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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We both use our profile. But we also have singles profiles we both use independently as well. You can generally tell which are male led by the messages , photos and statuses .

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Assuming its a genuine couples profile, if you want to speak to one person over the other you should be able to ask and not get a shirty reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both look at and message. It is our profile. We try to have a balance of photos, but mainly for friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female half here. It's always me on here, he never has time and I'm the one that likes to pick lol and chat

I book the clubs, sort the meets, do everything. He's there when told

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Butlins for the weekend

The messages/winks and meets are sent from me, the female of the couple. He reads and looks at everything just leaves things to me

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We very much discuss and view profiles together before messaging but it's me the male who runs the account because she can not be bothered with the mountain of dick pictures and stupid messages we reserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh haha I hate seeing all the terrible pictures I get to see haha

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's either or with us, we both like to chat on here before (hopefully) moving to WhatsApp for a group chat, although lately Alyson has been doing a lot of the winking/replying/messaging....

....she's just a natural little flirt and has a knack of keeping a conversation going! At some point tho if a chat is going well then the other one will jump in to say hi x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee joins when we go to WhatsApp but otherwise he's just too busy.

And he knows I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only female on this account. Husband doesn't like the faf messages or dick pics so it's all left to me

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

Plenty of pics of me (Harry ) on our profile , we’ve recently created it ., Sarah winks at folks and I message them …seems to be the pattern at the moment … but we look at profiles together before chatting to them ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both on our profile pics and videos.

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

So far not had any dick picks.., not that we want any ..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Yes, I’ve been having a lovely chat with the female half of a couple over the last week or so. She’s looking for an F for an MFF and can’t find one! But luckily, though not currently interested in a M, she happily chats with me and I enjoy our conversations.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Yes us... I Nilly have much more perving time than Willy... he ll message if replying etc

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Female half here. It's always me on here, he never has time and I'm the one that likes to pick lol and chat

I book the clubs, sort the meets, do everything. He's there when told "

This

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We both use the site and message.

If one of us message someone we let each other know or check sent messages.

We both like to get involved in chats as it’s going to be both of us playing.

I quite enjoy logging in and seeing C flirting with someone

K

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Dave does most of the actual messaging but we both do talk on forums and both decide what to say. Sammi is just bored easily by typing. I mean, there’s only so much typing can be done whilst watching TikTok, right?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Plenty of pics of both me n my partner on our couple profile,

It's my partner who usually does any fabbing or messaging.

Tbh there's usually not many profiles nearby, that have pics of both people and that aren't specifically looking for other bi fem couples.

Hence why we meet alone on our individual profiles.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I do, there are photos of Dick in our private pics, theses and face pics get sent.

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By *alcandJueCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Jue does 99% of our messages as i don't have the time normally although we both read everything.

It's normally me that jumps in to end a chat though when things don't seem or look right normally followed by the block button

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Hubby normally looks for meets while I get the overall say on winks and reply to messages, I am the fussy one after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee always spots the fakes for me lol I never know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both use the site and message.

If one of us message someone we let each other know or check sent messages.

We both like to get involved in chats as it’s going to be both of us playing.

I quite enjoy logging in and seeing C flirting with someone

K"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us it is both of us who message but we usually discuss it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly female led

We do have a look through together sometimes. Mr comes on and enjoys seeing what I’ve been upto when’s he working away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Female) run our profile and my partner has complete access to it, we do need to add more pictures of us both though

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We both have fab on our phones, We’re usually online together, Noticed a lot of male led couples profiles which usually give of tell tell signs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It sounds like I've just been unlucky with many of the couples I've spoken to then as it seems female led profiles do exist

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By *omDecMan
over a year ago

morpeth

usually both myself & my bi sub milf,but if with other dom/sub cpls usually find the men sort fits etc before the girls start chatting,meets etc etc

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"The messages/winks and meets are sent from me, the female of the couple. He reads and looks at everything just leaves things to me "

We're like this. Hubby leaves most of the messaging to me

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our profile is led by me and all messages are done by me. Mr reads them all but very rarely responds. He is very interested but leaves that side of it to me, he says I'm so good at it

We like to think we have a good mixture of photos of us both on our profile too.

