FabSwingers.com forum: Can you be happy without sex?

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Is it possible to be fulfilled with the tingling of the body?

I would find it very hard.

What say you?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

Nope

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes you can be happy without sex; no sex is better than bad sex or sex with the wrong people.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thats why im divorced

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did 8.5 years by choice and was absolutely great - after the first six months

I've learned how to use the sexual energy in life so did more and achieved more in those years compared to before or after!

I've met a few people over the years who have their sex lives take over from actual life ... not so sure that's a good thing?

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

No, next subject please

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Nope.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Great answers

Thank you

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Yes.

Really.. Can you elaborate please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can live without sex. If I was single. I just switch off the desire. Fortunately I’m not so I don’t need to

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes.

Sex isn’t a necessity for life, its just a pleasurable activity.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

May be a for 6 months or so .. don’t think we can push it any longer ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't x

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

Being single, sometimes you don’t have a choice & bloody covid hasn’t helped!! Thank god for porn & fabs!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep.

I'd be more concerned if I couldn't have a snickers ice cream again than not having sex again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't either x

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

No Sex No chance... as stupid as it sounds everything I do on a day to day is aimed at impressing the opposite sex if i didnt know there could be a possibility of sex after attracting the girl then to me there is no point.

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Really.. Can you elaborate please?"

What is there to elaborate on? Being celibate isn't fatal.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Noooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did 8.5 years by choice and was absolutely great - after the first six months

I've learned how to use the sexual energy in life so did more and achieved more in those years compared to before or after!

I've met a few people over the years who have their sex lives take over from actual life ... not so sure that's a good thing? "

Reminds me of Malcolm in the Middle. When Lois and Hal stop having sex the house and garden are immaculate.

Then they start shagging again and it looks like a bomb site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did 8.5 years by choice and was absolutely great - after the first six months

I've learned how to use the sexual energy in life so did more and achieved more in those years compared to before or after!

I've met a few people over the years who have their sex lives take over from actual life ... not so sure that's a good thing?

Reminds me of Malcolm in the Middle. When Lois and Hal stop having sex the house and garden are immaculate.

Then they start shagging again and it looks like a bomb site.

But like my life

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Didn’t realise how much I enjoyed sex till coming on here now I can’t go without for long hehe definitely find it hard to be happy with no sex ever again

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

As much as I extremely enjoy sex with a passion and add a huge amount of effort in doing so, it's always nice to take a step back and not think about it as much... If it's possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I can’t

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I did 8.5 years by choice and was absolutely great - after the first six months

I've learned how to use the sexual energy in life so did more and achieved more in those years compared to before or after!

I've met a few people over the years who have their sex lives take over from actual life ... not so sure that's a good thing? "

No that is an obsession! haha

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple...No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is everything and nothing to me.

For want of a better expression.

I love it, I express myself with it, I connect with it etc etc.

But it's not important, not really.

I can live without it.

I did four years without, then a three months thing with someone, I got out and went another four years without.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Simple...No chance"

Tyfor sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore... I even get grumpy if either I was expecting it n didn't get it or if it's just been too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah i doubt it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you can get used to most things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have love and be loved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, you can get used to most things."

I don't want to!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Yes you can be happy without sex; no sex is better than bad sex or sex with the wrong people."

Both make me equaly sad.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

I'm grumpy without sex

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

No, definitely not. I've had periods in my life where Ive gone without sex and I hated it.

Sex doesn't rule my life but I enjoy it and want lots of it on a regular basis.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I'm grumpy without sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve currently been without sex for over 1 year and probably had it 5 times in the last 2 years, I’m happy but something is missing hence me joining this place.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes if I was with the right person I loved them that much. I would go with out.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Is it possible to be fulfilled with the tingling of the body?

I would find it very hard.

What say you?"

Definitely not

Both of us x

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

Yea, sex is good. But the amount of sex I have, or lack thereof isn't tied to my general happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can be happy without sex. But not fulfilled.

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

Yes as some peeps have health issues especially the ones who suffer from fatigue..

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

My marriage became sexless after our children arrived. It has led to much stress and grumpiness on my part... but swinging has been my salvation!

