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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it because of personality of older men?

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

?? do they - all?

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

Dominance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The classic explanation is that men are attracted to youth and physical attractiveness as it relates to health and an ability to have many children. Women are attracted to power and strength as that would mean protection from predators and the resources to look after those children.

Though we hookup with people for different reasons now, those evolutionary drivers still largely determine what we find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they have money. Common?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I was always more attracted to men aged between 30 and 39 which most of them happen to be older than me.

Men over 43 - don't do anything to me at all, not visually, not mentally.

Don't think it has anything to do with dominance or any age kinks.

It's just a mental maturity level I'm most comfortable with.

missus

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Girls tend to get mature earlier than boys. So, when men (in their teens/twenties) are struggling with their wild phase and confused about making serious decisions about life, women are about to get settled down in their life and look for a serious commitment rather than someone who is impulsive and continues to be self-centred.

Older men already know what they want from their life and it’s generally stability; they’re not going to mess with their partner or their partner’s life. They’re likely to be more caring, sincere and experienced as well, they know exactly the right way of making their women feel special and cared for.

Older men are likely to be financially more stable and established than younger men.

Older men don’t have to act like peacocks to attract a mate. They present themselves in a much subtler way; think personally tailored suit and Aston Martin rather than Top Shop off-the-peg and a Ford Fiesta with racing stripes and a blown exhaust.

Older men can provide their partners with the sense of emotional (patience, care and trust) and mental security which is one of the basic needs of any relationship. They tend to think critically and non-impulsively.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/mar/02/evolution.genetics

Your mileage may vary.

Loz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they? I’ve not noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a real man will show them how a woman needs to b treated ( over 25s I’m talking just so no confusion lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they? I’ve not noticed"

That's quite hilarious.

Women tend to be more agreeable on personality tests, which could be mistaken for maturity. Yeah, you'd have to say what you mean by mature, there maybe a bit of a myth going on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always preferred men a little bit older than me because I find they are more respectful x

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Because they have lived and learnt and not grown up in the era of being a disrespectful arsehole

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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby border

Great isn’t it

Happy with my little Foxy

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"I was always more attracted to men aged between 30 and 39 which most of them happen to be older than me.

Men over 43 - don't do anything to me at all, not visually, not mentally.

Don't think it has anything to do with dominance or any age kinks.

It's just a mental maturity level I'm most comfortable with.

missus "

Can I have dirk in 4 years then? When he's expired

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

Experience

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By *hegreyMan
over a year ago

Ripon

I must have missed something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience not arrogance

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I suspect maturity, experience and comfortable in their own skin, off the top of my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect maturity, experience and comfortable in their own skin, off the top of my head."

All of that could be said about older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great isn’t it

Happy with my little Foxy"

Stunning! Xx

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Growing up, men tend to mature slower than women, so as a teenager i was dating a couple years older. Growing up more, this increased a bit and i simply found older men attractive.

Think i took it a bit too far at a young age by dating someone 26 years older while i was entering my 20s. Just wasnt for me. He is still a dear friend and part of the family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've come across it generally, maybe it's more of a personal preference.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I suspect maturity, experience and comfortable in their own skin, off the top of my head.

All of that could be said about older women."

I like older women too

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I was always more attracted to men aged between 30 and 39 which most of them happen to be older than me.

Men over 43 - don't do anything to me at all, not visually, not mentally.

Don't think it has anything to do with dominance or any age kinks.

It's just a mental maturity level I'm most comfortable with.

missus

Can I have dirk in 4 years then? When he's expired "

Dirk will never expire. He's an excellent exception to all rules

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

25 yrs between me and my last.....never again!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm an (ever so slightly) older guy and I had very little attention from young females. So OP, I really wish that you were right but (from my experience) you're way off the mark.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Girls tend to get mature earlier than boys. So, when men (in their teens/twenties) are struggling with their wild phase and confused about making serious decisions about life, women are about to get settled down in their life and look for a serious commitment rather than someone who is impulsive and continues to be self-centred.

Older men already know what they want from their life and it’s generally stability; they’re not going to mess with their partner or their partner’s life. They’re likely to be more caring, sincere and experienced as well, they know exactly the right way of making their women feel special and cared for.

Older men are likely to be financially more stable and established than younger men.

Older men don’t have to act like peacocks to attract a mate. They present themselves in a much subtler way; think personally tailored suit and Aston Martin rather than Top Shop off-the-peg and a Ford Fiesta with racing stripes and a blown exhaust.

