FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging Etiquette

By *iAndyP OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Hi all,im a bi/gay male and have found a quiet layby where dogging takes place.I've been in there a few times and theres always cars about.What is the correct signals to show you are interested and not just having a rest? Thanks in advance Andy.

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By *ad guy 77Man
over a year ago

ashford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inside light on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving your left hand in the shape of a W signifies you're up for a wank. Handstand means you're into fellatio and a two forward rolls is a strong indicator that you're up for being a cum dump.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Years ago , in my pre swinging days, my then boyfriend and I were travelling back from a friend's wedding. We pulled into a quiet car park so he could have a break from driving and i put the interior light on while I searched for some snacks, suddenly there were 3 eager looking gents stood outside the car. We were both very innocent and had never even heard of dogging and assumed they were going to either rob or murder us so we drove off pretty quick.

It was years later that I realised they were doggers and had taken the interior light as an invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you since confirmed that is the correct signal though?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Have you since confirmed that is the correct signal though? "

Possibly, although generally left that side of things for my ex to deal with.

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Interesting thread especially for us newbies to it

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Put your reverse & rear fog lights on at the same time for 10 seconds then your hazard lights for 7 flashes only. 6 or 8 you've blown it, it can only be 7.

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By *ands solo 300Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar

There is no right and wrong signals lots of people have different ways of inviting you over.

Some put interior light on side lights for a few seconds some just make it obvious their up to no good. And flash body parts walk around outside go to a picnic bench etc

Bis and gay tend to use break lights to show their hand replicating a rear entry I guess.

Some wind windows down which usually means you can touch generally leads to joining in.

Just don't be pushy or demanding or expecting of anything.

The best method is to simply go over and chat the amount of single men who just sit there in the dark expecting something to happen is a joke they can only say no.

It's always good to chat though I think it's quiet sociable and can lead to insight of other locations or people just be polite and respectful of others boundaries.

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By *iAndyP OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"There is no right and wrong signals lots of people have different ways of inviting you over.

Some put interior light on side lights for a few seconds some just make it obvious their up to no good. And flash body parts walk around outside go to a picnic bench etc

Bis and gay tend to use break lights to show their hand replicating a rear entry I guess.

Some wind windows down which usually means you can touch generally leads to joining in.

Just don't be pushy or demanding or expecting of anything.

The best method is to simply go over and chat the amount of single men who just sit there in the dark expecting something to happen is a joke they can only say no.

It's always good to chat though I think it's quiet sociable and can lead to insight of other locations or people just be polite and respectful of others boundaries."

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

nr Bodmin

See my profile for dogging etiquette list in full.

Good ?? fun if you like hanging around in the cold and wet! I much prefer an invite to a nice warm hotel for an evening of fun xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The lights on and off were a time honoured style. It can become too much like Blackpool illuminations though, once a place is busy. And the unpredictable illumination can deter people from becoming active.

Newbies - 1st visit, just go and observe. Expect nothing, just like on a club visit. It takes the pressure off.

Some places have outdoor spots, where people gather - it's not always about action only in the vehicle.

Some may gather to chat in some places.

A friendly hello isn't a bad way to engage with others.

Most people are not compatible with most other people. Take the hints and clear messages. Don't hassle others. If in doubt, don't or hold back.

Too much moving your car around is a big no. It breaks up others from getting together.

Ensure consent.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Best way is to get out and talk to people.

A polite hello can go a long way.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

My fwb is bi and always said that when he's on his own it people had flashed brake lights and had their drivers door open to show that they wanted to get out and play,

when I've been with him we put interior light on and I just got my tits out and waited for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually pull up open drivers door push brake lights a few times job done.

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By *ternal PunishmentCouple
over a year ago

The Abyss

Keep on leads around others

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By *iAndyP OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"I usually pull up open drivers door push brake lights a few times job done."

Great advice I’ll try that ??

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

No wonder the police kept coming and tapping on my window so often, when I was living in my car in car parks, with my light on to read at night. In retrospect, i probably got off lightly.

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