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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." I used to struggle but when I’ve built trust with a partner it becomes much easier. It very much is connected to my level of arousal and if the lady appears to be enjoying herself. That for me is the biggest turn on. I suggest taking the pressure off yourself. Don’t aim for the end goal being that you finish in her mouth or at all. Enjoying the experience and being in the moment will help your mind. Which I find always helps | |||
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"Debs here never had any trouble men coming with my Blowjobs in fact the opposite they come too quick" That kind of thing keeps me up at nights. | |||
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"Is this a genuine thread where guys actually can't cum from a blow job? Or is it just a thing for guys to get women to say they'll get them to cum? I have met a few guys who genuinely found it hard to cum from sex or oral. Then I've had people who in less than a min have cum from a blow job. I guess it's down to technique and what works for you. Some people like tight and friction and some people like wet and sloppy just got to tailor it to the person. But always enjoy it. I suppose thats what I've learned. If I'm enjoying it then the guy I'm with probably will too. And I think some women think they have to do blow jobs and hate doing them. That probably shows " this.... everyones different x | |||
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"Is this a genuine thread where guys actually can't cum from a blow job? Or is it just a thing for guys to get women to say they'll get them to cum? I have met a few guys who genuinely found it hard to cum from sex or oral. Then I've had people who in less than a min have cum from a blow job. I guess it's down to technique and what works for you. Some people like tight and friction and some people like wet and sloppy just got to tailor it to the person. But always enjoy it. I suppose thats what I've learned. If I'm enjoying it then the guy I'm with probably will too. And I think some women think they have to do blow jobs and hate doing them. That probably shows " Hopefully my luck will change and I will experience cumming from a BJ by what you describe | |||
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"I've not had a problem making a bloke cum just from giving him a blow job, a girl needs her daily allowance of protein x" You’re welcome to my protein | |||
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"It's more common than you might think. Mostly psychological I think in most cases, about trust, letting go, sometimes hangups around it being 'wrong' in some way, sometimes just due to too much wanking and getting used to one way of cumming. " Yes, agree with that..... | |||
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"I've not had a problem making a bloke cum just from giving him a blow job, a girl needs her daily allowance of protein x You’re welcome to my protein " x | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." I find it very difficult, unless i havent cum for about a week. Even then, i really have to concentrate. I think its learned behaviour. My sex life at home is maybe a couple of times a year at best, a bj being just out of the question. I think subconciously i think they dont want to really do it. I end up having to be be virtually wanked at the same time. Even partners on here that i know are enjoying doing it for me have trouble getting me to cum. Its either that or age catching up with me, but i find masturbation quite quick sometimes. Ive probably become too dependant on it. | |||
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"If I'm enjoying it then the guy I'm with probably will too. And I think some women think they have to do blow jobs and hate doing them. That probably shows" This. If the person giving me a BJ is obviously enjoying it that's a huge turn on for me. | |||
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"Is this a genuine thread where guys actually can't cum from a blow job? Or is it just a thing for guys to get women to say they'll get them to cum? I have met a few guys who genuinely found it hard to cum from sex or oral. Then I've had people who in less than a min have cum from a blow job. I guess it's down to technique and what works for you. Some people like tight and friction and some people like wet and sloppy just got to tailor it to the person. But always enjoy it. I suppose thats what I've learned. If I'm enjoying it then the guy I'm with probably will too. And I think some women think they have to do blow jobs and hate doing them. That probably shows " Nothing worse than having to ask for one and then be to told... "tut..go on then". If it wasnt for lack of any sexual contact for the rest of the time, Id probably say, "dont bother then". | |||
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"My fwb used to have problems, cumming from a blow job. I fixed him " I suppose it’s the same as some women not being able to cum from oral... not weird, just what people are comfy with x | |||
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"My fwb used to have problems, cumming from a blow job. I fixed him I suppose it’s the same as some women not being able to cum from oral... not weird, just what people are comfy with x" Yep... There aren't many men that have made me cum from oral, alone, but he does, ridiculously easily. | |||
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"My fwb used to have problems, cumming from a blow job. I fixed him I suppose it’s the same as some women not being able to cum from oral... not weird, just what people are comfy with x Yep... There aren't many men that have made me cum from oral, alone, but he does, ridiculously easily. " Lucky guy x | |||
