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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here. "

Why ??

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over a year ago

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


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Why ??"

Numbers. More white women, more white couples, tends to be the couples and the men in them that want a fantasy to be fulfilled in general.

You're not odd, op, you like what you like

Great pics n vids too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Tigger here once knew a young Black lady teacher, who was exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??"

you would need to ask that to the ppl who only wants BBCs on here.

I personally don't think that the majority only wants a particular type or the other (bbc, bwc, skinny, muscular, curvy...and so on)

There is a myriad of profiles, with so many preferences and wants. Some specific requirements may, indeed, be difficult to find but not impossible.

I guess your thread may help you to find what you are looking or not.

So good luck in your quest young obi1

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I wish there were more black women into BWC near me, it seems BBC's get most of the love instead

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

We are both attracted to women of all cultures.. but smooth ebony skin against ours is just WOW!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here. "

Most who?

Most black women want ‘BBC’ or most white women want ‘BBC’? Thats two separate situations is it not?

OP you're not odd at all. You like who you like....

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??

you would need to ask that to the ppl who only wants BBCs on here.

I personally don't think that the majority only wants a particular type or the other (bbc, bwc, skinny, muscular, curvy...and so on)

There is a myriad of profiles, with so many preferences and wants. Some specific requirements may, indeed, be difficult to find but not impossible.

I guess your thread may help you to find what you are looking or not.

So good luck in your quest young obi1"

No, for Black women profiles they definitely skew towards exclusively wanting black men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??

you would need to ask that to the ppl who only wants BBCs on here.

I personally don't think that the majority only wants a particular type or the other (bbc, bwc, skinny, muscular, curvy...and so on)

There is a myriad of profiles, with so many preferences and wants. Some specific requirements may, indeed, be difficult to find but not impossible.

I guess your thread may help you to find what you are looking or not.

So good luck in your quest young obi1

No, for Black women profiles they definitely skew towards exclusively wanting black men. "

Thats because BBC is the best

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"

Why ??

Numbers. More white women, more white couples, tends to be the couples and the men in them that want a fantasy to be fulfilled in general.

You're not odd, op, you like what you like

Great pics n vids too."

I believe her why is in reference to black women only wanting BBCs (blegh, I hate that term)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??

you would need to ask that to the ppl who only wants BBCs on here.

I personally don't think that the majority only wants a particular type or the other (bbc, bwc, skinny, muscular, curvy...and so on)

There is a myriad of profiles, with so many preferences and wants. Some specific requirements may, indeed, be difficult to find but not impossible.

I guess your thread may help you to find what you are looking or not.

So good luck in your quest young obi1

No, for Black women profiles they definitely skew towards exclusively wanting black men. "

Have you looked to every single black women profile on fab and came to that conclusion ?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??

you would need to ask that to the ppl who only wants BBCs on here.

I personally don't think that the majority only wants a particular type or the other (bbc, bwc, skinny, muscular, curvy...and so on)

There is a myriad of profiles, with so many preferences and wants. Some specific requirements may, indeed, be difficult to find but not impossible.

I guess your thread may help you to find what you are looking or not.

So good luck in your quest young obi1

No, for Black women profiles they definitely skew towards exclusively wanting black men.

Have you looked to every single black women profile on fab and came to that conclusion ? "

Yea, I basically have.

Also, do you comprehend the word “skew”?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Most who?

Most black women want ‘BBC’ or most white women want ‘BBC’? Thats two separate situations is it not?

OP you're not odd at all. You like who you like.... "

I thought it was understood we are discussing Black women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would be lots of fun and tick off one of our fantasises

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Well if it makes you odd, so be it. Means you stand out! Lovely pics too, can tell you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Most who?

Most black women want ‘BBC’ or most white women want ‘BBC’? Thats two separate situations is it not?

OP you're not odd at all. You like who you like....

I thought it was understood we are discussing Black women. "

Im clear now. The terminology tripped me a bit there. My mistake ‘But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.’ This bit lost me. Why would a black woman call a black man a BBC? Hence i asked ‘most who?’

I’d beg to differ i’ve seen a lot of profiles of black women that specify wanting white guys. A fair few white guys specifically seek out black women. Many say geography isn't on their side, as who they desire isn't in their area. There is always a lot of interest in interracial events where black women will be in attendance.

My point being its not odd at all the OP preferring hung white guys. Fab will give you a skewed snapshot of anything. Taking fab, swingers clubs, social scene etc into account its probably not that odd at all

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Most who?

