FabSwingers.com forum: When the couple prefers the condom to cum off.

By *ifePleaserXX OP Man
over a year ago

near you

Of course safe sex should always be the priority in my opinion but it appears that from a number of meets and interactions that a couple can sometimes gain sufficient trust and confidence to encourage the solo guy to remove the condom and have bareback sex. Is this a common fantasy for both wife and husband to turn into a reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a couple, but I am a wife and yes, I prefer it xx

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are quite open about the fact that we prefer without.

In our experience a surprisingly high percentage of couples are quite happy to dispense with condoms. Not the majority perhaps but a lot.

They don't advertise this because of the concerns that it will draw abuse and limit the chances of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a deal breaker for me safe or I’m gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a couple, but I am a wife and yes, I prefer it xx"

Even as sexy and juicy as you are I’d still be wrapping up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s a deal breaker for me safe or I’m gone "

Well said

it's very rare we find guys like you here .

Yes most single guys are ready to play bb but knowingly they put their real partners at risk too.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Pretty much what led to me exclusively playing bareback, after a few instances where condoms were meant to be used but when it came to it, weren't - a couple of times at the instigation of the wives I was playing with, once at that of a husband...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s a deal breaker for me safe or I’m gone

Well said

it's very rare we find guys like you here .

Yes most single guys are ready to play bb but knowingly they put their real partners at risk too."

Not just that but I’m baffle how people can be so blasé about there own sexual health , condone have come such a long way and yes it’s not skin on skin but some brands are so good now it’s pretty close, I e stoped to check it’s still on before now, I’m no kill joy just try some of the other brands people and keep safe.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

If it's not safe then i don't play, i don't care if you prefer it i prefer not having an STI or worse, and my health isn't yours to decide on.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"If it's not safe then i don't play, i don't care if you prefer it i prefer not having an STI or worse, and my health isn't yours to decide on."

And we don't care that you don't care.

There are plenty of folks in both camps on this issue on fab. We are open about it so anyone can decide whether to contact us or not dependent upon their stance.

Your opinion is clear so we wouldn't be interested in meeting you anyway so your health is perfectly safe.

Unless of course your condom breaks!!!

Could it be that swinging is just dangerous?

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

"If it's not safe then i don't play, i don't care if you prefer it i prefer not having an STI or worse, and my health isn't yours to decide on.

And we don't care that you don't care.

There are plenty of folks in both camps on this issue on fab. We are open about it so anyone can decide whether to contact us or not dependent upon their stance.

Your opinion is clear so we wouldn't be interested in meeting you anyway so your health is perfectly safe.

Unless of course your condom breaks!!!

Could it be that swinging is just dangerous?"

Everything has risks it’s up to you how you manage them. I could choose to not wear a seatbelt in a car because it might break but I’d prefer to lessen my chances of what might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course safe sex should always be the priority in my opinion but it appears that from a number of meets and interactions that a couple can sometimes gain sufficient trust and confidence to encourage the solo guy to remove the condom and have bareback sex. Is this a common fantasy for both wife and husband to turn into a reality?"

Not for us

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"If it's not safe then i don't play, i don't care if you prefer it i prefer not having an STI or worse, and my health isn't yours to decide on.

And we don't care that you don't care.

There are plenty of folks in both camps on this issue on fab. We are open about it so anyone can decide whether to contact us or not dependent upon their stance.

Your opinion is clear so we wouldn't be interested in meeting you anyway so your health is perfectly safe.

Unless of course your condom breaks!!!

Could it be that swinging is just dangerous?

Everything has risks it’s up to you how you manage them. I could choose to not wear a seatbelt in a car because it might break but I’d prefer to lessen my chances of what might happen"

Ok. Now we are beginning to agree on something. It is as you recognise a issue of risk assessment. We simply draw the line differently.

There are those who are in a genuinely monogamous relationship that would regard everyone on fab is insanely reckless.

And they have a point. One swinger lecturing other swingers on safe sex seems to me to be ridiculous. We are adults after all and free to make our own judgement without being trolled or abused by other swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be surprised how many couples do play bare secretly xxxx

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've been asked before a meet bb no way all the dieses going around ain't worth it for a bit of sex if its regular and both tested then fine

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

After a few times yes we both love it and Ben loves fucking my pussy with a load up there already

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

These days I wouldn't bother if it says says safe sex on the profile even though there's a good chance it'll be BB on the night. It's my choice and others to do whatever they want.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"After a few times yes we both love it and Ben loves fucking my pussy with a load up there already "

Yes I do so love a pussy aready filled with cum.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we like it better with out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to build up trust and then make a decision

In a club then we will always play safe but we have played bareback after a few meets.

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By *ixfootinthecityMan
over a year ago

London

Sex obviously feels better without condoms, but buy decent ones and sex is still fucking great. Fucking is so much more than that base sensation of pussy against cock.

It’s connection, that moment where nothing else matters, kissing, pressure, pain, passion, excitement, dynamics, naked bodies, a thumb on a clit, a nipple in the mouth...for me, all those together with the added comfort on not thinking about your playmate’s recent sexual history far outweigh the extra feeling of wet flesh on bell end. Especially when playing in the promiscuommunity.

For some it’s worth the extra risk, I don’t judge that, although for the sake of the rest of us I hope you test regularly. For others the extra risk is a turn on. For me I’d rather wait until we’d become regular playmates or FWBs and after some courtesy tests and a bit more knowledge of what we’ve all been up to, in, or on over the last few weeks I’m more than happy to ditch the jonnies and go natural. Then there’s some extra anticipation too!

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Safe sex every day for me, I hate playing roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lise prefers bareback and the feeling of a guys cum shooting inside her and I adore going in second and feeling that smooth wet fuck you get pushing a guys cum deeper into her wet cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.not with us it isnt

Safe sex or no sex.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Safe all the way unless tested and regular then I'll jetwash inside u

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Rules of the game for me is if there's no rubber, there's no game play. Really is that simple.

You wouldn't expect to jump out of a plane without a parachute now would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex obviously feels better without condoms, but buy decent ones and sex is still fucking great. Fucking is so much more than that base sensation of pussy against cock.

I feel the same this is spot on except for the “I don’t Judge that” part , I’d be lying if I said I didn’t judge this , the risk of catching a nasty or getting a death sentence is very real and i can’t not feel some way about the people that take those risks.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Difficult to find but always on the lookout for the couples who prefer the condoms not to go on in the first place. More than will admit to it indulge, and it definitely makes for a filthy session

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Always safe sex for me unless with an exclusive partner - even then after both being tested.

I'm here to have some fun, and a few laughs - not to put my life on the line.

Over dramatic - maybe, but rates of sexual disease transmission suggest that caution is no bad thing. Think just cos we see it less in the press and due to the advances of medicine, people willing to take more risks.

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