FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback

By *eepsouth OP Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it natural.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

In our experience still far from the norm thankfully or we'd find another hobby (not an issue with those that do, just our preference)

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Condoms for me no glove no love

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Bareback is no way the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only between us and if it’s the norm in the scene that’s alarming but each to their own

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Not in clubs it’s not... maybe 1% bareback from watching people who swap

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

We like the natural feel and use Prep x

Good to see the thread staying civil, we truly are, as a community, learning to allow preference xxx

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we prefer the natural feel with other couples. xx

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

Depends...

If its in a relationship or someone I have been with for sometime then bareback.

Anyone new the got to put a glove on..

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Thankfully BB is definitely not the norm.

If others choose to that's up to them, I won't take the risk.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We prefer bareback but not sure its become the norm in our experience couples tend to be more careful than single men we have never had a single Male suggest using a condom most couples have though

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

"Condoms for me no glove no love

Same we

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I've slept with 11 different women over the last 2 years. Some for a while and some were just the once. Only 1 asked me to wear a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've slept with 11 different women over the last 2 years. Some for a while and some were just the once. Only 1 asked me to wear a condom."

Condoms are great. I've mutual climax ones if any one wanna try them out after lock down

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By *igstonLad93Man
over a year ago

South Wigston

You have to be careful. No glove, no love!

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Thankfully I don't think its the norm. Of all the women I've been with (including girlfriends), I've only been bare with a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare is becoming more acceptable generally. However, there is a lot of ignorance around prep. Not sure if it's a generation thing or just sheep following sheep?

People no longer research anything. Look at the virus threads for some awesome examples of ignorance. Nice to read a civil bb thread for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like the natural feel and use Prep x

Good to see the thread staying civil, we truly are, as a community, learning to allow preference xxx"

Oh yes because Prep protects against everything

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Only if you’re a dick and kink is higher than general common sense, and are happy that potentially you could help the spread of some vile diseases.

But of course it’s your choice as repeated on a regular basis.

Go spread the love if it’s your buzz

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By *r_N_MrsCumslutCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We prefer bare back but not with every Tom dick and harry

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"We like the natural feel and use Prep x

Good to see the thread staying civil, we truly are, as a community, learning to allow preference xxx"
I am curious as seen this mentioned a few times but why would you take prep and then go bare? I thought it was there to be an added protection. Not mean you take more risks...

I am also on prep but would not dream of going bare. I take it as an added protection in this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going bareback but its totally up to the couple or lady I’m meeting, they call the shots when it comes to protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare in our experience, we are often asked for double spunkings but facials generally sex always covered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I try to adhere to the “no glove, no love” principle for meets off here I have to say I am a bit of a cum slut. I always cum when a guy pumps his warm seed inside me, I love the feeling.

Poor self control that’s me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are now preferring ‘safe’ sex; that is sex not just in separate rooms but separate houses!

Never has natural selection been at work so blatantly in society.

We’ve seen the best of times, there’s not much left in store apart from talking about it I think.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

My last 2 FBS had BB rights.

My married FB because he fucked me and the wife BB play safe.

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By *en ukMan
over a year ago

harrow London

I prefer to use condoms all the time special when ai play on the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All bb lovers should mention it on their profile so people who prefer safe sex are aware .

One can't say that ,we okay bare only with similar people but otherwise safe.

There's still an element of risk.

So if you are honest about it then please mention it on your profile clearly .

For us safe sex with others always .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely don't think bareback is the norm, at least not in clubs (thankfully)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms are great. I've mutual climax ones if any one wanna try them out after lock down "

Sorry what?

This is an odd statement which I'm trying to decipher, whilst hoping it doesn't mean sharing a used condom

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

It maybe in your world but not in ours. Condoms for sex with any randoms. We value our health.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"All bb lovers should mention it on their profile so people who prefer safe sex are aware .

One can't say that ,we okay bare only with similar people but otherwise safe.

There's still an element of risk.

So if you are honest about it then please mention it on your profile clearly .

For us safe sex with others always ."

Yes, we've only had one incident where couple who's profile states safe sex, but when come down to it have always barebacked

our fault apparently for not making it clear condoms we're compulsory - we'll glad found out in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I try to adhere to the “no glove, no love” principle for meets off here I have to say I am a bit of a cum slut. I always cum when a guy pumps his warm seed inside me, I love the feeling.

