FabSwingers.com forum: Why do most couples profiles not have many pics of him?

By *omersetPlayful OP Couple
over a year ago

Frome

We are a couple looking to meet couples.

It's great for me (the man) because I can really get a guage of the woman in the couple.

But for my wife - There are either no pics of the man or one cursory dick pic or if there are body shots, there's almost 10 of her for every 1 of him. She is starting to find it exasperating.

Of course single men profiles get it right - but are missing the crucial ingredient for us.

Why is this phenomenon occuring do people think? Are we the only people who notice? Genuinely curious about it!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's always been a common thing on Fab.

Many reasons, but generally fall into a few categories/reasons/excuses.

She's better looking so is the bait.

He takes the photos so can't be in them.

It's mostly she who plays so you don't need to see him.

They're happy to send privately but not have them publicly displayed due to his job.

All of which are pretty much BS reasons and could be worked around, but people will do what people want to do.

And then they'll complain that they're struggling to get meets......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only interested in men so its frustrating when messaged by a couple whos pics are all of her, i dont usually reply if thats the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a broad sweeping generalisation that will certainly not be true in all cases, i think it just tends to be the bloke in a couple who picks up the camera.

There are more pictures of the girls on fab because there are more pictures of the girls taken.

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By *ave05Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford Essex

I find it rare to find a male full body picture within a bisexual couples profile also and especially when they are insisting the male must be bi too. I feel somewhat awkward asking for more revealing male pics to accompany the profile but interesting points raised.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We have both, more of M in friends because tattoos, F can hide hers in lingerie. Agree how can you gauge tho by one blurred bum shot or dic pic, even dressed pics give idea of shape given so many peoples interpretation of say average body shape varies, even athletic

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We try to keep ours even

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We have both, more of M in friends because tattoos, F can hide hers in lingerie. Agree how can you gauge tho by one blurred bum shot or dic pic, even dressed pics give idea of shape given so many peoples interpretation of say average body shape varies, even athletic

Ink is always an issue. It's rare that I'll ever post an unclothed pic of me on here or anywhere else as it's honestly a major ball ache to edit out.

Fox has some too but much easier for me to work around that.

Easy to take photos together rhough with timers/remotes but you so rarely see much of that on couples profiles - it's often just either him or her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also find this, I'm a straight female and trying to find couples where there's not 100 photo's of the female and one cock pic is proving difficult. We would like to couple swap and to do that I need more male pics. The female is not the most important in the couples profile, it should be equal. We've tried to make our profile as equally spread as possible to appeal to both male and female. Just a shame so many couples profiles don't do that.

Mrs

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There's way more variety of outfits for women than men, that's why we have more of her also I (Mr) loves taking the pictures.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We noticed the same. I think there's usually more of the female usually the most sought after.

We have a fair few of me MR but more of her because there's a lot more options for women clothes wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in general, Men tend to be more voyeuristic and Women tend to be more of an exhibitionist, mainly for to society thrusting sexy images of Women at us from every angle. Yeah, I know, not all.

For us though, in short, Mr has far more experience in this scene and as a result, we're here mainly for fun, new thrilling experiences for Mrs.

As we stand, Mr has no intention of joining in with anyone other than Mrs A.

Things may change in time, and well adapt our profile to that, but for now, there's no point, in our opinion in adding pictures mainly of Mr.

Long term, we're looking for a couple for Mrs to meet when Mr is away, the only part Mr will play is being there to see the 'action' the first time or couple of times, until Mrs is happy to meet alone with the couple.

Kind of a cuckold situation, yet not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We just don't engage with those profiles, experience has taught us that the guy isn't interested in the other woman apart from watching her with his partner and I'm straight or is only doing this for her benefit.

Their profile, their rules, if it's working for them they're not going to change it

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

I'm always the one taking the pictures! If it was Rachel, you'd get just my feet or forehead hahaha. Also, if I post pictures up, even if I make an effort, they don't get as much attention..

