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"Sam loves a spanking soft and hard. I love the sound of her bum being hit with the riding crop. Sam loves the heavy flogger there most "Can't beat a good flogging | |||
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"I like it however it comes  "When did you say you were coming down this way again? | |||
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"Sam loves a spanking soft and hard. I love the sound of her bum being hit with the riding crop. Sam loves the heavy flogger there most "If only there was a video of that...  | |||
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"I have a spanking (as a spanker) fetish. It’s been with me for as long as I can remember. I love spanking and everything to do with it. It’s at the core of my sexuality. (Sounds like an intro at supportmeeting for spankos! )"My name is .... and I am a spankaholic.  | |||
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"Sam loves a spanking soft and hard. I love the sound of her bum being hit with the riding crop. Sam loves the heavy flogger there most
Can't beat a good flogging "As a reward for good behaviour! Him x  | |||
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"I dont mind being spanked but hate being marked x" Soft spankings are good. | |||
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"I like using the cane mostly. I have a fine selection from thing whippy school canes, through variety of dragon canes, all the way up to a singapore prison cane. " That's a lot of canes! | |||
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"I like using the cane mostly. I have a fine selection from thing whippy school canes, through variety of dragon canes, all the way up to a singapore prison cane. "  gulp | |||
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"Sam loves a spanking soft and hard. I love the sound of her bum being hit with the riding crop. Sam loves the heavy flogger there most
Can't beat a good flogging
As a reward for good behaviour!
Him x"Naughty, but good.
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"Love being spanked. Soft to medium for me and in whatever position or timing the giver chooses. " Oh the choices! | |||
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"I love it! A hard slap then gentle stroking before another hard slap" Agreed. Soothe and caress the cheeks. | |||
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"We’re big fans…as our photos probably indicate! "They do indeed. Had already fabbed 1 of them! | |||
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" A few of our favourite spanking toys have been added to the gallery" And they're just your favourites?! Oh wow! | |||
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" A few of our favourite spanking toys have been added to the gallery" Just added a pic of some of mine too. | |||
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"Hi all Do you like spanking. Whether that's spankee or spanker? How do you like your spanking soft, medium, hard, a mix etc. Do you prefer over the knee, on the bed etc? Just a hand or other? I admit, I am a bum man. "I’m a Domme on the London fetish scene and have been since the year dot! I do all sorts of things …. Impact play bring just one of them. | |||
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"I adore spanking, in just about everyway " I'd hang my skirt up for a day just to give you a hot bottom | |||
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"I adore spanking, in just about everyway " You have a gorgeous spankable bum | |||
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"Hard very, not against being whipped hard to "And your video is proof! | |||
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"Always bent over ready for a good hard spanking "Ah, but with or without knickers? | |||
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"Spank it with the thuddy stuff until I cry" I'd spank you, don't want to make you cry though.. | |||
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"I adore spanking, in just about everyway " How about my way... | |||
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"My Girl likes a spanking and sometimes quite flanky deserves one. Me, I take pride in the administration of a good spanking. It's a great system and works well. As to the type varies a lot depending the reason and the desired result. Although I think my favourite is when Mrs Misfit has been a right brat and pushed things too far. I love to see her face just drop in that 'Oh, shit' moment when she looks in my eyes and knows she's in for it. Suddenly she's not so cocky. Funny old thing she can't seem to help herself and keeps getting into trouble." Gotta love a brat | |||
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"Always bent over ready for a good hard spanking
Ah, but with or without knickers? "Knickers don't get in the way of a good spanking - even if they're larger, you can always pull them between her cheeks. But pulled down does add to the whole experience, and certainly improves the view. | |||
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"Hi all Do you like spanking. Whether that's spankee or spanker? How do you like your spanking soft, medium, hard, a mix etc. Do you prefer over the knee, on the bed etc? Just a hand or other? I admit, I am a bum man. "Love being whipped flogged caned paddled … not so keen on spanked ( don’t know why) Hard On a bed, stood, whatever. | |||
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Love a bruise too. | |||
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"My Girl likes a spanking and sometimes quite flanky deserves one. Me, I take pride in the administration of a good spanking. It's a great system and works well. As to the type varies a lot depending the reason and the desired result. Although I think my favourite is when Mrs Misfit has been a right brat and pushed things too far. I love to see her face just drop in that 'Oh, shit' moment when she looks in my eyes and knows she's in for it. Suddenly she's not so cocky. Funny old thing she can't seem to help herself and keeps getting into trouble." Sounds like you both have fun! | |||
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"I love a good spanking medium strength "Any particukar favourite? Hand, paddle, flogger etc? | |||
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"Hi all Do you like spanking. Whether that's spankee or spanker? How do you like your spanking soft, medium, hard, a mix etc. Do you prefer over the knee, on the bed etc? Just a hand or other? I admit, I am a bum man.
