FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive when dejected

By *oliday slut OP Couple
over a year ago

tenerife

A typical reply just now.out of the blue a bi man messaged me asking if he could rim me .I politely said sorry I do not le anyone do that to me .as is definitely not on my wish list .he then messaged me back saying .I wouldn't touch yours with a barge pole then had the nerve to block me ..can you believe these people.and fab says you cannot name and shame .so they are allowed to carry on doing this

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

There are some idiots here. Luckily we're not all the same. Block and move on.

Ps you are gorgeous!! X

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We had a message once from a couple asking me, Nilly to meet alone, I politely said no thanks we don't meet alone to be called a "f*****g time wasting idiot " and then blocked us....that is one of many sadly... easier to just delete a message

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

It's the desperados at their best, i love the fact that this guy one minute wants to get incredibly personal with you to all of a sudden wouldn't go near you.

Part of the instashag crew it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather quick to reply with abuse was he? So basically so used to rejection his abusive response is almost a reflex.

You’re still you, he’s an angry and unhappy man in a world of rejection. Just leave him to live that life.

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By *oliday slut OP Couple
over a year ago

tenerife

You cannot block because they nlocked me .but they can unblock insult you again then keep blocking and fab doesn't stop this happening

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By *oliday slut OP Couple
over a year ago

tenerife

"Rather quick to reply with abuse was he? So basically so used to rejection his abusive response is almost a reflex.

You’re still you, he’s an angry and unhappy man in a world of rejection. Just leave him to live that life. "
thanks x

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

"A typical reply just now.out of the blue a bi man messaged me asking if he could rim me .I politely said sorry I do not le anyone do that to me .as is definitely not on my wish list .he then messaged me back saying .I wouldn't touch yours with a barge pole then had the nerve to block me ..can you believe these people.and fab says you cannot name and shame .so they are allowed to carry on doing this"

Obviously you know its not true as why would he have message you in the first place. At least you were polite with a reply, even if its not for you. Manners cost nothing.

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By *arrior PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You cannot block because they nlocked me .but they can unblock insult you again then keep blocking and fab doesn't stop this happening "

You can still block them...when it comes up saying you can't see their profile, go to Menu (top right) and the block option is there xxx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"You cannot block because they nlocked me .but they can unblock insult you again then keep blocking and fab doesn't stop this happening "

You can block them even if they have blocked you.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It's a daily occurance and why FAB suggest in the FAQs that it's best not to reply if your not interested

It's amazing how your the object of their attraction one minute and they wouldn't touch you with a barge poll when you say no

I was once told I should count myself lucky they'd even considered me as he had lowered his standards to message me

Just make sure you block them back and then move on, you can do that from the messages, then 3 little lines at the top of the page

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By *each honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I am very ruthless now. If I send "thankyou. sorry not interested" message. Once the message has been read, I block very quickly before a return response can be sent. Works for me. A few slip do through. But I just block and delete.

Then I move on with the rest of my day.

Best of luck to you xx

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By *oliday slut OP Couple
over a year ago

tenerife

"You cannot block because they nlocked me .but they can unblock insult you again then keep blocking and fab doesn't stop this happening

You can still block them...when it comes up saying you can't see their profile, go to Menu (top right) and the block option is there xxx "
thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oliday slut OP Couple
over a year ago

tenerife

"I am very ruthless now. If I send "thankyou. sorry not interested" message. Once the message has been read, I block very quickly before a return response can be sent. Works for me. A few slip do through. But I just block and delete.

Then I move on with the rest of my day.

Best of luck to you xx "
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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If I send a introduction message to someone I always tag on the end - “ if I sound of interest get back to me but if not just hit delete and block so I know you are not”.

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

We live in an age of no accountability. People rage and act like morons behind the safety of their keyboards and are allowed to continue because site owners, admins etc - and I’m including social media in this, don’t want to react in case it infringes ‘freedom of speech’ and advertising revenue.

It’s wrong they should be named and shamed!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I just cannot understand these people and why they react like this.

If someone has taken the time to reply to me, to politely say no thank you, the least I can do is thank them for the reply.

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By *adbod52Man
over a year ago

south east

If I send a message and get a “ no thank you “

I just reply and say thanks for taking the time to reply to me.

No need for any insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone showing there true self ...bullet dodged ...this is why we dont answer anyone other than those we are interested in all others blocked no ifs or butts ...easy simple get on with fun ...

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

That’s why sometimes it’s hard to get past first base with a chat with decent folk.. just take rejection with a pinch of salt and I move on

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It never bothers me when they get abusive... I just think of all the fun they're NOT getting! I see it as a sign of their frustration at never getting a meet

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Report them from the msg.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Block the fucker! Can't read the rules, don't play the game x

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By *hilli75Man
over a year ago

MALTA

Oh well, same old stories. Equally irritating rather than abusive are fake profiles. I get an instant invite to join a couple in a hotel for fun on first message. No pics. Dry content. Sure! Not even a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fragile egos. Don't like being told no and throw their toys out of the pram.

My most recent one was a guy who wanted to "tribute" me, and when I politely declined, he came back with something like no worries, you're a fucking munter anyway.

Doesn't bother me. I just don't reply anymore, but you do worry sometimes about if they say these things to someone who already has low self-esteem, the kind of damage they can do.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Fragile egos. Don't like being told no and throw their toys out of the pram.

My most recent one was a guy who wanted to "tribute" me, and when I politely declined, he came back with something like no worries, you're a fucking munter anyway.

Doesn't bother me. I just don't reply anymore, but you do worry sometimes about if they say these things to someone who already has low self-esteem, the kind of damage they can do."

Was he myopic? Munter? He's an idiot. Block the fucker x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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