Most black women want ‘BBC’ or most white women want ‘BBC’? Thats two separate situations is it not?

OP you're not odd at all. You like who you like....

I thought it was understood we are discussing Black women.

Im clear now. The terminology tripped me a bit there. My mistake ‘But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.’ This bit lost me. Why would a black woman call a black man a BBC? Hence i asked ‘most who?’

I’d beg to differ i’ve seen a lot of profiles of black women that specify wanting white guys. A fair few white guys specifically seek out black women. Many say geography isn't on their side, as who they desire isn't in their area. There is always a lot of interest in interracial events where black women will be in attendance.

My point being its not odd at all the OP preferring hung white guys. Fab will give you a skewed snapshot of anything. Taking fab, swingers clubs, social scene etc into account its probably not that odd at all "

Again, going back to the term “skew”— there are a good number of black women on here who want BWC— they exist. Are ones exclusively seeking BWC in the majority? No. Are there ones who don’t specify a preference, yes. Are there ones that’s specific they only what Black men? Yes. Does the proportion of FAB black women profiles skew one way? Yes. It’s the one where they exclusively state a preference for Black males.

How do I know? Because believe it or not I have actually done several searches several times for

basically every Black women’s profiles on here because I was doing outreach and helping for Black women swing events and planning my own. This is also not that intensive because there’s not THAT many black women on here also.

Empirical research? Shocking, I know.

OP started the thread for a reason— it’s an observation/question she had because the underlying assumption is that she’s unique in liking BWC (on here I presume)— well it’s not an invalid assumption likely based on her anecdotal observation on the site. I’m just here to say she’s not wrong empirically.

If anyone REALLY wants to get into it, feel free to PM. I actually did a lot of writings in university on Black women and dating/sex/attraction and their dynamics. Its not anything surprising or shocking to see Black women on fab stating they mostly want Black men because research has show this time and time again out in the “vanilla world”.

Anyway, back to liking “BWC” I go

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

You're not alone or odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

You're not alone or odd "

Great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

You're not alone or odd "

Your pictures are

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Sexy horny Black women will always be in demand wether it is with bwc or bbc guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again, going back to the term “skew”— there are a good number of black women on here who want BWC— they exist. Are ones exclusively seeking BWC in the majority? No. Are there ones who don’t specify a preference, yes. Are there ones that’s specific they only what Black men? Yes. Does the proportion of FAB black women profiles skew one way? Yes. It’s the one where they exclusively state a preference for Black males.

How do I know? Because believe it or not I have actually done several searches several times for

basically every Black women’s profiles on here because I was doing outreach and helping for Black women swing events and planning my own. This is also not that intensive because there’s not THAT many black women on here also.

Empirical research? Shocking, I know.

OP started the thread for a reason— it’s an observation/question she had because the underlying assumption is that she’s unique in liking BWC (on here I presume)— well it’s not an invalid assumption likely based on her anecdotal observation on the site. I’m just here to say she’s not wrong empirically.

If anyone REALLY wants to get into it, feel free to PM. I actually did a lot of writings in university on Black women and dating/sex/attraction and their dynamics. Its not anything surprising or shocking to see Black women on fab stating they mostly want Black men because research has show this time and time again out in the “vanilla world”.

Anyway, back to liking “BWC” I go"

Thanks for clarifying. You speak very eloquently and from a well researched place.

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By *igwhtdik4blkgrlMan
over a year ago

London

Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

There are just not enough horny black ladies to go round, I’d let them judge if I’m BWC, and would fully enjoy her finding out, a 3 some with 2 black ladies, oh wow, now your talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have started a chat group for any ladies who share our preference. DM if interested

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"We have started a chat group for any ladies who share our preference. DM if interested "

Ahhh ladies only, soooooo not fair ha ha ha have fun girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting... I shall keep an eye on this thread

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By *ighlibidoCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We would really like to meet a sexy black woman looking to meet a white couple.

We've just found it difficult finding that person.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

Hmmmm I’ll be following this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the question we all need to ask is how do we get more black women on a site like this.

Culturally we're very secretive and judgemental. You'll probably find there are more black women hiding amongst social media and on tinder that basically want a fab life without the possibility of being caught on here.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

In the past I have messaged 3 black ladies that were looking for a white guy.Unfortunately for me I was not their type which is fair enough.A black lady I met at spa did say she considered me to be more in the BAME group so perhaps that maybe another reason with regards to myself why some black ladies are not that interested in me.

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Interested

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Following this thread with interest.