However we are doing a couples shoot tomorrow, so watch this space xxx

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always the one taking the pictures! If it was Rachel, you'd get just my feet or forehead hahaha. Also, if I post pictures up, even if I make an effort, they don't get as much attention..

However we are doing a couples shoot tomorrow, so watch this space xxx

James"

Roughly the same with us. I’m a semi pro tog, and frankly an ugly bugger

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Our pics are typically a balance or more of him and I take mine down to deter certain types of people messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because he has a “rugby build”?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If it's because, as quite a few have said, the man is not (putting it politely) photogenic do they think the woman won't notice when they turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered the same x

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why is this phenomenon occuring do people think? Are we the only people who notice? Genuinely curious about it!

Like many profiles, we are probably top heavy with female in the ratio of Lizzie to Jordan pics, but this has never caused us an issue to meet with couples or females from fab. Aside the club scene, we’ve met plenty of couples and females from fab and had plenty of discussions about our profile and pics but never had any concerns about quota of male pics.

We do have pussy and cock pics, but try to limit these as I’m sure you kind of get the idea what you’re going to get if we meet up and we doubt that no matter how many different angles and backgrounds of my cock you get is going to change your view much.

Instead, in terms of what we have done with our photos, rather than have loads of pics of us, is have a number of pics of us, but then have a number of pics to try and represent our character and personality.

There’s quite a few group pics of us to indicate we’re filthy perverts and like to get down and dirty. But there’s also a lot of pics of different clubs that hopefully indicate that we like to travel, like to party and down for a good time.

We describe ourselves (and sure many would concur) as “Social Butterflies with Dirty Wings”. Hopefully the pics shows a balance of social and filth, two key aspects of the lifestyle, and is contextual to this and supports our written profile.

There is part a reason why we’ve gone down this route with our pics. We met a fantastic gorgeous American couple, living in the North of England, during a visit to Secrets in Devon. They did comment on our profile being very long and felt it was very formal but also on point and clear about us. However, they thought we’d be quite draconian when it come to swinging with lots of rules. However, when they met us they said we weren’t nothing like our profile and thought we were great to kick back with, lively and fun and an interesting contrast to the profile. Conscious of this, and whilst it never caused us any issues, we thought we’d take this feedback and improve our profile and use pics to inject a bit more personality into the profile.

Essentially, we look at it that your profile is your little piece of marketing in the swinging community to describe the people you are, the people you want, what you’re looking for and photos to support this. Of course, you also need a profile to stand out if you want people to come and look for you (unless you prefer to search, but still they will likely look at your profile and want to see something of interest and effort).

That’s our approach and view OP. Hope it helps towards quenching the curiosity.

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

So, i've just added two pictures of James, my bum picture has got nearly 100 fabs since this morning, lets see how his does... hahaha..

I think that will answer your questions..

Rachel xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, i've just added two pictures of James, my bum picture has got nearly 100 fabs since this morning, lets see how his does... hahaha..

I think that will answer your questions..

James is fab x

Rachel xxx

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Unpopular opinion here - but I believe the reason why a lot of couples profiles have little to no pictures of the male half is because deep down he may know he’s clearly punching above his weight being with his partner. This whole the male “not being photogenic” thing to me is a cop out.

9 times out of 10 these profiles are ALWAYS run by the man who’ll have you jumping through all kinds of hoops. But heck, who am I to tell people how they should run their account, if it works for them then so be it.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Exactly!!! We've tried to get a balance, but sooo many profiles have none of him! We won't even entertain chatting without now. Listened to a podcast by 'frontporchswingers' they describe profiles like that as "smokescreen" couple's hot missus and a not so hot hubby

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Our pics are typically a balance or more of him and I take mine down to deter certain types of people messaging. "

We like your's!!

