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBC only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a couple's profile with no male pics.

Mrs"

Yes! This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though I could add,

Cock pic as the profile pic

8 pics of just a cock

Stupidly sexual profile name

Calling grown women 'girls'

ooops, I should probably stop now...

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Guys calling themselves Daddy and especially guys calling themselves Daddy who are younger than my son.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

6000 dick pics, most of which are out of focus.

Single guy profile showing pics of his dick in various vaginas.

Dick as profile pic.

Will fill in later.

Seeing what's about (hello... people are 'whos' not 'whats').

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.

If they spent 2mins having a look they would know they are way off what we would be interested in.

Just why

The ones who we can tell actually have read it we always try and reply even if it's a polite no thanks."

This.

Also when they say they've read it and say something in their message which states on your profile you're not into or not looking

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Constant messaging despite being told not interested.

Obvious one is not reading profile

The mention of the word unicorn

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Pictures of blokes hanging out the back of some bugger else

Untidy rooms

Dirty mirrors

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

- Genitalia plastered all over it.

- smoking and smoking images.

- untidy and dirty rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read All the above.

We have nothing left to add.

Each has pretty much covered it all.. Just shows most of us are on the same wavelength on this subject

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No profile photos esp when you set your account for no contact with these accounts

Photos with a messy background or kids toys clearly on display

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"[original quote] 'White swingers only, not racist just a preference"

[follow up quote] I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all. "

Well there's so much to pick through here ..

" Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. "

Right .... so a girl told you something so that must be right. And did she try all non white swingers or just one BBC?

Did she also dislike big white cocks or big asian cocks? What was it that she explained that was so reasonable I'd love to hear it.

"Plus it's a predominantly white site.. "

So you only go for the group that's predominant? Does that mean you only go with white guys. It's a predominantly white male membership isn't it?

"Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? "

Let me get some clarity here. Are you saying it can't be racist because other people do something similar?

The original quote is highlighting that they see "white swingers only" as a red flag. Why are you so keen to say they are wrong?

Genuine questions and I'm interested in your thoughts on this.

Thanks,

Gbat

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Men with thier tongue stuck out !

Spunk pics , yuk !

Men bending over showing Thier hole

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Men with thier tongue stuck out !

Spunk pics , yuk !

Men bending over showing Thier hole

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oh and any sign of smegma is a total no go too !!!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I should add that I despair when I see those cut and paste stupid legal warnings.

A few things

" ... take legal action." No they won't.

"Publicly traded entity" No it isn't. You can't buy shares here.

"Facebook is publicly traded entity" It's not even this fucking site! And even if it were, it's still not traded publicly.

"[a list of numbers]" What do they think those numbers even stand for?

Get a grip.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are your biggest turn offs/red flags from other Fabbers? "

Scruffy dirty house

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"I should add that I despair when I see those cut and paste stupid legal warnings.

A few things

" ... take legal action." No they won't.

"Publicly traded entity" No it isn't. You can't buy shares here.

"Facebook is publicly traded entity" It's not even this fucking site! And even if it were, it's still not traded publicly.

"[a list of numbers]" What do they think those numbers even stand for?

Get a grip.

Gbat

Love this!

Goes to show people really follow things blindly without asking themselves why they are doing it, doesn’t it?

A few of mine:

Shouty entitled profiles from women, who have lost sense of reality because of the oversized attention they get from men who want sex.

It’s never “I am this person and this is what I am looking for” but instead “you should be this, this and this and this is not what I am looking for”. Then you look at their pics and what they are asking and what they look like doesn’t even add up. I tend to read profiles in detail before I look at the pics to see if it adds up and often times it doesn’t. Like how are you looking for muscular, 6ft plus only, when you are 5’3””, overweight, 420 friendly [often (not always)a signifier of laziness] and in a bed sit. Just because men want you for sex doesn’t mean you have to lose all sense of logic and reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouty entitled profiles from women, who have lost sense of reality because of the oversized attention they get from men who want sex."

I think this happens on vanilla dating sites too -- but I also blame the men for creating this warped sense of reality.

I've been around the Internet since 1995 and have seen the way men behave -- copy and paste messages, persistence in spite of zero interest, telling average women how stunning they are, plus lying about their own societal status etc.

Men really can be like dogs begging for a crumb of attention like they've never been fed.

If they behaved themselves a bit better, things would be a lot more balanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single male accounts, with countless photos of him shagging other women. So you know where to stick it, well done. Next....."

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Men really can be like dogs…

If [men]behaved themselves a bit better, things would be a lot more balanced"

Meh! Chicken/Egg.

Gbat

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