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By *astersLBS OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

If 6 of you say it isn’t she said she will be convinced

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Surely what she thinks is more important than strangers on the Internet?

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By *astersLBS OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Surely what she thinks is more important than strangers on the Internet?"

I get what you’re saying but surely hearing other peoples opinions and challenging your own opinion isn’t a bad thing?

It’s also not strangers on the internet is it? It’s the very people she feels would be offended.

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

Can’t see that as racist, only as an invitation to her preference.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

It's a difficult one OP, as you can not please everyone. Some black men like the terminology of BBC and others don't.

Personally for me, I don't see it as rascim. However,the terminology does put me off due to my intrigty and I'm more than just a penis. In addition, I don't degrade other people.

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By *tseMan
over a year ago

west yorkshire

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By *tseMan
over a year ago

west yorkshire

I’d say go for it

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Buy one and wear it in the appropriate environment. Personally it doesn't bother me at all as I treat swinging as a fantasy playground and apply a different set of rules that are different from everyday life.

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

From my perspective it's not an absolute red light but more an amber warning. If I get the any black guy will do as a prop vibe I walk away....if I get the I like ice cream and just so happen to like chocolate sprinkles too vibe I'm cool with meeting that couple.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

I’m black I have a big dick, however I think it’s worth remembering I own my penis and at times I have had experiences where people can act a little entitled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

know alot of black guys who dont like bbc or Qos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

If 6 of you say it isn’t she said she will be convinced "

Youre just gonna get biased replies from guys who use the terms “bbc” “chocolate” etc.

Men are horny and will put up with anything if it gets them laid

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

As a grown woman I’m sure your wife is capable of among her own decisions, you’re acting more like a pimp than a husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

If 6 of you say it isn’t she said she will be convinced "

I think the OP might be unhelpfully trying to trigger unnecessarily divisiveness. You recognise that some might find it offensive, others not, so what is the point of this thread?

I think responses so far have been on point and not fallen for it!

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Personally I don’t have a problem with it, I mean it’s black and it’s big, oftent tend to find it’s white men who obsess about my cock, and act like it’s my fault that their wives/girlfriend would rather be out shagging a black guy. There are things we as black men (and also being bisexual/lgbt In my case) we both face discrimination and bigotry on a daily basis, racism, biphobia, homophobia, sexism we are all part of of various marginalised groups. A white heterosexual (privileged) man might not understand this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure you are ever going to win this one

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Is it racist when youre actually trying to exploit everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs

WCM!!

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By *lackFun69Man
over a year ago

East Anglia


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

If 6 of you say it isn’t she said she will be convinced "
Not racist , your just saying what you like

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Ffs

WCM!!"

???

Of course they matter but what's that got to do with anything here? Weird post.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

If 6 of you say it isn’t she said she will be convinced

Youre just gonna get biased replies from guys who use the terms “bbc” “chocolate” etc.

Men are horny and will put up with anything if it gets them laid "

The OP is not asking guys to respond so they can play with his wife. He asked if getting a BBC collar is racist. Not all men will put up with anything to get laid.

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By *astersLBS OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"As a grown woman I’m sure your wife is capable of among her own decisions, you’re acting more like a pimp than a husband "

I am the wife, and I actually asked for this post. I happen to care what others think and don’t want people to be uncomfortable as I wouldn’t like to be made to feel uncomfortable. I do make my own decisions and he is not my pimp he’s my husband who cares about how I feel, hence the post. Considering your other contribution to this thread is about the discrimination you face as a black man who is bisexual, I’d say you should understand why I would want to make sure something like that wouldn’t offend anyone. Maybe have an open mind that we have a couples profile so posts are from us both

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton


"As a grown woman I’m sure your wife is capable of among her own decisions, you’re acting more like a pimp than a husband

I am the wife, and I actually asked for this post. I happen to care what others think and don’t want people to be uncomfortable as I wouldn’t like to be made to feel uncomfortable. I do make my own decisions and he is not my pimp he’s my husband who cares about how I feel, hence the post. Considering your other contribution to this thread is about the discrimination you face as a black man who is bisexual, I’d say you should understand why I would want to make sure something like that wouldn’t offend anyone. Maybe have an open mind that we have a couples profile so posts are from us both"

Do it. You'll attract the people you want and repel those you want.

At the end of the day there's very little you can do with 0% chance of offending someone. There was a time my simply walking a street would offend someone. You know what is in your heart

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Even if it’s not racist, it’s just tacky

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

It’s her husbands preference. Seems like a controlling relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a grown woman I’m sure your wife is capable of among her own decisions, you’re acting more like a pimp than a husband "

That!

Respect your wife's opinion.

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By *otyouraverageABCMan
over a year ago

Kent

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By *otyouraverageABCMan
over a year ago

Kent

I don't find it racist , but personally don't use the terms BBC or BWC as I find the concept a bit detached and less personalised than I like. Almost to the point that I find these terms dehumanising and almost mechanical, but it doesn't bother me to the point where I'm losing the will to live, ha

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Your wife might be better off with a good divorce lawyer

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

The context of the term bbc ultimately comes down to who says it: if a guy who says it as a terms of self reference, then it’s a case of him owning it and that is a personal choice. However when white people say it the context changes: when they refer to us as “bbc” then they see us as property

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

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Would she wear it in private or public ?

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Usually I present myself as a black guy. That is because it’s easier. Growing up in the 70s, there weren’t many black kids in the playground and I was the only mixed (1970s) Then it was a huge taboo. Thankfully it’s all changed. So the issue is that people who go on about fetishisation, are doing to bring back the “black and white should mix. Yes a lot is about sex,we are all adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is uncomfortable with it. She is uncomfortable with it.

Randoms online won't change that.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

And if six or more people suggest she files for divorce will she be off to the nearest solicitor in the morning. It’s like something off Jeremy Kyle .

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"I want to get the mrs a bbc slut collar but she feels it could be considered racist!

Would she wear it in private or public ?"

(I’m imagining her doing the school pick up wearing it now!)

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