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

There are more pics of Anna because she is the hotter one of the 2 of us. Haha!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Why do most couples profiles not have many pics of him? Perhaps because that is the way they wish to use their profile, just as you use yours as you want to do. It's that simple, and none of anyone else's business. Don't like it? Move on to another. There are plenty to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are more pics of Anna because she is the hotter one of the 2 of us. Haha! "

That's a matter of opinion, you look pretty good to me

Mrs

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By *entCouple12Couple
over a year ago

south kent

From a fairly ‘new couple’ perspective, seeing everyone else’s amazing pics can be a bit overwhelming to start with and can make both the male and female ‘compare’ or worry what others might think about how they look.

Just another perspective to this question

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"I find it rare to find a male full body picture within a bisexual couples profile also and especially when they are insisting the male must be bi too. I feel somewhat awkward asking for more revealing male pics to accompany the profile but interesting points raised. "

Not entirely the case, all our bi couple friends have equal photos of both on their profile.

But to add our opinion, it’s quite deflating when the Mrs’s photos get fabbed at a rate of 100/1 compared to the Mr’s - why put yourself through it? There’s plenty of us together, but we limit solo pics.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Not entirely the case, all our bi couple friends have equal photos of both on their profile.

100 to 1!? You are doing better than me!! Only fans I get are from TS/CD.. not our thing though..

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

"There are more pics of Anna because she is the hotter one of the 2 of us. Haha!

That's a matter of opinion, you look pretty good to me

Mrs "

It is indeed. But tits and ass always look better than cock and balls lol. I appreciate the compliment though lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay I get it about 1 taking a pic, there are such things as timers and Bluetooth remotes though. But surely if 1 half of the couple is in a pic because the other is taking it, is it inconceivable for them to take turns ?

I'm straight so doesn't really bother me, more whether I'd get on with them both or not. So seeing how a guy looks isn't the issue. However I do agree that it is heavily weighed towards female photos. Must be a nightmare playing as a couple looking for that 4 way mutual attraction

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Ho hum

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

It is indeed. But tits and ass always look better than cock and balls lol. I appreciate the compliment though lovely.

I must admit, and maybe i'm biased but I don't agree. I think James's cock is beautiful. I actually want a ornament made from it haha.

Anyway, I posted some pictures of him, sure enough, they got very few Fabs... So you're going to have to put up with pictures of me.. haha

Rach xxx

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Ho hum

We know you pair look good!

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

It is indeed. But tits and ass always look better than cock and balls lol. I appreciate the compliment though lovely.

I must admit, and maybe i'm biased but I don't agree. I think James's cock is beautiful. I actually want a ornament made from it haha.

Anyway, I posted some pictures of him, sure enough, they got very few Fabs... So you're going to have to put up with pictures of me.. haha

Rach xxx"

Wait that sounds wrong... I want an ornament made from a casting of it... I don't want it stuffed and on my mantle piece. Oh go, i'm making this worse.

hahahahaha

Rach xx

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

We have both, more on the private, but going by the fab feedback count it isn't even close which ones are more popular

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"From a fairly ‘new couple’ perspective, seeing everyone else’s amazing pics can be a bit overwhelming to start with and can make both the male and female ‘compare’ or worry what others might think about how they look.

Just another perspective to this question

You guys have some great pics

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

That's one of the reasons we rarely meet couples via my couples profile

I think people think the female sells the profile, but as you say that's not the cause for many we want a clear view of the male half of the couple too

Everyone has a right to run their profile how they like but if the profile is female heavy we scroll on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question/point been raised many times and one of the most curious replies I saw was along the lines of... so excuse my paraphrasing...

Many - of course not all - couples meet other couples just 'get the girl'. They'd really like a MFF but as those are rarer than hen's teeth meeting another couple is the only realistic alternative so they tolerate the other males just purely to have the females. With this mindset they, maybe even subconsciously, leave the male off the pics as the 'more attractive' female will lure the other female in along with her 'tolerated' male.

As I say that theory intrigued me so simply make your own minds up on its validity.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It is indeed. But tits and ass always look better than cock and balls lol. I appreciate the compliment though lovely.