Older men can provide their partners with the sense of emotional (patience, care and trust) and mental security which is one of the basic needs of any relationship. They tend to think critically and non-impulsively.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/mar/02/evolution.genetics

Your mileage may vary.

Loz

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Spot on

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By *ancsmancsMan
over a year ago

Skipton

Do they where are they

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not as black and white as that. Though with older men they've at least had longer to grow up and also to learn a thing or two about how women's bodies work. Though I've met men 10+ years older where I felt like the more adult one and younger men who were mature and great in bed. As I said, not black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope younger lol

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"I've always preferred men a little bit older than me because I find they are more respectful x"

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We are

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Because they have lived and learnt and not grown up in the era of being a disrespectful arsehole"

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True

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Great isn’t it

Happy with my little Foxy"

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Looks like you 2 enjoy yourselfs.

Very nice

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

They don't need a sat nav to find the way around a womans body.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Is it because of personality of older men? "
do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just glad that some women and couples do like older men - gives guys like me a chance!!

I think maybe a few things that have been said are true

Respectful, knowledgeable about how to please, reliable, available - etc.

Many people have an age cut off way below though as prefer younger

It takes all sorts - thankfully

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I prefer younger myself

C

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London

Daddy issues

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's always lovely when I get a message from a young lady saying they find me appealing!

At 64 though, it doesn't happen very often

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By *i-huyMan
over a year ago

comber

One of the best and sexiest things I have seen is my wife with a much older guy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fucking news to be. Most assume my next stop is heaven (and not the sexy place).

At 55 i'm a sex mad, porn watching, cock wanking, perv with a permanent hard on looking for someone up for the challenge of fucking me for hours!

If a dominant older man who wants to pin you down and give you a good stuffing followed by a face full of spunk is what you want message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is too old

I had an 82

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience, confidence, dominance, ease of demeanour in mixed company and mindful of the lady's needs as well as his own x

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Experience, confidence, dominance, ease of demeanour in mixed company and mindful of the lady's needs as well as his own x"

Oh, that - my spokesperson has spoken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a scientific study on this topic. All young women prefer older men as their balls hang lower so they're easier to punch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental and emotional maturity and experience/skill in bed. This is a generalisation of course xx

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The few approaches I've received from apparently much younger women have mostly turned out to be from fakes/timewasters...

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Experience, confidence, dominance, ease of demeanour in mixed company and mindful of the lady's needs as well as his own x

Oh, that - my spokesperson has spoken lol"

Love that you like the naughty grandads!! Lol

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Mental and emotional maturity and experience/skill in bed. This is a generalisation of course xx"

I'm pleased to say that I do qualify! Lol xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I must admit it's very rare to find a couple on here where the male is more than 5 years younger than the female. The vast majority of couples profile the male is older. And a large percentage of couples profiles on here where the male is 10 years plus on the female.

So definitely something in it. I suspect its partly subconsciously evolutional and based in gender norms and the division of power (not just financial). Obviously again a generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find older guys a turn off....much prefer guys my own age!

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By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

portslade


"Great isn’t it

Happy with my little Foxy"

I bet you are-you lucky sod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls tend to get mature earlier than boys. So, when men (in their teens/twenties) are struggling with their wild phase and confused about making serious decisions about life, women are about to get settled down in their life and look for a serious commitment rather than someone who is impulsive and continues to be self-centred.

Older men already know what they want from their life and it’s generally stability; they’re not going to mess with their partner or their partner’s life. They’re likely to be more caring, sincere and experienced as well, they know exactly the right way of making their women feel special and cared for.

Older men are likely to be financially more stable and established than younger men.

Older men don’t have to act like peacocks to attract a mate. They present themselves in a much subtler way; think personally tailored suit and Aston Martin rather than Top Shop off-the-peg and a Ford Fiesta with racing stripes and a blown exhaust.

Older men can provide their partners with the sense of emotional (patience, care and trust) and mental security which is one of the basic needs of any relationship. They tend to think critically and non-impulsively.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/mar/02/evolution.genetics

Your mileage may vary.

Loz

"

Well said. Could not have put it any better. My young very sexy friend has a boyfriend 32 yrs older then her. It's all about the things mentioned above. It's not about money really.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

This made me think about research I heard about. Which makes me wonder if in general males make better partners when 30+. It looked at disproportionate criminality and prison populations in males. But it noted that generally repeat offending and criminality tends to burn out late 20s onwards. The guys tend to mellow out and grow out of it. So maybe there is something desirable in many men that doesn't really mature till later in life. I've know of a few men who married young but were totally different and better husband's to their 2nd or even 3rd wife. Likewise these next wives have been considerably younger.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Seeing as OP assumes women only have one preference between us all I can safely say they don’t.