Mrs

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock


"Female half here. It's always me on here, he never has time and I'm the one that likes to pick lol and chat

I book the clubs, sort the meets, do everything. He's there when told "
this

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By *loat Our BoatCouple
over a year ago

Stoke Hammond

Female here and normally me online, looking and booking meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate guys on here who kid on that they are a couple. There wife's always are never in x they usually are sleeping or working. The guys talks about him and his wife and asks for any horny pics or videos. I've been taken on before but now i can spot a fake couples profile a country mile away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be the main messenger but we both look and have a part and I suppose more pictures of me because I enjoy taking photographs

Louise xx

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Yes there is one here

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

We both would message but since he's on a break it's only me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P here and I do all the forum stuff and 95% of the messages Mr P just gets to fab pics and sends the odd wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only message when we are together either after work or on days off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of couples that have messaged me have obviously been just a male pretending to be a couple, they normally say that the female is either out or asleep but always say she’ll be there if we meet. It’s normally pretty easy to spot the fakes but I did get fooled a few weeks ago. I went to meet what I thought was a couple that I’d been chatting with for a few days, they had pictures of them together on their profile and they sent me more pictures of them together and when we were chatting it really felt like 2 different people messaging me. The only suspicion thing was that they wouldn’t do a video call but I know some people are wary of doing them until after they’ve met so I could understand that.

When I went to meet what I thought was going to be a couple it ended up being a single male, and he wasn’t even the man in the pictures. He apologised straight away and as he seemed like a nice man and was good looking I stuck around. We ended up having amazing sex so it turned out alright in the end...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

My joint one with Sir is more often than not me replying with His permission.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We have the same account on both phones for transparency, it varies on who’s looking when xx

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

leicester

We both reply to messages etc. sometimes alone and sometimes together. Normally more the wife than hubby

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By *hunky fun 6969Couple
over a year ago

near you

Female half here I’m mainly the one that dose all the replying he leaves me to it xxx

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We are both on here 70% of the time it’s Mrs that messages amd replies to messages I (mr) mainly go on the forums.

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!!

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We both use it together.mrs decides who we meet but we bot send messages.she also has her own profile

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

I would go further and say how many couples profiles does a female actually exist ??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!! "

All the pics are of a woman.

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By *oneyflowerCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

I read the messages, but it is only Anna that generates any replies that we send to anybody.

It is very much a joint profile, but the messages it is just Anna.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite surprised by this to be honest. If/when my partner joins me on here then I'd like to think she will be happy to lead the way. I assumed most profiles were "managed" by the better halves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both read all the messages on here but 9/10 it's me that does the replying (female) I tend to say which guys I like but always a joint decision when we do arrange a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both E and I chat and message - often inappropriately!

We're still quite new to this so suspect we're both quite cautious. So often how we interact can be led by one and then the other joins in

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both E and I chat and message - often inappropriately!

We're still quite new to this so suspect we're both quite cautious. So often how we interact can be led by one and then the other joins in

G"

If they want sex chat it's usually a man wanking. Once he's cum he will disappear.

Cool if you're into that though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm quite surprised by this to be honest. If/when my partner joins me on here then I'd like to think she will be happy to lead the way. I assumed most profiles were "managed" by the better halves"

Never assume anything on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mrs always does the messaging for us when it comes to organising meets and socials. Whereas I tend to do most of the forum interaction. But if needed I will pop into messages to show I exist

Mr

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We both love having a chat on here and we will sign off with our name too. Lou is great with striking up conversation and I love catching up and reading her chats. I tend to ramble a little bit lol.

Ed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly do the messaging on our couples profile but my lover does go on occasionally..

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We fall into the "bloke does most of the messaging" camp. We both have access to the account and we discuss everything and Char has the final say on all meets, but her tolerance for idiots means she'll get us banned within hours if she did the replies. She's also got an online business to run so her screen time is very much taken up with that.