I must admit, and maybe i'm biased but I don't agree. I think James's cock is beautiful. I actually want a ornament made from it haha.

Anyway, I posted some pictures of him, sure enough, they got very few Fabs... So you're going to have to put up with pictures of me.. haha

Rach xxx

Wait that sounds wrong... I want an ornament made from a casting of it... I don't want it stuffed and on my mantle piece. Oh go, i'm making this worse.

hahahahaha

Rach xx"

Get a cloning kit from LH. Problem solved.

Although you may need an extra tub of the 'goo'. We made one a few years back and it turned out to be a 'mini me' due to lack of material.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"Ho hum

We know you pair look good!

Likewise

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"This question/point been raised many times and one of the most curious replies I saw was along the lines of... so excuse my paraphrasing...

As I say that theory intrigued me so simply make your own minds up on its validity. "

I, we, would object to this theory, granted not yours as whilst we enjoy a MFF, our preference is a MFFM. We prefer the dynamics of a foursome and very easy to create these MFF or even MFM in this arrangement.

Both are fun and have different dynamics but the couples we have met and played with, have been on the same page as us and each other and haven’t tolerated a one for the team approach for their own personal needs. Has to be something for everyone individually, as couples, and the whole group.

I think it’s fair to say that most men in couples see a shared value and mutual respect, but also like to think that their significant other is their better half in beauty. And proud to share her, not as a trophy but in admiration for who she is.

I’m no longer an oil painting, but I’d be horrified if a woman sacrificed herself or a man gave his woman to me just to fuck Lizzie. A major turnoff!

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By * -and- LCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

In my opinion it's usually the expectation that a couple's profile with a heavy presence of male pictures is a fake. We try to keep ours 50/50, but add as we go.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It was one of the things we wanted to ensure we done when we started - have pics of us both.

It’s up to the couple how they run their profile - we’ve heard various reasons why Mr isn’t on the account but if both are playing, then it makes sense for people to make it easier for themselves.

We just bypass the profiles that don’t fit to what we are looking for.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It does seem quite common to have pics of Mrs only, to be honest I wouldn't reply to a message/wink as I want to see the male. We try keep us both in ours, on our old account there was a couple of single pics of us both, but always an even number.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I always assume it's bc he doesn't play and it's all about her. Hence I don't bother with couples.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There's a lot of it op

I'm half a couple and find it v frustrating as a straight fem.

Now we don't reply to profiles with just his cock pic and 100 of the lady in different poses .

It makes me feel like I wouldn't be important and it's all about the woman in a couple.

I get it if only the lady meets , but think otherwise they should have one or 2 of the man to show his body type.

Obviously it's up to people how they run their profile,but as Obifox said,many times they're on the forum moaning either they can't get meets or that men message and address just the woman.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"So, i've just added two pictures of James, my bum picture has got nearly 100 fabs since this morning, lets see how his does... hahaha..

I think that will answer your questions..

Rachel xxx

I've fabbed him

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

It is indeed. But tits and ass always look better than cock and balls lol. I appreciate the compliment though lovely.

I must admit, and maybe i'm biased but I don't agree. I think James's cock is beautiful. I actually want a ornament made from it haha.

Anyway, I posted some pictures of him, sure enough, they got very few Fabs... So you're going to have to put up with pictures of me.. haha

Rach xxx"

I seriously doubt anyone would complain about that.

D x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"So, i've just added two pictures of James, my bum picture has got nearly 100 fabs since this morning, lets see how his does... hahaha..

I think that will answer your questions..

Rachel xxx

Well we would!! Both and repeatedly

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By *omersetPlayful OP Couple
over a year ago

Frome

Thank you, yes this has been a very interesting read through these responses. You're approaching your profile much like we are - to try and show who we are as simply as possible when its very hard to do so when not actually in person. Thanks for taking the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours has a mix of both of us

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By *omersetPlayful OP Couple
over a year ago

Frome

Thanks everyone for contributing, it's been a really eye-opening read for us. Great to see that we're not alone in needing to see both members of a couple before deciding if we're attracted or not.