Poor self control that’s me"

Hot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would any lady’s or couples like to take this private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am surprised at how many potential meets want bareback.

Glad most on this forum are sensible.

Can’t imagine gonorrhoea or syphilis discharge being fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is so much more sexier watching the hubby as he sees me put my cock inside his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised at how many potential meets want bareback.

Glad most on this forum are sensible.

Can’t imagine gonorrhoea or syphilis discharge being fun

Exactly .

Wonder why bb lovers should be under lockdown, they should continue playing as it's clearly they are not bothered about giving or receiving infections .

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Bareback is far more common than most people realise, not just in the swinging community but the vanilla world too. We know this from our jobs and also people we know. People think of STDs, but there's something that doesn't seem to get mentioned or thought of. That knock at the door in 9 months time, "this is little Alfie". If only people stopped to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback is far more common than most people realise, not just in the swinging community but the vanilla world too. We know this from our jobs and also people we know. People think of STDs, but there's something that doesn't seem to get mentioned or thought of. That knock at the door in 9 months time, "this is little Alfie". If only people stopped to think.

We so bareback with each other and I am sure most of the married cpls or partnered too.

It's the issue with playing with others especially in swinging community.

One has to be careful with their health

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've slept with 11 different women over the last 2 years. Some for a while and some were just the once. Only 1 asked me to wear a condom."

Did you get the offer in first with the other 10?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me even more selective about who I do the horizontal dirty dance with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what I think all the time

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By *heShyBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In swinging, bareback is definitely not the norm, not in clubs we go to anyway. Prep doesn't protect against all the other nasties.

In the vanilla world, I'd probably say its 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it's the norm no, and from what we've seen in the club rules all enforce or advise condoms.

That said, we prefer bareback due to us having a massive creampie and sloppy seconds kink, and we've only had 1 person refuse wanting to meet, and maybe 2 or 3 say they'd prefer to play safe. That's out of single guys and couples. We do make it clear on the profile that bareback is preferred (but condoms are still welcome!), so this might deter some from messaging, but we've still had 100s of messages from men and couples happy going bareback, or wanting to.

So I still agree with most people here it not the norm, but on meets it's still extremely common and far from unusual.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I wouldn't say it's the norm no, and from what we've seen in the club rules all enforce or advise condoms.

So I still agree with most people here it not the norm, but on meets it's still extremely common and far from unusual."

Whilst clubs will recommend condom use we have never yet had any staff interrupt bareback play. Having spoken to various club owners they have ALL confirmed to us that it is entirely our own choice.

As for singles and other couples our impression is that bareback is still a minority choice. But not by much.

Funnily we have seen some appallingly intolerant and abusive messages posted directed at barebackers. The reason it is so funny is that on more than a few occasions these exact same people have quietly approached us agreeing to bareback play.

We personally dont get too stressed whether people wish to play bare or not as adults are free to chose.

But we hate and despise hypocrites who are happy to posture with their safe sex credentials but secretly seek it out.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m in the few that use condoms group. Even with people I’ve known a long time.

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

Ultimate fantasy but risk out ways it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we prefer the natural feel with other couples. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say it's the norm no, and from what we've seen in the club rules all enforce or advise condoms.

So I still agree with most people here it not the norm, but on meets it's still extremely common and far from unusual.

Whilst clubs will recommend condom use we have never yet had any staff interrupt bareback play. Having spoken to various club owners they have ALL confirmed to us that it is entirely our own choice.

As for singles and other couples our impression is that bareback is still a minority choice. But not by much.

We personally dont get too stressed whether people wish to play bare or not as adults are free to chose.

But we hate and despise hypocrites who are happy to posture with their safe sex credentials but secretly seek it out."

I too have experienced this....

Funny little world this swinging community can be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it, everyone on here is taking risks. Having any sex is a risk. It's just a case of the level or risk you, your partner, and your playmates are willing to accept.

You could be the most careful person on here, tested, vaccinated, prep, birth control, condoms, etc. And still pick up a STD from oral (or even kissing), and end up pregnant/getting her pregnant with a broken condom or failed contraception. This is extremely unlikely with the mitigations above but basically everyone on here is at least taking these risks.

After that it's back to not being naive with yourself or others about risk level, and being honest and transparent about it with any sexual partner. Some draw the line at oral, some vaginal, some anal, some group play, I'm sure that someone on here is happy to stick their arse out a car window and have 100 strangers cum in it. All are valid limits and opinions, we're free adults here, to decide that we personally wish to do (or not do), and shouldn't flame others for a difference in opinion!

