FabSwingers.com forum: New - how long have you been swinging?!

By *alypso OP Woman
over a year ago

Hinckley

Me - 10 years and you?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Same xxxxx Suzi

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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

2 years and counting. It’s so hot playing with sexy genuine people who all want the same thing…pleasure

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

18years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years, was 17 first time I was invited to join a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since 2014

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By *hiterosesCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Approaching 15+ years…..and still learning…..

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By *alypso OP Woman
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Same xxxxx Suzi"

So what tips have you got to new members? You joined this scene as a couple but it’s different being single!

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

25 years.

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By *alypso OP Woman
over a year ago

Hinckley

"18years "

Wow!! Respect

any tips? For the newbies?

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By *alypso OP Woman
over a year ago

Hinckley

"25 years.

Okay I thought ?? I had done service.

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By *irestorm81Man
over a year ago

Richmond/Harrogate

About 5 years ish I think! I needed something to help my self confidence and body image after a bad breakup and whilst I’m not sure if I’d recommend it as the way to go, I suppose my thinking was “Ok, you’ve always wanted to try things, either let life slide by and wonder or get out there, be nice, smile and people and see what happens!”

I’ve met one of my best friends through fab, she’s brilliant and we are close family friends now, and have had some entertaining experiences! With hopefully more to come with new friends!

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"25 years.

Okay I thought ?? I had done service.

When I started there was no net.

Contact mags were the only outlet, met one couple, introduced the lifestyle and their friends, house parties and that’s how we networked.

Different days and better in some ways…

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By *alypso OP Woman
over a year ago

Hinckley

"About 5 years ish I think! I needed something to help my self confidence and body image after a bad breakup and whilst I’m not sure if I’d recommend it as the way to go, I suppose my thinking was “Ok, you’ve always wanted to try things, either let life slide by and wonder or get out there, be nice, smile and people and see what happens!”

I’ve met one of my best friends through fab, she’s brilliant and we are close family friends now, and have had some entertaining experiences! With hopefully more to come with new friends!

Love this, so many friendships also here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years on and off

First played when 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also used contact magazines in the early days, rendezvous, desire and sex mates if I remember right. Coming home to post was always exciting.

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"Also used contact magazines in the early days, rendezvous, desire and sex mates if I remember right. Coming home to post was always exciting. "

Yep, rendezvous and desire were my go to.

Post was indeed a treat when getting the odd replies… oh the Polaroids, wish I’d kept em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For so long they call Carlos King Louie!

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

Less than three years. What were we missing?

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

Since 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 10 years.

Ive had some epic times and met some cool people.

I’m wondering if its time to quit now….when the fun stops, stop?!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

25 years on and off.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

10yrs on n off

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

18yrs since first joining up to a swingers site and some very memorable experiences along the way.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Started in 1986

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 10 years now on my own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for about 4 years.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Me - 10 years and you? "
since I was 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 years

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

40 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 20 years now. made very good friends in the process and still intouch with some despite the distance to UK

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

About 14 years however I’ve had extended periods away over that time. I’ve had some wonderful experiences with some lovely people.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

About 8 years, looking forward to my first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know when I start

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

"25 years.

Okay I thought ?? I had done service.

When I started there was no net.

Contact mags were the only outlet, met one couple, introduced the lifestyle and their friends, house parties and that’s how we networked.

Different days and better in some ways…"

I started in 1979 using the contact magazines. Sending a postal order with your letter and contact telephone number. Because of the serious commitment there were no time wasters, so I had a 100% success rate, and made long term cuckold friends, several lasting decades. I live in a holiday hot spot, 50% of the housing is holiday homes and couples used me as their holiday plaything on a regular basis. Happy days then, the Internet and mobile phones have made contact much faster.

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Just a little longer than 10 years for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

5-6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my first group sex me and 4 lasses was my 2 ever sex session so around 25 years if that counts as swinging altho didnt know it was at the time

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

14 glorious years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 6 months.

We’re such noobs!

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Since my twenties. Started with my first wife after meeting a couple via a naturist sauna.

Once started it is very more-ish!

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

17 years and counting

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I joined fab at the start of lockdown, so actively started when it began to ease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years for us x

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Just over 6 months.

We’re such noobs! "

Ours is about 8 months.

But loving every minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost a year for us! We started swinging within weeks of meeting and not looked back

Also moved in together in that time as well

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

12 years for us just gets better

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

7 years

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Around 13 or 14 years.

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

27yrs for us and still going strong, looking forward to the next 27

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12+ years and loving it, though had very short breaks from time to time ( no more than a month away as very addictive lol)

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We had our first meet back in 2010. Never looked back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 30 years now

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

11 years ish. So much fun been had over that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off 15 years recently got back in to it now as Gf is also interested but she's never done it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A bit over 30 years for me. Paul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 years

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By *1nkseekersCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Since Lana was 18, so 17ish years

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

For me (Mr) I first went to a swinger club (Adam & Eve Eccles) in 1987/88 so 34/35 years. One or two breaks in between though.

Mrs H's first club (Fun4two Holland) was in 2010 so 12 years.

Still going strong and looking forward to new adventures this weekend.

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

We met on Fab , now married and been swinging together since we met so about 3 years.

before we met ... Him about 20 years and her about 10 ....

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"25 years.

Okay I thought ?? I had done service.

When I started there was no net.

Contact mags were the only outlet, met one couple, introduced the lifestyle and their friends, house parties and that’s how we networked.

Different days and better in some ways…

Totally agree.

The effort you had to put in to arrange meets kept timewasters away.

Always felt slightly embarrassed buying Polaroid film and a single guy told us of a place in Scotland where they developed naughty pics, so relieved when they arrived in plain brown packaging.

Still have the photos, old house, old sofa and embarrassing headboard.

Great days and there seemed to be so many more house parties.

Only regret...didn't start holidays in Cap and GC sooner.

Still haven't been to Vera yet, maybe a long weekend this summer.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

7 years, with breaks in between. Properly discovered the club scene in the last few months though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both had experience on the scene before we met as singles and with previous partners.

Together it’s been nearly 5 years

Smoke - 10 years

Fire - 21 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Only 5years for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 minutes, phewww knackered now

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

5 years for us x

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

Less than a year

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

started back before the was so commercially internet available!!

1987/88.... started young and yes I'm that old too .

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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

So long now I don't really know, but with no clubs near us and private meets not guaranteed it's why I have a new toy

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Since 1986

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

About 46 years.I can remember when it was all fields around here!

Mike

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

About 10 years but not huge players! Often it’s once or twice a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 12 years on and off

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

27 years almost for me now

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

6 years

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

I’ve met one of my best friends through fab, she’s brilliant and we are close family friends now, and have had some entertaining experiences! With hopefully more to come with new friends!

Love this, so many friendships also here!"

Yes I thought this was lovely too

4yrs we met a lovely couple who we are now good friends with... which makes all things good as we can laugh share stories and sex is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stil haven't even started yet ! Looking forward to it though

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Me over 10 years with every ex girlfriend.

Now married and wife into scene with me for just over 6 months

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

23 years this year

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Since 1985 when my then wife and I agreed to allow each other to meet others for sex, quickly followed by our first threesome and my lifelong obsession with that scenario. A couple of very long gaps following our separation; back to it in 2005 for a couple of years but then another long gap on meeting my now wife until 4 years ago when she allowed me to join Fab and since then I've never looked back.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

as a couple, less than 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 14 years on / off

Mrs x

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