Women like younger men

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Seeing as OP assumes women only have one preference between us all I can safely say they don’t.

Women like younger men "

And I never liked them when I was young before anyone says anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing as OP assumes women only have one preference between us all I can safely say they don’t.

Women like younger men "

WOOOOO!! We like you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any younger ladies want me , I am available, I m fucking loaded a well if that helps lol xx

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Because where not done in 60 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They seem to have more of a maturity when it comes to sex. Can seperate sex and relationships, have more respect for the couples dynamic.

This is just my experience it doesn't mean all older men are like this and all younger ones aren't before any Karen's start

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Define "older" anyway...

I'm older than some, but younger than others....

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Age really isn’t relevant to me in the slightest for sex and clubs.

It’s all about physical attraction that’s all.

Age doesn’t = dominance or better in bed in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they......and would they like to message me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think is more the connection than age, have great connection with one 18 year old doesn't equal great with all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great isn’t it

Happy with my little Foxy"

Gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because Im amazing?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

Not for this cookie,

my yummy man is a fair bit younger

Lucky happy Lizzie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met many young women in vanilla life who have appreciated the way older guys respect them. On Fabs, I, for one, like mto chat and socialise with all ladies in my preferred age range without any expectations. This seems to appeal to younger women who complain guys of their age are just into quickies and self-gratification.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm 65. I still do OK. L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. I'm just grateful because women my own age seem less interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t lol! I like the younger studs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because of personality of older men?

Not for this cookie,

my yummy man is a fair bit younger

Lucky happy Lizzie "

A girl after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 65. I still do OK. L"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The classic explanation is that men are attracted to youth and physical attractiveness as it relates to health and an ability to have many children. Women are attracted to power and strength as that would mean protection from predators and the resources to look after those children.

Though we hookup with people for different reasons now, those evolutionary drivers still largely determine what we find attractive."

Personally, I think sexual preference is determined by environmental and social factors people are exposed to in their child development/teenage years, rather than the evolutionary perspective. Well that’s how I explain mine, because I’ve never been attracted to older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause they have money. Common? "

I don't have money and certainly don't go pretending that I have. I've had my fair share of younger ladies often. The only thing they have off me is a cuppa .. Lol

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Cause they have money. Common?

I don't have money and certainly don't go pretending that I have. I've had my fair share of younger ladies often. The only thing they have off me is a cuppa .. Lol "

Don’t think the cup of tea is the only reason...but it did get my interest! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been into older men at all, prefer my age and 10, 15 years tops, younger than myself.

Have found older men tend to be far to set in their ways for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm yet to find one lol

Although I am still young at heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

Personally older men are generally more experience

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

older men have to take their time which gives more pleasure to the ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For there money

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

This!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because of personality of older men?

Personally older men are generally more experience"

And some are extra generous xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this is the sugar daddy generation honestly, it's always been a thing prelevrent among woman looking for a rich man etc. Old geeza Usually worth millions with a hot young trophy wife, but now I just feel like girls my age are happy to fuck a old guy if she gets £100 a month from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own though ey

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"They don't need a sat nav to find the way around a womans body. "

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FAB Answer

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Mental and emotional maturity and experience/skill in bed. This is a generalisation of course xx"

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But true in a lot of cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 20 years younger then hubby my thing was his old school attitude.

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"They seem to have more of a maturity when it comes to sex. Can seperate sex and relationships, have more respect for the couples dynamic.

This is just my experience it doesn't mean all older men are like this and all younger ones aren't before any Karen's start "

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Great points there

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"I am 20 years younger then hubby my thing was his old school attitude."

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And a very lucky man he is too

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

I was with a 22 year old 2 weeks ago.

Had no complaints as far as I know.

But im Polite-Friendly-Complimentary-kind-honest-respectful.

And that counts for a lot imho.

Was great fun.

But that age gap meet is rare in my experience.

T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies"

Suspect there are a number of young ladies who like a man who knows what a clit and g-spot are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies

Suspect there are a number of young ladies who like a man who knows what a clit and g-spot are."

You'd be surprised how experienced some young lads are...

