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She plays, but he’s not allowed

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By *eaford2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Seaford

We’re a mature couple - she swings, but he isn’t allowed any contact with other females - (totally one sided) - is anyone else in / or have been, in the same situation? If so, did you accept it? Or did you stop swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we were (my hubby and I). He ignored this boundary far too often then snuck behind my back.

Needless to say the swinging stopped completely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not in that situation but I always say if one partner isn't 100% happy with the dynamic you should stop swinging

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It's exactly how we enjoy playing. Xxx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"We’re a mature couple - she swings, but he isn’t allowed any contact with other females - (totally one sided) - is anyone else in / or have been, in the same situation? If so, did you accept it? Or did you stop swinging? "

If its consensual and agreed then why would you need to “accept it”?

I could see a couple stopping if one person is not 100% on board with whats going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly how we enjoy playing. Xxx"

And us too, seeing my wife dressed so sexily for a meet and hearing her and watching her is just the most exotic things we have ever done. I would never touch another female as I love my wife and would never hurt her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its agreed upon that's how you wish to swing that that's fair enough. We personally both play together and apart, if either didn't feel completely comfortable or doesn't at any point we stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's how we do things. We're both happy with the situation as long as people understand we don't meet alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no issues with this in my last relationship she could do anything she wanted . I loved it and I was faithful to her.

Not for everyone but if you can find it in a relationship it’s magic

Will definitely do it again

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm not part of a couple on here but if you aren't happy with the situation then you really need to chat to your partner.

I personally know it would not work for me if I was in a couple and there was one rule for one of us and another for the other. Especially if my choice was taken away because the other person didn't want me to play with others yet they would expect me to be okay with them doing it. It would be different if it was by choice but if wasn't then it would become an issue I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re a mature couple - she swings, but he isn’t allowed any contact with other females - (totally one sided) - is anyone else in / or have been, in the same situation? If so, did you accept it? Or did you stop swinging? "

Isn’t allowed by you? Or doesn’t want to? The two are very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of couples are like this some say that is a cuckold relationship however I know couples where that isn't the case

It's what ever turns you on that matters

Years ago with my ex I used to just want to see her get f£#ked ....nowadays I'm the one doing the f#&king .....swings and round abouts ...lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not something I've ever experienced or would have the slightest interest in.

I emphasise the word mutual on my profile because unless everything is mutual it's not for me.

As others have said it would be a discussion for both halves of the couple and their decision alone because what may suit one couple may not suit anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

Every couple has there own ideas and boundaries. I respect and worship my Queen for what she gets up too. After she meets there is no better thing than cuddling on the settee with a nice bottle of wine and telling each other how much we love each other. Out of the relationships I've had in the past I have found this the most loving

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we been swinging over 20 years we done most of the stuff from same room swops different room swops had one fmf with wife and her mate both of them not bi that was hard work lol but now i have no interest in play with couples or other lady's we do mfm as i love shearing wife with other men

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By *mtasticCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

This is us! As a 24/7 Hotwife, Goodgirl has my full permission to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants, however I am not allowed to play as this is not her thing at all and jealousy would overcome her. I am more than happy with this as I love seeing her play with others and I would never jeopardise our wonderful relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is agreed completely, then this is fine. If one half of the couple wants to swing but won't allow the other...then you should stop swinging. I have always said I would never ask to do something i wouldn't let Adrian do as well. It's double standards

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

This is interesting because we haven't had the pleasure of another woman yet bit I'm so nervous of it happening because I'm not sure how I will feel..hubby felt the same when we invited a bi man over but he found it extreamly erotic watching me being fucked, but he could play with the man to...I honestly don't know if its fair..so it good to see other couples perspective

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