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"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx" Loving the stockings and heels too. Very sexy | |||
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"Nothing like bareback " Exactly x | |||
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"we also prefer bareback, but only with couples. " Nice one x | |||
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"Nothing like bareback Exactly x" naughty but nice | |||
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"I dated a sexual health nurse for 3 years... I wouldnt sleep for weeks if I had unprotected sex now Big risk, big rewards I guess lol" Does that include protected oral? You use a dental dam when giving a woman oral? Or condom when receiving? Just wondered. i bet she had some gristly tales to tell you about what she saw daily. | |||
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"Not one to preach but I think I have the solution to having the safest sex possible. Everyone, and I mean everyone wears a strapon. " Interesting.... strspon gang bang? I'm in | |||
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"Nothing like bareback " Absolutely 100% agree, personally condoms put me off. Yes I know the risks, but I’m an adult and I can make that choice. | |||
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"I dated a sexual health nurse for 3 years... I wouldnt sleep for weeks if I had unprotected sex now Big risk, big rewards I guess lol Does that include protected oral? You use a dental dam when giving a woman oral? Or condom when receiving? Just wondered. i bet she had some gristly tales to tell you about what she saw daily. " An all or nothing kinda guy | |||
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"Nothing like bareback Absolutely 100% agree, personally condoms put me off. Yes I know the risks, but I’m an adult and I can make that choice. " | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? " Mask | |||
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"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. " Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking . | |||
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"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking ." It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum. | |||
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"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking . It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum. " Masks will be compulsory for a while now ,wonder which is most uncomfortable,mask or a condom . Lol | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx" Bareback all the way | |||
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"And condoms are not compulsory " Not even in public ?! X | |||
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"And condoms are not compulsory " Aah ok. So you will wait till they make it compulsory for having sex with others ? Hmm wonder what will you do then ? Just asking | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx" Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. | |||
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"And condoms are not compulsory Aah ok. So you will wait till they make it compulsory for having sex with others ? Hmm wonder what will you do then ? Just asking " These are two separate matters imo. Neither should need to be compulsory and own wisdom and judgement should be used for both. You can control who gives you something through being fucked. Not wearing a mask is different because they don't need to strip you naked at shove it inside you to pass it along. Two very different things. | |||
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"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking . It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum. " | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. " Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way. Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you. | |||
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"Nothing like the feel of cock. Rubber takes away the feel of every curve vein and the shape of the head mmmm" 100% rubber is an awful thing, useless you have some pencil marks to get rid of | |||
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"We love bareback we find condoms kill the mood plus he loves it when my pussy is full of cum. We're happy to you them if others want though " Offcourse ,with own partner bareback is the best and how it should be ,natural but with others it's condoms ,just like we use mask outdoors not at home . | |||
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"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx" Bareback is best but only when exclusive and checks have been carried out! | |||
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"I can see the appeal if a partners tested and strictly play with that group. But how can you trust them? Often been asked to play bare in the past. Did it once and was worriedtill results came back clear. Not worth it." I think the bareback couples ,keep their reports handy before play. So other cpls can exchange the reports ,make sure everyone is safe and then proceed to play . That's my understanding so far . | |||
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"As someone who's brother had aids and seen gonorrhoea and syphilis first hand. I would never bb unless I got to know my meets very well. I think married couples are predominantly safer and two couples bb is probably pretty safe. Just remember guys and girls there is only one drug now to treat gonorrhoea and several strains of totally untreatable.. So be careful. Thats why clubs have condoms. Nothing worse im told than going for a piss with a snotty cock and pissing razors. All that said. Its how you feel at the moment. I know ive broken my own rules. " Worrying there is only one drug left. Safe only for us. | |||
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"As someone who's brother had aids and seen gonorrhoea and syphilis first hand. I would never bb unless I got to know my meets very well. I think married couples are predominantly safer and two couples bb is probably pretty safe. Just remember guys and girls there is only one drug now to treat gonorrhoea and several strains of totally untreatable.. So be careful. Thats why clubs have condoms. Nothing worse im told than going for a piss with a snotty cock and pissing razors. All that said. Its how you feel at the moment. I know ive broken my own rules. Worrying there is only one drug left. Safe only for us. " Precisely. Antibiotics are gradually becoming less effective as they are being used more. So to the people who say “my body my choice” I would say “educate yourself”. This is actually a social issue, not what colour you want to paint your kitchen. | |||
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"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx" This!!! x | |||
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"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx" With random folks? | |||
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"We all prefer it but some of us prefer not to get pregnant or ill" So true | |||
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"Nothing like bareback " So true | |||
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"To add, zero judgement here just wondering how you deal with overcoming the downsides " We would also love to know... again no judgement x | |||