Unfortunately she also suffers from fatigue as an after effect of chemotherapy so I'm always having to say that she'll see messages when she wakes up! Figure it makes me sound like a lone wanker, but can't do anything about it. Hopefully our veris show that we're real and there's two of us.

(Bry)

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We both chat and look at separate times but most of the time you are quite correct it's always the male and they always want to talk about the female very difficult to find genuine couples to chat and have fun with..

Single males making out there couples and single males being pushy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when chatting with couples it’s not usually clear who you are talking too not that you would say anything untoward but I think chatting to the male is different to chatting to the female or chatting to both and would help if knew within message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is mainly run by Mrs Fun, and we try to remember to add our name after every message so the receiver knows who sent it. Admittedly most of our pictures are of her, as in my opinion she is a very sexy lady and deserves to be the focal point and are very clear in our profile what we are. we will always send face pictures after we have chatted for a while or agreed to meet.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

They do exist , I run our profile! I take all the images, send the messages, post on the forums etc. Mr obviously messages once we start chatting to a lady, and is involved, it works well for us! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, James usually looks after messages/replies to single guys, Marie to single girls and it could be either of us with other couples.

We both enjoy browsing on here and making contact with people we'd like to meet together! X

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Very new here, but I’m normally the one that does all the messaging. Hubby just reads it all and joins in if we get chatting

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.

Simple

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.

Simple"

We can relate to this Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.

Simple"

Is it any better now? Or do you just find it easier (than Mrs did) to delete all the bad ones and forget them?

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston


"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!!

All the pics are of a woman. "
:not if you look through then they arnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the one that's normally on here more than Steve,

I used to leave it to him to arrange meets but found it more fun doing it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!!

All the pics are of a woman.

:not if you look through then they arnt"

Nah. I've got a life.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

50/50 here but we usually both reach out when sending messages because there has to be a joint agreement

Bx

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

Pretty much I do all the fab-admin. He was swinging with a previous partner in the past several years ago, so this way, we go at my pace.

Ash x

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

So I am the male half and I do all the messaging etc, mainly because my wife is absolutely rubbish at communicating!

If its more than one message she cant grasp it so decides to ignore. If I left it to her no one would get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Its generally me (Mrs) that does most of the winks/messages and Mr is always in the pics, I find it better that way, people can see us both.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both access the profile constantly, to the point we are both logged on at the same time now on different phones ha.

Mrs L does most of the messaging to couples and ladies, unless it's just the male of a couple that's chatting, then I will take over and get to know him.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Every couples profile that has contacted me here in 5 years has been run by the woman apart from one.

Some of them I have chatted to for many months and they have never once mentioned their male partner and often change the subject if I ask about him.

Some of them chat and everything is going smoothly until the man decides to get involved in the conversation and it ends shortly after because of demands, instructions or a refusal to accept that I only meet socially first.

The one occasion that a male led profile got in touch he didn't even take the time to introduce themselves.

He immediately told me in the opening message that being male and straight on here meant I would never have options and if I agreed to play bi or guarantee a sexy lady they would consider putting me on their to do list.

These were all well verified couples and the last one had 100+ verifications so apparently it was my loss for refusing their kind instruction manual.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We're both in our profile photos, both access and use the account (and our solo ones) but I, male, do most of the talking on here. Wife just isn't that into chatting to people online as it takes forever to type anything. She would rather talk face to face to people.

I always inform people of this fact and if they don't like it, so be it. No reason for us to change what suits us.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes I know couple profiles where only the woman does the messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always get the male half message

when ask about female shes never around

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By *roubleHart69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

We share the load on our account regarding text and photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the Mrs here, he leaves me to do all the admin and rarely ever checks in, i'm just left with the task of sorting out our fab social life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to date I have arranged 3 meets with couples on here, 2 looked nothing like their pics (why bother) on my 3rd attempt just the male turned up when it was supposed to be the female half. Very annoying that this kind of thing happens on here

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By *ornybikers69Couple
over a year ago

northwest

Us

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

we never let on who is returning a reply, as we like to be messaged as a couple and not one or the other..,as what tends too happen is some guys see posts on the forum from the female,and then we get bombarded with messages,we tried the theory once, it rang true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the chatty one on here (F) on mine & our couples profile. I find people on our wavelength then swap pics, show them to Beau, then we'd ask them to meet for a coffee or see them in a club. Boss is just as social & easy going in person, but doesn't like to text/call, generally.