My preference has for several decades for black women and I am fortunate to know a number of them. I am also lucky in the endowment department and the OP's comments bear out what my friends have said to me!

I can't really comment on Fab users as I don't primarily use the site for finding contacts. I have had much more success dating on PoF. On there, the overall percentage of black women users (in Britain) is probably similar to that on here so I would suggest that some form of recruitment drive is a waste of time.

However, when on PoF I limit my search fields to Black, Asian and Mixed and in my experience there, very few black women state that they only want to meet black men. In conversation, most reveal themselves to be more interested in dating a white guy and are usually more than pleased to find that he has a BC. (I leave out the 'W' in my case because, as a naturist, mine normally has a healthy tan, along with the rest of me)

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Genuine BWC here. I lost my virginity to two black ladies

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By *arkstallion123Man
over a year ago

romford

I agree to that

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By *ssh keep it secretWoman
over a year ago

Staffs

Raising my hand in here coz yea im a fan of bwc too

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By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London

Tagging in

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over a year ago

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Raising my hand in here coz yea im a fan of bwc too "
My hotlist is starting to look full.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My FB was on here but deleted her account after somebody at her job recognises her and started giving her problems.

She just uses Kik and other means to find her fun now.

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here. "

There's a Kik group??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference for white guys, but they don’t have to be “hung” I like them average in the pants department thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer white guys, not bothered about ‘hung’ but I’d like something to work with at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem."

Can I get an amen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem."

“I’ve never been with a chocolate princess”

Ugh what a true phrase! If I had a pound for every-time I got a message like that I’d be able to pay for an all inclusive holiday to Jamaica by now.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Either too far or I'm too old, typical.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

*Watches this thread with interest*

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem."

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, not wholly a woman - but a black/mixed CD here that loves BWC and is looking to gain some experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Most who?

Most black women want ‘BBC’ or most white women want ‘BBC’? Thats two separate situations is it not?

OP you're not odd at all. You like who you like....

I thought it was understood we are discussing Black women.

Im clear now. The terminology tripped me a bit there. My mistake ‘But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.’ This bit lost me. Why would a black woman call a black man a BBC? Hence i asked ‘most who?’

I’d beg to differ i’ve seen a lot of profiles of black women that specify wanting white guys. A fair few white guys specifically seek out black women. Many say geography isn't on their side, as who they desire isn't in their area. There is always a lot of interest in interracial events where black women will be in attendance.

My point being its not odd at all the OP preferring hung white guys. Fab will give you a skewed snapshot of anything. Taking fab, swingers clubs, social scene etc into account its probably not that odd at all

Again, going back to the term “skew”— there are a good number of black women on here who want BWC— they exist. Are ones exclusively seeking BWC in the majority? No. Are there ones who don’t specify a preference, yes. Are there ones that’s specific they only what Black men? Yes. Does the proportion of FAB black women profiles skew one way? Yes. It’s the one where they exclusively state a preference for Black males.

How do I know? Because believe it or not I have actually done several searches several times for

basically every Black women’s profiles on here because I was doing outreach and helping for Black women swing events and planning my own. This is also not that intensive because there’s not THAT many black women on here also.

Empirical research? Shocking, I know.

OP started the thread for a reason— it’s an observation/question she had because the underlying assumption is that she’s unique in liking BWC (on here I presume)— well it’s not an invalid assumption likely based on her anecdotal observation on the site. I’m just here to say she’s not wrong empirically.

If anyone REALLY wants to get into it, feel free to PM. I actually did a lot of writings in university on Black women and dating/sex/attraction and their dynamics. Its not anything surprising or shocking to see Black women on fab stating they mostly want Black men because research has show this time and time again out in the “vanilla world”.

Anyway, back to liking “BWC” I go"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would really like to meet a sexy black woman looking to meet a white couple.

We've just found it difficult finding that person."

I would like to find anyone, any colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BLACK LIVES MATTER

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

"

Oh no.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

Oh no....."

You disagree?

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

Oh no.....

You disagree?"

Black Lives Matter was never about saying other lives don’t matter, it is an attempt to atleast level the playing field in many different aspect of the world today

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

Oh no.....

You disagree?

Black Lives Matter was never about saying other lives don’t matter, it is an attempt to atleast level the playing field in many different aspect of the world today "

To me, there is a a level playing field.

Just not recognising (or using them) memetics, that is unforgivable.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"To me, there is a level playing field. "

The sound of privilege.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me. "

Urgh!

I hope you stopped talking to them.

I never meet anyone that makes my race or size etc .. into a fetish

It's such a turn off.