The bareback police on here do annoy us, but they're 100% correct about the need for honesty on profiles and when arranging meets. It isn't fair to lie to people about the risks they're taking, or be a hypocrite if you bareback secretly. If you at least abide to that rule then good luck to you and have fun doing what you enjoy. No one is forcing anyone to fuck people they don't want to, or not put a condom on if they wish to!

Sorry /rant

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Well, it’s the norm with my hubby but other than that, no glove no love xx

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I love bareback but would only do it with a regular partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat that feeling without 1 but it's a bit too risky for me

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

I think a lot are silly and don’t care about the risk to them or others

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

For those that maybe have 2 or 3 encounters a year perhaps bareback is an option.. as we are all adults..

But as my normal play involves high numbers... I use comdoms for my safety and that of others. It's not like I just have 1 or 2 normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're in a club and against bareback. Does that mean you insist on a guy wearing a condom for bj too?

I'd like to think so but, y'never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms always except with my ex (yes, we still fuck now and then). But it's up people to make their own choices. Live and let live I say.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"So you're in a club and against bareback. Does that mean you insist on a guy wearing a condom for bj too?

I'd like to think so but, y'never know"
No. Its not the same risk. But heard the arguement many times as to why if I'm taking guys bare orally why I should just fuck them bare.. they get told if that's your opinion I wont suck your cock either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no better feeling than bareback.I will not play Russian roulette with my health though so will only do bareback with my mrs and our friend that we know is clean.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

And too answer the OP. I am on prep but dont see that as a reason to go bare. It's just an extra layer of protection

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

As a western democracy. There is freedom of choice. However those who indulge do so at their risk monthly check ups are advised but not foolproof.

But that the risk people take. Bare or not. The ladies choice always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like the natural feel and use Prep x

Good to see the thread staying civil, we truly are, as a community, learning to allow preference xxx"

I’m sure you are aware that PReP is not 100% in reducing the risk of HIV. What about all the other STIs you are exposing yourself to ? is it really worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me even more selective about who I do the horizontal dirty dance with."

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

Not the norm and apart from getting STIs, pregnancy can happen.

So, safe sex always.

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We never BB, it should be stated on our couple profile & I'm double checking mine to make sure. I can't for the life of me someone would say they don't BB "with random" people... Isn't every fab meet random & as its not a monogamous relationship who's to know who they're fucking when it's not you?

Call me old fashioned but I don't splash in puddles without me wellies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised at how many potential meets want bareback.

Glad most on this forum are sensible.

Can’t imagine gonorrhoea or syphilis discharge being fun

Exactly .

Wonder why bb lovers should be under lockdown, they should continue playing as it's clearly they are not bothered about giving or receiving infections .

spot on

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

You will see lots of photos on here showing hardback sex, but it will mainly be with established partners/wives/husbands etc...

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Just spotted another person who has posted this afternoon posturing over their safe sex credentials yet they have approached us for bb play.

Another lying two faced hypocrite has joined our block list.

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By *heffcouple500Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Were bareback as I have a latex allergy but if the couple wants to use latex free ones then sure we would use them

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

"Just spotted another person who has posted this afternoon posturing over their safe sex credentials yet they have approached us for bb play.

Another lying two faced hypocrite has joined our block list.we have experienced this as well some folks get on their high horse in forum then wanting to meet for bb we respect everyone's boundaries but why make a post on forum saying you one thing then message another

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've slept with 11 different women over the last 2 years. Some for a while and some were just the once. Only 1 asked me to wear a condom."

Why would you need to be asked? Surely you would expect to/suggest using them out of respect for you both and your health?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, bareback is the only way to fuck.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Bareback sex is the best but surely nobody would risk their health???

I would rather use condoms and prefer going bareback once you turn into regular partners / fuck buddies

Who would agree with me???

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We love bb but dont think it be something we'd do with other people unless it was a regular guy and even then very much doubt it the risk is just to high.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Were bareback as I have a latex allergy but if the couple wants to use latex free ones then sure we would use them "
I have a latex allergy. I just buy my own latex free

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I love going bareback but its totally up to the couple or lady I’m meeting, they call the shots when it comes to protection "

Why don't you value your own health enough to insist on protection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were bareback as I have a latex allergy but if the couple wants to use latex free ones then sure we would use them I have a latex allergy. I just buy my own latex free"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of bareback pictures on here is a worry. Infact I saw someone stating..