Love being whipped flogged caned paddled … not so keen on spanked ( don’t know why)
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On a bed, stood, whatever."And restrained at the same time it would appear. | |||
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"I do enjoy Mr giving me a spanking
Ms x"Your gasps on the videos. | |||
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"I love Mr giving me a good hard spanking on my ass Mrs. " Very nice! | |||
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"Love a spanking, but can’t decide if I prefer that or the belt .
Love a bruise too."Ah, research. I can help you decide.. | |||
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"T loves a spank. She's gagging for a spanking from someone other than me.." Always happy to oblige. That's the sort of helpful fellow I am. | |||
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"So like using a flogger, being able to use it sensually then shifting to high impact. Cane on special occasions, great for creating next day patterns." The different sensations. | |||
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"We like it. Shaz is good with the cane" Giving? Or receiving? | |||
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"Not tried it, kinda borders on abuse which is a turn off for me. I get that some folks like it I just don't get it." No it doesn’t. Consensual spanking for pleasure is consensual spanking for pleasure, and abuse is abuse. They are entirely separate from one another, and if one is ‘bordering’ on the other then it’s simply abuse. | |||
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"Love being spanked , paddled and flogged by Mr W&W "So it appears! | |||
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"Not tried it, kinda borders on abuse which is a turn off for me. I get that some folks like it I just don't get it." Please don't associate a consensual kink with abuse. If it's not your kink - fine - but you can see people are clearly talking positively about an activity they enjoy with others. Not abuse. | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx" You have a photo I think which brings to life all of this, dancer - all the intensity and energy. Wonderful. | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx You have a photo I think which brings to life all of this, dancer - all the intensity and energy. Wonderful. " Thank you darling, that’s exactly it, that waiting in anticipation drives me crazy!  xx | |||
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"Not tried it, kinda borders on abuse which is a turn off for me. I get that some folks like it I just don't get it. No it doesn’t. Consensual spanking for pleasure is consensual spanking for pleasure, and abuse is abuse. They are entirely separate from one another, and if one is ‘bordering’ on the other then it’s simply abuse." I was chatting to a guy yesterday on exactly that subject. He knows intellectually that it's consensual, but in his head, for himself, he can't emotionally get past "you don't hit women". I wouldn't tell anyone that they're wrong for feeling they can't do it because for them it feels like abuse. As someone who outside kink is ferociously pro-equality, I'd totally prefer that people are "programmed" that way and find it hard, because the alternative *is* abuse happening. They just need to be aware that their feelings aren't how other people feel, particularly the people on the receiving end. | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx You have a photo I think which brings to life all of this, dancer - all the intensity and energy. Wonderful. Thank you darling, that’s exactly it, that waiting in anticipation drives me crazy! xx" I am on a spanking promise this week and I know what you mean! It's been quite a while. | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx You have a photo I think which brings to life all of this, dancer - all the intensity and energy. Wonderful. Thank you darling, that’s exactly it, that waiting in anticipation drives me crazy! xx
I am on a spanking promise this week and I know what you mean! It's been quite a while. "Fabulous, have fun lovely xx | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx You have a photo I think which brings to life all of this, dancer - all the intensity and energy. Wonderful. Thank you darling, that’s exactly it, that waiting in anticipation drives me crazy! xx
I am on a spanking promise this week and I know what you mean! It's been quite a while.
Fabulous, have fun lovely xx"I cannot wait!! x | |||
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"Hi all Do you like spanking. Whether that's spankee or spanker? How do you like your spanking soft, medium, hard, a mix etc. Do you prefer over the knee, on the bed etc? Just a hand or other? I admit, I am a bum man.
Love being whipped flogged caned paddled … not so keen on spanked ( don’t know why)
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On a bed, stood, whatever.
And restrained at the same time it would appear. "Yes don’t mind that but have found it can slow things down …. I stay where told so it’s often unnecessary x | |||
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"My Girl likes a spanking and sometimes quite flanky deserves one. Me, I take pride in the administration of a good spanking. It's a great system and works well. As to the type varies a lot depending the reason and the desired result. Although I think my favourite is when Mrs Misfit has been a right brat and pushed things too far. I love to see her face just drop in that 'Oh, shit' moment when she looks in my eyes and knows she's in for it. Suddenly she's not so cocky. Funny old thing she can't seem to help herself and keeps getting into trouble." Nice... If desire calls drop mr a pm | |||
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"My Girl likes a spanking and sometimes quite flanky deserves one. Me, I take pride in the administration of a good spanking. It's a great system and works well. As to the type varies a lot depending the reason and the desired result. Although I think my favourite is when Mrs Misfit has been a right brat and pushed things too far. I love to see her face just drop in that 'Oh, shit' moment when she looks in my eyes and knows she's in for it. Suddenly she's not so cocky. Funny old thing she can't seem to help herself and keeps getting into trouble. Nice... If desire calls drop mr a pm "*mee | |||
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Sometimes even have rope and restraints involved.