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg


"I wish there were more black women into BWC near me, it seems BBC's get most of the love instead"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good old fashioned racism and beliefs is here to stay.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Urgh!

I hope you stopped talking to them.

I never meet anyone that makes my race or size etc .. into a fetish

It's such a turn off."

Yes I did, I ignored it at first trying to ignore his ignorance but it got to much and I had to tell him. He did message me the other day to try and say we had a connection, I think not

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Good old fashioned racism and beliefs is here to stay."

You're unfortunately correct. The last five years have shown me that British society hasn't made nearly as much progress as I'd been led to believe. I'm embarrassed I ever fell for it. Privilege is a hell of a drug.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think it’s pretty shabby that the OPs post has been hijacked and turned into an argument about race and politics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s pretty shabby that the OPs post has been hijacked and turned into an argument about race and politics "

Nothing new for anything that is about black or white sadly.

For as long as racism exists, talks about race will always turn back to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tha conversation started as a race subject. Nobody can deny that.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me. "

I mean, I can sort of understand it if you make it clear that's a dynamic you enjoy but imposing your kink on someone or fetishizing something that they don't want to be is not good. The amount of times I've had messages telling me they've never been with a black/exotic/asian woman is horrible.

Anyway, I wouldn't say I'm into BWC but I like white men, sure. I find lots of men attractive, their skin colour doesn't factor into it.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

In this thread: "Oh no! A topic explicitly concerning matters of race turned into a discussion of matters of race!"

Spoiler: *Everything* is political and always has been.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me. "

Uhmmm did you cuss him out and/or shut him down for that?

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"I just like fun people.

Oh and to me, all lives matter, emotionally, physically and intellectually.

Oh no.....

You disagree?

Black Lives Matter was never about saying other lives don’t matter, it is an attempt to atleast level the playing field in many different aspect of the world today

To me, there is a a level playing field.

Just not recognising (or using them) memetics, that is unforgivable.

"

Goodbye. No black pussy for you.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"In this thread: "Oh no! A topic explicitly concerning matters of race turned into a discussion of matters of race!"

Spoiler: *Everything* is political and always has been."

Looks like someone gets it. Hola, comrade

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Goodbye. No black pussy for you."

Post of the day right here. Genuine LOL.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

One can dream

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Uhmmm did you cuss him out and/or shut him down for that? "

I tolerated it for a while then shut him down

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me. "

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

"

Calling someone a chocolate slut is playful banter? okay then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh that word,BANTER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

"

But it’s not playful banter is it? It’s boring, repetitive and labelling someone by the colour of their skin.

That’s not policing sex, people can say what they like, equally as we can block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that word,BANTER."

It’s alway banter when you’re not on the receiving end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Yes and No.

Doesn't have to be hung but at the very least a good handful is something to aim for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would mine count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say odd. Others might say sell out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say odd. Others might say sell out."

You're commenting a lot on a thread about what black ladies want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a discussion right?

Different opinions

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a discussion right?

Different opinions "

Actually no it wasn’t a ‘discussion’ it was a question!!! I asked :- “ Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?”

Because people just hijack a thread for there own agenda you have forgotten what the OP even was !?? This type of response is just putting people off posting on the forums which is sad

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

"

Wait wait wait, I neither initiated this kind of “banter” or gave any hint that I wanted to be called that! I am up for a laugh like the next person but being called a chocolate slut I’m afraid is annoying and tacky. I don’t use my race for someone’s fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say odd. Others might say sell out."

Those who call someone a “sell out” for having a preference are simply bitter that their preference doesn’t prefer them.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I wouldn't say odd. Others might say sell out.

Those who call someone a “sell out” for having a preference are simply bitter that their preference doesn’t prefer them. "

Exactly my thought when I seen that comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Based on the people who have DMd us it appears I am not alone. We have started a kik chat group for this preference. New members welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always preffered black women. I couldn't tell you why. I suppose we all have type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any black ladies like hairy bad bods?? Thay would be a dream come true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly a dream to meet with a black lady and have some fun

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Any black ladies like hairy bad bods?? Thay would be a dream come true lol "
Will ya be wearing your kilt ?

