FabSwingers.com forum: Respectful gentleman on Fab

By *inkyJames OP Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I was told respectful gentleman are a rarity here on Fab

what say you?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Fuck off!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Fuck off! "

Just kidding.

No idea.

Most I've chatted to seem decent, but it's the way they message the women on here that really shows their true colours.

A lot of them I've seen leave plenty to be desired.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's nice to be nice

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Three main types for me

1) Genuinely respectful

2) Down right rude

3) Respectful until things don't go their way, they then join group 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought up properly. No means no and I fully intend to remain respectful.

Unless you piss me off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Most are respectful in my experience.

The ones that aren’t start with a dick pic or fancy a fuck not even a hello. They don’t get a reply

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Most men I have interacted with on here have been respectful and nice. It is only a tiny minority that haven't been .

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By *weettonguedMan
over a year ago

Bideford

There is something slightly old fashioned about me. Manners cost nothing. A please and thank you goes a long way. Stand when a lady joins your table and always hold doors open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very respectful .. but use colourful language from time to time ... it’s a good balance

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I think the majority are respectful, it's just that the nasty people stick in your head.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't. "

This is my experience too.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Would say it how keen they are to meet...

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

" I was told respectful gentleman are a rarity here on Fab

what say you?"

Having seen many messages guys send to women, I would say this is strongly based on fact.

So few of us respectful Gentlemen left.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I definitely know a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three main types for me

1) Genuinely respectful

2) Down right rude

3) Respectful until things don't go their way, they then join group 2."

Yes, I agree with this.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I would like to respectfully point out that my respect levels are extremely high and any communication with a person will be treated with the greatest respect to those participants within said conversation. Respect to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.

This is my experience too. "

Mine too ...

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By *inkyJames OP Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I'm so glad to see from everybody's input most have experienced respectful man

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.

This is my experience too. "

We have got our filters sky high though and being older makes a difference I think. People in general are less inclined to be rude to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its restricted to men. Ive seen some awful comments from men and women on here. However Most of the people seem to be very nice and some are literally fabulous

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've came across a few in my time x

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Always respectful of others costs nothing too be nice, and I want a good reputation on this site, not a bad one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've came across a few in my time x"

Bet they loved that

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've came across a few in my time x

Bet they loved that

Well never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've came across a few in my time x

Bet they loved that

Well never had any complaints

I’d need to see

lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've came across a few in my time x

Bet they loved that

Well never had any complaints

I’d need to see

lol "

Don't you mean feel...

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Extremely respectful here

I'd say most (not all) of the messages we get are pretty respectful too,

they just get ignored if they aren't tbh lol

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't. "

Being admin might be a reason for that

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By *ieselJuiceMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Respect goes a long way to me. I always try my best to be respectful to everyone and have spoken to many people of all genders. Most have been respectful but a small number of people spoil it for me with rude attitude, or they will only meet me if I can provide drugs etc etc, which i detest, and I've personally experienced racism on here from some people just because someone had a bad experience with someone else and all of a sudden "we're all the same".

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By *inkyJames OP Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.

Being admin might be a reason for that"

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By *inkyJames OP Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.

Being admired might be a reason for that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've came across a few in my time x

Bet they loved that

Well never had any complaints

I’d need to see

lol

Don't you mean feel...

See and feel

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've came across a few in my time x

Bet they loved that

Well never had any complaints

I’d need to see

lol

Don't you mean feel...

See and feel

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Majority of men are very respectful on here and in clubs. You get one or two bad experiences in both areas, but that can also be with Women, Couples and other Trans people as well.

So for me good decent people outweigh the opposite in general

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

I like to think I’m respectful in every aspect of life not just fab!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

If you dont speak to me with respect then no

First message is always important

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

There’s one or two of us on here. Definitely a rarity judging by the messages I see in my friends inboxes haha

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Based solely on forum comments from guys claiming to be gentlemen, a lot of them are of the opinion that the term gentleman only applies when speaking to a woman.

A sneering attitude towards other men while being respectful gentlemen to women is something completely different to what they think it is.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Manners maketh the man. There are idiots on here just like in the real world and there is also the other end of the spectrum too - thankfully.

Manners cost nothing and Karma in a bitch.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

and I need a speel chucker LOL

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Sadly a few rude boys tarring us respectful guys with the same brush... manners not cost a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to treat others the way I’d like to be treated, if that makes me a gentleman, so be it. But it’s also true that respect is earned, which is also why I take a polite no thank you, in the way it’s meant, as I know we aren’t everyone else’s cup of tea, it’s what makes life fun.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've been quite lucky, the majority of men are respectful for the most part. I don't know if that makes them a gentleman but they are decent men.

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH

" I was told respectful gentleman are a rarity here on Fab

what say you?"

They are the minority. But there are some fabulous gentlemen on here. X

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By *inkyJames OP Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

" I was told respectful gentleman are a rarity here on Fab

what say you?

They are the minority. But there are some fabulous gentlemen on here. X

Glad you can recognize quality when you see it

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Respectability disrespectful. In the most respectable way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are respectful on fab ive found ..its just that there are so many so even respectful guys miss out due to the sheer numbers

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Most are respectful on fab ive found ..its just that there are so many so even respectful guys miss out due to the sheer numbers"

This

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

All have been gentleman until I've got them in the bedroom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is pretty simple. Treat others how you wish to be treated yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most are respectful on fab ive found ..its just that there are so many so even respectful guys miss out due to the sheer numbers

This"

Nail and head spring to mind. I have been on here for nearly 5 years and have always been respectful in my dealings with others. However I would say I’m beginning to be alarmed by the language used and behaviour by some couples and single women of late. I appreciate some guys can be a pain but to tar everyone with the same brush is totally unfair.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

It cuts all ways I believe

I received a really rude offensive message about how I shouldn't be on here, a time waster and being fat - were the key points Mr Charming raised

It really deflated me

But then I am guilty of the if you message me write.... in the title

No way to win I guess

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Respect doesn't cost anything, it should be a given, without exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s a myth there are plenty of us out there just the minority label the majority as is with everything in life the few spoil things for the many

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Suspect people who’s values of respect can see it in others.

Like every cup of certain values, the cream floats.

No wrong or right, just values mirroring like minded values.

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