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"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something " That’s definitely not us | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? " Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page. Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page. Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach " Seems that way don’t it. And they say no judgement but it’s a controversial topic so I honestly don’t know what they expect. Fair enough each to their own. But let’s say for example they play with someone who plays safe and condom splits and they haven’t been checked. So that means they don’t know what they have the man who’s condom has split don’t know. So I can understand why there is judgment. And I hope everyone who is reading who does play it safe checks themselves after a meet with these people who don’t play safe. | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page. Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach Seems that way don’t it. And they say no judgement but it’s a controversial topic so I honestly don’t know what they expect. Fair enough each to their own. But let’s say for example they play with someone who plays safe and condom splits and they haven’t been checked. So that means they don’t know what they have the man who’s condom has split don’t know. So I can understand why there is judgment. And I hope everyone who is reading who does play it safe checks themselves after a meet with these people who don’t play safe. " Its a bit like carrying on life as per normal during this pandemic without taking any of the precautions and safety measures seriously. Not following the safety advise and living life on chance and hope that it doesn't happen to you. Well good luck | |||
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"Hi May I ask what is Hvs 2 " Commonly known as genital herpes. | |||
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"Nothing like bareback " Fully agree but got to be safe | |||
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"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something " I’m honest from the start, if someone doesn’t want bareback then we won’t meet. I am tested regularly of course. | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page. Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach " the only protection i take is to tie my feet to the bottom of the bed dont wana be a loose top on a shaken bottle of pepsi | |||
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"Nothing like bareback " I'd agree. Pretty selective but love it. | |||
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"Only bareback with recent upto date negative test results. And i mean recent, like a couple days. Amazingly, on the day of meeting my recent partner from here, both our test results came back negative on the day we met, so we didnt use condoms. We couldnt contain our excitement. Bareback is best. Love giving creampies too. " I always have protection on hand though, prep for just incase and condoms. Especially for meets who aint been tested recently. Sorry but not taking that risk. | |||
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"All our creampie pics are from guys other than my husband, we both love bb x We are users of Prep for those who asked about it x" Would love to creampie you x | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way. Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you. " Hear hear If you dont want safe sex dont tick that box. Thats how we see who's a good match so just be honest. | |||
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"Mixed feelings no I don’t do unprotected sex but do unprotected blow jobs so I really don’t know . Confused " oral sex is less risk than penetrative sex for sure, and safer again if theres no ejaculation in mouth. still not 100% safe though. | |||
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"we would love to play bb with others, but for us the risk is too high, we only go bb between ourselves. as for testing, whats to stop someone having a test and then meeting someone else before you who had something?" Exactly that - a test, any test is potentially only accurate at the time of taking it. | |||
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"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?" Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers. Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. | |||
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"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for? Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers. Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. " Plus ive only been seeing my two regulars for the last couple months. Strangers...no way. | |||
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"we would love to play bb with others, but for us the risk is too high, we only go bb between ourselves. as for testing, whats to stop someone having a test and then meeting someone else before you who had something?Exactly that - a test, any test is potentially only accurate at the time of taking it." Yes. My test results come quick usually same day, next day for hiv and a few others. If it aint recent, its a no. And i ask questions. | |||
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"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for? Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers. Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. " See, and I mean no offense, "everything" rings an alarm bell. It implies someone is not thinking about the individual risks of each disease. And herpes testing is notoriously unreliable unless you definitely have it. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid." yes it does | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid." Snap. Each to their own but we will pass on the risk if getting a drippy dick or fanny. Not worth the risk at all unless you are exclusive with another cpl totally. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. Snap. Each to their own but we will pass on the risk if getting a drippy dick or fanny. Not worth the risk at all unless you are exclusive with another cpl totally. " I get where you are coming from, totally. There is no action without risk, even setting your foot outside the front door. That said, Risk is not a binary choice per se, there are risk mitigations you can put in place e.g. using a condom or reducing the number of partners to name but two. It is a personal choice what level of risk you accept as comfortable and that depends on your personal risk appetite. | |||
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" ....oral sex is less risk than penetrative sex for sure, and safer again if theres no ejaculation in mouth. still not 100% safe though." Ejaculation is always an eye opener! | |||
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"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for? Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers. Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. See, and I mean no offense, "everything" rings an alarm bell. It implies someone is not thinking about the individual risks of each disease. And herpes testing is notoriously unreliable unless you definitely have it." Agree totally. | |||
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"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something " In the 25 years or so that I've 'played' with other men's wives, it's predominately been bareback - although originally, I did use condoms if requested... ....but a number of times when they were supposed to be used, they weren't - at the instigation of the wives on a couple of occasions, and at that of the husband on another... ....which eventually led me to make a conscious decision to exclusively play bareback. I'm upfront about it in my profile text, and it's obvious in a few of my photos - resulting in meets with couples who prefer to play the same way... Plus, of course, 'blocks' from those who don't... | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way. Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you. " It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex . | |||