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By *owcuriousCouple
over a year ago

se

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By *owcuriousCouple
over a year ago

se


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Nothing odd about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love black and Asian ladies , not big though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any black ladies like hairy bad bods?? Thay would be a dream come true lol Will ya be wearing your kilt ? "
I most certainly vmcan be if it helps swing u my direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yaaassss

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd? "

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun"
please tell me your a fan of hairy dad bod types though

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun"

Beautiful lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure they will let them know when they fancy a bit not everyone announces it to the fab world

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

The hung part isn’t necessary for her (luckily for me) but she’s had her fair share of white men lol

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun please tell me your a fan of hairy dad bod types though "

Afraid not, sorry

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun

Beautiful lady "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun please tell me your a fan of hairy dad bod types though

Afraid not, sorry"
nooooooooooooooooooo

Sad now

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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Great discussion watching with interest

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By *ushcrushMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I would just love a black woman myself. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun"

Same here!

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By *tanners86Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

Defo! It’s so hard to find a genuine black lady after a white dude. Or, I have trouble anyway! Ha

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here. "

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By *tanners86Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Based on the people who have DMd us it appears I am not alone. We have started a kik chat group for this preference. New members welcome "

I would love to join if possible?

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By *ushcrushMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I'd love to join to please x

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By *rloMarloMan
over a year ago

london

I’m Genuinely having a terrible time trying to find a black lady to meet with!

Our conversations just never seem to lead to anything... obviously not helped with a pandemic also!

I would love to join a group dedicated to it. I remember on the old gram, they call it ‘swirling!’ I always cringed at that a little! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m Genuinely having a terrible time trying to find a black lady to meet with!

Our conversations just never seem to lead to anything... obviously not helped with a pandemic also!

I would love to join a group dedicated to it. I remember on the old gram, they call it ‘swirling!’ I always cringed at that a little! Ha"

Swirling! Hahaha, I remember that too!

It is cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am up for joining this KIK group! Can’t remember who said it but I’ll scroll up & message to ask to join.

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By *ugeDRyanMan
over a year ago

London

If there’s an active group for this, I’m definitely down to join too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Yea, me! But hence why I’m already in your kik group lololol

But really, it does seem like most only want BBCs on here.

Why ??"

Because somehow a lot of people believe the myth that black males are all hung with monster sized penises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

Wait wait wait, I neither initiated this kind of “banter” or gave any hint that I wanted to be called that! I am up for a laugh like the next person but being called a chocolate slut I’m afraid is annoying and tacky. I don’t use my race for someone’s fantasy. "

It seems that unlike a lot of the BBC stunt cocks on Fabs that black women are not willing to be a plaything for some outdated fantasy and would rather be seen as a human being first that as something strange or exotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

Wait wait wait, I neither initiated this kind of “banter” or gave any hint that I wanted to be called that! I am up for a laugh like the next person but being called a chocolate slut I’m afraid is annoying and tacky. I don’t use my race for someone’s fantasy.

It seems that unlike a lot of the BBC stunt cocks on Fabs that black women are not willing to be a plaything for some outdated fantasy and would rather be seen as a human being first that as something strange or exotic."

If black men want to be “stunt cocks” as you say, what’s the problem?

I really don’t understand why people have an issue with others and how they choose to be admired. It doesn’t affect anyone else but the person who is labelling themselves really.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I met a great lady from here who liked bwc... had a great time together ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun"

As you said each to their own babe!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Urgh!

I hope you stopped talking to them.

I never meet anyone that makes my race or size etc .. into a fetish

It's such a turn off.

Yes I did, I ignored it at first trying to ignore his ignorance but it got to much and I had to tell him. He did message me the other day to try and say we had a connection, I think not"

To some ignorance is bliss, beauty is with the person regardless of the exrerior decoration, I must say I'm more attracted to exotic and a beautiful mind, as well a great look, and may I say you look wonderful x

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Any other black women like me on here that have a preference for hung white guys ? Or am I odd?

Your not odd, each to their own. I'm not a fan of big cocks personally, which others find odd, I just find them painful and pain is not fun

As you said each to their own babe! "

Exactly this each to there own as its minds. Bodies, orientation, that makes the best mix x that connection and attraction we all get now and again x

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

I can't find the post about the kik group but I'd like to join

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I can't find the post about the kik group but I'd like to join "
We could start our own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't find the post about the kik group but I'd like to join "

We run the kik group. But sorry your not tall enough

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By *unfirst1000Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I prefer white guys, not bothered about ‘hung’ but I’d like something to work with at least "

Short to hop to MCR from Leeds, when this crazy time sorts itself out! Hahahaha

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By *ornybankerMan
over a year ago

London

I agree the majority of black ladies are only looking for BBC.

