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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"

A regular what?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

It's hard everywhere.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm still searching for a regular supplier of tea, biscuits, cake & bottom gropes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

looking for a Regular fuck buddy as we are fed up with time wasters x

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Not just Norfolk, no luck in Blackpool either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?

A regular what?

"
turkey

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"looking for a Regular fuck buddy as we are fed up with time wasters x"

Think you'll find that everywhere unfortunately

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It's because you are a site supporter. The folk in Norfolk are too cheap to pay to have the privilege to contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard everywhere."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's because you are a site supporter. The folk in Norfolk are too cheap to pay to have the privilege to contact you."

Oh wow ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's hard everywhere."

We have been on here in London and didn’t seem to have this problem

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By *ueanddave2Couple
over a year ago

Broughton-in-Furness

yes

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By *OULMATES12Couple
over a year ago

East Devon

Yes, difficult here in the Midlands too. Amazing how many guys suddenly can’t make it when you suggest meeting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, difficult here in the Midlands too. Amazing how many guys suddenly can’t make it when you suggest meeting up. "

I've sent you a message x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"

try down here

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

I would really like a regular fwb, but no luck here either

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Regulars are a bit like unicorns....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just Norfolk, no luck in Blackpool either "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s everywhere tbh although I am pretty particular.. but I don’t really chat on fab anymore it rarely goes anywhere

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

People interested in regular meets it seems are quite rare

I’ve had it a few times on here and really enjoyed it when I have, but it’s not easy to find

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Regulars are a bit like unicorns...."

This

Regardless of where you are it's extremely hard to find a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why this surprises people

If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.

How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they have to be more local too

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would love a "regular"....either female of a couple. Friendship plus sex....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, difficult here in the Midlands too. Amazing how many guys suddenly can’t make it when you suggest meeting up. "

That is very true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bristol is the same, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possibly because it can feel like commitment ... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"

Male half of the couple looking for a regular friend as well it's hard work with way to many timewasters

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I was a norfuckian once, it's full of yummy people, I'm quite shocked that you can't find a regular Fuck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why this surprises people

If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.

How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here"

This ^^^ though a fb (fuckbuddy) does require sex not so much a friendship lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why this surprises people

If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.

How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here

This ^^^ though a fb (fuckbuddy) does require sex not so much a friendship lol "
really a fb requires sex omg thats where ive been going wrong...... what a relief

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"It's hard everywhere.

This "

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley


"Regulars are a bit like unicorns...."

Damn. I'm outside your age range...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard everywhere."

This right here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bristol is the same, OP."

100% agree, very frustrating.

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Pretty much echo what everyone else has said.

Too many either don’t bother to show or become arrogant and starting messing about thinking they can do what they want because they have met more than once.

Seems difficult to find a sane, sensible male that is capable of meeting for filthy fun on a regular basis.

Although Mrs is now looking for a regular female for filthy regular fun!

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool

There seems to be a lot of time wasters on here at the minute well in my area anyway !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seems to be a lot of time wasters on here at the minute well in my area anyway !"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty much echo what everyone else has said.

Too many either don’t bother to show or become arrogant and starting messing about thinking they can do what they want because they have met more than once.

Seems difficult to find a sane, sensible male that is capable of meeting for filthy fun on a regular basis.

Although Mrs is now looking for a regular female for filthy regular fun!

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A lot seem to say they no the lifestyle but actually don’t the seem to think that we on here a desperate for sex but that’s not the case we are looking for that extra spice x

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"There seems to be a lot of time wasters on here at the minute well in my area anyway !

Same here"
not good is it hey ,it’s making the site a lot more boring it’s normally fun to come on here

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Looking for a regular friend in Berkshire but it seems to be filled with picture hunters and fakes sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both finding it difficult too..unfortunately it seems to be the same everywhere x

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"
hard to find anywhere I think

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Were both finding it difficult too..unfortunately it seems to be the same everywhere x "
yes it seems to be everywhere doesn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers. "

Offers of sex but a fb/bwf needs a connection that isn't straight forward to find in any situation, has to be a two way thing plus "most" (generalisation) seem to be only interested in sexual hook ups and nothing more in my experience on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers.

Offers of sex but a fb/bwf needs a connection that isn't straight forward to find in any situation, has to be a two way thing plus "most" (generalisation) seem to be only interested in sexual hook ups and nothing more in my experience on here "

Sorry, yes I see what you mean...I ment more as in there must be quite a few to choose from. I think the desirable guys that seem the most popular here, don't want to settle down as they have the pick of the women on here as they do in the world outside Fab. Plus I think quite a few of the " single" ones are married or in relationships.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

No luck here ... all hope is gone

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton


"It's hard everywhere.