Some people have rightly mentioned that people can do in their profiles as they please - quite so!

I must confess that I've recently discovered how few candid day-to-day photos there of me to use for normal life face-pics for this very reason - that I take most of the pictures. So that's a project for us to solve soon!

Thanks all!

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By *omersetPlayful OP Couple
over a year ago

Frome

7 vs 120!!!!

Don't feel too bad James - It's quality as well as quantity!

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By *omersetPlayful OP Couple
over a year ago

Frome

"Thank you, yes this has been a very interesting read through these responses. You're approaching your profile much like we are - to try and show who we are as simply as possible when its very hard to do so when not actually in person. Thanks for taking the time!"

This message wont make much sense as I pressed the wrong button so it doesn't include who I'm replying to! New to the forums as you might tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To tell the truth, I (Mr) hate taking photos of myself so don't have pictures to post, I shy away from every camera that is ever pointed at me, so that's why there's not many of me on our profile, I am now getting better and I am feeling more confident so more pictures are getting added regularly, as for her only doing the playing so that's why we only had pictures of mrs friendly isn't a bullshit reason, as that's how it started off, I wasn't playing at all, but wanted to be included.

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By *entcouple78Couple
over a year ago

North Kent

In our case Mrs likes having her photo taken so I pick up the camera, so its just her or her and others in the pics. Also thats a blessing for eveyone else because Mr isnt photogenic, definitely a face made for radio

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Ive noticed that as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couple of pictures of Lee on our profile but don't see the need for anymore as we are only looking for guys to join us and play with Cee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to keep this in mind when it comes to putting pics of us up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have both of us on profile...

can clearly see what's on offer...

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"I think in general, Men tend to be more voyeuristic and Women tend to be more of an exhibitionist, mainly for to society thrusting sexy images of Women at us from every angle. Yeah, I know, not all.

For us though, in short, Mr has far more experience in this scene and as a result, we're here mainly for fun, new thrilling experiences for Mrs.

As we stand, Mr has no intention of joining in with anyone other than Mrs A.

Things may change in time, and well adapt our profile to that, but for now, there's no point, in our opinion in adding pictures mainly of Mr.

Kind of a cuckold situation, yet not."

Ladies are more photogenic than men and they have an array of outfits to wear so there are only so many photos you can take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to see more pics of the female half of a couple as they are who I'm looking for but it's annoying that you rarely get to speak with her as the male handles the fab in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is very heavy on the side of female pics. Our reason is because hubby works shifts and sometimes when he’s at work and I’m home alone I get bored and I like to get dressed up and take lots of naughty pics lol

We do try and be representative of both of us though both in public and friends only pics x

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We have way more photos of me than him purely because I take photos to send to him all the time and he doesn’t feel as comfortable in front of the camera so he rarely takes them. For the record, he’s a gazillion times hotter than I am!

C x

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

As a bi curious male I like to see what both partners look like. If hubby is just a voyeur it's not so important but if for example he's a cock worshipping cuckold I'd still want to know what he looks like. So if a profile has no pics of him I steer clear.

Perhaps I'm being controversial but I also steer clear if pics of her are all extreme close ups that make it impossible to get a sense of what she looks like too.

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

have more pics of me because the Mr doesn’t like pics being taken of him- although he is getting better now!

He has ink that he doesn’t want on display.

We don’t have face pics in our friends photos either but are always happy to share privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we feel that photos are the teaser, you get a little view of us, but mostly of Athena because that’s who both men and women want most? Not to mention that if the photos and the chat lead to a meet, you will physically see BOTH of us, a photo of me won’t impress you amongst the other millions on here, (we just need a few to show I exist and back that up with verifications), but, my personality and character when we meet probably will?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok I get it

I've uploaded one of me (Mr), the only one I have without the kids in the picture .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've now received two 'fabs' for my picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But we (women) just want a body type pic..