Im really attracted to black girls and luckily there are a few who like white guys. I am tall and hung by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all women but Black women really attract me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

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By *upersilver88Man
over a year ago

hazelgrove

I love all woman. But do think a darker skinned lady is a thing of beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time! "
good morning I myself have been guilty about admiring black women because of the colour and tone of their skin BUT in the same way I admire realy pale red headed women with freckles not all black women or red headed pale women will be my cup of tea and it won't be the only reason id want to have fun with them as I like a woman with personality aswel as looks and their has to be a mutual attraction. I think the problem is some men and possibly me included in this want to compliment a woman but completely balls it up and day the wrong things.

But listening to some of the messages u have been sent and the way they say they like yout colour is plain rude and I'm sorry u have had to deal with that its not acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time! good morning I myself have been guilty about admiring black women because of the colour and tone of their skin BUT in the same way I admire realy pale red headed women with freckles not all black women or red headed pale women will be my cup of tea and it won't be the only reason id want to have fun with them as I like a woman with personality aswel as looks and their has to be a mutual attraction. I think the problem is some men and possibly me included in this want to compliment a woman but completely balls it up and day the wrong things.

But listening to some of the messages u have been sent and the way they say they like yout colour is plain rude and I'm sorry u have had to deal with that its not acceptable "
ps just noticed some typos in that sorry bloody auto carrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time! good morning I myself have been guilty about admiring black women because of the colour and tone of their skin BUT in the same way I admire realy pale red headed women with freckles not all black women or red headed pale women will be my cup of tea and it won't be the only reason id want to have fun with them as I like a woman with personality aswel as looks and their has to be a mutual attraction. I think the problem is some men and possibly me included in this want to compliment a woman but completely balls it up and day the wrong things.

But listening to some of the messages u have been sent and the way they say they like yout colour is plain rude and I'm sorry u have had to deal with that its not acceptable ps just noticed some typos in that sorry bloody auto carrot "

Ha! Morning to you too!

I understand for most people it’s harmless and they don’t mean anything bad at all!

It’s the constant reference to chocolate that really gets my eyes rolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time! "

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

Very interested in this kik group... do I qualify?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set. "

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross!

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By *rand GestureMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I generally prefer non-caucasian women and luckily haven't had much bother in attracting them. Being tall and hung is definitely an advantage though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross! "
your very right sadly some people do cross the line and say the wrong thing im hoping im not one of those

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross! "

Yes Chan it is the ‘cringe worthy’ fetish comments that put me off. Lots of people have physical traits as preferences for sexual attraction and skin colour is no different. We both agree the skin colour contrast when we have sex is a massive visual turn on for us both.

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Ever since my early teens I have had a attraction to black and mixed race women and I have had the pleasure of meeting a few now!!

My attraction as not disappeared it’s got even worse!!

It’s not a fetish and a fantasy it’s a 100% attraction so I am keeping a eye on this thread and would love to be part of a kik group!!

If there’s any sexy ladies in the Sheffield area who might find me interesting please shout up!!

Oh and there is some gorgeous women on here

Daz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m putting myself out there again... very interested in BWC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join your kik group please? I’m IanShorts on there x

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By *ushcrushMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Unfortunately we all use descriptive terms to describe others.

BBC

BWC

BBW

ETC ....

But if those terms cause offence, the person who used those terms should take it onboard, apologise communicate, then move on ...... hopefully as a better more understanding person.

The world then would be a better place

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"

Calling someone a chocolate slut is playful banter? okay then. "

I meant to quote the chocolate princess, let's even say he said chocolate slut, of course not as the first message as that would be rude and presumptuous. As you build some understanding, surely you can take the driving seat of the communication instead of putting a barrier in front.

Just putting a barrier right of the back tells me having fun might suck with this person. Change the course of the communication who knows maybe later, laugh at his attempt at flirting or yourself. However, if the statement infringes on your principle fair enough.


"

But it’s not playful banter is it? It’s boring, repetitive and labelling someone by the colour of their skin.

That’s not policing sex, people can say what they like, equally as we can block them. "

If I was white and prefer to you as Caribbean princess as your name suggests, based on the chocolate princess chances are you will be defensive. When really it is all about tonality and the flow of the conversation. Surely Caribbean princess is as repetitive and labelling as the former.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Calling someone a chocolate slut is playful banter? okay then.

I meant to quote the chocolate princess, let's even say he said chocolate slut, of course not as the first message as that would be rude and presumptuous. As you build some understanding, surely you can take the driving seat of the communication instead of putting a barrier in front.

Just putting a barrier right of the back tells me having fun might suck with this person. Change the course of the communication who knows maybe later, laugh at his attempt at flirting or yourself. However, if the statement infringes on your principle fair enough.