We have been on here in London and didn’t seem to have this problem "

It’s bloody hard for me and I live in London

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You need to all come to Nottingham, centre of the FAB universe

We have proper motorways, WiFi and lots of sexy people within 1 hours drive. East is very tough , Bristol is too in our experience, but East and West Midlands, Cambridge and London seem busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"

It's hard up here to find any interation at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard everywhere sadly.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?

It's hard up here to find any interation at all. "

Bet Orkney is impossible

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge


"Regulars are a bit like unicorns...."

They are rare and your unicorn would be even rarer. Love your profile and pictures, but you're looking for a guy who is prepared to put in a lot of time, energy, consideration and emotion for.....oh. To be a sort-of boyfriend who gets put in storage whenever it suits. All the investment, half the usual payoff.

Tough call. It may be worth it, but I can't see that being what the majority of people are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?

It's hard up here to find any interation at all.

Bet Orkney is impossible "

Sadly so. Properly active female profiles number in single figures, with well more than 100 males. There are a few more, but ones that have been inactive for months. So of course, unless you're young, hung, single and beard-free, the odds are slim.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?

It's hard up here to find any interation at all.

Bet Orkney is impossible

Sadly so. Properly active female profiles number in single figures, with well more than 100 males. There are a few more, but ones that have been inactive for months. So of course, unless you're young, hung, single and beard-free, the odds are slim."

And I thought I had it bad

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Would it not be a case of perhaps attending clubs, socials or parties and seeing who you click with. Regular faces means active swingers. If you meet the same body a few times in the party social scene you can then extend it away from the party scene to be more personable and regular meet.

Just a thought....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m seriously cutting back on meeting cos of this issue ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible "

I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.

A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible

I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.

A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho"

I know .... that’s another issue as well location ... you get on communicate etc but they are miles away I shall become a nun ... might adopt a dog that keep me busy ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible

I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.

A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho

I know .... that’s another issue as well location ... you get on communicate etc but they are miles away I shall become a nun ... might adopt a dog that keep me busy ha ha "

Nun might help - let's face it, if any media reports are to be believed, priests get more than most of us lol.

They surely can't *all* just chase altar boys...

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible "

The vast majority of men on this site are here because they want no strings sex and most of them have unknowing wives or girlfriends. Hence the number of men who want a quasi boyfriend relationship is tiny.

Conversely, women are bombarded with offers of no strings sex and thus tend to want something more meaningful.

As ever, it's men wanting just the meeting of genitals and women wanting more.

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers. "

It’s not about the offers, for every 100 messages we get, 5 might have bothered to read our profile, then of those, 2 might have strung a sensible message together and then maybe 1 we might reply to and generally that fizzles out into nothing.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We too are finding those 1 or 2 couples we want to trike a friendship and playtime with to have them as regulars.

The search continues and we'll locate them eventually we're sure.

And yes, a read of our profile is a must as a lot of messages pass over our key desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a regular friend unfortunately I’m in more then one place. Wiltshire, Berkshire, Surrey and in between but it seem to be out of there age ranges. Or just no comebacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looking for a Regular fuck buddy as we are fed up with time wasters x"

May have to move to Norfolk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just slightly too far lol x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It’s not even about having a relationship!!! Just meeting on a regular basis

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Regular fwb (just the one each) would be perfect. But ones that don't then get green eyed when we play as a couple elsewhere on occasion too.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"looking for a Regular fuck buddy as we are fed up with time wasters x

May have to move to Norfolk. "

Apparently you’ve got norfolking chance of finding one there

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest."

It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest.

It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet. "

Exactly! It's so much fun getting to know someone's quirks.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am the opposite don’t want anything regular. Get called a ‘timewaster’ on the regular for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the opposite don’t want anything regular. Get called a ‘timewaster’ on the regular for it.

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You a time waster? ..Lol ..I've been called a fake recently.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest.

It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet.

Exactly! It's so much fun getting to know someone's quirks."

Without doubt

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I am the opposite don’t want anything regular. Get called a ‘timewaster’ on the regular for it.

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You should put it on your profile so people know that.

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

OP you have the most amazing username

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk


"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"

I'd happily be a regular and travel to meet you but I'm outside your age range.

It's the same down here in essex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bristol is the same, OP.

100% agree, very frustrating. "

I’m Between Bristol and bath so change my location when I want.

I haven’t found this problem. Had one regular for a year until he turnt into a regular tool and Iv already met another bloke who Iv seen 3 time’s already and wants to continue and only sleep with each other.

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