Also from my experience on here...the young lads show more respect than SOME of their older counterparts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies"
very much agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies very much agree xx"

Basically cause we look better and drive volvos I’m no sugar daddy unless she loves TK-Max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies

Suspect there are a number of young ladies who like a man who knows what a clit and g-spot are.

You'd be surprised how experienced some young lads are...

Also from my experience on here...the young lads show more respect than SOME of their older counterparts"

You d*unk love ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies

Suspect there are a number of young ladies who like a man who knows what a clit and g-spot are.

You'd be surprised how experienced some young lads are...

Also from my experience on here...the young lads show more respect than SOME of their older counterparts

You d*unk love ? "

No I'm not intoxicated...It's a fact & some young lads are very quick to learn... Excellent sex students...I must say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies"

No the common dominator is I don’t drive my ma’s Nissan micra I wouldn’t buy a girl nothing except deodorant ! Your obviously one of them ! Yawn !

And wealth doesn’t play a big part in this site ? Maybe for you but I don’t talk about how many Casio watches I have I’m not a show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men automatically assume sugar daddy. How about just assume they are fantastic together.Quit being dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men automatically assume sugar daddy. How about just assume they are fantastic together.Quit being dicks "

You quit been a dick !

She’s been riding me all night with her bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the true answer to every thread like this is: people like other people for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women "
sorry you lost me at percentages and then survey really bored the fuck out of me sorry I’ll read it the next time I’m on the luas

I don’t need a fancy survey to tell me what I already know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the true answer to every thread like this is: people like other people for various reasons. "

True but she mainly likes them for there money ! Just saying !

Anyway well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men automatically assume sugar daddy. How about just assume they are fantastic together.Quit being dicks "
hows the ranch ? Must be warm there now right ? You shoot anything this week ? Im curious ?

I’ve shot nothing

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By *ensiveMan
over a year ago

Lincoln area


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women "

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady"

That escalated quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady"

"Spoken like a bitter ageing cat"

Who rocked your boat??? There's absolutely nothing "bitter" about my comment... absolutely zero...

I much prefer younger men so older men aren't & never were my `thing`.

Can you elaborate on your comment please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady

"Spoken like a bitter ageing cat"

Who rocked your boat??? There's absolutely nothing "bitter" about my comment... absolutely zero...

I much prefer younger men so older men aren't & never were my `thing`.

Can you elaborate on your comment please."

Cmon you definitely hoard a shit load of cats and eat beans from the can !

Pop tarts is Sunday dinner !

But that will all change when you meet a 20year old Bitcoin millionaire or a dip shit Instagram influencer !

That’s going to prank you all day to make money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women usually does around this time as you know !

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady

That escalated quickly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tia you know we are only joking well I definitely am

But that dude seemed pretty serious about the cat comment tho ! Ha

There was venom behind that ! But all in good fun we wer taking the piss !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tia you know we are only joking well I definitely am

But that dude seemed pretty serious about the cat comment tho ! Ha

There was venom behind that ! But all in good fun we wer taking the piss !

"

I know you are...I'm well used to you XXX

Yea the other guy though ... I don't know where he's getting "aging bitter cat lady" out of...Anyway I hope he elaborates...cos I'm far from "bitter"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tia you know we are only joking well I definitely am

But that dude seemed pretty serious about the cat comment tho ! Ha

There was venom behind that ! But all in good fun we wer taking the piss !

I know you are...I'm well used to you XXX

Yea the other guy though ... I don't know where he's getting "aging bitter cat lady" out of...Anyway I hope he elaborates...cos I'm far from "bitter" "

Right well I’ll leave you to it I won’t be on here hopefully for at least 2 weeks so chat then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

The ones I have been with say we treat them with more respect and are more experienced at pleasuring without being in a hurry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men automatically assume sugar daddy. How about just assume they are fantastic together.Quit being dicks "

Agree with this.

Arrogance isn’t attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men automatically assume sugar daddy. How about just assume they are fantastic together.Quit being dicks hows the ranch ? Must be warm there now right ? You shoot anything this week ? Im curious ?

I’ve shot nothing "

Just target practice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to find out the percentage of how many younger women prefer older men would be to conduct a survey... Some actually do find older men attractive...but I believe that to be a low percentage...Also it's a well known fact most older men prefer younger women

Spoken like a bitter ageing cat lady

"Spoken like a bitter ageing cat"

Who rocked your boat??? There's absolutely nothing "bitter" about my comment... absolutely zero...