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South west

No way, and I don't know how the man with the half a CM cocks can please the GF's, sex is everything and filth, debate open?

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South west

"No way, and I don't know how the man with the half a CM cocks can please the GF's, sex is everything and filth, debate open?"

**men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooooooo

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm always happy person and I've not had school in agesssss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way, and I don't know how the man with the half a CM cocks can please the GF's, sex is everything and filth, debate open?"

If they have a girlfriend, they must be doing something right, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is it possible to be fulfilled with the tingling of the body?

I would find it very hard.

What say you?"

Possibly Yes if you can fill your time living life to the full with other activities

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Tried it, ended up suicidally depressed.

Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Near impossible...

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"No way, and I don't know how the man with the half a CM cocks can please the GF's, sex is everything and filth, debate open?

If they have a girlfriend, they must be doing something right, no? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have love and be loved. "

I think this too ... if it were a choice

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I'd rather have love and be loved.

I think this too ... if it were a choice "

I like this too but with carnal love

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I was celibate for 17 years when i was a single mum and just turned that side of me off.

Now I'm making up for lost time.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I've been single a long time and there have been other priorities in my life than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Just need lots of towels and hand cream

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By *andb13Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

We don't go to the gym. Sex is our workout. So nope. Couldn't do without it.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Yes and have done for several years sometimes.

But it also makes it so much better when you do.

It's more than just the sex, it's the connection, the touch and the intimacy.

The release part you can do solo.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Physically.. Yes you can! ask any single people living on their own for the last year!we have all had to do it.

Mental health side of it though makes it a much harder thing to do if lockdown wasn't in force.

Celibacy is a serious challenge for anyone.. Some people say its made them a better person and more attuned to themselves and the world around them.. So I guess again the answer is yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose my answer lays in my profile lol - so its a No from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."

This

I personally find sex a disappointing waste of my time and energy. In spite of me letting people know what I want or how to do what I like, they invariably don't listen and I never seem to enjoy it as much as the other person has. I've pretty much given it up. I'm on this site because I want to keep up to date with the clubs that have dungeons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically.. Yes you can! ask any single people living on their own for the last year!we have all had to do it.

Mental health side of it though makes it a much harder thing to do if lockdown wasn't in force.

Celibacy is a serious challenge for anyone.. Some people say its made them a better person and more attuned to themselves and the world around them.. So I guess again the answer is yes..

It definitely worked for me ^^

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Depends.... can I still use my hands.... if so I give myself a year maybe to before I'm ready to throw in the towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No however my usually high libido has slumped over the last year because I've not had it so I've not even being feeling horny. I have been missing contact though as I miss not having company x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dnt think i could, luckily never had to because ive been with my wife since we left school.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

425 days now, so yes, I *can*, but I'm seriously not happy about it.

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

"Yes and have done for several years sometimes.

But it also makes it so much better when you do.

It's more than just the sex, it's the connection, the touch and the intimacy.

The release part you can do solo."

Strongly agree with this!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Absolutely..

My hand is as good as anything

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

"No Sex No chance... as stupid as it sounds everything I do on a day to day is aimed at impressing the opposite sex if i didnt know there could be a possibility of sex after attracting the girl then to me there is no point.

I would prefer someone to be down to earth

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

So what you're saying is that women expect you to drive a nice car and have nice clothes for you to get laid? I'd prefer to fuck a guy with a killer down to earth personality who turns up in a car that's 20 years old wearing a plastic bag than sleep with anyone who thinks like that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

I find that quite a sad read, for both you and the women you encounter.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"425 days now, so yes, I *can*, but I'm seriously not happy about it. "

Sorry, brain fail on my part; for some reason I started thinking the question was can I *live* without it.

Can I be *happy* without sex? No. Sex is a *gigantic* part of who I am.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

I don't think you're alone and there are many women who think this way too although in a lot of cases I don't think their end goal is actually sex.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Wow just wow ..

You mustn’t have family, kids ?

They are my life and what I do everything for ..

I feel for you ..

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I would prefer someone to be down to earth

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

It does in my day to day world, thats not fab mind you. I imagine like yourself women on fab would not give a shit what car you drive.

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

I find that quite a sad read, for both you and the women you encounter."