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"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer" . It’s all about respect for the people you are playing with | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way. Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you. It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex ." Well put, sir | |||
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"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer" No id be happy they looked after my health and each others. John | |||
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" I only play bareback and love it. Still standing" Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom? | |||
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" I only play bareback and love it. Still standing Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom? " As hiv is a killer along with good old genital warts which once caught its with you for life abd you get regular out breaks. | |||
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" I only play bareback and love it. Still standing Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom? As hiv is a killer along with good old genital warts which once caught its with you for life abd you get regular out breaks. " This thought alone makes me think condoms are a must, even though bareback is great | |||
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" I only play bareback and love it. Still standing Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom? " If you think it’s ruined sex with a condom why are you messaging people that make it clear on profiles tneh don’t play bare? (Not just the tick box, specifically written) | |||
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"It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex ." Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white. You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential. I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative... | |||
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"It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex . Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white. You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential. I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative..." Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM? | |||
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"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? " I heard it was a good bog brush and detol afterwords really clean all the cum out and leave it squeaky clean for the next user.. | |||
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"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer" Yes I would! | |||
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"Best is bare and regularly tested " Do you take your test reports on every meet and show others ? Just asking Also do you get to see test results of other people too? Or you guys just trust each other's words that you are clean? | |||
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"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. " Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex . I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people. It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife. I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice . Some of them don't say anything unless asked . | |||
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"Perhaps bareback should be in the options to enable a search to be made" What do you think ,why it's not an option ? | |||
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"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex . I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people. It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife. I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice . Some of them don't say anything unless asked . " I'm not sure it would harm their chances if they were more upfront about it as loads seem to like it but in the past we've met couples who say they only play safe then it later transpires they almost never do, for us this is even more reason to play it safe so to speak. | |||
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"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex . I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people. It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife. I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice . Some of them don't say anything unless asked . I'm not sure it would harm their chances if they were more upfront about it as loads seem to like it but in the past we've met couples who say they only play safe then it later transpires they almost never do, for us this is even more reason to play it safe so to speak. " Agree | |||
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"Best is bare and regularly tested Do you take your test reports on every meet and show others ? Just asking Also do you get to see test results of other people too? Or you guys just trust each other's words that you are clean?" And this is the real worry. Most except each others words they are clean | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx" I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha | |||
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"Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white. You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential. I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative... Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM?" Go for it | |||
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"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex . I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people. It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife. I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice . Some of them don't say anything unless asked . " I wouldn’t say anything unless asked, as I don’t think it is actually anyone’s business how I play until a person choses to make it their business by expressing an interest in playing with me. Then I can say how I would like to play with them, which may not be how I play with other regular and long term partners. This has been an interesting thread due to the openness of the views and also as some have it clearly states for them it isn’t always isn’t a black and white question. Thanks for all the comments. Very educational. | |||
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"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex . I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people. It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife. I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice . Some of them don't say anything unless asked . I'm not sure it would harm their chances if they were more upfront about it as loads seem to like it but in the past we've met couples who say they only play safe then it later transpires they almost never do, for us this is even more reason to play it safe so to speak. " It happened with us couple of times,shocked us . We later found out that some men can't get erection with condoms in situ, and some women have rubber allergy. Now the later reason is clearly mentioned ,the former one is not . And not judging them but people who like bb sex should mention it clearly on their profile or stay away from safe sex cpls . The friction comes when they try to coerce you into bb sex by asking you to become their regulars. | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha " I do. I know the risks and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about them occasionally. But men cumming inside me gives me a sense of connection and satisfaction that I just can't get from safe sex. It honestly does spoil sex for me a lot mentally and emotionally. So I'm just completely honest about it, try to be selective, get tested regularly, and stay up to to date on vaccines. I'll probably also use prep when meeting others again. I totally