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By *eznhannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

ok we never ever ever would play bare back under any circumstances but just reading other debates on here made us wonder, if there was no such thing as std,s hiv, and there was a 100% birth control method, would you play bare back, we personally wouldnt as it is a bit too intimate, we dont kiss for exact same reason, please get in to the spirit of the question dont just repy, but that would never happen, cos we are aware lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Hmmmm if there were no std's,no hiv,and no worry about contraception..would condoms have been invented? lol

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By *eznhannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

bugger never took that into equation, but lets pretend they have

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Then I would prefer to use condoms as they are less messy and I really only want Rob there if you know what I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We normally save the the bareback for ourselves, and as the last event of the evening as it's a bit impolite to expect your guests to drink from a dirty cup, so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only bareback together and as of this week we don't kiss others now xx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

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"Hmmmm if there were no std's,no hiv,and no worry about contraception..would condoms have been invented? lol"

course they would what ya gonna stick on the bride on her hen night....doh

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over a year ago


"Hmmmm if there were no std's,no hiv,and no worry about contraception..would condoms have been invented? lol

course they would what ya gonna stick on the bride on her hen night....doh"

I had a gorgeous maori looking man stuck on me on my hen night lol

as well as the obligatory condoms!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

to the op ....i would go for full penetration..if safe minus a C

But i dont like kissing when in a 3 sum with a couple ...its like too much of an intrusion for me ....and has the potential for it to go wrong

and i think people need that something extra just for themselves

wimp eh ....lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"We only bareback together and as of this week we don't kiss others now xx"

Stop pinching my rules you two!

Or at least phone me and give me the gossip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never ever got the no kissing thing, when people say it to personal or to intimate, to me kissing is like any other part of sex you can have sex without making love its who you are doing the act with that makes it personal or intimate, just as i can have sex with someone with having feelings for them i can also kiss them without it feeling intimate, i don't think i could have sex with someone without kissing, to me its just to clinical, its almost like sex at arms lenth and it just don't feel right, i love forplay, i love the kissing and touching......suck this, lick that and fuck! not for me thanks lol

As for the condom thing, i always though they was there to protect you, if theres nothing to protect you from whats the point in using them? just one question that comes to mind tho is......do you use condoms and dental damms for oral? because there are STI that are passed thro oral, gential worts are only spread thro oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the no kissing thing and never will????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only bareback together and as of this week we don't kiss others now xx

Stop pinching my rules you two!

Or at least phone me and give me the gossip!"

lol yep we pinch your rules lol we found it could get very intrusive and personal so decided to keep it for us lol will give you the full gossip when you pm me your number lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never ever got the no kissing thing, when people say it to personal or to intimate, to me kissing is like any other part of sex you can have sex without making love its who you are doing the act with that makes it personal or intimate, just as i can have sex with someone with having feelings for them i can also kiss them without it feeling intimate, i don't think i could have sex with someone without kissing, to me its just to clinical, its almost like sex at arms lenth and it just don't feel right, i love forplay, i love the kissing and touching......suck this, lick that and fuck! not for me thanks lol

As for the condom thing, i always though they was there to protect you, if theres nothing to protect you from whats the point in using them? just one question that comes to mind tho is......do you use condoms and dental damms for oral? because there are STI that are passed thro oral, gential worts are only spread thro oral sex"

I agree and no we don't use condoms for oral but by using them for intercorse you reduce the risks ....and as for gential warts to can't catch them orally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would still use them as we do like to keep things for ourselves only, bareback, kissing and anal are things we only do together.

For the people who dont get the no kissing thing, I guess its just whats important to you as a couple, for us kissing is just a loving intimate thing we only want to share with each other Im sure others have things they like to keep for themselves be it watersports or watching Blue Peter lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be an idea to add that to your profile which will help those who may wish to contact you, just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very true I will add it now, although we always talk about our dos and donts straight away just incase lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be an idea to add that to your profile which will help those who may wish to contact you, just a thought "

Thanks for the tip we changed our profile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always insist on safe sex although we do kiss other people as we find it part of the fun xx

the first kiss can be just as good as anything...and us women are lucky cos we usually get two first kissess!!! lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