In my world thats how it can be am afraid, not saying its right but this is how alot of impressionable women think (outside of fab)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m doing fine with out it

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I would prefer someone to be down to earth

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

It does in my day to day world, thats not fab mind you. I imagine like yourself women on fab would not give a shit what car you drive."

I mean that's the case in my every day life. Not just fab. I don't associate with people who are so pretentious and arrogant and believe that money is everything. If covid has taught us anything it is not that money matters. It's the little things.. Like saying something nice to someone who is feeling down. Or paying for someone's shopping who can't afford it. Money can go in a second and if you live the rest of your life like that then you'll find money is the only thing you have surrounding you when you're old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Sex isn’t a necessity for life, its just a pleasurable activity. "

Absolutely spot on comment

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Wow just wow ..

You mustn’t have family, kids ?

They are my life and what I do everything for ..

I feel for you .."

Whats if you could be happy without sex have to do with kids LOL.

Am glad there your life but am pretty sure if you could get by happily without sex you wouldnt be on this site or let me guess your here for the forums and banter haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes you can be happy without sex; no sex is better than bad sex or sex with the wrong people."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way, and I don't know how the man with the half a CM cocks can please the GF's, sex is everything and filth, debate open?

**men"

Cock size has nothing to do wirh pleasuring a woman. If thats all a man has to bring to the table is a large cock it will not be enough for most women

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction. "

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO"

Haha I’m with you, some people might be happy without it... definitely not me lol!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO"

I think you've been honest and that can only be a good thing.

As I said earlier there are quite a few people who think the way you do, especially noticeable on here but in the wider world too. Lots of men won't engage with me on any level because I'm not sexually attractive to them and I know a few women who won't engage with men unless it's sexual at some level. It works for a lot of people

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO

Haha I’m with you, some people might be happy without it... definitely not me lol! "

Then let’s have it lol

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO

I think you've been honest and that can only be a good thing.

Totally agree people need to understand that in modern society eveyone has different expectations from the opposite sex, theres women that wouldnt be interested in guys who are not on a 6 figure salary, theres women who wouldnt care if you earned minimum wage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO

I think you've been honest and that can only be a good thing.

Yep. If it works for you and nobody is getting hurt.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

I can not answer everyone but thank you for your marvellous contributions, so far.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Exercising, watching what I eat, buying nice clothes, buying nice aftershave, driving a nice car are all to give me the best chance possible of attracting women which leads to sex

Be careful as it sounds like an addiction. Sex is not the only thing in life. If not careful it can take over your life. It should be fun and not an addiction.

lool am pretty sure am not addicted but like the majority of people on this site I enjoy it and would I be happy without it HELL NO

Haha I’m with you, some people might be happy without it... definitely not me lol! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sex for me ( mrs) is an expression of love..something missing if its not happening..sex with anyone other than my husband is strictly just sex. That I can live without quite happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seriously? on this site? NO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no,no,no,and again NO!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For everyone that can't live without sex a question: if you could live without sex or have sex and die, which would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For everyone that can't live without sex a question: if you could live without sex or have sex and die, which would you choose? "

have to say this is a tough question...die when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For everyone that can't live without sex a question: if you could live without sex or have sex and die, which would you choose?

have to say this is a tough question...die when?"

Lol it's an easy question die after having sex because you're need for sex is more than

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"For everyone that can't live without sex a question: if you could live without sex or have sex and die, which would you choose?

have to say this is a tough question...die when?

Lol it's an easy question die after having sex because you're need for sex is more than "

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"For everyone that can't live without sex a question: if you could live without sex or have sex and die, which would you choose? "

This is a survival type of dilemma.. The instinct to live will take over.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it.

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - we all need sex well most of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I've basically been single all my life and only had sex a few times. It doesn't define how content I feel.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes up to a point. I went without it for about 10 years I got fed up of bad sex and getting booty calls from guys I liked at the time and I was dumb enough to always go meet them but the sex was normally meh as it was just a booty call for them so once they got their end away they didn't care about anything else and I just gave up for a while and all of a sudden it was years on and I suddenly realised I really missed sex .A friend told me about here as I wasn't interested in dating sites and here I am .And ice been lucky and have had some great sex since I joined here.

