FabSwingers.com forum: son or daughter into swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i just like to ask the question what would you do if you found out that your son or daughter are into swinging ?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Not much you can do really if they are an adult

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would block them for a start. If they like to swing then otherwise that is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've seen a few profiles that have wanted to meet a father and son, not something that appeals to me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Upto them, as long as safe and happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Upto them, as long as safe and happy."

I agree

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"i just like to ask the question what would you do if you found out that your son or daughter are into swinging ?"

Wasn't this asked a couple of days ago?

For me I see it as none of my business what they get up to as long as it's entirely consensual. I would be willing to advise them on safety or other things. I would just try to make sure our paths don't cross on the scene. Luke

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Nothing what difference would it make to me

I'd just be happy they had a good healthy sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their decision, as long as they're safe and happy.

Mrs

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Nothing what difference would it make to me

I'd just be happy they had a good healthy sex life "
This

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I would rather they did than "go out on the pull". My daughter knows. I cant remember exactly how she found out, but ive been open and honest with her ( to some degree!) about it all. I would also rather know if she did join. So we can avoid each other and not cross meets lol

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By *ilson84500Man
over a year ago

Portadown

I have met (Not played with) a few at clubs in fact.

One was a daughter who worked at a club in north London her mum come in for a look and chatted. Not sure if the mother played that night or was just check out where her daughter worked. Daughter loved to play on other nights but was a little shy that night understandable.

And also a different time at a nudist spa in north London i was chatting to a lady in the hot tub and she was there with her daughter chilling. Both went off with men separately to private rooms. I think in that case the mother had been swing for years the daughter was curious.

All adults but I must admit I couldnt do it myself

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By *aughty man 99Man
over a year ago

meteringham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Billie Jean is not my lover

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have a naturist freind that they are also swingers and they were very happy when one of their children a few years after being married decided to join then and they even went to a party together and often join with things happening all over.

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By *eat n 2 VegMan
over a year ago

wigan

Ok what would you if you found your grand parents where into swinging haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok what would you if you found your grand parents where into swinging haha "

Did a good job at faking their death

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Their sex life is none of my business, that's got nothing to do with parenting unless they specificaly ask for my opinion in someway on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Son is on here, I blocked him when he joined. He's an adult, he can have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple I once knew told me how they bumped into their eldest daughter at a new swingers club they were visiting

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"i just like to ask the question what would you do if you found out that your son or daughter are into swinging ?"

If on fab, block them!

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

I once had a guy from a couple on here try to get me to sleep with his wife and daughter. Daughter was 16. I truly truly hope he was just a weirdo who was into weird stuff and not what he claimed to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no one’s business but ours so wouldn’t be too bothered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok what would you if you found your grand parents where into swinging haha "

Not be surprised lol

It’s not an image I want in my head lol x

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

It would not worry me as long as they were enjoying themselves, I mean I am on here so why should they not be.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not much you can do really if they are an adult"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sher is open and jokes about it with her kids.

Her daughter always sings

(If you go down to the woods today)

When she sees her mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into ex gfs parents at a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block them.

If they're adults what they choose to do is up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest son is into swinging although he doesn’t know I am, I just make sure I avoid the clubs he goes to

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Not something I need to worry about as my boys are 5 and 3 months.

But hypothetically speaking there'd be lots of what ifs on the subject. Like would they know we know? would they know we do too? If the answer is yes to both then it'd be try to talk so neither is any the same party/club. If the answer no to either or both questions then I don't know how you'd avoid the potential of bumping into one another.

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By *mooth321Man
over a year ago

Tonypandy

As adults they do as they please.... good luck to them if they want to swing.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Back in the day, my daughter was, and was well pissed off when she found out I`d been to a swingers club before her. This was after divorce. We just agreed to compare diaries before we went to the club. Otherwise it could have been a bit like the Renault advert if we had both been in the dark room at the same time - Papa? Nicole?. Doesn`t bare thinking about. We actually know quite a few people whose sons, daughters, fathers, mothers etc are swingers.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"Back in the day, my daughter was, and was well pissed off when she found out I`d been to a swingers club before her. This was after divorce. We just agreed to compare diaries before we went to the club. Otherwise it could have been a bit like the Renault advert if we had both been in the dark room at the same time - Papa? Nicole?. Doesn`t bare thinking about. We actually know quite a few people whose sons, daughters, fathers, mothers etc are swingers."

That should read - we actually know quite a few swingers etc etc etc

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By *mooth321Man
over a year ago

Tonypandy

That should read - we actually know quite a few swingers etc etc etc"

Very healthy attitude

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Both of our parents know about our swinging life. Not sure they know exactly the things we do but they both support us as long as its good for tye marriage and everyone is happy and safe.

In the future if our toddler grows up and wants to swing it'll be her decision and we'll support her too.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

As long as they're safe, happy and in a stable state of mind completely not a problem. It's a great scene why wouldn't we want them to enjoy it?

However would definitely need to de-conflict clubs/party night. As much as we support their interests we don't want to be in the same club at the same time as them (and I'm sure that would be the same for them too). And since we found the scene first we would call first dibs and veto on clubs and parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than ensuring your paths never cross , then providing they are of an age, then it is there move I guess

J xx

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

A girl who I worked with (early 20's) was at a ladies only social club event. Basically a hen night without a hen. She was with a group of friends and they were all from military families. One friend said to another, "isn't that your mum" and they all looked to see her friends mum on her knees in front of a stripper in the process of consuming copious amounts of squirty cream.

I think you get the picture and I'm not sure that's something you can never unsee as a daughter

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I can understand the "their lives, their choice" comments. But I would like to avoid the4m at a club or party.

Our kids do know, Innuendo was outed at work, so because there were a few business tie-ups, they knew the same people, we had to tell them. Both were OK with it and our daughter even lent her mum a full length coat to travel in one night.

When I asked if they were OK with it after I told them, our daughter said "No I am bloody not!"

And when asked the reason, she just said that it was not right that her mum was getting more sex than she was...

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

i wouldn't want to know if my son or daughter were swinger but it's their choice just like it was hubbys and mine

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

We'd both be rather shocked to discover that either of us had a son or daughter.

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By *mooth321Man
over a year ago

Tonypandy

"I can understand the "their lives, their choice" comments. But I would like to avoid the4m at a club or party.

When I asked if they were OK with it after I told them, our daughter said "No I am bloody not!"

And when asked the reason, she just said that it was not right that her mum was getting more sex than she was...

Good for mum

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