I hear you on the couples profile with scarce male shots (if any) though! Only makes sense if he's not present, but then a single female profile would seem more logical ?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you're not having much joy. We struggle with getting single guys to turn up so moved to visiting clubs. Hope you have better luck soon xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to date I have arranged 3 meets with couples on here, 2 looked nothing like their pics (why bother) on my 3rd attempt just the male turned up when it was supposed to be the female half. Very annoying that this kind of thing happens on here "

Omg that’s horrendous - Just the male turning up, I’ve heard of that happening before

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

We share our profile and both dip in, pics of both of us

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's a constant annoyance for most people on Fab. If the couples profile is of a couple who come as a set there should be photos of both because we all like to see if we're physically attracted or not. Not just single ladies, ladies in couples, bi men in couples (if applicable) but also straight men want to see if the guy would be right for their partner. That's why we always have pictures of both of us on our profile. So many the time we've been approached by a couple and we've just not bothered chasing it up because we can see the guy. It's a bit sad how on one side men are kind of ignored and on the flip side women are just expected to accept any guy because he come with the hot lady. We believe both men and women deserve a better attitude and approach.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We both use the profile and both respond to messages. Deciding to meet or not is a mutual decision.

We also have photos of us both, though they do need updating.

It's rare that we meet through Fab, as we find clubs work better for us. No issues with time wasting or people not matching their photos.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a constant annoyance for most people on Fab. If the couples profile is of a couple who come as a set there should be photos of both because we all like to see if we're physically attracted or not. Not just single ladies, ladies in couples, bi men in couples (if applicable) but also straight men want to see if the guy would be right for their partner. That's why we always have pictures of both of us on our profile. So many the time we've been approached by a couple and we've just not bothered chasing it up because we can see the guy. It's a bit sad how on one side men are kind of ignored and on the flip side women are just expected to accept any guy because he come with the hot lady. We believe both men and women deserve a better attitude and approach."

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By *hegoodlife47Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We both use our profile. My wife replies to all messages but only when we are together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I run our profile. There are pics of J on our pics and we are always happy to send face pics D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness M normally messages the women first, but we will both reply to all messages at some point. We have photos of both of us on our profile.

We have just agreed that from now on we won't reply to messages until we've both read them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Yes I the female half do the majority of the messages, that’s if we get a message from genuine people who actually want to meet up & not chancers

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

We both use fab but, yes it’s normally me (The Boy) that messages. However we do have a fair few pics as a couple and of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly the male half especially in the forum. BB is a self confessed luddite that doesn't even have a computer and has to erase everything off her phone all the time as her kids regularly pick it up.

Once the conversation moves off this platform onto WhatsApp or other messenger she takes over. Mostly voice messaging as she has quite acute dyslexia.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

We do all messaging kind of together, but it's mostly me using the profile.

I do find it cringy when men hide behind women's photos and do all the texting.

Special mention worth profiles are where highly opinionated men, who hide behind their women are active on forums

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the only one with access to ours J x

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.

Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.

Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "

Unfortunately we don't have many pics of Mr Choir on our profile though we are attempting to remedy that. We do a fairly even divide of messaging between us though

P

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

I tend to be on here most and am the active one on the forums, but we both send and reply to messages.

MJ (Mrs) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both read messages but it’s me ( f) that mostly does and 99 percent of the messaging back. Our pics are me heavy as that’s what most people seem to want to see!

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I (f) do 99% of our fabmin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make sure that we have both of us in our pics as this is also an issue Mrs has when looking at couples profiles...after all..it is a couple!!!!

Mr tends to browse the account more regularly but any response to messages will be done by Mrs..she definitely pulls the strings

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

We both manage the account. A x

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