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"we always insist on safe sex although we do kiss other people as we find it part of the fun xx

the first kiss can be just as good as anything...and us women are lucky cos we usually get two first kissess!!! lol"

the only safe sex is no partnered sex or

sex with just your partner who you trust implicitly .Apart from that everything else is just series of ever expanding risk ...and is never 100% safe

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Will get depressed if I think too long and hard about every single risk lol in fact may never leave the house again

Actually accidents are more common in the home so may just pull duvet over my head and not come out

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By *eznhannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

maybe we are bit hypocritical really cos hannah does kiss girls, and lots of them, its just how we do things, yup think will look at our profile 2

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I hav'nt got anything about kissing on our profile

I normally always do but if they're crap then I sort of avoid it after that

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

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"Will get depressed if I think too long and hard about every single risk lol in fact may never leave the house again

Actually accidents are more common in the home so may just pull duvet over my head and not come out"

nahh as you saw from the other big bareback thread ...we crunched the official govt numbers and a hiv related

which was the only untreatable one was 3 million to one ....so ...its ok ...if your using a condom ....its not totally safe is the point ...most of the risk is from poor usage and poor choice of partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes very true I will add it now, although we always talk about our dos and donts straight away just incase lol "

No criticism of you or TANDT but seeing how the profile Nazi's sometimes jump on such things it's always best to be one step ahead so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in public hwalth and would sronglyrecommend the use of condoms with any type of penetrative sex.

It may be a bit cumbersome at the time but with a bit of imagination you can make it a fun too.

if you were to see what I do then the misery and not forgeting ongoing health problems would make it a dek no go without protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes very true I will add it now, although we always talk about our dos and donts straight away just incase lol

No criticism of you or TANDT but seeing how the profile Nazi's sometimes jump on such things it's always best to be one step ahead so to speak "

No babe didnt take it as criticism at all just as helpful advice x

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I work in public hwalth and would sronglyrecommend the use of condoms with any type of penetrative sex.

It may be a bit cumbersome at the time but with a bit of imagination you can make it a fun too.

if you were to see what I do then the misery and not forgeting ongoing health problems would make it a dek no go without protection."

Hi ...No one is advocating going without condoms.They do assist in preventing the nasties ...but you are only 3 times safer according to european statistives and 5 times safer according to the us govt.

Whereas correct choice of partners from low risk groups can make a 5000 fold difference. Condom manufacturers are allowed a failure rate of 0.4% for a start without a recall that is 4000 in every 1 million sold .

Use of oil also severely increases failure rate ..and the new evidence coming out of italy bringing the Electro magnetic breakdown of rubber at a molecular level after 30 mins ...it is a whole nightmare issue ..given the hiv virus is 1 micron in size .But make no mistakes your still safer with than without.

But it is NOT Safe sex ...just safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thread has gone down the same old usual roure regarding safe sex etc ... yup, we're all aware of the facts dah-di-dah .. the OP asked IF there was NO CHANCE of catching ANYTHING would you still use a condom?

So it's a plain and simple question asking: do you like cumplay?

Our answer:

I'd love to see Siren covered in cum, as much as possible, before fucking her myself but that's my fantasy, she doesn't subscribe to it but she doesn't mind guys we've played with cumming on her face which I found extremely horny.

For me it would be a natural progression for guys to cum inside her then I fuck her.

I'd love that, honestly, but it will remain a fantasy as we simply couldn't play bareback for all the reasons we all know about already.

Sure would be fun though. Not everytime, but it would be nice to make the fantasy a reality at least once.

That's as honest an answer that I can give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thread has gone down the same old usual roure regarding safe sex etc ... yup, we're all aware of the facts dah-di-dah .. the OP asked IF there was NO CHANCE of catching ANYTHING would you still use a condom?

So it's a plain and simple question asking: do you like cumplay?

Our answer:

I'd love to see Siren covered in cum, as much as possible, before fucking her myself but that's my fantasy, she doesn't subscribe to it but she doesn't mind guys we've played with cumming on her face which I found extremely horny.

For me it would be a natural progression for guys to cum inside her then I fuck her.

I'd love that, honestly, but it will remain a fantasy as we simply couldn't play bareback for all the reasons we all know about already.

Sure would be fun though. Not everytime, but it would be nice to make the fantasy a reality at least once.

That's as honest an answer that I can give."

I can certainly relate with that.

W

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