"if you insist in safe sex please pass me by"

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

Help me out.If you see us having sex in a club, without condoms, how wll you know that we've been a fluid bonded couple for ten years?

There's a huge amount of anecdotal information here, most of it selected via the entirely worrying lens of confirmation bias.

We all negotiate the rules for sex with our partners, we all try to work out the risks. Threads like this don't actually help.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Safe sex only,

I like reading profiles where the lady/couple state safe sex only,

And yet in the profile pics you can see different men hanging out the back of her without a condom on.

Err

Il pass thanks,

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

What we find especially with single men is they say they are safe sex only often accusing folks of being diseases spreaders then messaging in private asking for bare sex this might not be any men on here but in 7 meets we have never been asked about condoms surely the forum cant be reflecting fab that well unless men are lying in forum to get women thinking they responsible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we find especially with single men is they say they are safe sex only often accusing folks of being diseases spreaders then messaging in private asking for bare sex this might not be any men on here but in 7 meets we have never been asked about condoms surely the forum cant be reflecting fab that well unless men are lying in forum to get women thinking they responsible "

Welcome to the forums my friend..... stay awhile and you will see hypocrisy/misandry at it’s highest form...

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By *y3942Man
over a year ago

hastings

"I already have aids so don't need condoms can't catch it twice can you. "

does this really need a reply? omFg! this thread being civil is one thing (and correct!) but this sort of attitude!!! THAT is disgusting.

"Bare is becoming more acceptable generally. However, there is a lot of ignorance around prep. Not sure if it's a generation thing or just sheep following sheep?

People no longer research anything. Look at the virus threads for some awesome examples of ignorance. Nice to read a civil bb thread for a change."

"All bb lovers should mention it on their profile so people who prefer safe sex are aware .

i do love bb, but i always try to play safe. thats why im so hesitant to give oral, even though many women have said i am fantastic at going down on a woman. my loss

and theirs? lol

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By *azandjazCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thankfully BB is definitely not the norm.

If others choose to that's up to them, I won't take the risk."

Its becoming much more prevalent. We visit a club, and on a certain night of the week about 60/70% play bareback. About 90% of the guys actively looking for bareback couples.

We love it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the OP has formed this opinion due to the number of threads that are raised on the subject - after all, threads are rarely started on the joys of safe sex.

To put things into context, forum users account for a small percentage of the user base.

I've seen a few threads opened on the subject of bareback but not all who post on it argue in favour. Many highlight the risks and so, on balance, I'd say that it's not nearly as widespread as OP may think.

Often these threads are eye openers to many, who keep their comments to themselves but make a note of those who confess to enjoying bareback sex with others and exercise that block button

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Prep may become tougher to obtain, as many clinics are closing due to covid19.

I don't think bb is typical here for random NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The natural and feels good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

Bare backed by a straight lad mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cover it up but if the want my load I will take off and drop my load no contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

Mind you, bare back is never an option for any of my meets or up for discussion. I've a latex allergy so always have plenty of latex free condoms (reg and Xl) to hand. I always make a point of popping them on the side of the bed so my play partner knows they're there.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like playing Russian roulette x

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Bit of both really, think people are lot more careful and honest and we can all agree (well men) theres not many better feelings then the velvet chasm of power beauty women posses. Every situ is individual but its all about trust and enjoying yourself. Build it then let go. Life's too short, these are the moments we'll reminisce on when we're old n grey. ??

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

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over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health"

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

I don't blame you. A lot of guys I meet do have condoms with them (latex though). Never an excuse not to in my regular club as there are bloody bowls full of them all over the place.

Ultimately only I'm responsible for my sexual health. And I don't expect meets to be aware that I have a latex allergy so I just always have my own on me (free from the GUM clinic or at some clubs, otherwise cheap enough). I just like to have them to hand so I can make a point of popping them on the bed or to the side. Let's them know exactly where they are and that I expect them to be used.

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

Bareback isn't the norm its a fetish instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god for these threads, gives me a heads up on who to give a wide birth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilbritCouple
over a year ago

crowbrough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

Blue peter moment- if you forget your condoms, a crisp packet and elastic band can be used to fashion a prophylactic in under a minute. Plus it’s reusable as can be rinsed off and worn again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

Blue peter moment- if you forget your condoms, a crisp packet and elastic band can be used to fashion a prophylactic in under a minute. Plus it’s reusable as can be rinsed off and worn again.

