FabSwingers.com forum: Single males find it hard

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do other single males also find it hard on here to arrange meets get womens attention ? Any tips or tricks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public photos might help?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Yes there's roughly 100 guys to every female on here so most men will find the site a struggle unless they really stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do other single males also find it hard on here to arrange meets get womens attention ? Any tips or tricks ? "

First tip. A pic in the mirror of your cock is an easy delete for nearly every woman on here. You've automatically alienated 85% of the audience who don't want to see that.

It doesn't have to be a face pic. Many are discrete with this for work reasons but you're more than a cock they'd hope. At the minute that's what they associate with you.

Also have something intriguing on your profile about what you can offer. Your profile screams bloke looking for a bit on the side. I'm not being harsh, you just need to see it from their angle.

Good luck.

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By *avin77Man
over a year ago

camberley

Yep, struggle massively.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any suggestions on how

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is something not to stress over or rely on...

The short time I have been on has taught me that relying on Fab for what you need makes it less enjoyable.

There are some lovely, stunning people on here so just be open, honest and keep your fingers crossed for some good luck.

Oh and hit a club, they are great way of meeting people.

Have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks appriciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy photos not just dick pics.

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By *aveworcsMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Photos less than five years old may help you a tad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your looking for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy photos not just dick pics."

What constitutes a sexy pic? X

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Up to date photos, not just a cropped version of the one from 5 years ago.

Block single men from messaging (you can get rid of the last sentence that way)

Write about you, what you're looking for, what you enjoy, ideal type of meet.

Always send a face pic with the first msg, women will be more attracted to that than any other part of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again. Can we not just put a pinned post in the forum somewhere that would catch all these bloody questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy photos not just dick pics.

What constitutes a sexy pic? X"
. Effort. We do.. idk maybe it's just me but a man putting effort into a pic and not just his dick is super sexy. Just my observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get out what you put in

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exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By *tticus Finch 76Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Try going to socials or clubs OP. Interacting in real life is so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lacklustre pictures and a short uninteresting bio littered with spelling mistakes.

Being harsh but we’re not surprised that you’re finding it hard

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By *issitCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

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By *issitCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

"Sexy photos not just dick pics.

What constitutes a sexy pic? X"

Your pics are a good start flower. All personal taste but I love clothes for framing a sexy body, whether it’s boxers, or a t-shirt or underwear. Girls and boys alike, clothes frame the body, and excite the mind as to what might be underneath x

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Nope - time & effort come through in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for most men on here it will alway be hard and its down to just one fact the sheer number of men to the very few women and couples looking for them

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"You get out what you put in

You put you're right arm in...

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By *ngloIrishRelationsCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Definitely read the profile of the person/couple you wish to contact and respect what they are looking for.

Our profile is very harsh at the moment and still single guys respond inappropriately. Presumably they can read so they must have made a decision not to respect our wishes.

That is never going to get you anywhere close to a meet and for us is an instant block.

And good pictures, not of your cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not hard at all.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Give more details of what you are looking for and what your interests are. Just now it’s vague.

Recent pics as others have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get out what you put in

You put you're right arm in..."

Stop referring to my cock as a baby arm

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Sexy photos not just dick pics.

What constitutes a sexy pic? X"

Yours do. Good examples of what photos attract attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get out what you put in

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but hes not having any luck putting it in.

All sound advice so far.

As someone says it's 100 to 1. The good news tho is 98 will shoot themselves in the foot within the first line (if not before) so your odds are better than you think provided you don't balls it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have good chat and be a witty fucker

it's hard but not impossible, distance is the struggle for us, most women/couples are 30-50 miles away but it's not impossible

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Being able to accommodate. Single guys that can't usually tagged as a cheat. Harsh but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get out what you put in

You put you're right arm in..."

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Mate I am a single trans woman and I find it incredibly hard to meet single women here. It’s just part of fab life for single dick owners.

Just keep throwing the dice and eventually you get a few wins

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Mate I am a single trans woman and I find it incredibly hard to meet single women here. It’s just part of fab life for single dick owners.

Just keep throwing the dice and eventually you get a few wins

Your profile is fab x J x x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Op one word.... Profile....

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Mate I am a single trans woman and I find it incredibly hard to meet single women here. It’s just part of fab life for single dick owners.

Just keep throwing the dice and eventually you get a few wins

Your profile is fab x J x x "

Most kind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not easy but it’s just how it is. Men aren’t any easier. 2 socials I’d arranged recently both bailed. Is what it is.

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Your profile just seems a rambling scramble of words, and a personal pet hate of mine, missed full stops at the end of sentences.

Your pics are ok now, so guess your listening to others advice. Although, might just be me, but never really like bathroom pics.

Other than that.......you do have a cute body!!

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