But it’s not playful banter is it? It’s boring, repetitive and labelling someone by the colour of their skin.

That’s not policing sex, people can say what they like, equally as we can block them.

If I was white and prefer to you as Caribbean princess as your name suggests, based on the chocolate princess chances are you will be defensive. When really it is all about tonality and the flow of the conversation. Surely Caribbean princess is as repetitive and labelling as the former."

No it’s not as Caribbean is indicating place of origin, Chocolate is clearly referring to skin tone.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have met black ladies and black couples at Rios spa and generally have said hello and had a little chat sometimes there has been a attraction on both sides and we have taken things further other time’s nothing has happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Calling someone a chocolate slut is playful banter? okay then.

I meant to quote the chocolate princess, let's even say he said chocolate slut, of course not as the first message as that would be rude and presumptuous. As you build some understanding, surely you can take the driving seat of the communication instead of putting a barrier in front.

Just putting a barrier right of the back tells me having fun might suck with this person. Change the course of the communication who knows maybe later, laugh at his attempt at flirting or yourself. However, if the statement infringes on your principle fair enough.

But it’s not playful banter is it? It’s boring, repetitive and labelling someone by the colour of their skin.

That’s not policing sex, people can say what they like, equally as we can block them.

If I was white and prefer to you as Caribbean princess as your name suggests, based on the chocolate princess chances are you will be defensive. When really it is all about tonality and the flow of the conversation. Surely Caribbean princess is as repetitive and labelling as the former."

Caribbean is my heritage. It doesn’t refer to my ethnicity since any race can be Caribbean.

“Chocolate” is referring to my skin & skin tone alone nothing more. The Caribbean is a region.

Also, I’m not defensive, it’s just boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Calling someone a chocolate slut is playful banter? okay then.

I meant to quote the chocolate princess, let's even say he said chocolate slut, of course not as the first message as that would be rude and presumptuous. As you build some understanding, surely you can take the driving seat of the communication instead of putting a barrier in front.

Just putting a barrier right of the back tells me having fun might suck with this person. Change the course of the communication who knows maybe later, laugh at his attempt at flirting or yourself. However, if the statement infringes on your principle fair enough.

But it’s not playful banter is it? It’s boring, repetitive and labelling someone by the colour of their skin.

That’s not policing sex, people can say what they like, equally as we can block them.

If I was white and prefer to you as Caribbean princess as your name suggests, based on the chocolate princess chances are you will be defensive. When really it is all about tonality and the flow of the conversation. Surely Caribbean princess is as repetitive and labelling as the former.

No it’s not as Caribbean is indicating place of origin, Chocolate is clearly referring to skin tone. "

Thank you.

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By *hedark_knightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross!

Yes Chan it is the ‘cringe worthy’ fetish comments that put me off. Lots of people have physical traits as preferences for sexual attraction and skin colour is no different. We both agree the skin colour contrast when we have sex is a massive visual turn on for us both. "

Given the real world ramifications that skin colour has had and still has...it’s very disingenuous to say skin colour is no different. Cause the reality is it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross!

Yes Chan it is the ‘cringe worthy’ fetish comments that put me off. Lots of people have physical traits as preferences for sexual attraction and skin colour is no different. We both agree the skin colour contrast when we have sex is a massive visual turn on for us both.

Given the real world ramifications that skin colour has had and still has...it’s very disingenuous to say skin colour is no different. Cause the reality is it is. "

Ok we beg to differ especially when it’s only an attraction preference for some people

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"I’m Genuinely having a terrible time trying to find a black lady to meet with!

Our conversations just never seem to lead to anything... obviously not helped with a pandemic also!

I would love to join a group dedicated to it. I remember on the old gram, they call it ‘swirling!’ I always cringed at that a little! Ha"

Here’s a hint—- it doesn’t help if/when you message them unsolicited saying you want your dick in their mouth and asking when it’s going to happen.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me.

Just take it as a playful banter between two people, too many people want to police sex. It a push and pull communication which you can navigate to your comfort zone.

Wait wait wait, I neither initiated this kind of “banter” or gave any hint that I wanted to be called that! I am up for a laugh like the next person but being called a chocolate slut I’m afraid is annoying and tacky. I don’t use my race for someone’s fantasy.

It seems that unlike a lot of the BBC stunt cocks on Fabs that black women are not willing to be a plaything for some outdated fantasy and would rather be seen as a human being first that as something strange or exotic."

