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Are FAB Pics becoming to graphic?

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By *ildrocket OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Warwickshire

Are we alone in thinking many Fab profiles are just too graphic, verging on being a turn off as opposed to on?

For us far too many profiles have only pics that are more suited to a gynecologist study, than even remotely sexy.

We would far rather see some body shape with those pics, some subtle detail, some sexyiness to appeal to others.

For those that may comment, yes we do have a pic of Mr Wildrockets cock but it's one pic in many rather than only cock pics.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

It's a matter of individual taste.

Don't like don't look. Simples

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I realise that everyone has the option to put what they want on their profile but to us also close ups of genitals is a turn off.

Pics on profiles is one of the many criteria we use we we are deciding whether to reply to a message or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are a definite turn off, to many close up shot of cocks and fannys, some could be in gynaecology text books!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We couldn't agree more. We don't have any graphic pics on our profile. It's nice to keep things for when we have fun with great respectful folk. Saying that though, people are free to do what they see fit with their profile. It will turn a lot off but there are some who like that sort of thing. Graphic pics do nothing for us, in fact the complete opposite. If we look at a profile and see loads of dicks and pussy shots we just move on.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"Are we alone in thinking many Fab profiles are just too graphic, verging on being a turn off as opposed to on?

For us far too many profiles have only pics that are more suited to a gynecologist study, than even remotely sexy.

We would far rather see some body shape with those pics, some subtle detail, some sexyiness to appeal to others.

For those that may comment, yes we do have a pic of Mr Wildrockets cock but it's one pic in many rather than only cock pics. "

Yes agree, I’m not put off by them. If that’s what people want on there profile that’s fine.

I personally don’t like to see everything on offer. We just pass by and leave for others.

A classy pic showing enough and letting my mind do the rest is what we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This varies for me

Sometimes to graphic can be dirty nails, filthy carpet in background, ladies parts out with tissue stuck etc that type of graphic makes me feel sick

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Is a personal choice of the individual/individuals to choose wich photos, they choose to post, in public , friends or private. I myself i keep the pictures that are more intimate to myself , sometimes i can put them public or only friends friends only , it depends on my mood i think .

Anyway, just for curiosity, what is too graphic in a fab site like Fabs?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Some people like pictures like that, other people don't, it's one of those things where we have autonomy to have what we want to portray on our profile.

If nothing else it helps inform who you reply to or block

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By *AWK2022Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall

For us it's a turn off....cocks next to sky remotes, deodorant cans, sinks and toilets....not for us thank you!

I'd much rather leave something as a mystery, and tease a bit....

Each to their own I guess! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m personally not a fan of graphic photos but each to their own.

Is it becoming more graphic? I wouldn’t say over 4 years I’ve been on here I’ve seen the same kind of photos on the updates nothing has changed. Other than I think more people are showing their face

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m not a fan but I rarely look at those kind of pictures

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

They’re not the sort of pictures we like, but they’re not trying to attract us - they are trying to attract people who do like those pictures.

People put up pictures of themselves here that they choose to represent them in a way they believe is appealing, and unless they break Fab rules it’s entirely their own business.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Pictures can be a very effective filter, not just for judging attractiveness but some pictures are just a definite no

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Define graphic? At one time, nudity would have been banned. It's a personal preference, don't look if offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

adult site so it their profile for them to showcase themselves its showinmg a part of how they see things and how they are .... so no i dont see the problem .... but i would say that because to me its a great great filter and is the easiest way to add someone to the block list ..

this is why im against profile advice i want to see the real person not the fake made up one

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

We all know it's an over 18 site so most any pic goes as long as its legal.

Personally for me, the most graphic I will ever get on here is showing my breasts. I'd rather people be drawn to me for more than what my downstairs looks like x

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely! …we’d rather talk before we see ever your bits up close! …and even then, preferably in person than through a zoom lens on a website.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal


"Are we alone in thinking many Fab profiles are just too graphic, verging on being a turn off as opposed to on?

For us far too many profiles have only pics that are more suited to a gynecologist study, than even remotely sexy.

We would far rather see some body shape with those pics, some subtle detail, some sexyiness to appeal to others.

For those that may comment, yes we do have a pic of Mr Wildrockets cock but it's one pic in many rather than only cock pics. "

Entirely agree, graphic shots just put me off, imo, something left to the imagination is far Sevier, who wants their present unwrapped?!!

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"It's a matter of individual taste.

Don't like don't look. Simples"

This. My most popular pictures are full nudes and close ups by a mile.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal


"Are we alone in thinking many Fab profiles are just too graphic, verging on being a turn off as opposed to on?

For us far too many profiles have only pics that are more suited to a gynecologist study, than even remotely sexy.

We would far rather see some body shape with those pics, some subtle detail, some sexyiness to appeal to others.

For those that may comment, yes we do have a pic of Mr Wildrockets cock but it's one pic in many rather than only cock pics.

Entirely agree, graphic shots just put me off, imo, something left to the imagination is far Sevier, who wants their present unwrapped?!! "

*sexier obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess its the individual choice so each yo their own. I have noticed a rise in unsolicited pussy pics appearing in my messages. I presume they are fake profiles or are women turning more like men

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I guess it's subjective

Plenty make me pull an yuk face but if the profile owner likes them then I guess that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to rotate ours regularly and keep a mixture of explicit and non explicit. Hopefully keeps it a little bit interesting

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Personally I find the close ups a real turn off, I think it’s nice to leave a little more to the imagination, but to each their own, just my preference.

However I really don’t like when close up dick pics / cum shots are sent via private message (unless asked for) because there’s no warning when you open the message. Whereas, if you choose to view someone’s profile, they are free to post whatever they like.

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By *linky1Couple
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

Sometimes wonder if the women are involved with their profiles as most women I know want images that are classy and sexy. We have one graphic photo on ours but it is a great sexy picture. The rest we like to leave to the imagination.

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London


"Personally I find the close ups a real turn off, I think it’s nice to leave a little more to the imagination, but to each their own, just my preference.

However I really don’t like when close up dick pics / cum shots are sent via private message (unless asked for) because there’s no warning when you open the message. Whereas, if you choose to view someone’s profile, they are free to post whatever they like. "

Agree with this - especially the super close-ups of a hole etc.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I feel like I'm something of a minority in this thread. I completely get your point and there are times when I'd definitely agree with you. Personally I'm all for it, I like seeing people in all their glory. Whip it out, show it off, let me see the good stuff.

I'll hasten to add though, background details such as messy rooms, open toilets and half eaten dinner does ruin the picture. Additionally, pictures where some guy is comparing the size of his dick to random objects found around the house is never attractive (it's hilarious). Plus super close ups of blurry genitalia is just a waste of time, you can't take the time to get a decent pic?!

I know my pics leave basically nothing to the imagination but for me that's sort of the point an part of the fun, I like showing myself off. Though a classy pic that's suggestive and done well can send the mind racing in ways a candid pic could not.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I've seen a few scary graphic close ups, had to go wash my eyes after haha

Personal prefer just a tease to keep me interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply a case of each to their own surely?!

Cant even see how this is a conversation on a swingers site

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

What you may hate others will love so there is something for everyone on here.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Sometimes wonder if the women are involved with their profiles as most women I know want images that are classy and sexy. We have one graphic photo on ours but it is a great sexy picture. The rest we like to leave to the imagination."

Completely agree great sexy picture . Fabbed

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