I’m not going to start a dialogue with a couple if I don’t have an indication of his physique as well as hers..,

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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"We are a couple looking to meet couples.

It's great for me (the man) because I can really get a guage of the woman in the couple.

But for my wife - There are either no pics of the man or one cursory dick pic or if there are body shots, there's almost 10 of her for every 1 of him. She is starting to find it exasperating.

Of course single men profiles get it right - but are missing the crucial ingredient for us.

Why is this phenomenon occuring do people think? Are we the only people who notice? Genuinely curious about it!

For us partially it is because we want to appeal to the single straight men as well. Also there are alot of ways to show a woman off, different body parts, nude and different lingerie whereas more than 1 or 2 cock pics is repetitive and pointless. However as we are trying to attract more straight couples we do have a few cock pics as well as a couple of videos to show him off x

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By *immesomemoreMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

This completely. Was chatting with a couple but at the third time of asking to see a single photo of him. POOFF they were gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and have an equal amount. I think too many male pics puts a bit of mistrust that the female might not be aware of the account

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I'm in our photos. Just not all of them. Someone has to hold the camera lol

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I take 90% of pictures and wife looks stunning in her outfits plus mostly looking for mmf fun . With main focus on sharing my wife with guys . Plus I love showing her off so always taking pictures of her as I love guys chatting to her or about her to me . It’s part of the fantasy and build up to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But we (women) just want a body type pic..

I’m not going to start a dialogue with a couple if I don’t have an indication of his physique as well as hers.., "

We've added another, any better?

Though do realise, Mr M doesn't intend to get involved with anyone but Mrs A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve just in process of revamping the public bit of our profile , cant really show top half body of Mr W&W as he has numerous and very regrecognisable tattoos and we would rather it not be so obvious who we are. What do people think so far of revamp ?? Still a bit samey or ok ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to maintain a reasonable balance.

As a couple looking for other couples, where Mrs is far more selective than Mr, we're never going to get anywhere if she can't see "what she's letting herself in for". We're not interested in taking one for the team, we want there to be mutual attraction between all involved.

I'd imagine this is the case for most couples but couldn't see it posted yet so thought I'd throw in our two pence!

Mr expects pics of Mrs to get more fabs - certainly nothing to be salty about, in fact it's a bit of a turn on

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

In our case hers are much better than his!

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Because she’s much sexier than he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try to maintain a reasonable balance.

I'd imagine this is the case for most couples but couldn't see it posted yet so thought I'd throw in our two pence!

Mr expects pics of Mrs to get more fabs - certainly nothing to be salty about, in fact it's a bit of a turn on

Sorry, it has been mentioned but you can have our two pence anyway

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent

There are so many accounts without or with very few male pics. I’m sure it must be working for those couples to tun their account in that way or surely they’d change it?

We tend to have quite a few of Mr and lots of us together, as well as the ones of Mrs. we’ve got a remote control tripod and a ring light that we use from time to time… x

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

As Dj takes a lot of the pictures, we’ve both said we want more male pics but not just the standard dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy taking pics together and try to put up as many balanced pics as possible. It's a real issue that most couples only show female pics - Mrs EK is straight, so looking through fab is a nightmare. She much prefers clubs so she can actually see the couple.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try to maintain a reasonable balance.

I'd imagine this is the case for most couples but couldn't see it posted yet so thought I'd throw in our two pence!

Mr expects pics of Mrs to get more fabs - certainly nothing to be salty about, in fact it's a bit of a turn on

This exactly… we try and have equal pics but most are in friends only .. if we are interested in a couple we send face pics with first message.. but we are not to everyone’s taste ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always suspicious when a couples pics are all the female in them .i usually think that it's a guy who has got a fake couples profile xx it's happened to me a few times now x

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

"Im always suspicious when a couples pics are all the female in them .i usually think that it's a guy who has got a fake couples profile xx it's happened to me a few times now x

We've got quite a few of us separate and together now. Still trying to keep it classy though xxx

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

We find this frustrating too. It’s usually one of the main reasons couples will be a ‘no’ for us.