I much prefer younger men so older men aren't & never were my `thing`.

Can you elaborate on your comment please.

Cmon you definitely hoard a shit load of cats and eat beans from the can !

Pop tarts is Sunday dinner !

But that will all change when you meet a 20year old Bitcoin millionaire or a dip shit Instagram influencer !

That’s going to prank you all day to make money

"

How did you know I like cold beans from the can ... I actually do...nothing wrong with it .... Quick protein snack fix

I bet you do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are sort of reluctant to comment on this thread but at the same time we are relevant to it with a 35 year age gap.

We met at a fetish social but actually talked about common interests, art, architecture, antiquarian books, travelling and all sorts. We did a traditional romance (mostly at fetish clubs) and moved in together within weeks of meeting 5 years ago.

Age was and wasn't important and there are some interesting references above. We like to think that we are a good couple, still very much in love and share a huge amount of our lives aside of kink and swinging.

For is it is not about money, we both had our own properties before, we can afford a glam car but sooner plod around in a 5yo Nissan bug and spend money on stuff that is more important to us.

There are also some assumptions above, some quite cynical. They might have applied to your personal circumstances but not to all.

We do get typecast in Vanilla life but anyone who cannot see that we are a meaningful couple is usually ignored.

As an aside we have participated in some academic studies about sexuality, kinks and age (as in University studies not Channel 4 lol)

The point of this ramble is really, 'don't assume'

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are sort of reluctant to comment on this thread but at the same time we are relevant to it with a 35 year age gap.

We met at a fetish social but actually talked about common interests, art, architecture, antiquarian books, travelling and all sorts. We did a traditional romance (mostly at fetish clubs) and moved in together within weeks of meeting 5 years ago.

Age was and wasn't important and there are some interesting references above. We like to think that we are a good couple, still very much in love and share a huge amount of our lives aside of kink and swinging.

For is it is not about money, we both had our own properties before, we can afford a glam car but sooner plod around in a 5yo Nissan bug and spend money on stuff that is more important to us.

There are also some assumptions above, some quite cynical. They might have applied to your personal circumstances but not to all.

We do get typecast in Vanilla life but anyone who cannot see that we are a meaningful couple is usually ignored.

As an aside we have participated in some academic studies about sexuality, kinks and age (as in University studies not Channel 4 lol)

The point of this ramble is really, 'don't assume'

D&K "

This

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

We treat them right love them as they should be loved and respect them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a minority of young women who like older men...the common dominator is financial wealth... #Sugar Daddies

Suspect there are a number of young ladies who like a man who knows what a clit and g-spot are."

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By *aughtycheshirecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

As an older man with a young wife I think it’s a number of things. We make interesting conversation because we have life experience, we know how to treat a woman and make them feel special, we know how to satisfy a woman and we make sex an experience not just a quick bang. And we know how to party lol

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

Not sure it is true.... But some ladies do find older men more patient, more considerate and also we haven't learnt about sex through dodgy online porn, most of us learnt how to be please a lady by actually pleasing a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was always more attracted to men aged between 30 and 39 which most of them happen to be older than me.

Men over 43 - don't do anything to me at all, not visually, not mentally.

Don't think it has anything to do with dominance or any age kinks.

It's just a mental maturity level I'm most comfortable with.

missus "

Surely that distinction is purely mental?

Not every man is the same physically at 43…..Jonny Vegas v. Brad Pitt, for example.

I’m not calling that out in a shitty way, btw….easy to misinterpret on t’Interweb.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer younger but that is because I am older. 40 to 50 is fine.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Cause they have money. Common? "

Age comes to us all.... Money doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an older man with a young wife I think it’s a number of things. We make interesting conversation because we have life experience, we know how to treat a woman and make them feel special, we know how to satisfy a woman and we make sex an experience not just a quick bang. And we know how to party lol "

Lol so true quick bang and in to the game console the guys my age constantly did that.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm not sure that's true. I find it really difficult to arrange meets on here

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"I've always preferred men a little bit older than me because I find they are more respectful x"

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Dunstable Beds areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

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Because we are

. Experienced

. Charming

. Polite

. Generous

. Caring

. Loving

. Still able

Bar that I'm not quite sure tbh.

Any ladies younger or older like this why not say hello.

BigT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because of personality of older men? "

Hmmmm.... I like men my age or younger personally. Just my preference. It's very rare I have my head turned by an older guy. The new Captain Birdseye is one example.

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