This is generally the case in the Vanilla world too

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By *arcus11inches998Man
over a year ago

ely

Would love some bbw ladies to chat to. Feel free to message if interested

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By *hedark_knightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross!

Yes Chan it is the ‘cringe worthy’ fetish comments that put me off. Lots of people have physical traits as preferences for sexual attraction and skin colour is no different. We both agree the skin colour contrast when we have sex is a massive visual turn on for us both.

Given the real world ramifications that skin colour has had and still has...it’s very disingenuous to say skin colour is no different. Cause the reality is it is.

Ok we beg to differ especially when it’s only an attraction preference for some people "

Except it’s never just that. Not saying it’s always harmful but I don’t think it should be so trivialised when that’s not the reality. For the most part.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I do wish that some of the white guys who admire black women didn’t make it all about our skin though!

Almost in a row I’ve had “Chocolate skin” “Dark pussy lips” and “You’re an edible chocolate mousse”

You can compliment someone without making it about their skin tone all the time!

Can you have it both ways though? The thread title is about black women who are into white guys. Many men on the thread have let it be known they like black women. So can you say don’t use my colour to compliment me in a place where your colour is one of your main attractions (in this instance)? Most people do get it and are able to express appreciation without being crass but there are those who only see the fetish side of it and revel in the mind set.

I think you can personally.

I love white guys but I’ve never needed to compliment them on their skin tone or the fact that they’re white if that makes sense!

I think you can have admiration for another race, size etc without making it turn into a cringeworthy fetish as you say. It’s definitely a fine line which some sadly do cross!

Yes Chan it is the ‘cringe worthy’ fetish comments that put me off. Lots of people have physical traits as preferences for sexual attraction and skin colour is no different. We both agree the skin colour contrast when we have sex is a massive visual turn on for us both.

Given the real world ramifications that skin colour has had and still has...it’s very disingenuous to say skin colour is no different. Cause the reality is it is.

Ok we beg to differ especially when it’s only an attraction preference for some people

Except it’s never just that. Not saying it’s always harmful but I don’t think it should be so trivialised when that’s not the reality. For the most part. "

As I said let’s beg to differ.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our KIK group is upto 25 members now. 50/50 male female spilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our KIK group is upto 25 members now. 50/50 male female spilt "

And what a great group it is!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our KIK group is upto 25 members now. 50/50 male female spilt

And what a great group it is! "

Especially after you joined it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our KIK group is upto 25 members now. 50/50 male female spilt

And what a great group it is!

Especially after you joined it "

Oh stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read through this thread and didn’t read any comments about the fetishizing of white men by using the term BWC....

Over the years I have noticed a few posters pop into every BBC appreciation thread , and lambast anyone who loves BBC as some sort of racist .... They cry out they hate the term BBC and it should be banned from the swinging vernacular.....

I have vehemently defended anyone’s choice to appreciate BBC and told these posters .... Black men don’t need anyone speaking for us..... We are perfectly capable of speaking for ourselves...

Now in this thread about BWC and black women preferring/appreciating them.... No one is fetishizing and it’s perfectly alright to call a white man a BWC = big white cock....

I’m not upset nor trying to hijack this thread.... I’m just writing down the hypocrisy I see constantly on these forums......

Carry on...

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I read through this thread and didn’t read any comments about the fetishizing of white men by using the term BWC....

Over the years I have noticed a few posters pop into every BBC appreciation thread , and lambast anyone who loves BBC as some sort of racist .... They cry out they hate the term BBC and it should be banned from the swinging vernacular.....

I have vehemently defended anyone’s choice to appreciate BBC and told these posters .... Black men don’t need anyone speaking for us..... We are perfectly capable of speaking for ourselves...

Now in this thread about BWC and black women preferring/appreciating them.... No one is fetishizing and it’s perfectly alright to call a white man a BWC = big white cock....

I’m not upset nor trying to hijack this thread.... I’m just writing down the hypocrisy I see constantly on these forums......

Carry on...

"

Thanks but don’t create an issue on this thread that doesn’t exist for us please.

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Imo black women are underappreciated in general.

I think many put that they are into black men only on their profiles so they don't have to go through all the 'ive never been with a chocolate princess' bullshit before. Not their job to educate white men on how to treat a black woman. So putting that down sloves one problem.

I have no preference but I was chatting to the male half of a white couple and he constantly kept calling me a chocolate slut, it really annoyed me. "

Wow! Cheeky I would have BLOCKED.

You look real nice and sexy my Caribbean queen.

T.

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