There are a couple of me on here in public, we have face photos of us both in private and we are hoping to get a few more of Cherry, of me and of us together this weekend.

The fact there aren’t more of me on here is because our profile is a ‘work in progress’, there will be more soon we promise.

Hades

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

Most on here only want to see the female ,we have a few of myself on our profile ,there's only so many photos you can take of a cock ??

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

We try and do things a bit differently xx to be honest the pictures of me and James together don't get as many fabs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and yep all pics are mainly of me. But if we have a message then happy to send his pics or forward his single profile. Its then you find out who is really interested and not just wanting pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try and do things a bit differently xx to be honest the pictures of me and James together don't get as many fabs xxx"

Your pics are gorgeous and so beautifully taken xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try and have an equal amount. I think too many male pics puts a bit of mistrust that the female might not be aware of the account"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wondered about this also when it's the guy who is BI or straight but messages me about meeting up.

Occasionally it's the female controlling the profile and I've found them much more open and honest about what they want for the male Bi/straight guys rarely have their pictures on public/ private display but ask for a face pic in the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im only interested in men so its frustrating when messaged by a couple whos pics are all of her, i dont usually reply if thats the case"

Why are you being messaged by couples If you're only interested in men, block couples and then no messages will come to you, simples!

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By *nnocent and RaunchyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester /London

We have a few of him, probably why people get put off ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a few of him, probably why people get put off ahem

Fabbed! Nice shorts.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Plenty of both of us (mostly together)

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

We have pics of both of us, as we're both plus size and not most people's cup of tea so it's better to be upfront ahead of anyone messaging us, I think. We we're going for an upfront enough profile that anyone who came across us would know what to expect from both of us before they message/reply. Not sure the ratio of pics, might be more of me but if there is, it was unintentional

Cali xx

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

Because of this post we have actively posted more of James, i hope you appreciate me sharing his gorgeous big cock with you xxx

Rachel xxx

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

For us?

Mr likes taking photos more.

Mrs’ photos tend to get more attention and she likes to show off more.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because I don’t have muscles or a big cock, but she has boobs and a fanny

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

It's a common observation. I am tempted to put it down to shame or shyness, but it's more likely patriarchy. What we sexualise in men, publicly, is not yet the body--unless you are a gay or bisexual man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a couple of pictures of Mr on our profile for around five days now, our inbox is not flooded with couples.

Made no blummin difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few of us together, but whenever I’ve put up pictures of myself, they get no interest, so honestly I just gave up tbh - Griz

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By *picyandspecialCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Men don’t tend to get fabbed much in our experience or chatted to which is a shame if we fab a couples profile it’s a mixture of both but definitely less male pics as it’s generally the female they want to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably so meny factors and for so many reasons why you find a low/no male half in a couple profile.

Now we've seen it from an aspect of both been single prior to having a relationship with a joint couple profile.

Both when he was single be it a bit younger than he is now with a good selection of tastefully and artistic shots and now on our joint profile there is very little in the way of comments of appreciation or or picture likes in the way of fabs.

On a very rare occasion he will get back a picture fab from a demographic we/he is not into (gay male, cd, TV, ts) and it gets to the point where both the stigma and the swing culture don't like or appear to appreciate it?

In clubs it used to be not so bad but of late Mrs F will get lots of good comments and very rarely will anyone even comment on Mr F? Don't understand why but that is just the way it is.

Change the stigma solve the problem

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Here here

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By *aughty power coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more public pictures of Daddy than of me. But the private content is different.

Saw a few posts say that male pictures don’t get much attention (not my experience however as Daddy’s photos get a lot of attention!), even so you need to have some on a couples profile. Also a picture of you together.

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