So yes I was happy enough for those years without it but would I do it again the honest answer is no given a choice no I wouldn't I enjoy sex too much to do that again.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Yes up to a point. I went without it for about 10 years I got fed up of bad sex and getting booty calls from guys I liked at the time and I was dumb enough to always go meet them but the sex was normally meh as it was just a booty call for them so once they got their end away they didn't care about anything else and I just gave up for a while and all of a sudden it was years on and I suddenly realised I really missed sex .A friend told me about here as I wasn't interested in dating sites and here I am .And ice been lucky and have had some great sex since I joined here.

So yes I was happy enough for those years without it but would I do it again the honest answer is no given a choice no I wouldn't I enjoy sex too much to do that again. "

Thabj you for sharing x

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it.

Very true

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Nope

even less so without intimacy

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Nope

even less so without intimacy"

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"seriously? on this site? NO!!"

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Hell no!

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Is it possible to be fulfilled with the tingling of the body?

I would find it very hard.

What say you?"

Nope. I love sex, it says so on the tin.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Is it possible to be fulfilled with the tingling of the body?

I would find it very hard.

What say you?

Nope. I love sex, it says so on the tin."

I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I am pretty happy and content without any sex. I have found out over the last few years that I do not need or miss sex in the slightest x

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."

I feel the same way. I now spend more time/efffort finding the right guys otherwise it’s just a let down!

Dee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, you can get used to most things."

The pandemic has taught us all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."
so the 48 youve met on here were all the rite people more likely they were just for the sake of doin it cos your horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep.

I'd be more concerned if I couldn't have a snickers ice cream again than not having sex again."

I'm with you there.. Love the snickers ice cream!

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

"I'm grumpy without sex"

Thats me too and always lol as no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within a relationship then no, I'd not be completely happy without but as a single person, yes, I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Her x

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over a year ago

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Nope.

Her x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for the people who have said yes they can go without sex and it does not bother them why would you be on a swingers site that was made for people to find other people not for dates or love or friendship but for sex if sex doesn't bother you you wouldn't be on fab ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just for the people who have said yes they can go without sex and it does not bother them why would you be on a swingers site that was made for people to find other people not for dates or love or friendship but for sex if sex doesn't bother you you wouldn't be on fab ??????"

The question was can you be happy without sex. Doesn't mean there's no interest in it but just that it's not the be all and end all of happiness. I'd see my life as being pretty crap if my happiness depended solely on sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sex is far more than just a physical act. For me it fills my need to feel wanted, desired, to be intimate and to give and receive affection. Its a sure fire way to get those things. So while I could live without sex, sooner or later I'd become pretty miserable without affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say I am not interested in sex, unfortunately over the last few years, I haven’t had sex, not having anyone interested in me in that way has ensured I have switched off from needing it. I am able to be happy and carry on fully functioning without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading that back - seems pretty sad. I have accepted my lot and just get on with everything, it’s not a problem.

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By *artyboy89Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Yep.

I'd be more concerned if I couldn't have a snickers ice cream again than not having sex again."

What above said ??????

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

I like the insight

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *uncouple_12Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well had to learn to has i have not had none for a few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and have gone without sex for long periods, but it makes me very unhappy. Good sex, preferably within a relationship (random is good but better with someone you grow with), makes me feel fulfilled physically and emotionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happier with no sex than sex with the wrong person just for the sake of having it."

Yup

same here.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I can and have gone without sex for long periods, but it makes me very unhappy. Good sex, preferably within a relationship (random is good but better with someone you grow with), makes me feel fulfilled physically and emotionally."

Thank you for the insight

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By *rancis6Couple
over a year ago

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100pc NO

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"100pc NO

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

That is like asking can you be happy without friends, food, money. happiness is a broad spectrum of emotion.

Yes and no you can be happy without sex, you could also be sad with sex. Happiness has nothing to do with sex, but sex can fulfill a role in happiness.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"That is like asking can you be happy without friends, food, money. happiness is a broad spectrum of emotion.

Yes and no you can be happy without sex, you could also be sad with sex. Happiness has nothing to do with sex, but sex can fulfill a role in happiness."

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