As long as you have a willing partner the options are only limited to your imagination | |||
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"T loves a spank. She's gagging for a spanking from someone other than me.. Always happy to oblige. That's the sort of helpful fellow I am. "You're a good man. Thanks. | |||
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"On all fours or over his knee depending on my mood, love a mix of intensity, especially whilst blindfolded the sound of his palm meeting my cheeks, that sting, the glow, mix it with gentle strokes between my legs…oofft heaven! Xx" Sounds delightful.. | |||
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"I love a spanking and sometimes it's necessary. Sir prefers a cane and I love the stripes they leave. I like warm ups over his lap or stood bent over the end of the bed " The stripes. That's a good way to desctibe them! | |||
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"PNG loves to be spanked (although sometimes she pretends that she doesnt - that makes it all the more fun) With consent, I love dishing it out, along with other impact play. i.e. Paddles, floggers and crops How its done totally depends on the circumstances. It could be slow build up getting harder and harder. It could also be short sharp slap followed by grabbing her rather delectable arse.
Sometimes even have rope and restraints involved.
As long as you have a willing partner the options are only limited to your imagination "Agreed. It's all about the pleasure - for both. Sounds like you have plenty of options! | |||
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"Having my arse smacked really turns me on. Medium or hard, I like to have a few hand prints on my body "Just hand prints?! | |||
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"I love being the one waiting to be spanked " Builds the intensity a bit more.. | |||
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"I love being the one waiting to be spanked " I bet your an awesome sight xx | |||
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"I love a good spanking. Only ever experienced a hand spanking me. Keen to try something else one day. " Soft spanking is also fun. | |||
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"I’m very into spanking (receiving), love punishment play and definitely building up to hard x" Do you prefer hand, paddle etc? | |||
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"Oh my, I still remember my first blindfolded spanking. I'm in, hard spank/soft flog or tease combos = the best torture "I can imagine the blindfold heightening the sensations and atmosphere. | |||
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"I do enjoy Mr giving me a spanking
Ms x
Your gasps on the videos. "The one where he uses his hand I wasn't expecting to be spanked - I thought he was just taking a pic
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"S loves spanking, floggers and crops. As with everything it's down to how you introduce someone to it and if it's not for them then it's not for them. " Nice to leave the ladies bottom pink but not mark them, It’s compromise whatever they like I’m happy to please | |||
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"Nice to leave the ladies bottom pink but not mark them, " Depends on limits but definitely don't start with a cane! | |||
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"I do enjoy Mr giving me a spanking
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Your gasps on the videos.
The one where he uses his hand I wasn't expecting to be spanked - I thought he was just taking a pic
Ms x"Oops. Nice bum ripple though. | |||
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"gentle hand spanks are ok gentle paddling is ok gentle suede flogging is ok " Soft and gentle is very pleasurable, for both, I think. | |||
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"S loves spanking, floggers and crops. As with everything it's down to how you introduce someone to it and if it's not for them then it's not for them. " Agreed, communication and understanding is key. | |||
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"love been spanked by hand or belt better still if i bruise " Different limits for different people. | |||
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"Ok here is my thing I would say I am more domme!!! I do sometimes enjoy my own flogger / crop / paddle My veris can attest to that For me dungeon play is situational and I would never look for it and it can just happen It’s funny as last two times without having my kit out people have said oooo I heard your a bit domme lol " Domme is used for a female dominant? | |||
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I'm not sure I'd like a cane much - sounds way too ouchy! Hand spanking or a crop are our go to methods, though a belt is quite acceptable... I love hearing a belt being unfastened (whatever the reason)
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"A time that really stands out in both our minds was during a rather intense session... I'd moved on to the bed and was lying on my back, when K lifted me in the air by my ankles and spanked me for coming without permission. The surprise of it made me orgasm again. It was a great afternoon
I'm not sure I'd like a cane much - sounds way too ouchy! Hand spanking or a crop are our go to methods, though a belt is quite acceptable... I love hearing a belt being unfastened (whatever the reason)
C"Now that's an interesting position... and a great result for you! With the cane, it depends how it's used. I.e, just to titilate or punishment. Haha. Naughty one you are! | |||
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"Hi all Do you like spanking. Whether that's spankee or spanker? How do you like your spanking soft, medium, hard, a mix etc. Do you prefer over the knee, on the bed etc? Just a hand or other? I admit, I am a bum man. "Do tell.. | |||
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"Ouch ouchy in work today .. Shes feeling very proud of herself after reddening me last night with our paddle... " And do you use it on her? | |||
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"There's something very kinky watching another guy putting your wife over his knee, pulling her thong down and lightly spanked her bum with his hand, i guess its because he is taking full control of her in front of you and really you should be stopping it but your actually loving it! It's also incredibly hot seeing her on her hands and knees (facing you) being fucked by her new lover, with her hair wrapped in one of his hands pulling her onto him, his other hand spanking her as she gets fucked and he tells you that she's his now! Great memories and looking forward to making more! "Now that is very hot. | |||
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