Mmmm. Use a Salt & Vinegar packet for an extra tingling sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

Blue peter moment- if you forget your condoms, a crisp packet and elastic band can be used to fashion a prophylactic in under a minute. Plus it’s reusable as can be rinsed off and worn again.

Mmmm. Use a Salt & Vinegar packet for an extra tingling sensation

I know there is a cheese joke in there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say that bareback is the norm.

I've found that guys I've met away from Fab have tried to push bare back sex or seemed surprised that I'm prepared with condoms.

Hard to say it's the norm though. Most guys I know on the scene take care of their sexual health

Single guys expect that we keep condoms and they just turn up without one.

Needless to say ,we just send them back without play .

Blue peter moment- if you forget your condoms, a crisp packet and elastic band can be used to fashion a prophylactic in under a minute. Plus it’s reusable as can be rinsed off and worn again.

Hmm very important tip but we aren't that desperate anyway .

But good luck to you guys .

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

certainly not the norm, we have held parties in our house and condoms are piled in every room and always used , and if anyone tried to bb whilst at our parties they would be swiftly shown the door

we do however understand that some people have preferences and if you have played with the same person along time then things may and do change , but for us condom all the way

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It’s always been there bareback loss of condoms split ones it’s always been there and any one tell me different, you are telling lies to yourself and partner

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Safe is always the norm with me,

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By *aturing bullMan
over a year ago

TOOTING

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

How do you reckon this then ? And why would you care ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank god for these threads, gives me a heads up on who to give a wide birth! "

Exactly!

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

I love the feel of bareback but always use condoms, just not worth the risk xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the feel of bareback but always use condoms, just not worth the risk xx"

I agree, bareback feels alot better , but always use condoms for safety xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder what the % of world condoms sales per person is to sexual active people vrs the % of std ?

a impossible thing to work out i guess but would be interesting to see the true affect of std and bareback

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

No glove no love ,not putting my sexual heath at risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wonder what the % of world condoms sales per person is to sexual active people vrs the % of std ?

a impossible thing to work out i guess but would be interesting to see the true affect of std and bareback "

There are two types of people when the topic of bareback sex comes up....

The people that admit to having bareback sex

And the people that lie....

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By *ikeandmiCouple
over a year ago

se london

Been swinging for 20 years as single and as a couple. In our experience 8 out of 10 people are happy to go bare

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By *ikeandmiCouple
over a year ago

se london

Agree it happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been swinging for 20 years as single and as a couple. In our experience 8 out of 10 people are happy to go bare "

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Safe sex! Or no sex!

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ? "

Its condoms always for me. Too scared to catch a disease. Especially aids or HIV. I get without condoms its feels better but not worth the risk.

Also what is it with people asking you to breed them. Each to their own but I find it baffling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been swinging for 20 years as single and as a couple. In our experience 8 out of 10 people are happy to go bare "

Most of the time the reason is the male can't get erection with condoms.

The pleasure part is used as an excuse

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over a year ago

"Seems that bareback is the norm now and only a few who still use condoms... is that because people are on Prep or just prefer it natural ?

Its condoms always for me. Too scared to catch a disease. Especially aids or HIV. I get without condoms its feels better but not worth the risk.

Also what is it with people asking you to breed them. Each to their own but I find it baffling "

Same here, we always use condoms. love the thought of bare back but will leave that to our fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only bb ppl I don't know just to be on the safe side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not the norm, you have to be mad to do that.

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Strap it up before you slap it up"

~ Tim Westwood

No finer sentence has ever been strung together by a Radio One DJ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing some familiar faces in this thread. Has anyone mentioned Russian roulette yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not the norm, you have to be mad to do that. "

Well said

It's not the norm at all.

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

This site is full of guys that are total hypocrites! Pretending are they holier than thou and super careful for the ladies on here that will only have safe sex.

But the amount of guys that contact me saying they love bareback and would love to meet, and I look at their profile and it say only play covered and I'm a good clean guy that takes him mum to church on Sundays. Wake up covered ladies some of you are being taken for a ride! Literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is full of guys that are total hypocrites! Pretending are they holier than thou and super careful for the ladies on here that will only have safe sex.

Some guys will do whatever they can to get a free pussy.

We have also seen bareback cpls and singles messaging us and talking about safe sex.

Half of the guys who contribute on such threads have contacted us too.