understand those that wish to have the extra protection and don't want to meet, that's completely fine, fortunately most people I've spoken or played with are happy going bare Xx | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha I do. I know the risks and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about them occasionally. But men cumming inside me gives me a sense of connection and satisfaction that I just can't get from safe sex. It honestly does spoil sex for me a lot mentally and emotionally. So I'm just completely honest about it, try to be selective, get tested regularly, and stay up to to date on vaccines. I'll probably also use prep when meeting others again. I totally understand those that wish to have the extra protection and don't want to meet, that's completely fine, fortunately most people I've spoken or played with are happy going bare Xx" Very well put x | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha I do. I know the risks and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about them occasionally. But men cumming inside me gives me a sense of connection and satisfaction that I just can't get from safe sex. It honestly does spoil sex for me a lot mentally and emotionally. So I'm just completely honest about it, try to be selective, get tested regularly, and stay up to to date on vaccines. I'll probably also use prep when meeting others again. I totally understand those that wish to have the extra protection and don't want to meet, that's completely fine, fortunately most people I've spoken or played with are happy going bare Xx" I completely agree with you. It is about constant risk assessment. There are people I have played with bare in the past that I have stopped playing with as it wasn’t regular enough to justify the risk. That said I am talking to two couples who have made it clear they want bare play. One right away and the other after being tested and knowing it is going to be regular and long term. The terms of play have become, naturally, more complicated than when I used condoms as standard, and I still use condoms to see certain people I have seen often. | |||
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"Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white. You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential. I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative... Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM? Go for it " Unfortunately, I'm not a site supporter. Thank you for being willing to take the question though! | |||
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"Bareback for me please xx I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha I do. I know the risks and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about them occasionally. But men cumming inside me gives me a sense of connection and satisfaction that I just can't get from safe sex. It honestly does spoil sex for me a lot mentally and emotionally. So I'm just completely honest about it, try to be selective, get tested regularly, and stay up to to date on vaccines. I'll probably also use prep when meeting others again. I totally understand those that wish to have the extra protection and don't want to meet, that's completely fine, fortunately most people I've spoken or played with are happy going bare Xx" Youre totally entitled to do what you want and you've clearly put a lot of thought into it and took the necessary precautions! You do you girl! | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid." That’s not a very kind thing to say. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. " I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. " Not at all unkind. I do not disrespect their choice of bb play. But would i ever play with them, no way ever. I also respect my health and will not endanger me or jenny by playing with bb players even if they were willing to play safe. And thats our choice so hope the people playing bb respect that also in return! | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. " Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. Not at all unkind. I do not disrespect their choice of bb play. But would i ever play with them, no way ever. I also respect my health and will not endanger me or jenny by playing with bb players even if they were willing to play safe. And thats our choice so hope the people playing bb respect that also in return! " The thread isn’t asking would you play with them or inviting people to post who don’t choose this type of sexual gratification. In my mind the people coming into the thread and condemning are only doing so to be unkind to the bareback lovers. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive." I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... " I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. " By your reply in defending it i gather you play russian rulettee also then. Us disagreeing with playing with barebackers is just as valid as them saying they love playing bb. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. " I have no intention of spoiling anybody's thread - I am not sure how I can prove that to you, perhaps it does not matter anyway. I will say this though: I genuinely believe that many threads invite, directly or indirectly a conversation and this is something to celebrate. If only people of the same opinion posted on a thread, we would find ourselves in an echo chamber rather than in a proper conversation. To me that defeats the object of conversation if you only want to engage with those who completely agree with you an a specific topic? I will continue to post my views, in a respectful way, on the threads I find interesting and worth posting on. I will bow out here as there really is not much else I can usefully add to this. I genuinely wish you and all bb supporters well. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. By your reply in defending it i gather you play russian rulettee also then. Us disagreeing with playing with barebackers is just as valid as them saying they love playing bb. " Agree, that is what I was trying to say - you said it more clearly | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. " It's a public forum, no one should be surprised by or so upset by the fact that others with different views are equally able to contribute.. Regardless of the issue.. | |||
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"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid. That’s not a very kind thing to say. I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment. I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices. The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive. I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference. I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite. If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ... I didn’t accuse you of anything. I made a general statement. If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback. Also just a suggestion. It's a public forum, no one should be surprised by or so upset by the fact that others with different views are equally able to contribute.. Regardless of the issue.." This! I also come on these threads to nosey at the guys... I’ve had a fair few in my inbox asking to meet (after covid) who on these threads are saying it’s bare or nothing lol. Like to nosey at the ones who say what you want to hear ha x | |||
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"I agree....people can bring different aspects to the thread. As long as its tasteful and respectful. I enjoy bareback but its not always possible or even sensible. However, i enjoy oral and covering up that pussy and not enjoying my lovers taste is not gonna happen. So its why i now only have a fwb situation where both know how sexually safe we are. " Exactly. As long as everyone’s open honest and respectful having differing opinions is good | |||
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