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"I always think a man saying this to me is to make me work harder for it lol.. I've never had a problem making a man cum from a blowjob tbh" I'd probably cum from your smile tbh | |||
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"I always thought this was a bullxxxx line men used so they can cum in your mouth lol " I've never been able to cum from a blow job | |||
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"I always thought this was a bullxxxx line men used so they can cum in your mouth lol I've never been able to cum from a blow job " Haha yeah yeah. You all cum from blow jobs. Just need a good one All women actually squirt too. Just need to hit that spot | |||
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"I always thought this was a bullxxxx line men used so they can cum in your mouth lol I've never been able to cum from a blow job Haha yeah yeah. You all cum from blow jobs. Just need a good one All women actually squirt too. Just need to hit that spot " Isn't that the truth x | |||
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"I always thought this was a bullxxxx line men used so they can cum in your mouth lol " Not at all! Yet another Fab generalisation.... | |||
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"My fwb used to have problems, cumming from a blow job. I fixed him " I need fixed too | |||
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"Never been able to cum from a BJ, and tbh I prefer to give the attention rather than receive. Am I in the minority for saying I don’t actually get anything from receiving a blowie? " Same here. Lots of ladies say they are good but I can’t seem to relax enough to enjoy. | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." Have the same problem. Was with a woman that used a wand whilst sucking me off. Mind blowing is an over used phrase, but the feeling from that when I came was AWESOME. 10/10 would recommend | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job. Have the same problem. Was with a woman that used a wand whilst sucking me off. Mind blowing is an over used phrase, but the feeling from that when I came was AWESOME. 10/10 would recommend " i think the wand would put me off tho. | |||
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"Debs here never had any trouble men coming with my Blowjobs in fact the opposite they come too quick" Can 2nd that you do give a good bj | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job. Have the same problem. Was with a woman that used a wand whilst sucking me off. Mind blowing is an over used phrase, but the feeling from that when I came was AWESOME. 10/10 would recommend i think the wand would put me off tho." In what way? Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it mate | |||
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"Debs here never had any trouble men coming with my Blowjobs in fact the opposite they come too quick Can 2nd that you do give a good bj " Heard this a fair bit and still only can do it with assistance. Think it’s a tempo/control thing on my part sadly | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." it’s common. It is what it is. Just enjoy the blowjob. | |||
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"This post is definitely lasting longer than any guys have in my mouth x " lmao | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." I used to swing with two guys who were like this. I never understood it as a bj was my favourite thing ever, better than even sex. However, just recently it's started happening to me. I never last longer now than when received oral. It's fascinating as Alice gives some of the best blowjobs I've ever had. I'm not complaining though, as it just means more fun! | |||
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"I've not had a problem making a bloke cum just from giving him a blow job, a girl needs her daily allowance of protein x" Wow, lovely profile pics, the proof is in the videos | |||
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"I've not had a problem making a bloke cum just from giving him a blow job, a girl needs her daily allowance of protein x Wow, lovely profile pics, the proof is in the videos " Thank you, I do aim to please x | |||
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"I've not had a problem making a bloke cum just from giving him a blow job, a girl needs her daily allowance of protein x Wow, lovely profile pics, the proof is in the videos Thank you, I do aim to please x" It’s been a while since I’ve had the feeling of a woman’s mouth around my cock, I think the problem I’d have is finishing too early | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." Only twice in my life, been looking for the feeling again ever since | |||
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"Do you masturbate a lot? If so it could be this, I used to be the same way and cut down which helped massively." I rarely cum from a blow job. The above could be the reason as I have to do a lot of diy these days | |||
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"I have never been able to cum from having a BJ! Is this a common problem? Having fun with Girl from work who gives amazing blowjobs but I'm unable to cum in her mouth solely from the Bj and have to wank myself off to complete the job." Opposite, always cum from blowjob, especially when younger licking just under Bell end | |||
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