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

We so bareback with each other and I am sure most of the married cpls or partnered too.

It's the issue with playing with others especially in swinging community.

One has to be careful with their health "

Frankly, I don't care so much about their health. I care about mine. I do not want a baby/gonorrhea/syphilis/AIDS/genital warts nor any other urogenital infection anyone else has and thought it had gone away or they didn't think it was worth mentioning.

No condom, no play. I'm not stupid/15/someone who thinks 15 pints, a stripper and a meat pie at t'working men's club then home, no condom and a punch in the mouth for t'wife makes a great night out.

Bareback may be more common now. We thought it always rather was.

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Bareback with someone you do not know is simply Russian roulette.

Bareback with those you know and get tested with is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback with someone you do not know is simply Russian roulette.

Bareback with those you know and get tested with is amazing

I really don't agree with all these testing things as the incubation period is more than three months. Plus what if that regular person have sex with someone outside for a change.

Its same thing saying , we will only play with known ones after this lockdown gets over until it's is safe to do so with everyone .

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Everything is a risk hun .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything is a risk hun ....."

So what is stopping bb ppl from having sex in lockdown. Why pretend following the social distance guidelines. Take the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything is a risk hun ....."

My point of view entirely.

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Everything is a risk hun .....

So what is stopping bb ppl from having sex in lockdown. Why pretend following the social distance guidelines. Take the risk. "
The amount of guys that have contacted us through the lock down claiming to be church going good guys that never play uncovered asking us are we still playing would love to fuck the wife! Yet the same guys will contact the safe sex ladies and tell them exactly what they want to hear!

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By *he Engineer!Man
over a year ago

Wirral

One day when all STI's including HIV have a 100% effective vaccine or treatment then we'll no longer have these discussions (actually maybe not lol) but would that take some of the fun out? As humans, some of us like risk. The thrill is in the risk.

Oh and when contraception is available for men and women (not including the snip).

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

It depends on the occasion, I never expect sex so sometimes it just happens, normally after fits of laughter. Tbf unexpected sex is mad sexy especially when you say careful in gonna cum and they go harder ?????????

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By *ungnorthernMan
over a year ago

manchester

Some of the comments made here are very ignorant, I'm not going to get into an exhausting debate about it, but some of comments made here claiming what is and isn't safe, even some of the points made here about ways of contraction, just honestly illustrate that a lot of you don't take your sexual health as seriously as you make out.

Nobody making these ill informed comments like some of the ones above goes for frequent sexual health checks, you should be going every 3 months if you're active, no later than 6 if you're not. Unless you're not engaging in sex/or have the same sexual partner.

I'd suggest taking to youtube, or looking at local statistics providing from your local clinics.

Most of you could deffo do with researching more about PrEP and hiv/aids, or ask your dr about it.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Not the norm. We had a guy who turned up without protection, and we stopped him then and there.

I don't know how op would state that it is the norm. On what basis?

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By *eeveeTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've never been fucked bareback but would love to experience it, especially if the guy is a heavy cummer

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By *ustmitchCouple
over a year ago

stow on the wold

We have in 25 years swapping all ways gone bareback wife loves it and I love the sloppy seconds

We have never had any problems at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, no how if we play with other people would we EVER dream of going bare back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way, no how if we play with other people would we EVER dream of going bare back

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is prep?... For me it's safe sex unless in a relationship

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

The only issue with prep h, is that it doesn't stop everything.

You can still get HPV, some types can lead to cancer.

How human papillomavirus (HPV) is spread

Many types of HPV affect the mouth, throat or genital area. They're easy to catch.

You do not need to have penetrative sex.

You can get HPV from:

any skin-to-skin contact of the genital areavaginal, anal or oral sexsharing sex toys

HPV has no symptoms, so you may not know if you have it.

It's very common. Most people will get some type of HPV in their life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is prep?... For me it's safe sex unless in a relationship "

A tablet which is 99% effect is preventing the contraction of HIV. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no,why would anyone want to have unprotected sex with randoms in just asking for trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback is no way the norm

As a healthcare worker, bareback is way too common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think your right it has become much more the norm these days..in clubs often behind closed doors rather than the open areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very old thread but completely disagree with OP, safe sex all the time.

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

4 new reasons to reconsider going bareback....

1. Mycoplasma genitalium.

2. Neisseria meningitidis.

3. Shigella flexneri.

4. Lymphogranuloma venereum.

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