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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

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By *nked_couple13Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Husband introvert and I'm an extrovert x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

Elaborate how it is for you please..

Im reserved/guarded until i get the vibe, then become the most adventurous.

(Jane)

"

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By *cottish-sin69Man
over a year ago

scotland

Im introvert i agree with op we arnt shy some of us just find it to much to energy to interacte with people, dosnt mean we arnt shy or assholes cause of it

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I think i am....i am very nervous on a meet and certainly need a while to loosen up...but certainly doesnt mean im not confident...just not cocky...OP you are a hottie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

"

Very much so yea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im introvert i agree with op we arnt shy some of us just find it to much to energy to interacte with people, dosnt mean we arnt shy or assholes cause of it "

Exactly this! Being around people is tiring, not shy just introverted. I can converse perfectly well but being around people tires me out quickly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think i am....i am very nervous on a meet and certainly need a while to loosen up...but certainly doesnt mean im not confident...just not cocky...OP you are a hottie lol"

Sounds like you’re just shy at first lol introverts generally find it tiring being around others and need regular time by themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im an introvert! But everyone thinks Im an extrovert...

I am bubbly, chatty and interested in everyone, then at some point I just go "nope, Im done now" and everyone wonders why I suddenly went so quiet and grumpy or made excuses and left.

Or the other surprise for people is when I feel relaxed with everyone and I go really quiet... often they think somethings wrong but actually Im quiet because everything feels right for a change!

As you said - not all introverts are shy, or come across as introverted.

Fay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im an introvert! But everyone thinks Im an extrovert...

I am bubbly, chatty and interested in everyone, then at some point I just go "nope, Im done now" and everyone wonders why I suddenly went so quiet and grumpy or made excuses and left.

Or the other surprise for people is when I feel relaxed with everyone and I go really quiet... often they think somethings wrong but actually Im quiet because everything feels right for a change!

As you said - not all introverts are shy, or come across as introverted.

Fay x "

Exactly, people get the meaning of the word wrong so often. I can take other people in small doses but then I need time away from them to decompress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a very extrovert person in both my job and social life. I used to hate being at home, in my own company. But since spending most of the 2 year pandemic in social isolation because of a long-term health condition, I've gone completely the other way. I actually quite like the new quieter, more reflective me, but it also means I wouldn't be comfortable going back to work in the same type of job that I used to do, so time for a career rethink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m shy at first, but if the lady or couple have bubbly personalities I feel a lot more comfortable and I’m a lot more outgoing

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Massive introvert here.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

"

Very

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'm an introvert, certainly in crowds. If its just one person and they make me comfortable I'll talk non stop, if they don't make me feel safe around them I'll embrace the awkward silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put my hand up but I don't want to draw attention to myself!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

"

Yep both me and chesty are introverts.

People are just too well..... peopley!!

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By *nigma1000Man
over a year ago

Braintree

I’m an introverted extrovert. By that I mean my natural persona is one of an introverted person and to be honest I’m quite comfortable in my own skin and in my own company.

However with the careers I’ve had and being a member of a golf club I’ve worked on my ability to communicate and socialise in public.

Funny enough my ex wife referred to me as an enigma, hence my profile name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert and extrovert does not mean inside and outside. People often have this misconception. It's about energy levels; those who get their energy by being around others and those who get energy by being alone.

I'm an introverted extrovert. Alot of my passtimes involve behind indoors, but I get my energy most times being around my friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert here - ISTJ according to the tests I’ve done. Absolutely hate parties, groups of strangers, loud bars, etc, and misunderstood because of that. Susan Cain’s book “Quiet” was a light bulb moment for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an introvert! But everyone thinks Im an extrovert...

I am bubbly, chatty and interested in everyone, then at some point I just go "nope, Im done now" and everyone wonders why I suddenly went so quiet and grumpy or made excuses and left.

Or the other surprise for people is when I feel relaxed with everyone and I go really quiet... often they think somethings wrong but actually Im quiet because everything feels right for a change!

As you said - not all introverts are shy, or come across as introverted.

Fay x "

Maybe an ambivert? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Introvert and extrovert does not mean inside and outside. People often have this misconception. It's about energy levels; those who get their energy by being around others and those who get energy by being alone.

I'm an introverted extrovert. Alot of my passtimes involve behind indoors, but I get my energy most times being around my friends and family. "

Agreed! Being around the right kind of people, makes all the difference. It can sometimes be a lonely place in a busy room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert here. Love being alone. Hate being lonely.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

Elaborate how it is for you please..

Im reserved/guarded until i get the vibe, then become the most adventurous.

(Jane)

"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Introvert here. Love being alone. Hate being lonely. "

Love space. Love attention. Spattention. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a massive introvert.

It's made me miss out on so many memories and fun, wish I could control it but it's hard sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am defo introvert

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Decinately an introvert. Much prefer my own company, to spending time with others.

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Introvert here. Love being alone. Hate being lonely. "

This ^

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By *hesecretdocMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Definitely me, but learning to live with it leads to contentment!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

I love my own time and space,im flat out work wise ,and socially ,but theres times i cant be assed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am. Some people don't understand this and I've had some nasty comments about it bit bappy with the way I am

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I am one of those!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hands up if you’re an introvert!

I am and I always have to explain that introvert doesn’t always mean someone is shy!

"

Indeed

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