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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh ignore the title. Not using an oil can fs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about specific message oils but you could always use coconut oil.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sumfink wit’ almond

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Coconut oil works brilliantly. And it's edible so that's a win.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Coconut oil definitely, it's great for skin, smells awesome and you can lick it!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Meli got there before me with the edible comment lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Sumfink wit’ almond "

Noooo! Well actually, almond does smell beautiful but check they don't have a nut allergy. Breaking out into a rash isn't that relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google..

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Spit

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google.."

It melts when you apply (body) temperature to it. Well the one I have does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google.."

I'd use the hard cold pressed stuff you get from the supermarket.

It'll melt if you just rub it in your hands.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google.."

I think most of it is solid, just grab abit and rub it between your hands then hop on the filth train.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?"

WD40, that will get the rusty hole going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spaff

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By *rctopusMan
over a year ago

Borehamwood


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?

WD40, that will get the rusty hole going. "

The answer is always WD40 or bicarbonate of soda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiger balm

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sumfink wit’ almond

Noooo! Well actually, almond does smell beautiful but check they don't have a nut allergy. Breaking out into a rash isn't that relaxing."

I’d only use it if they didn’t have an allergy - solid cooking coconut oil does melt at body temperature and is smooth and good for your skin and tastes nice, so yeah

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath

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By *assage Walsall GentMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

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baby oils can wreck condoms

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

Lard....

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By *assage Walsall GentMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

baby oils can wreck condoms "

Cheers fella. I Didnt know that, good to know. never combined sex and massages so not an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fractionated coconut oil is liquid and is the best for skin but the hard coconut oil liquifies when warmed in the hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby oil is actually a mineral oil and not readily absorbed by the skin hence used as a barrier oil for babies bottoms but actually isn't good for the skin at all

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Lard...."
trex is better for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

baby oils can wreck condoms

Cheers fella. I Didnt know that, good to know. never combined sex and massages so not an issue for me."

All oils wreck condoms...not just baby oil

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

Careful, Castor oil is contraindicated with pregnant women close to full term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GTX

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

baby oils can wreck condoms

Cheers fella. I Didnt know that, good to know. never combined sex and massages so not an issue for me.

All oils wreck condoms...not just baby oil"

This! How do people not know this!

If you're massaging anywhere that will becoming into contact with a condom before having a good wash I'd suggest using a silicone based lube. Stays slippy for a massage and condom safe.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"GTX "

Maybe in the 80's: but mobile 1 fully synthetic now.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Coconut, almond.. castor.. baby oils and some aromatherapy oils from body shop generally I find is ok and never had any issues. But be careful on nut alergies.

baby oils can wreck condoms "

so true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coconut oil is great and smells good too

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?"

WD is a classic. Castrol is also good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whether penetrative sex is on the cards later with condoms.

Lube crossover massage products may serve you better.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Oils break down latex, can get water based massage lotions and gels safe for latex condoms

If using any oil based products use latex free condoms.

There's edible massage candles, edible oils

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By *artyanna16200TV/TS
over a year ago

leeds

A decent water baded lubricant , is all you need , others can cause allergic reaction , silicon or nut based oils castor plant , etc , you can buy a good 300 ml bottle will last ages,

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By *aykhanMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?"

Original argan oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Castrol GTX

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By *yes146Man
over a year ago

London

Almond

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By *immiMan
over a year ago

Rickmanworth

You’re welcome to try all of the above on me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter about the oil dissolving condoms as I’m not using condoms.

Now before everyone gets all bent out of shape, both myself and the guy had full std tests in the clinic last Friday, he’s already had his all clear results, I’m just waiting on mine which I should get in the next few days.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"Doesn’t matter about the oil dissolving condoms as I’m not using condoms.

Now before everyone gets all bent out of shape, both myself and the guy had full std tests in the clinic last Friday, he’s already had his all clear results, I’m just waiting on mine which I should get in the next few days. "

It may not matter to you about condoms but it's a public forum everyone can read it including people not registered on fab. Is it not better to give all correct information than to not? If anyone else decided to enjoy oily massage looking for the same advice and ends up with damaged condoms because the advice given was lacking information

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn’t matter about the oil dissolving condoms as I’m not using condoms.

Now before everyone gets all bent out of shape, both myself and the guy had full std tests in the clinic last Friday, he’s already had his all clear results, I’m just waiting on mine which I should get in the next few days.

It may not matter to you about condoms but it's a public forum everyone can read it including people not registered on fab. Is it not better to give all correct information than to not? If anyone else decided to enjoy oily massage looking for the same advice and ends up with damaged condoms because the advice given was lacking information

"

Understand that but as it’s my thread and me asking for the recommendations it doesn’t matter to me if someone wants to recommend a good massage oil which isn’t compatible with condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need something to clean up the oil after then Jizer is pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you need something to clean up the oil after then Jizer is pretty good "

... I wouldn't get it on your skin though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t matter about the oil dissolving condoms as I’m not using condoms.

Now before everyone gets all bent out of shape, both myself and the guy had full std tests in the clinic last Friday, he’s already had his all clear results, I’m just waiting on mine which I should get in the next few days. "

And how do you know for 100% he's not had sex with anyone since then? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google.."

I always use coconut oil for massages, and I warm it first, spoon some into a tumbler glass, place glass in a pot of water that's on a hob, let it come to boil, when oil is liquid, use, just be careful not to burn your fingers

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Ahh ignore the title. Not using an oil can fs "

I did wonder.

Surely crude oil would be suited to anything smutty.

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By *arino321Man
over a year ago

ormskirk

Extra virgin olive oil??????

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By *evilmancoolMan
over a year ago

london


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?"

Palmer’s cocoa butter formula works great for me. Have used if for yours head to toe and it’s my favourite for massaging myself or someone else.

I hope you fine the one for you.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Argan oil is always good for absolutely anything (well except cooking).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google..

I always use coconut oil for massages, and I warm it first, spoon some into a tumbler glass, place glass in a pot of water that's on a hob, let it come to boil, when oil is liquid, use, just be careful not to burn your fingers "

Or anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?

Palmer’s cocoa butter formula works great for me. Have used if for yours head to toe and it’s my favourite for massaging myself or someone else.

I hope you fine the one for you. "

Yeah, my partner uses cocoa butter on her skin a lot. Another reason to eat her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get fractionated coconut oil that is liquid at room temperature from the same type of places that you buy essential oils for massage. You can use it to dilute oils which are strong if you’re making a scented massage oil or just by itself x

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By *each BenMan
over a year ago

swansea

You can’t beat good ok old baby oil, I love it!!!

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

I like vitamin E oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Castrol GTX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say if I wanted to do a penis, arse hole and gooch massage, what oil brands do you recommend?"

Olive or vegetable oils

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Physiowise water dispersable.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So just any coconut oil? The stuff I use is hard though, must be able to get it in liquid form. Off to google..

I always use coconut oil for massages, and I warm it first, spoon some into a tumbler glass, place glass in a pot of water that's on a hob, let it come to boil, when oil is liquid, use, just be careful not to burn your fingers "

I have a baby bottle warmer to warm my oil bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be able to use a neutral base oil, the type that is used for aromatherapy/massage oil. You can buy it separately.

Not had any problems with it in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sandle wood oil,Coconut oil,Almond oil,Olive oil..

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